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dalton99a

(81,426 posts)
Thu May 3, 2018, 08:55 PM May 2018

Native American men removed from university tour after parent tells cops they made her 'nervous'

http://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/news/386026-native-american-men-removed-from-university-tour-after-parent

Native American men removed from university tour after parent tells cops they made her 'nervous'
By Max Greenwood - 05/03/18 10:16 AM EDT

Colorado State University is investigating an incident in which two Native American men were pulled away from a campus tour after a parent on the tour called campus police saying she was nervous about their presence.

The men were allowed to rejoin the tour after they were questioned by campus police, The Denver Post reported on Wednesday. But the tour group had moved on by that point and the men eventually left campus.

The university said that police responded appropriately to the parent's report. But school officials also called the incident "sad and frustrating from nearly every angle, particularly the experience of two students who were here to see if this was a good fit for them."

The two men were visiting the campus from their home in New Mexico, the Post reported.

"As a University community, we deeply regret the experience of these students, while they were guests on our campus," university officials said in an email to students, according to the newspaper.

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https://www.denverpost.com/2018/05/03/colorado-state-university-native-americans-mom/

Mom of Native American boys questioned by police during CSU tour says incident breaks her heart
Older son went to Fort Collins to see if campus was a fit after a year at community college in New Mexico
By Monte Whaley | mwhaley@denverpost.com | The Denver Post
PUBLISHED: May 3, 2018 at 5:56 pm | UPDATED: May 3, 2018 at 6:31 pm

The mother of two Native American teenagers pulled from a Colorado State University tour and questioned by campus police because they made a parent on the tour “nervous” said the incident breaks her heart.

“It is one of their first experiences out in the real world and they run into this cruel world,” Lorraine Kahneratokwas Gray said. “That’s why we have to speak out, my sons need to find the courage of speak out.”

Gray told Denver7 that her sons, 19-year-old Thomas and 17-year-old Lloyd, had saved up money and borrowed the family car for the seven-hour trip to Fort Collins from New Mexico to check out the campus

Thomas was especially excited about attending CSU after spending a year at a local community college, Gray said.

“They are teenage boys, heading out on their own, getting to drive seven hours to an unknown place,” Gray said.

They were late getting to campus, but eventually caught up to the tour. They even sent her a photo of their tour after it started.

But campus police were soon called, Gray said.

“Apparently, a parent on the tour called police because they were too quiet, that made them suspicious,” Gray said. “They were trying to listen. Why should it be a crime to listen and not engage in a conversation?”

