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episode, when it was removed?
If so, that confirms my belief, the sooner the better. If, not, yes their are people who have never endured pain, and I think the more immunity we build up the better. I was 6yrs. old when they took out my adenoids and put tubes in my ears. I recovered and was helping the nurses deliver treats back then.
I broke my ankle the first time at 12 and walked 3 blocks home, no one even knew till I closed the door of my house.
I broke eight fingers at 13 (I was a gymnast and was practicing vaulting over over two male friends for the show at school on cement and they thought it would be funny to duck) I was so high when they ducked I never touched them, flew compete ly over them and hit the cement hands first. The only fingers that didn't break were my thumbs, but I swam in a meet the next day, with no hands that day and still got 2nd.
HS - Total knee (every ligament, tendon, cartilage had to be re done). Ankle casted 2 times and was still a stand out athlete.
HS teams. Field hockey, basketball, track and a cheerleader.
That was the beginning, so yes, I think we do become pain adverse and build tolerance.
I hope you didn't think I was in any way maligning your husband. I find now, (older) when people break something, at our age (it is like the world just cam tumbling down!).
I have since broken my ankles twice (and didn't include the 17 sprained ankles) falling through a storm drain leaving work that required almost 6" of stitching around the knee and resulted in a spinal (minimal spinal fracture) and 1 cervical bulging disk and 2 lumbar bulging disks, plus, Lyme disease, mono, the shingles, a black widow spider bite, a broken foot and toe, and now, ankle reconstruction, Lyme is back (not confirmed), viral pericarditus, and maybe another broken toe tonight which is why I am up late, I am going to ice again and take 1/2 of a percocet I have left from the surgery.
Damn, if I can live through this anyone can. It is not the pain, it is the suffering, as I tripped on the vacuum cord tonight, (I still can not weight bear but live alone and have to try to clean my house) and I fell on my face, I said God what is enough suffering for you as I cried. My parrot now, between the ankle broken 6/28, surgery 7/7, pericarditus would have to look up (ER vist 3 weeks ago) and the fall tonight, started crying and moaning in severe pain.
It is sad, but a true reflection on my life!
I am sorry for the rant, but damn it felt good. If any of you can come close, unload. I don't think I have ever done this before, just said my life has sucked!
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