Are there moments in your life

[MissHoneychurch]

when you look back you ask yourself ":wtf: was I thinking there???" or ":wtf: made me do that???"

I had some of those moments. But I am rather glad they are a minority. For example I had a bf some years ago where I think nowadays "Why in hell did I even start something with him??? And why in the world did I gave him a second chance after I broke off with him??" But then I am more than glad I got out of that relationship just in time and didn't let him move in with me. Lucky me.

[ForrestGump]

1. Not too many,

but the consequences of some have been far-reaching and, at times, a tad devastating.

Probably doing better than some in that respect, and worse than others. :D

[MissHoneychurch]

7. Seems like you can smile about it now

and theat is the best way to show you won :hug:

[ForrestGump]

10. I only hope, in your original post, you're not referring to your posting your

Honeybottom picture on DU. :D


'cos then I'd have to regret my bootay-baring picture in tribute to that marvelous occasion. :D


:hug:

[MissHoneychurch]

13. Nah

I am not referring to that. Hey, when did I ever get as much attention than to that picture :evilgrin:

[Guava Jelly]

2. About every day

Why am i working,living,and doing what i do.
But I try not to beat myself up over it.

[MissHoneychurch]

3. I can't imagine it is that bad

I mean really really fucked up moments.

:hug:

[Guava Jelly]

5. Well sept 2005 - june 2006

was pure hell for me.
And this place helped a lot.
even friends like MissH :hug:

[MissHoneychurch]

6. That is what friends are there for

even though we didn't even talk with each other back then :hug:

[Guava Jelly]

11. yeah whats up with that?

But we do now.
:loveya:

[MissHoneychurch]

15. Yes we do now

and if there wouldn't be the time difference we would chat more as well.

[Guava Jelly]

17. Yeah we would.

:loveya:

[gr8dane_daddy]

4. Hey no reason to air our dirty laundry here...

so it didn't work out for us! Who knew you didn't like being the bad cop when I was the criminal when we role played? I mean, leather isn't that sweaty...is it?

Besides, I was fond of the striped suit.

[MissHoneychurch]

9. Pssst ....

I thought you signed a contract to keep quiet about our adventures .... :P

[gr8dane_daddy]

19. Psssst....

<whisper>Okay I forgot. I promise not to bring up the swing set and buttless chaps. You know how this forum is public and all.</whisper>

Say, let's talk about something else. O8)

[MissHoneychurch]

20. And now to something completely different

[gr8dane_daddy]

21. Monthy Python

Remember the time we dressed up like they did in the Holy Grail...you were the naughty witch being lynched by the crowd and I was the handsome prince who used his influence to get you off the hook and then we had hot, monkey....errrr, nevermind.

[MissHoneychurch]

23. ....

I'm a lumberjack and I'm OK
I sleep all night and I work all day.

Chorus:
He's a lumberjack and he's OK
He sleeps all night and he works all day.

I cut down trees, I eat my lunch
I go to the lavatory.
On Wednesday I go shopping and have buttered scones for tea

Mounties:
He cuts down trees, he eats his lunch
He goes to the lavatory.
On Wednesday he goes shopping and has buttered scones for tea.

Chorus:
He's a lumberjack and he's OK
He sleeps all night and he works all day.

I cut down trees, I skip and jump
I like to press wild flowers.
I put on women's clothing and hang around in bars.

Mounties:
He cuts down trees, he skips and jumps
He likes to press wild flowers.
He puts on women's clothing and hangs around in bars?!

Chorus:
He's a lumberjack and he's OK
He sleeps all night and he works all day.

I cut down trees, I wear high heels
Suspenders and a bra.
I wish I'd been a girlie, just like my dear papa!!

Mounties:
I cut down trees, I wear high heels?!
Suspenders...and a bra?!...

Just the Lumberjack:
I wish I'd been a girlie, just like my dear papa!!

[gr8dane_daddy]

24. MP quotes!!!!!

King Arthur: Old woman.
Dennis: Man.
King Arthur: Man, sorry. What knight lives in that castle over there?
Dennis: I'm 37.
King Arthur: What?
Dennis: I'm 37. I'm not old.
King Arthur: Well I can't just call you "man".
Dennis: Well you could say "Dennis".
King Arthur: I didn't know you were called Dennis.
Dennis: Well you didn't bother to find out did you?
King Arthur: I did say sorry about the "old woman", but from behind you looked...
Dennis: What I object to is you automatically treat me like an inferior.
King Arthur: Well I am king.
Dennis: Oh, king eh? Very nice. And how'd you get that, eh? By exploiting the workers. By hanging on to outdated imperialist dogma which perpetuates the economic and social differences in our society.

King Arthur: I am your king.
Woman: Well I didn't vote for you.
King Arthur: You don't vote for kings.
Woman: Well how'd you become king then?

King Arthur: The Lady of the Lake, her arm clad in the purest shimmering samite held aloft Excalibur from the bosom of the water, signifying by divine providence that I, Arthur, was to carry Excalibur. THAT is why I am your king.
Dennis: Listen, strange women lyin' in ponds distributin' swords is no basis for a system of government. Supreme executive power derives from a mandate from the masses, not from some farcical aquatic ceremony.

