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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:43 AM Original message |
Be a Man |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
1. Be a man |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
2. Another man steps up |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:08 AM Response to Reply #2 |
36. and their smoking campaigns.... |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 02:27 PM Response to Reply #36 |
62. Yes it is. Very moving. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
3. K&R - I hate the phrase "be a man" because it has been so misused |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 10:47 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. Not too far apparently. |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:41 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. And yet nearly 3400 views |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:46 AM Response to Reply #7 |
8. Yeah... |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 12:49 PM Response to Reply #7 |
51. No, I think people can smell a trap |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:47 PM Response to Reply #51 |
58. What? How is this a "trap"? And ... what negative thoughts about men? |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:09 PM Response to Reply #58 |
68. Read many of the posts in here please. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #68 |
72. Yes, you're right. |
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BeFree (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
5. I will |
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RedCappedBandit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:36 AM Response to Reply #5 |
6. Word |
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backtoblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
9. K & R |
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glitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 11:54 AM Response to Original message |
10. K & R nt |
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Sentath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
11. KnR, but |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:02 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. I guess I shouldn't have used her title... |
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ceile (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
13. K&R |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
14. Nice |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:24 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. I was told repeatedly as a young girl |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:45 AM Response to Reply #14 |
27. growing up in house of testosterone males, i married a... man, who they all consider a wuss |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 08:25 AM Response to Reply #27 |
34. good for you |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 08:53 AM Response to Reply #34 |
35. i agree. but i also raise them that nice girls |
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Twinguard (486 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 10:54 AM Response to Reply #34 |
44. It's true. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 11:51 AM Response to Reply #44 |
47. yeah I don't have any of that stuff right now |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:58 PM Response to Reply #44 |
60. I hope you do speak up |
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me b zola (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
15. K&R |
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noiretextatique (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
17. it's nice to know that men like mcpherson, wynn, griggs |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:32 PM Response to Original message |
18. Stand up Guys |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 01:46 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. Thank you... |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:26 AM Response to Reply #19 |
25. maybe part of that is mistaking "bad" for "protective" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:18 AM Response to Reply #25 |
38. Yes... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:58 AM Response to Reply #18 |
30. Thanks for the link! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
20. Just kicking this once |
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Spazito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:38 PM Response to Reply #20 |
21. Thanks for kicking it or I would have missed it... |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
22. Like a man... |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 05:44 PM Response to Original message |
23. Kick-- it's an important message |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-21-09 06:09 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Thanks, |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:30 AM Response to Original message |
26. "real men" blast long-cherished sexually aggressive male behaviors, other men tend take notice |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:51 AM Response to Original message |
28. Good. Christ, sometimes I feel like the only guy who cares while oher males go... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:56 AM Response to Reply #28 |
29. i have asked hubby, while sittin at a bar, or in locker room, hearing some |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 08:01 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. The guys that keep their mouth shut are just as much part of the problem as the monsters themselves. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 08:08 AM Response to Reply #31 |
33. Silence is complicity..... i have always believed. n/t |
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varelse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
32. very promising |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:17 AM Response to Original message |
37. I can personally vouch for this approach. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:56 AM Response to Reply #37 |
39. Somehow I'm not surprised you'd be one to speak up on this. |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
40. This is the right approach. We have to redefine masculinity. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 11:50 AM Response to Reply #40 |
46. and it wouldnt be anything new, redefining. bushco years did just that |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:36 PM Response to Reply #46 |
55. The "Bushco"/"John Wayne" idea of masculinity was a reaction... |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 12:13 PM Response to Reply #40 |
48. Stay off my masculinity |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:41 PM Response to Reply #48 |
57. I don't know what you are talking about; you sound threatened. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 06:40 PM Response to Reply #57 |
67. No, not at all |
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RadiationTherapy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 08:34 PM Response to Reply #67 |
74. I understand. I am of the opinion that all humans are devolving. |
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anonymous171 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-23-09 11:46 AM Response to Reply #40 |
79. I'm a big supporter of Gregory Peck masculinity myself. |
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DKRC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
41. Too late to rec, but thanks for posting this nt |
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myrna minx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
42. I wish I could rec this, but it's too late. |
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islandgirl808 (255 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
43. excellent |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 10:55 AM Response to Reply #43 |
45. Hi there islandgirl808... |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
49. Kick... the more men who stand up on this issue, the better! |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 12:46 PM Response to Reply #49 |
50. I would but... |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. OK... I have read your reponses to others... |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:22 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Really? |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:29 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Like I said, you have some issues. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:36 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. But you never answered my question |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 02:07 PM Response to Reply #56 |
61. Thank you for the bridge... |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:21 PM Response to Reply #61 |
71. Not sure where I conceded |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #53 |
59. Women aren't universally honored here, |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:14 PM Response to Reply #59 |
69. I wish I could say that Redqueen |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #69 |
76. You obvious weren't here when the date rape thread was on-going. |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 11:50 AM Response to Reply #76 |
80. Well I would have vehemently spoke out against that as well |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 02:37 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. Good! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 02:30 PM Response to Reply #50 |
63. I used to make fun of the so-called "man haters" here, then my close friend got raped. |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 02:59 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. I saw one of your recent replies... |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. Thank you. |
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demmiblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #65 |
66. . |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:19 PM Response to Reply #65 |
70. I agree with demmiblue. Your friend is lucky to have you for a friend. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #70 |
77. Thank you! |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 07:27 PM Response to Reply #63 |
73. Empathy does not mean |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-22-09 09:24 PM Response to Reply #73 |
75. Of course not, but that doesn't mean those condemnations are not based on fears that are... |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 11:53 AM Response to Reply #75 |
81. See that is what ends up happening...any critique, other than the |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 02:48 PM Response to Reply #81 |
84. That's because a lot of the criticism sees it as merely ideological, the psychological aspects... |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-23-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #50 |
78. actually, my experience doesn't correspond to yours |
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BoneDaddy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 12:23 PM Response to Reply #78 |
82. Well that is good to hear |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-24-09 03:53 PM Response to Reply #82 |
85. I love this... |
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