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Native American men removed from university tour after parent tells cops they made her 'nervous' (Original Post) dalton99a May 2018 OP
Christ. White wingers never cease to amaze me in their hatred and fears. Hoyt May 2018 #1
They are suck delicate snowflakes. I often wonder whether their own Do-Do make them scared. nt Blue_true May 2018 #29
It makes me puke that ACTUAL AMERICANS workinclasszero May 2018 #89
Every thang's gonna to be all White!!! aggiesal May 2018 #107
is that for real? barbtries May 2018 #116
It is for real, ... aggiesal May 2018 #133
sigh. barbtries May 2018 #134
Outrageous! MineralMan May 2018 #2
I'm in Fort Collins today and this has a LOT of people upset (as it should)... hlthe2b May 2018 #3
They should fly them in, put them up in a good hotel, have a limo pick them up. Blue_true May 2018 #30
AMEN!!! raven mad May 2018 #56
+1000 The Genealogist May 2018 #102
CSU's response isn't far off. backscatter712 May 2018 #110
That's closing the barn door.... SergeStorms May 2018 #113
"responded to the family in a series of tweets"- reallly??????????????? call me old fashioned but Kashkakat v.2.0 May 2018 #124
Yeah, I'm a CSU graduate, and this is embarrassing. backscatter712 May 2018 #90
Pardon. Blue_true May 2018 #117
I used to work for a company that made RFID devices. backscatter712 May 2018 #121
Ok. Thanks. nt Blue_true May 2018 #122
They needed to detain and question the parent who complained unblock May 2018 #4
Exactly. These phone-into-the-cops racists are getting people killed brush May 2018 #11
Police and university security need to keep track to see if unblock May 2018 #12
Charge them for the expense of the police detail if their calls... brush May 2018 #14
YES !! Haggis for Breakfast May 2018 #64
Charge them? DiverDave May 2018 #71
"phone callers need to suffer consequences" +1. Call screeners/dispatchers need basic training. Bernardo de La Paz May 2018 #19
+1 uponit7771 May 2018 #45
That parents kid should not be allowed in to any CO university RainCaster May 2018 #54
Hopefully the kid is equally embarrassed and horrified at his parents unblock May 2018 #57
Whoo Nellie! GulfCoast66 May 2018 #59
By that logic, DACA should not be treestar May 2018 #84
Then publicly named and shamed. It's seems to be the only way to get through to them. catbyte May 2018 #82
The police responded appropriately? tonedevil May 2018 #5
YES. n/t janx May 2018 #8
+1. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2018 #18
No, they have respond to a perceived threat and assess it helmedon1974 May 2018 #27
What threat ? Haggis for Breakfast May 2018 #65
Thank you... tonedevil May 2018 #80
My impression was that racist helicopter-mom called the cops freaking out. backscatter712 May 2018 #92
My take on this Haggis for Breakfast May 2018 #128
UPDATE: Body-cam footage of the incident, and audio of the lady calling in. backscatter712 May 2018 #129
"Looked Hispanic", "from Mexico" "didn't belong" No question about her racism. Guess she did not suffragette May 2018 #131
+ infinity. raven mad May 2018 #58
Yes, the police were the ultimate authority. WTF were they doing? LiberalLovinLug May 2018 #94
Saw the body cam footage. backscatter712 May 2018 #130
Thanks. Yes I just watched that LiberalLovinLug May 2018 #132
fuck this shit.... dhill926 May 2018 #6
+1 million geardaddy May 2018 #100
That parent had better not visit my janx May 2018 #7
Or mine in WV. a la izquierda May 2018 #22
Yes, we have international students too, but janx May 2018 #32
Are you sure you have enough shovels to clean up the shitpile that snowflake would leave? Blue_true May 2018 #36
Or mine in Fairbanks, Alaska. raven mad May 2018 #61
+1000 janx May 2018 #63
Parent Corgigal May 2018 #9
She's just another brick in the wall TrogL May 2018 #98
No words malaise May 2018 #10
K & R for exposure of deplorables. nt SunSeeker May 2018 #13
This is telling: janx May 2018 #15
Exactly my thoughts Bradshaw3 May 2018 #76
My own parents taught me to listen more than talk. janx May 2018 #79
Fucking nervous white snowflakes need to remember their families are immigrants. . . . nt Bernardo de La Paz May 2018 #16
Did she think they were going to scalp her? edbermac May 2018 #17
With racists, what sane person know what the hell they are thinking. Blue_true May 2018 #37
wonder if she thought they were Middle Eastern? treestar May 2018 #85
For fucks sake... onecaliberal May 2018 #20
one word: Chipper Chat May 2018 #21
Yep. All you need. The fact that he is President says there are a lot of fucked up Americans. nt Blue_true May 2018 #41
Keeps happening more and Duppers May 2018 #52
Nope. Child of the south here. Nothing has changed. GulfCoast66 May 2018 #62
In my opinion, the worst part of this is that it is Ferrets are Cool May 2018 #23
wonder what would happen if that were pullled on white people AllaN01Bear May 2018 #24
What!?! They never should have been removed. Cha May 2018 #25
Should be unbelievable Varaddem May 2018 #26
No one is more American than Native Americans DFW May 2018 #28
Precisely Blue Owl May 2018 #34
At least the situation is getting some publicity. janx May 2018 #39
Probably saw too many westerns when she was little DFW May 2018 #48
It does. janx May 2018 #50
That country probably doesn't want the idiot either mythology May 2018 #40
I wouldn't blame them if they didn't DFW May 2018 #49
Spot on. geardaddy May 2018 #101
Do better, white people. WhiskeyGrinder May 2018 #31
She Called The POlice? Me. May 2018 #33
Yes. She called the campus police, apparently. n/t janx May 2018 #53
Perhaps the parent and their child should have been escorted away to "safety"... Guilded Lilly May 2018 #35
Ignorance Varaddem May 2018 #38
Remember the woman last week. Blue_true May 2018 #44
Agreed. n/t janx May 2018 #47
"See something, say something" run amok. Beartracks May 2018 #42
I grew up with this culture SCVDem May 2018 #43
Colorado State University, do you get your rent-a-cops from Wal*Mart or the local shopping mall? TheBlackAdder May 2018 #46
Embarrassing for our entire state! world wide wally May 2018 #51
This is indeed the other side of the coin DFW May 2018 #60
We remember songs, even if we're not toddlers. janx May 2018 #66
She didn't even know the song. She was just translating the lyrics for us DFW May 2018 #67
Oh that poor lil snow flake. Too many John Wayne movies for her. jalan48 May 2018 #55
So heartbreaking that the mom was relieved her boys weren't hurt nadine_mn May 2018 #68
Racism makes me want to puke. PatrickforO May 2018 #69
CSU janx May 2018 #70
Where's nervous Nellie from? Native Americans have been HERE for centuries! appalachiablue May 2018 #72
The offense of "walking while being black" has been expanded upon DFW May 2018 #73
Being Native American while listening Cha May 2018 #78
If she'd only read Tony Hillerman's mysteries catrose May 2018 #119
It's surreal that would be the excuse Cha May 2018 #120
The amount of privilege it took that woman to make that call is breathtaking More_Cowbell May 2018 #74
She would be the kind of helicopter parent who would be... 3catwoman3 May 2018 #75
Reminds me of this recent Daily Show segment: Rhiannon12866 May 2018 #77
Fuck you & your "discomfort", White woman. They can be just as vile as they want now. catbyte May 2018 #81
Listening is invaluable in being a successful college student. It should be nurtured, not punished. suffragette May 2018 #83
I went from being super angry to super sad after reading your insightful comment renate May 2018 #118
Yes, I felt both while reading the OP, then writing this post. suffragette May 2018 #126
Damn Injuns,,,,,,,,,,, Cryptoad May 2018 #86
They should be given free tuition and room for 4 years. we can do it May 2018 #87
WHAT???? This is just appalling! BobTheSubgenius May 2018 #88
I always feel nervous when I see young white males around schools IronLionZion May 2018 #91
Maybe they need to ban parents from campus tours. LisaM May 2018 #93
the woman had the option of leaving the bus herself, yes? niyad May 2018 #95
This woman's identity needs to be exposed... MicaelS May 2018 #96
+1,000 n/t MarcA May 2018 #109
Whiteness at work... Blue_Tires May 2018 #97
Listening while Native American. zentrum May 2018 #99
What a racist fuckwit geardaddy May 2018 #103
Visiting the campus to see if it was a good fit for them Bayard May 2018 #104
Oh for fuck's sake...May the NA group sues the school whathehell May 2018 #105
Disgusting. colorado_ufo May 2018 #106
A parent on the tour was paranoid, because they (young men) were quiet...............go away turbinetree May 2018 #108
Trump is making me nervous bucolic_frolic May 2018 #111
Only in White, Anglo-Saxon America.... SergeStorms May 2018 #112
Why on earth did nobody in the group speak up? avebury May 2018 #114
well i guess they'll be barbtries May 2018 #115
THIS MAKES EVEN LESS SENSE than the Starbucks incident - why on earth would cops respond at all to Kashkakat v.2.0 May 2018 #123
The child of that parent just got a denial letter Arazi May 2018 #125
i wonder who the parent voted for JI7 May 2018 #127
 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
89. It makes me puke that ACTUAL AMERICANS
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:23 PM
May 2018

