Okay, it has literally been years (like 8) since I met someone interested enough in me to go out more than once. So I am really nervous about screwing things up this time. I called this person on Sunday evening but have not heard back. I am pretty sure he is just busy; his work hours are sometimes odd, and I really have no idea of his schedule. He also mentioned that he might be house-hunting this week. So I am trying not to be so anxious. I sense that this has real possibilities. It's like he can read my mind. I've never met someone I had so much in common with before. But I am also a little skittish since the last breakup. It sent me into therapy it was so bad but it was a long time ago. I have also never had a relationship that lasted more than 3-4 months so I literally do not know anything. At my age that is sort of pathetic. And I do not want to come across as too desperate or anything.
Give it a few more days. If you don't hear back by Thursday (especially, if you're hoping to do something this weekend) give him a call. Maybe he doesn't want to appear too anxious either? It works both ways. But just be yourself, we all get skittish after we've been hurt.
Easier said than done. On the plus side, it may be motivating me to finish (finally) the first draft of my thesis, if only because it is a welcome distraction.
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