Dennis: Oh, but you can't expect to wield supreme executive power just because some watery tart threw a sword at you.

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Dennis: Oh but if I went 'round sayin' I was Emperor, just because some moistened bint lobbed a scimitar at me, they'd put me away.

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Dennis: Come and see the violence inherent in the system. Help! Help! I'm being repressed!
King Arthur: Bloody peasant!
Dennis: Oh, what a giveaway! Did you hear that? Did you hear that, eh? That's what I'm on about! Did you see him repressing me? You saw him, Didn't you?

[gr8dane_daddy]

22. Monthy Python

Remember the time we dressed up like they did in the Holy Grail...you were the naughty witch being lynched by the crowd and I was the handsome prince who used his influence to get you off the hook and then we had hot, monkey....errrr, nevermind.

[Omphaloskepsis]

8. I have fucked up everything.

I pride myself on being logical. In practice I make the worst possible decisions. I have completely fuckered my life. I fucked up with the only love of my life, fucked up school, fucked up with my family, fucked up my job.. I did all that in 3 years.. Fuck, I'm wondering how I can screw my relationship with my cat in 2007. She is loyal.

[Heidi]

12. Not everything.

You're still OK with me. :hug:

[Omphaloskepsis]

14. After I figure out how to make my cat hate me...

I'm coming straight for you.. I think I can do it.

:hugs:

[MissHoneychurch]

16. Somehow I know

that you aren't such a bad person as you draw yourself here

:hug:

[Omphaloskepsis]

18. I just had a fucked up life..

I watched my mom shoot my dad in the head. My mom went to jail for ten years and I ate from garbage cans.

[Callalily]

25. Morning MissH!

I think we all can say we've done things in our lives that now make us wonder. But I don't beat myself up about them. I was a different person then, and would probably make different choices if the same occasions come up now. What's past is past. We learn and move on. We should forgive ourselves and check judgments at the door.

:hi: :loveya: :hug:

[billyskank]

27. Hi Fugue!

:hug: :loveya:

[Callalily]

28. Hey Billy!

How's your day going? Mine is just starting but I'm feeling well rested and ready to tackle the world.

:hi: :loveya: :hug:

[billyskank]

33. My day is...a bit dull, I guess

but that's ok. :hug: I'm glad you're happy. :D :hi:

[Callalily]

34. Sometimes dull

is nice. Yesterday was extremely hectic, but very productive. I'm hoping for the same today, well, maybe a little less hectic would be nice.

Getting excited about picking up your car?

[billyskank]

36. A little bit

although not as excited as I thought I'd be.

Maybe I'm growing up finally. :rofl:

:silly:

[Callalily]

40. LOL . . .

Please keep that child in you, that's part of your charm. :-)

[MissHoneychurch]

29. True enough

as long as we can forgive ourselves and don't make that mistake twice.

:hi: :hug: :loveya:

How was the book club?

[Callalily]

31. Yes, we do have

to forgive ourselves and move on, as hard as that is to do sometimes, and a big YES about learning from our mistakes.

Book club was great. It's a wonderful mix of women. All ages, different back grounds, different careers. I think that's what makes it so interesting.

[MissHoneychurch]

32. Sounds wonderful

what book did you chose in the store??

I need to check out if there is anything like this here in Frankfurt.

[Callalily]

35. The book we discussed

last night was "The Piano Tuner" by Daniel Mason. Most of the members really liked it, I thought it was a bit ho-hum, a bit too dreamy. The story takes place in Burma, and the imagery, the exotic setting is great though. Mr. Mason wrote it while going to med-school, so that's quite an accomplishment. I think he was 26 at the time. It's his first book and has gotten great reviews.

Now we're reading "Saturday" by Ian McEwan. I've already started it and like it very much.

Gotta head out to work now. Wishing you a great day!

[Crazy Dave]

26. I regret meeting my ex but....

...then I wouldn't have my two sons.

[MissHoneychurch]

30. Something good

comes out of the bad most times

:hi: Dave

[ScreamingMeemie]

37. Yes.

And then I look at the beautiful face of my 16 (soon to be 17) year old daughter...and it's all worth it again.

[MissHoneychurch]

38. Good to see you again MrsGrumpy

:hug:

[billyskank]

42. Hi MrsG

:hug:

[NewWaveChick1981]

39. Yes, lots of things.

:hi: But I learned from all of them and will not repeat the insanity. :)

[MissHoneychurch]

41. Hello NWC

:hi:

How you doing???

[crim son]

43. Good god, yes.

I try not to think about them, not to dwell on regrets but still, I have the moments.

[MissHoneychurch]

45. ...

:hug:

[cwydro]

44. Oh yes

Most definitely.:blush:

[MissHoneychurch]

46. That is exactly the way I feel about

the incident aboce mentioned.

[BarenakedLady]

47. Hahahaha

Who me?

Nevah!

:rofl:

[MissHoneychurch]

48. With THAT username

I even believe you :rofl:

[u4ic]

49. Of course

while most I considering learning experiences and what shaped me, one in particular I will regret every day for the rest of my life.