were singled out and oppressed because some white wing snowflake was scared by the color of their skin!

aggiesal

(8,908 posts)
107. Every thang's gonna to be all White!!!
Fri May 4, 2018, 05:08 PM
May 2018


Fightin' Whites Logo from University of Northern Colorado Intramural Basketball Team.

aggiesal

(8,908 posts)
133. It is for real, ...
Sun May 6, 2018, 09:16 PM
May 2018

but not the same school.

The school represented in the story is Colorado State University.

The school with the logo is University of Northern Colorado.
It's not the schools official team name, but rather an intramural team.

UNC has a large amount of Native Americans attending.
They were not happy that major professional and college sports teams
disparage their ethnicity.
So they created the Fighting Whites, to show how offensive it is.
Problem was, that everyone loved it. They started buying up
all the merchandise, and now the university can't get rid of the name.
So they sold merchandise and raised $100K and created an
endowment for a scholarship to the school.

hlthe2b

(102,188 posts)
3. I'm in Fort Collins today and this has a LOT of people upset (as it should)...
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:01 PM
May 2018

This is not a community that has major problems with such blatant bigotry towards Native Americans (nor Latinos or other POC). Seems everywhere I went today I heard people talking about this.

I know school officials have reached out to these two young men.. I hope they will do something to make it right.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
30. They should fly them in, put them up in a good hotel, have a limo pick them up.
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:10 PM
May 2018

And the college President or other top official should personally walk them through a tour. Even universities in towns that have no big race problems have a lot of racists come through, I know, I met many such people while at college in a very liberal university city.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
56. AMEN!!!
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:58 PM
May 2018

I would LOVE for that bigoted racist IDIOT to try that here. The local cops would have laughed her back into the sewer she slimed out of.

😡😡😡🔥🔥🔥👎👎👎

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
110. CSU's response isn't far off.
Fri May 4, 2018, 06:07 PM
May 2018

From CSU's campus newspaper:

https://collegian.com/2018/05/university-addresses-family-from-campus-tour-incident/

The incident quickly gained national attention, and on Friday the University responded to the family in a series of tweets.

