Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Why are some people assholes?

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
 
raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:57 AM
Original message
Why are some people assholes?

What's the pay-off for them?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:58 AM
Response to Original message
1. Asshole Hall of Fame?
:shrug:

Not you, of course. Not by a long shot. :hug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 11:02 AM
Response to Original message
2. Based on my observations, I think that they think it's a good way to get ahead.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
regularguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 11:04 AM
Response to Reply #2
3. And they've convinced themselves that everybody else
thinks the same way, so it's all good.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:05 PM
Response to Original message
4. everyone is an asshole in some way or another
some more so than others.

"who among you is without sin? let him cast the first stone"
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:06 PM
Response to Reply #4
5. ...
:thumbsup:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:27 PM
Response to Reply #5
15. Of course, YOU'd be the one to give that a thumbs-up...
:P

I keed, I keed.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:35 PM
Response to Reply #4
6. Some people go out of their way to be assholes. I have a relative who does.

She has cussed out, or written mean, hateful, abusive emails to at least 4 people I know of right now.

If you have not met someone like that, you must have stars in your crown.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:41 PM
Response to Reply #6
9. i agree with you
i keep people like that away from me. everyone has a choice in who they associate with, even if it is family.

and my crown is composed of bay laurel.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:38 PM
Response to Reply #4
7.  Self-delete. nt
Edited on Thu Apr-03-08 01:43 PM by raccoon
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:39 PM
Response to Reply #7
8. Self delete n/t
Edited on Thu Apr-03-08 01:52 PM by philboy
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:42 PM
Response to Reply #7
11. i only have one forced ignore
and i don't even want that.

so i don't understand what your problem is.

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 01:42 PM
Response to Original message
10. Post favorite Team America video here. nt
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 05:46 PM
Response to Original message
12. Like Bush they must get some sadistic satisfaction out of being an asshole.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 05:49 PM
Response to Original message
13. Because it gets them on the Greatest Page?
:shrug:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
trof Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 06:39 PM
Response to Original message
14. Many assholes just don't KNOW they're assholes.
Sometimes I have to sit an asshole down and say "Look, do you know that you're being an asshole?"
"Me? An Asshole? REALLY?"
"Yes John, you're an asshole."
"Gee. I had no idea. Thanks for telling me."
"It's OK. Nobody told you, so you didn't know. Now you know."
"I really appreciate it. I'm gonna quit being an asshole right now."
"Great. Pass the salt?"
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-04-08 07:35 AM
Response to Reply #14
17. Now, why didn't I think of that?

Thanks, I needed that. :rofl:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CBHagman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-04-08 08:49 AM
Response to Reply #14
19. You are absolutely on the mark, trof.
I sometimes wish there were a public service announcement and/or system of interventions...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Catshrink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 11:01 PM
Response to Original message
16. Every asshole needs a song...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Jamastiene Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-04-08 08:31 AM
Response to Original message
18. Some people spend so much time with their
heads up their asses that it changes their entire outlook on life. Therefore, they become what they see most. Simple as that.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
stuntcat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-04-08 09:08 AM
Response to Original message
20. they're miserable inside
Edited on Fri Apr-04-08 09:32 AM by stuntcat
I've encountered so many assholes, I had to convince myself they must be miserable people at heart.

(I was hoping to see 2 or 3 certain DU'ers respond to this question.. I'm not surprised their names are missing here though, oh well :P)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
devilgrrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-04-08 09:12 AM
Response to Original message
21. They're sociopaths who take pleasure in inflicting pain & misery
eom
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Sat May 04th 2024, 01:02 PM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC