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Edited on Fri Jan-18-08 02:22 PM by Mother Of Four
Of Obamas plan besides his website? Is there a place where it's been reviewed by economists?
If there was a way to balance this with the payroll tax, that would be wonderful...
Right now my husband is having to work "Special Assignments" where he gets paid 50 dollars a night (for 3 hours work) So that we can make ends meet and I can continue to try to give my kids what I had, a stay at home Mom.
As it is, I was supposed to go back to school again in Oct for my Anat and Phys, and roll my medical hours over to an RN program from the EMS program...so that I could move from EMT-I to RN. I would have been done with my schooling by the time my youngest turned 14.
But with the college 30 mins away, there will be no way we can afford the gas...much less the tuition with the cost of everything else going up the way it is.
NC is a depressed area, so an additional 60 dollars a week would be a godsend. (We live out in one of the small 5k person towns)
I'm managing to pay all our bills by doing some serious juggling, and feed our family. (Thank you commissary) However, I'm concerned for everyone around us as well.
We went to the grocery store locally to pick up a few things, literally 3 of those small plastic bags of groceries cost us 87.00
The sad thing is, when I was working- I was only clearing enough to afford to go to work, not to help with bills.
We as a family have trimmed all the fat we could- we have ONE vehicle, the kids are on reduced lunches, basic cable, basic phone, basic internet. We reserve gas like no tomorrow, even though it means not visiting family. (All of them live 40+ mins away)
If we are starting to struggle like this, with my husband also retired from the Army...
How are other families faring? Especially ones that have to place kids in day care etc?
We have tricare, so aren't hit with the 650+ to pay each month to cover our family in addition to paying dental.
If he wasn't retired, we wouldn't be able to survive. Median Salary here is only 24k, I calculated it up- to feed a family of FOUR would cost 250 a WEEK shopping in areas where others shop. (Edited to add, thats feeding your kids healthy- not living off top ramen and skettios, hamburger helper etc)
That is half your monthly salary gone, before you even touch your bills at 24k a year. Add to that medical...Family of four (not six like mine) Around 450 a month. So basicly you have one person working for food and medical...the other working for bills and rent/house payment. Add to that child care, which is insanely costly... That isn't even taking into account gas to get to and from work, food while being there, the fact that you can't get any form of assistance because you make too much, taxes taken out before you see your check, vehicle insurance for two vehicles and the relative car payments... And now you have to work THREE jobs in a family that 20 years ago would have been able to have a parent work, and the other stay and raise the kids.
No wonder our country is falling apart.
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