The first of several tweets explained that the University has reached out to the family as well as their high school, but have not heard back yet.

“We ask them to please get in touch with at their convenience,” the first tweet explains.

The University has also offered to refund any expenses they incurred while traveling to CSU.

“We deeply regret the unwelcoming and concerning experience they had while guests on our campus,” said the second tweet.

The third tweet explained that the Office of Admissions, Office of the Vice President for Diversity, Native American Cultural Center and CSU Police Department are reviewing how an incident like this can be avoided or handled differently in the future. This sentiment was also expressed in the mass email sent to all students on Wednesday morning.

In their final tweet, the University offered the family a VIP tour of the campus with all expenses covered.


CSU's offering those two boys a VIP tour, and offering to pay expenses.

SergeStorms

(19,190 posts)
113. That's closing the barn door....
Fri May 4, 2018, 07:04 PM
May 2018

after the horse is long gone. If I were a member of that family I'd advise the boys to stay as far away from CSU as possible.

Kashkakat v.2.0

(1,752 posts)
124. "responded to the family in a series of tweets"- reallly??????????????? call me old fashioned but
Fri May 4, 2018, 10:02 PM
May 2018

this has got to be about the rudest way to make amends to someone - publicly on twitter?

Good grief.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
90. Yeah, I'm a CSU graduate, and this is embarrassing.
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:26 PM
May 2018

In my experience, CSU and FoCo are usually pretty welcoming to minorities. Looks like some racist helicopter mom freaked out.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
117. Pardon.
Fri May 4, 2018, 07:39 PM
May 2018

Hate to change the subject. Are you a Physicist? Or work with high energy plasma, or materials analysis (SIMS, Auger, ect). Backscatter to me has some specific meanings, people tend to take usernames that reflect something about them. Thanks in advance.

brush

(53,758 posts)
11. Exactly. These phone-into-the-cops racists are getting people killed
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:18 PM
May 2018

Tamir Rice and John Crawford to name two.

They also got the Starbucks young men arrested just a couple of weeks ago, now this.

These phone callers need to suffer consequences if their closet, phone racism results in harm to people.

unblock

(52,163 posts)
12. Police and university security need to keep track to see if
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:23 PM
May 2018

anyone is repeatedly making false (bigoted) police calls.

They also need to legitimately understand what makes people "nervous". Opportunities for education.

And of course, it's possible what made them nervous was an actual security risk. Either way they need to question the person who calls them in

brush

(53,758 posts)
14. Charge them for the expense of the police detail if their calls...
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:31 PM
May 2018

turn out to be unfounded, even charges if their calls result in injury or death to innocent people.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
64. YES !!
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:17 PM
May 2018

Since when did it become acceptable to call police because someone gets nervous ?

I am getting sick of people calling the cops - or worse - calling 911 for non-emergency situations.
Then these people need to be charged for engaging the police or the dispatchers in BS complaints. Cops have enough to do with real crime and 911 operators in real emergencies. They are not guidance counselors or phone-in psychologists.

Grow up, people. Knock it off with the stupid calls to LEOs and 911. They have REAL issues to deal with and your anxiety isn't one of them. Take a xanax.

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
71. Charge them?
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:47 PM
May 2018

If they were white, and I suspect they were, they would NEVER be charged.
Probably got an "atagirl" for being vigilant.
And you know there are many who will praise them.
DESPICABLE.

Bernardo de La Paz

(48,984 posts)
19. "phone callers need to suffer consequences" +1. Call screeners/dispatchers need basic training.
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:37 PM
May 2018

Being quiet is not sufficient cause to roll out police.

Standing in public service place is not sufficient cause to roll out police.

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
59. Whoo Nellie!
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:03 PM
May 2018

Why should the child be punished? He or she did nothing wrong.

The parent should be charged with all expense of the call.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
84. By that logic, DACA should not be
Fri May 4, 2018, 05:03 AM
May 2018

If you are into penalizing people because of what their parents did; I guess you are against that too?

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
5. The police responded appropriately?
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:09 PM
May 2018

Appropriate would have been to bounce the asshole parent who caused the disruption.

 

helmedon1974

(92 posts)
27. No, they have respond to a perceived threat and assess it
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:00 PM
May 2018

They should have the woman's name and contact info as well. She should be made to apologise and recoup the parts of the tour they missed, and the embarrassment of being singled out for no reason. Plus the money they spent to get there.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
65. What threat ?
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:19 PM
May 2018

These boys were not engaging in any demonstrable threatening behavior. Being quiet was making this woman nervous ? I hope she's never around The Deaf.

