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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:28 AM Original message |
I envy those young women who already have their children. |
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vard28 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:39 AM Response to Original message |
1. It can be fun |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:40 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. I heard it's harder for older women to heal/bounce back afterward... |
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vard28 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:50 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. I'm sure it's different |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:53 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. That's exactly what I hope to do: use a positive attitude. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:27 PM Response to Reply #2 |
30. Women who have babies LATER are 4 more times likely to live to be 100...... |
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Breeze54 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:28 PM Response to Reply #2 |
36. My Mom had me at age 44 and my brother 11 months later and she was fine. |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 08:04 AM Response to Reply #1 |
15. I agree with you there. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:36 PM Response to Reply #15 |
32. I want a cute baby like yours. |
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Indi Guy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:41 AM Response to Original message |
3. Are you considering paying down a student loan before you have kids?... |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:47 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. I'm not sure if I understand your question... |
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Indi Guy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:58 AM Response to Reply #4 |
8. I didn't mean to offend... |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:02 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. You didn't offend me at all. |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:56 AM Response to Original message |
7. Why can't you have kids now? |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:58 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. I'm starting my doctoral work and can't for at least the first year... |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:55 AM Response to Reply #9 |
14. Why? The question was asked if toxins are involved. |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 12:58 PM Response to Reply #14 |
25. It's a PhD in Communications. |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:08 AM Response to Reply #7 |
11. I had the same question |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:18 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Are you in a Master's or Doc program? |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:30 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. I'm working on my masters |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 08:08 AM Response to Original message |
16. I would NOT want to do it the other way around. |
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vard28 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 08:17 AM Response to Reply #16 |
17. I had to laugh |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 08:19 AM Response to Original message |
18. Usually it's a good thing. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
19. I understand how you feel. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
20. you will be a better mother when you are older. mine was, by leaps and bounds |
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yellowdogintexas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
21. My daughter was born when I was 36, and I have many friends who waited even |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 12:38 PM Response to Original message |
22. Not to encourage you to have children if you feel that it would not be workable |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 12:57 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I can take a semester off, etc. if need be... |
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DebJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:08 PM Response to Reply #24 |
26. 'because of what happens to mental function' as a parent of 2 |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:14 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. That's okay. Mr. Writer's giving me a good primer on how this will work. n/t |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
23. Ah but the bright side is you'll be a much more laid -back parent... |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
28. I'm 40 and I would like one........ |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:23 PM Response to Reply #28 |
35. I don't write... at least anything non-academic, I'm afraid. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:27 PM Response to Original message |
29. We feel the same way - we're glad we had kids in our early 30's |
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Arugula Latte (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
31. I had my kids at ages 31 and 34. |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:06 PM Response to Original message |
33. My sister had her first kid at 38...after she got her PhD, and her second kid at 41 |
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Writer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 02:18 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. That's likely going to be me... |
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Shine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:45 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. Well......I will say this: She is basically tired ALL the time, but she's very happy. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
37. Had my first at 35 and last at 39. The baby is going off to college |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-17-08 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
38. I went to my 20-year high school reunion last year. |
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