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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 12:49 AM Original message |
Does it bother you if your spouse/SO check out other people when you are both out together? |
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MiddleFingerMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 12:56 AM Response to Original message |
1. My ex-wife and I were out walking in a park (we were in our early 20's)... |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 01:01 AM Response to Original message |
2. When I had an SO, we compared notes and pointed others out. |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 01:33 AM Response to Original message |
3. Depends, and I realize this is totally unfair |
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grace0418 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 01:47 AM Response to Original message |
4. We pick them out for each other. I know what he likes and he knows what I like. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 05:36 AM Response to Original message |
5. I sometimes find myself doing it, and try not to. nt |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 06:03 AM Response to Original message |
6. Not a bit |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 06:09 AM Response to Original message |
7. I was on a date with my boyfriend (EX boyfriend...) |
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Callalily (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:09 AM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Both great stories! n/t |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:22 AM Response to Reply #7 |
10. heh -- |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:47 PM Response to Reply #7 |
27. snort! |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 06:59 AM Response to Original message |
8. no. lets me know they're still alive. nt |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
11. My partner & I enjoy the eye candy (I more than he) |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:32 AM Response to Original message |
12. We point people out for one another. |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
13. It bothers me, and trying to ignore it or to not "let it" bother me doesn't work. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:50 PM Response to Reply #13 |
28. if somebody is grossly obvious about it, then that is rude and disrespectful |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 01:41 AM Response to Reply #13 |
33. You don't have to change anything. |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:59 AM Response to Original message |
14. Doesn't bother me |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 08:16 AM Response to Reply #14 |
15. I'm sure you're discreet about it, biggybig.... |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
16. That isn't my style. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 09:20 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. i don't play that game either, many reasons. i told hubby the other day, a man running, near naked |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 01:44 AM Response to Reply #16 |
34. You're not insecure. You're a CATCH! |
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BillStein (403 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 09:05 AM Response to Original message |
17. My husband and I point out |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 09:24 AM Response to Original message |
19. My husband doesn't do that. I totally do though. |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 10:07 AM Response to Original message |
20. We are both gawkers |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
21. we don't do it, so no. |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
22. not in the least |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
23. Never bothered me before |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
24. No. |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:40 PM Response to Original message |
25. No. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 07:43 PM Response to Original message |
26. We try to avoid that. |
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Rowdyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-22-10 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
29. Of course not, we have very similar taste in men..... |
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sohndrsmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:02 AM Response to Original message |
30. Oh heck, it used to... in part because I was seriously lacking self-confidence, but largely |
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vixengrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 12:20 AM Response to Original message |
31. He looks, I look, we're cool. We watch porn together-- |
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tblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 01:37 AM Response to Original message |
32. For me, to me, it's disrespectful |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 01:45 AM Response to Original message |
35. i honestly don't think i've ever seen my husband check out another woman |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 03:42 PM Response to Original message |
36. We make jokes about it. |
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underseasurveyor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 07:13 PM Response to Original message |
37. Not at all |
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Zorra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 07:23 PM Response to Original message |
38. Alas, all significant others that have done this |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-23-10 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
39. So....I raised the issue...he had no idea it bothered me.. |
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