Common sense, people, common sense.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
92. My impression was that racist helicopter-mom called the cops freaking out.
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:40 PM
May 2018

The cops only heard what they were told over the phone, probably were told the students in question were "scaring her" or something.

There were told there was some sort of threat, they were obligated to respond, did, found the students did nothing wrong, deescalated the situation, and sent the students on their way.

It's still a disturbing incident, and the students and their family are very right to be upset.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
128. My take on this
Sat May 5, 2018, 01:16 AM
May 2018

When the woman said she was "nervous" because they were quiet (respectful), the cops should have said, "Ma'am that sounds like a personal problem. Please try not to bother the quiet young men."

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
129. UPDATE: Body-cam footage of the incident, and audio of the lady calling in.
Sat May 5, 2018, 03:51 PM
May 2018
https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=10&v=dkugShd-vdY

https://soundcloud.com/csucollegian/campus-tour-incident-911-call-audio

https://collegian.com/2018/05/csu-police-department/

My impressions:

I didn't see the cops doing much wrong. The cops just did a quick stop-and-chat with the two guys, kept things cool. The boys got frisked for weapons, which I understand for the cops' safety, but it's always nerve-wracking when that's done. Still, everyone stayed calm. It only took five minutes, and the cops sent them on their way. A little bit of lecturing about how the boys should have explained why they were late and given their names. As discussed earlier in this thread, these are indigenous American guys, raised to listen rather than babble. But that's the worst that the cops did.

My characterization of the caller: Yep, she's clueless. Lots of unconscious racism. They were brown, "looked Hispanic" were wearing black. SUSPICIOUS!!!!!1!111

I hope that lady's completely embarrassed right now. She should be.

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
131. "Looked Hispanic", "from Mexico" "didn't belong" No question about her racism. Guess she did not
Sat May 5, 2018, 04:40 PM
May 2018

hear the “New” in front of Mexico, though it should not matter either way. Maybe she should work on her listening skills.

Also disproves that they didn’t talk since they clearly answered some question about where they came from.

The YouTube video shows how vulnerable they looked while being questioned by the police.

“They didn’t know who you were because you didn’t show up with parents.” ?!? WTF?

LiberalLovinLug

(14,168 posts)
94. Yes, the police were the ultimate authority. WTF were they doing?
Fri May 4, 2018, 02:18 PM
May 2018

They should have evaluated the situation in about 5 minutes, asked the two boys a few questions and then it should have been clear that these boys were NOT terrorists but just quiet young men, probably out of their element so thats why they were not engaged as much. And then they should have turned to the woman, and to the tour guide, and said "I think everything is fine, carry on".

Even then it would have been disgusting that these boys had to go through all that, but it sounds like they were questioned for even longer, and basically missed most of the tour because of police grilling.

backscatter712

(26,355 posts)
130. Saw the body cam footage.
Sat May 5, 2018, 04:15 PM
May 2018

The cops did indeed do what you described. Stopped them for 5 minutes, asked a few questions, determined they weren't doing anything wrong, and let them go.

I also heard the call recording from that lady. Gawd that was infuriating. So much unconscious racism.

LiberalLovinLug

(14,168 posts)
132. Thanks. Yes I just watched that
Sat May 5, 2018, 04:46 PM
May 2018

After watching, I don't think the police could have done anything else. Just doing their jobs and let them go fairly quickly.

I just wish they could have re-joined the tour, or they had waited. If anything, just to have this woman forced to realize she made a mistake, maybe feel a little uncomfortable.

a la izquierda

(11,791 posts)
22. Or mine in WV.
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:43 PM
May 2018

While the overwhelming majority of the students are white, we have a massive presence of students from the Middle East.
I'm sure that would be terrifying

janx

(24,128 posts)
32. Yes, we have international students too, but
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:11 PM
May 2018

the funny thing is that at our campus in NM, the campus police officer who would have shown up to talk to this parent might well have been Native American too--the very sort of person the parent was paranoid about!

At the very least, chances are the campus police officer would have been a variation of the theme, if you get my drift...someone the parent might have called Mexican.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
36. Are you sure you have enough shovels to clean up the shitpile that snowflake would leave?
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:16 PM
May 2018

Afterall, "Moslems" really scare the hell out of them, even if the Muslim kids are doing nothing but reading textbooks between classes.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
61. Or mine in Fairbanks, Alaska.
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:06 PM
May 2018

For that matter, ANY of the University of Alaska's campuses, many of which are in village/rural areas.

janx

(24,128 posts)
63. +1000
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:09 PM
May 2018

My son graduated from UAF and has lived at various places throughout the state. He started with many native Alaskans at a community college on the Sound.

janx

(24,128 posts)
15. This is telling:
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:34 PM
May 2018
“Apparently, a parent on the tour called police because they were too quiet, that made them suspicious,” Gray said. “They were trying to listen. Why should it be a crime to listen and not engage in a conversation?”


