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Edited on Mon May-17-10 04:32 AM by johnlucas
This country was founded upon White Supremacy. It is reinforced culturally to this day. Dark skin (& nappy hair) is devalued in this country & since this country has a major influence on the world, that mindset is broadcast internationally.
In the Black community there's a big issue with Black men dating/marrying White women (or at least non-Black women). Many Black women are bothered that even men from their own cultural background rank them lower than White women for mating suitability. Sometimes it's not that the Black man values anybody differently, it's just that's the person he fell in love with (could have easily been a Black woman or any other type ethnicity). And sometimes it IS because the Black men fell into the hype seeing the White woman as the ideal. But regardless of the reasons why, many Black women are distrustful when they Black men date White women. Sight alone.
The irony comes in when you recognize that most Black women have had their straightened by a hot comb when they're toddlers or young children. And then when they get older you see these women wear colored contacts & put in artificial straight hair (hair weaves) or dye their hair lighter colors even blonde. Is it a surprise that some Black men fall into this negative cultural influence when the Black women around them have done the same? Why get a Black women who attempts to look "Whiter" when they can get the genuine article herself?
Many Black people in this country are halfway between being proud of who they are & being ashamed of who they are thanks to this still-existent overriding cultural tone that devalues African aesthetics. It's still taboo to wear overtly Black hairstyles in the workplace in some places.
The only way this will die is to see greater celebration of the African in the mainstream media, in movies, videogames, comic books, magazines. And even more importantly in your community, neighborhood, & household.
There are Black baby dolls where there weren't any before. Progress has been made but there's much more work to be done. It will get better but even with Obama as President it still doesn't eradicate the cultural reality. And remember...after all his mother was White. John Lucas
P.S.: Yes, I am Black if you were wondering.
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