Mini Skirt or Pants?

[Lostmessage]

Which would you prefer to see a lady in?

[CanuckAmok]

1. Miniskirt.

Are you offering?

[aquart]

3. What optimism.

Lady's age? Condition of legs?

[CanuckAmok]

4. Hmmm...well,

that depends on 'how mini' it is. I kind of think of mini as being more than a couple of inches above the knee. I think most women are their own best judges of how short to wear their skirts.

I like the mini, not just for the look, but because wearing one requires a certain amount of confidence, which is sexy in its own right.

[Lostmessage]

5. Trying to get an Idea of what to wear

When I meet up with an old friend that I haven't seen in years.
It won't be until Feb. but I have to wear the right outfit and my legs aren't bad for my age.


Fishnets or regular stockings?

[CanuckAmok]

6. regular, I think...

...but, that depends on how interactive you'd like this reunion to be.

A mini and fishnets is pretty extreme, as are cuban heels and/or seam-backs.

As my wife often says, "you never know what you'll catch in fishnets"...

[camero]

2. Mini

:P

[Lostmessage]

7. Blue Jean or Leather?

I haven't seen this man in 12 years and he has been married and now he is divorced.

[CanuckAmok]

8. What time of day are you meeting him? n/t

[Lostmessage]

9. 6:00 pm

I lived with him and we broke up and he married someone else and now he is divorced. I didn't like him that much but it's better then being alone.

[CanuckAmok]

10. Hmmm...

I dunno... My personal preference is other than denim; I just never found it very attractive.

A leather miniskirt is very inviting, and can even be somewhat elegant if it's not too short, and is accessorised well.

[Lostmessage]

11. Red or Black?

I am thinking of pairing it with fishnets or silk stockings and a nice sweater that is from Victoria Secret that is fitting. I have no idea what to wear so I want It to be nice because the field that he works In there are plenty of pretty women around and they are younger then I am.

[CanuckAmok]

12. Black. No question.

However, as a actively hetero male with a roving eye, I have to say that dressing considerably 'younger' than you are isn't terribly attractive. I mean, without prying, if you're 40+, you don't want to try dressing like Brittney Spears.

Who was that Conde Naste woman who used to say that "elegance can only be achieved through experience"? She was so on the money.

What you're sescribing sounds nice. Keep it tasteful, and you're a shoe-in. Speaking of shoes, what weill you be wearing in the footwear department?

[Lostmessage]

13. I am 40 and I wouldn't dress like Britney

I am not that tall and the he is 6'4 so I am going to buy a pair of nice black heels that are pretty high but not high enough to break a leg.

[Lostmessage]

14. I met him when I was a kid

He is 20 years older then me so he is pretty old.

[VelmaD]

32. Oh honey

Don't get all entangled with someone you "didn't like that much" just to avoid being alone. Spending your life with someone you don't like is much worse than spending it with yourself.

If you're just looking to "get some" then go on and shimmy into a mini and go for it. But it sounds from this post like you want more than that and if that's the case then go for something a little more tasteful and please please please think it all through before you do anything you'll regret.

[Lostmessage]

35. He didn't marry me because I wore a size B

He didn't have a problem with my face but I didn't have enough on top. He was the first man that I had ever been out with and I was in Jr High and he was in his 30's.

[GOPisEvil]

36. WTF?!?!

WHY on EARTH are you even seeing this shallow SOB again????

I'd rather be alone than live with someone like that...

[VelmaD]

38. Ok, I'm going to be INCREDIBLY judgemental

DO NOT go out with this guy. If he was dating you when you were in junior high and he was in his 30s then he has issues and I bet money he isn't over them.

Anyone who would tell a girl in junior high that they didn't have "enough on top" at that age is an asshole. I bet he hasn't gotten over that either.

Find somebody who deserves you.

[prolesunited]

39. And I'm going to be even MORE judgemental

What are you thinking!!! You couldn't have been more that 13 or 14 in junior high and he was 30! He is a CHILD MOLESTER!!!