It's a cultural trait of Native Americans that I find endearing--listening before saying anything, and saying very little at first. I have taught a lot of these young college students and am very aware of it. That someone would find it suspicious or threatening is an indication of profound ignorance and racism. Even if you didn't know about this particular aspect of Native American culture, you'd respect it as someone being polite. But in our cacophonous, crass society it was seen by this parent as abnormal. How far has our current culture fallen?

Bradshaw3

(7,490 posts)
76. Exactly my thoughts
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:18 AM
May 2018

As someone who grew up around Native Americans with a long time love of their culture, it is disheartening to me how many white Americans remain ignorant of that culture and those traits you talked about. We have a loudmouth bully in the WH and so many white Americans who truly represent the ugly American right now. If only they could act more like the original Americans I have known.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
37. With racists, what sane person know what the hell they are thinking.
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:21 PM
May 2018

To give a short answer, I would not put that past the asshole that made the call.

Heck, how stupid can a person be? Where did that woman come from, some small place that has never seen a POC?

GulfCoast66

(11,949 posts)
62. Nope. Child of the south here. Nothing has changed.
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:07 PM
May 2018

You are just hearing about it.

Cell phones and Mellenials are changing things.

Ferrets are Cool

(21,105 posts)
23. In my opinion, the worst part of this is that it is
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:47 PM
May 2018

only going to get worse. Nothing is being done to discourage it.

Cha

(297,029 posts)
25. What!?! They never should have been removed.
Thu May 3, 2018, 09:56 PM
May 2018

The "parent" should have been explained to that.. it's her problem.

Varaddem

(431 posts)
26. Should be unbelievable
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:00 PM
May 2018

Her and her kid should’ve been pulled out of line and questioned afterwards. Send them to someplace like yale if they can afford a building.

DFW

(54,325 posts)
28. No one is more American than Native Americans
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:01 PM
May 2018

The parent who called the cops should be deported to the country her ancestors came from, and her American nationality permanently revoked.

I don't care how outrageous or impractical that sounds. I'm serious. A line has to be drawn somewhere.

janx

(24,128 posts)
39. At least the situation is getting some publicity.
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:21 PM
May 2018

We can be grateful for that, although it's really hard to understand the paranoia of the freaked-out parent.

DFW

(54,325 posts)
48. Probably saw too many westerns when she was little
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:37 PM
May 2018

I don't care. I still say a line has to be drawn somewhere.

DFW

(54,325 posts)
49. I wouldn't blame them if they didn't
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:40 PM
May 2018

So let them set up a reservation out on some infertile land in some inhospitable part of their country, and give her a hut with no running water and electricity that runs for ten hours out of the day.

For Pete's sake, we have ICE Gestapo searching out and deporting perfectly productive and useful members of our society. If we can identify people who contribute nothing but destructive situations like this one, THAT is who we need to be weeding out.

Guilded Lilly

(5,591 posts)
35. Perhaps the parent and their child should have been escorted away to "safety"...
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:15 PM
May 2018

So their precious bigotry could be questioned.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
44. Remember the woman last week.
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:32 PM
May 2018

Who didn't want to give her name after saying the Lynch Museum would cause discord, because she was afraid that if her daughter read that she said that, the daughter would have went off on her?

It is possible that the parent dropped back during the tour to make the call and the child knew nothing about it and may have opposed it if he or she did. If the kid is a clueless fool like the parent, college life will expose that bigtime - but until then, the kid should be kept out of it.

 

SCVDem

(5,103 posts)
43. I grew up with this culture
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:31 PM
May 2018

That's why we had Billy Jack movies.

Payback in 1971.

The times, they were a changin'!

TheBlackAdder

(28,179 posts)
46. Colorado State University, do you get your rent-a-cops from Wal*Mart or the local shopping mall?
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:35 PM
May 2018

.

If they pulled the men off the tour, they should have pulled the women off of it too!

Either the men were a threat, or the lady was a threat for being a lunatic!

===

If she was so concerned for safety, she shold have gladly stepped out of line to resolve the issue.

