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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:45 PM Original message |
I want my name back! |
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Sebastian Doyle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
1. The silver lining in all of this..... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. perhaps - although it hopefully would not matter in NY |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
3. i don't know what your state laws are like |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:15 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. I called the DMV and they said I need several |
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XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:27 PM Response to Reply #9 |
18. Seems like if you got a license before you got married |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 04:52 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. yeah, that is what I figured but the DMV lady |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 04:55 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. She sure sounds like a witch with a capital B. nt |
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intheflow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:14 PM Response to Reply #20 |
28. This is bullshit. |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
4. I'd talk to someone else about that. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:16 PM Response to Reply #4 |
10. Since the final divorce decree is issued by a judge, I |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
5. it can be an addendum on your final divorce papers |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #5 |
12. yeah - I am going to have to wait ONE FULL YEAR |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
6. Call the Social Security Office. Maybe they have another plan. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:17 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. I never changed my social - it is still in my maiden name |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:19 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. That should be enough for the DMV. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
7. Yeah. Changing your name back is still a court matter. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #7 |
14. Most definitely. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:21 PM Response to Reply #7 |
15. Just remembered something else: a friend had to get two witnesses |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:25 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. hmmm |
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eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:01 PM Response to Original message |
8. I'm pretty sure you can change your name without the divorce or your husband's permission, BUT |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:22 PM Response to Reply #8 |
16. Thanks for the forms. |
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Dogtown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
19. Wait |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:04 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. thanks for your advice. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
21. God, that is incredibly sexist! |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
23. Changing your name when you get married is sexist in and of itself. |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:05 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. that was my point in the first place and he REALLY pushed |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:08 PM Response to Reply #25 |
26. I asked my husband if it bothered him that we had different last names... |
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malta blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:09 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. lol |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Oct-01-08 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
29. all i'm saying is... |
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