I don't care if you think it was consensual or not. At that age, you cannot make a rational, adult decision to be with a MAN. He should have been locked up.

Why would you want to pursue anything with him? And it is obvious from your post that you want him to see you in a sexually attractive way.

Honestly, and I mean this with the very best of intentions, you should cancel the date and perhaps make an appointment with a counselor. I'm quite worried about you if you think seeing a man who molested you as a child and then rejected you is actually worth pursuing.

Listen, I've been alone most of my life and I know it can be lonely sometimes, but please don't compromise yourself like this. It simply isn't worth it. :hug:

[prolesunited]

33. Only thing worse

than being alone is wishing you were.

I would rather be alone than settle like that. If you didn't like him that much, why on earth would you pursue this?

[mykpart]

15. I would think it would depend on

whether or not the lady shaves her legs?

[Lostmessage]

16. Wax not shave

What lady wouldn't shave her legs before going on a date?

[CanuckAmok]

17. Unless you're going directly to a nightclub...

...I'd stay clear of the fishnets--it's too much. If you're going to dinner or to a lounge, go with sheers. BUT...if you think you'll be sitting in a deep lounge chair, be sure to wear pantyhose or at least stockings which won't show the tops if you're sitting!

[Lostmessage]

18. I played that game years ago

I would always sit so that the tops of the stockings would show and it would drive my old boyfriend crazy.
I am going to go with the silk stockings.

[CanuckAmok]

19. oooh la la! lucky fellow!

have fun. pls post results, for us vicarious types!

[militarymanusaf]

21. You never met my ex-wife!

:crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy: :crazy:

[izzie]

20. Better yet as a lady which would you like to wear?

My mother wore pant and western style in the 30's and 4o's and it was odd and she looked great. My sister went to the school board in the 7th grade and made them let her wear slacks to school. Girls could not do that.This was in the early 50's, and late 40's. School bus was almost a mile away along the coast of Maine and cold and windy in Winter. I also did not care when my boys grew long hair. But just to make you laugh read the new Newsweek and see the new Christian Nude camp.The picture alone will kill you.

[Zech Marquis]

22. a Christian nude camp?!

I bet Pat Robinson approved of that one :eyes: I don't wanna see these holy nuders :evilgrin:

[izzie]

23. Periscope in Newsweek jan.26,2004

The picture is worth the read.

[Loonman]

24. Miniskirt

I kinda like how the thong/bare midriff/low cut jeans trend coincided.

[ArkDem]

25. Depends on the lady.

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[Aristus]

26. Depends:

Nice legs: miniskirt.

Nice butt: pants.

[DEM FAN]

27. Sorry. But A Lady Looks GREAT No Matter What She Wears.

;-)

[Lostmessage]

28. It's a special date

I don't want to be alone anymore and this may be my last chance with someone that use to care about me.

[bubblesby2002]

37. Hey Lost Message

As I sit here in my housecoat and pj's, I think a nice miniskirt, showing off your good legs, with silk stockings and a really pretty sweater. A black leather mini is really sexy. Is this man worth it?

[CanuckAmok]

40. Hmmmm...

I think you underestimate yourself.

[bearfan454]

29. Miniskirt all the way

I love to see some nice legs and of course anything else. Hell yes.

[ohiosmith]

30. Depends where we are going. What are your plans for the evening?

[Lostmessage]

31. Dinner and that's it

The man had a heart attack several years back and he is 20 years older then I am. I don't expect anything from him except conversation and that's it. I better wear jeans and a sweater right?

[ohiosmith]

34. Depends on the restaurant. Casual or elegant? A mini skirt could

cause a another coronary.

[Bertha Venation]

41. Pants.

#1 -- Jeans
#2 -- the slacks of a very sharp gray wool suit
#3 --

[bobthedrummer]

42. Mini-skirt

n/t

[Cena]

43. Mini skirts!

Sexy as hell and they always get a "rise" out of me. :evilgrin:

[Jack_Dawson]

44. Trick Question? Miniskirts! Duh...

That is, if the girl in question can pull it off...