.

world wide wally

(21,739 posts)
51. Embarrassing for our entire state!
Thu May 3, 2018, 10:44 PM
May 2018

But, let me show you the other side of that coin.
We attended our daughter's graduation from Fort Lewis College in Durango, Colorado this past weekend. Native Americans are allowed to attend FLC for free or a very reduced tuition.
Roughly, half of those graduating (at least a third) were Native Americans. It was a great experience for our daughter and for us. Gov. Hickenlooper was the keynote speaker.
I would highly recommend these boys, and anyone else, look into FLC. A great school and a great education.

DFW

(54,325 posts)
60. This is indeed the other side of the coin
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:05 PM
May 2018

My younger daughter attended two years of high school in the USA, and she was in a state (not Colorado) very aware of its native population and culture. When we attended her graduation there, half the ceremony was conducted in the language spoken there for centuries before the first Europeans showed up. That language was even one of the three options given to students there (along with Spanish and French). My daughter, though born and raised in Europe, ate it up.

During her first summer vacation, although she had opted for French as her "foreign" language, a song in that language happened to come on the radio, and she started translating it for us. I said, "I thought you hadn't learned that language?" She came back with, "well, yeah, but ANYone knows THAT much."

janx

(24,128 posts)
66. We remember songs, even if we're not toddlers.
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:25 PM
May 2018

Songs in foreign languages stay with us, as does the early song of the ABCs. Love it.

DFW

(54,325 posts)
67. She didn't even know the song. She was just translating the lyrics for us
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:27 PM
May 2018

And in a language most Europeans have never even heard spoken.

nadine_mn

(3,702 posts)
68. So heartbreaking that the mom was relieved her boys weren't hurt
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:35 PM
May 2018

It has come down to instead of being outraged that civil rights and basic human decency is trampled on, PoC are just relieved not be dead.

And it's not an irrational fear on the part of the mother either.

We have made minorities feel like it is against the law for them to exist.

janx

(24,128 posts)
70. CSU
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:45 PM
May 2018
is a great school.

It's one of the best vet schools in the country. I lived in CO for 11 years and remember that well, but if this kind of thing is allowed to continue, CSU will suffer.

appalachiablue

(41,113 posts)
72. Where's nervous Nellie from? Native Americans have been HERE for centuries!
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:51 PM
May 2018

And it's Colorado! The "Fox Effect" at work maybe?

DFW

(54,325 posts)
73. The offense of "walking while being black" has been expanded upon
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:57 PM
May 2018

Now they call the cops on you for "being American while in America."

catrose

(5,065 posts)
119. If she'd only read Tony Hillerman's mysteries
Fri May 4, 2018, 08:41 PM
May 2018

(also a white person, though honored with Friend of the Navajo title), she'd know that it's part of Navajo culture to listen quietly and respectfully to someone until they've finished speaking, instead of the interrupt-and-shout-over culture she's more familiar with.

I'm really worried if listening to someone is a suspicious act. I'm really worried anyway.

Cha

(297,029 posts)
120. It's surreal that would be the excuse
Fri May 4, 2018, 08:48 PM
May 2018

to make her "nervous". I would not have asked the Native Americans to be removed. A red flag would have gone up and I would look at the woman askance.

More_Cowbell

(2,190 posts)
74. The amount of privilege it took that woman to make that call is breathtaking
Thu May 3, 2018, 11:58 PM
May 2018

Here she was, with her own kid, complaining about two other kids -- none of them on their own property. All of them guests of the university. And yet she felt that she had the right to call the police because she felt "uncomfortable." It's just insane.

3catwoman3

(23,965 posts)
75. She would be the kind of helicopter parent who would be...
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:02 AM
May 2018

...on the phone at least weekly to the college president, the dorm RA, and the professors, complaining about one thing and another.

What an idiot.

suffragette

(12,232 posts)
83. Listening is invaluable in being a successful college student. It should be nurtured, not punished.
Fri May 4, 2018, 04:30 AM
May 2018

Imagine, making that journey together and being so excited and eager to become part of the community of this university, then to to have that feeling crushed by that ignorant person.

renate

(13,776 posts)
118. I went from being super angry to super sad after reading your insightful comment
Fri May 4, 2018, 08:16 PM
May 2018

Now I'm both.

It's so upsetting to think of their enthusiasm and independence being kicked in the teeth like that by that moronic paranoid racist.

Cryptoad

(8,254 posts)
86. Damn Injuns,,,,,,,,,,,
Fri May 4, 2018, 07:02 AM
May 2018

Why dont they go back to where ever they came from,,,,,,,,,,!

geeez..... and people are shocked that 42% of Americans are Trumpsters..?

BobTheSubgenius

(11,562 posts)
88. WHAT???? This is just appalling!
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:17 PM
May 2018

I get that the "woman" is far more culpable than the university, but it comes out of this with a black eye and some potential cost.

I know that if I was either of those two young men, I'd have serious qualms about attending there, even if there is no objective reason to do so.

IronLionZion

(45,403 posts)
91. I always feel nervous when I see young white males around schools
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:32 PM
May 2018

movie theaters, churches, restaurants, grocery stores, country music concerts, anywhere with lots of people.

LisaM

(27,800 posts)
93. Maybe they need to ban parents from campus tours.
Fri May 4, 2018, 01:48 PM
May 2018

If those two young men could come by themselves from another state to participate in this tour, it's clear that you can do it without a parent.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
97. Whiteness at work...
Fri May 4, 2018, 03:20 PM
May 2018

1. As others continue to point out, white folks need to realize that every time they call the cops to report a "scary/suspicious" person of color, they are ACTIVELY PUTTING THAT PERSON'S LIFE IN PERIL because cops will arrive with the preconceived notion that shit's already gonna go down so the second they get out the car the safety's off with a round in the chamber.

2. People who falsely call the cops over "scary/suspicious" minorities need to be named and shamed as a deterrent because this is happening far too often...

Bayard

(22,035 posts)
104. Visiting the campus to see if it was a good fit for them
Fri May 4, 2018, 04:21 PM
May 2018

Guess they got their answer.

"Too quiet", couldn't possibly be interpreted as respectful, since their skin was a bit too tan.

whathehell

(29,050 posts)
105. Oh for fuck's sake...May the NA group sues the school
Fri May 4, 2018, 04:27 PM
May 2018

and win...Obviously, the parent is weird, but CSU should never have given into that.

turbinetree

(24,688 posts)
108. A parent on the tour was paranoid, because they (young men) were quiet...............go away
Fri May 4, 2018, 05:14 PM
May 2018

I use to live in Colorado, and I have family there, and I really like Colorado, but racism is what this all about, a racist called the cops, and the cops detained the two Indigenous of human beings, the first, of what is now called America, by white Europeans, for was the justification this, this is just outrageous, did the cops question the paranoid parent.

I just wonder what this individual parent would do if there kid went to a college and had the cops call on there kid for being to
quite and was nervous, during tour...................what an idiot, no common sense....................so ignorant

I want to know if the two young men filed charges against the parent that made this racists call




SergeStorms

(19,190 posts)
112. Only in White, Anglo-Saxon America....
Fri May 4, 2018, 07:00 PM
May 2018

could "being quiet" arouse suspicion.

I imagine the woman who was "nervous" thought they were of the dusky 'Muslim' persuasion. Americans should be able to recognize the very people who their ancestors killed by the tens-of-thousands, and whose land they stole without any compensation. It's the very least we could do as a "civilized" people.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
114. Why on earth did nobody in the group speak up?
Fri May 4, 2018, 07:05 PM
May 2018

I know that I would have talked to the boys and if they told me that they were there to see the school to see if they wanted to apply I would have spoken up for them. I for sure would have activated the audio recorder on my phone to catch as much as I could. I hate this kind of shit. Those boys are lucky that the woman didn't pull out a gun, shoot them and then cry "I was afraid for my life!!!"

barbtries

(28,787 posts)
115. well i guess they'll be
Fri May 4, 2018, 07:28 PM
May 2018

scratching that school off their list. as will many others if the racism is that rife there.

just once instead of hearing from the victims i would love to see some quotes from the perps saying they were forced to confront their racism and were contrite and had learned from the experience. but that never happens...i don't know if that goes on in private but fear it's more likely that they rationalize and still whistle on by saying "I'm not a racist but...." blah blah blah

Kashkakat v.2.0

(1,752 posts)
123. THIS MAKES EVEN LESS SENSE than the Starbucks incident - why on earth would cops respond at all to
Fri May 4, 2018, 09:57 PM
May 2018

such a lame report?

No pretense at all of a crime (possibly) occurring - just doesn't like the looks of them. They should have told her to take a hike.

I know Ive called cops before about certain things (eg neighbor who was leaving smoldering fires in a grill literally 8 ft from my windows) and they had no hesitation about telling me there was nothing they could do.

At least the Starbucks lady, although undeniably acting out of overt racism, had a plausible cover story as to why she wanted the 2 men removed (supposedly trespassing or loitering).

Arazi

(6,829 posts)
125. The child of that parent just got a denial letter
Fri May 4, 2018, 10:07 PM
May 2018

His/her intolerant parent would be a never ending headache for the university at every event from football games to parent's weekend, calling campus police, alarmed at brown people.

No administrator would voluntarily admit that kid now. Permanent shit show.

Wonder if the kid tried to stop mom from calling. College is all about exposure to new things/ideas. Double fuck them if the kid endorsed mom's racist call.

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