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MrScorpio

(73,630 posts)
Thu May 10, 2018, 09:47 AM May 2018

(Fill in the blank) while black

I’m writing this on my iPod, so please forgive the lack of links, but most of these incidents have been touched upon, both here and on Twitter and Facebook.

Question: Why are white people so fearful of people of color in general and black bodies in particular, that they would call the police on us for merely existing within their eyesight?

Just this last month alone, cops have been called on us for:

- Sitting quietly in a Starbucks while waiting for a friend.

- Napping in a college dorm public area.

- Being part of a college tour group

- Checking out of an AirBNB

- BBQing in a public park.

- Asking why there’s an extra charge for plastic dinnerware at a Waffle House

- Shopping for prom clothes.

- Taking one’s sweet time to shop at a Walmart

- Being the member of a gym and working out.

- Golfing.

Luckily, in all of these cases, no one was killed. However, history is replete with incidents where such a call had turned fatal.

Just recently cops killed a man who was sitting in his car while waiting for someone to finish shopping.

But I’m sure that it’s only a matter of time before more blood is spilled over merely existing within the mere presence of white people.

So, again I ask... Why?

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(Fill in the blank) while black (Original Post) MrScorpio May 2018 OP
This is downright inexplicable and totally inexcusable. secondwind May 2018 #1
Yes and no. BobTheSubgenius May 2018 #21
my immediate response is breathing while black essentially yellowdogintexas May 2018 #22
Only if you were litterally born yesterday... HenryWallace May 2018 #24
Posting While Black? MineralMan May 2018 #2
racism. barbtries May 2018 #3
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2018 #4
Aw. Iggo May 2018 #5
Well, in one case it's about Native American folk merely existing gollygee May 2018 #7
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2018 #25
How many times have you seen angry white males and said something? IronLionZion May 2018 #26
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2018 #35
I've seen one or two, but in those cases gollygee May 2018 #50
What something did she see? MarvinGardens May 2018 #54
Welcome to DU. What is your favorite type of pizza? irisblue May 2018 #10
I bet it is pineapple nt yellowdogintexas May 2018 #19
Zing! geardaddy May 2018 #29
Snort Solly Mack May 2018 #11
Is that one of those white peoples rules? MrScorpio May 2018 #13
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2018 #28
Right, and all singularly derived from a white person's point of view, of course MrScorpio May 2018 #37
This message was self-deleted by its author LanternWaste May 2018 #38
things that involve people of all races every day..... yellowdogintexas May 2018 #14
Message auto-removed Name removed May 2018 #33
Speaking of "known facts," you've conveniently skipped a few. EffieBlack May 2018 #39
I KNOW a white crackhead who backed into a police car ismnotwasm May 2018 #44
And 9 times of 10, white mass shooters are taken alive UNLESS they kill THEMSELVES EffieBlack May 2018 #48
Its infuriating ismnotwasm May 2018 #56
Welcome to DU! IronLionZion May 2018 #17
ILZ irisblue May 2018 #23
Bless your god damn heart. eom LittleGirl May 2018 #34
Bullshit. ismnotwasm May 2018 #40
Welcome to DU! moriah May 2018 #46
It's an extension of the backlash against us... Blue_Tires May 2018 #6
Yep, cowardly racists who call the cops on black people just living their lives... brush May 2018 #32
And then people claim the police HAD to arrest them because someone said they committed a crime EffieBlack May 2018 #49
Emptying the trash.. HipChick May 2018 #8
K&R ismnotwasm May 2018 #9
Checking in the hotel. Solly Mack May 2018 #12
Trump has normalized White Nationalism aeromanKC May 2018 #15
Because they can't deport you IronLionZion May 2018 #16
threatened with a gun and police called over a topoff of slush into a soft drink yellowdogintexas May 2018 #18
Jeezus. MrScorpio May 2018 #42
How many of us who are white have been pulled over by a cop Mr.Bill May 2018 #20
Eating skittles. Takket May 2018 #27
Existing while black. 2 things can be done: Enforce false report laws, & Sue police cmd & training. Bernardo de La Paz May 2018 #30
K&R geardaddy May 2018 #31
The Republican Party has supported and extended racism for nearly forty years. Lonestarblue May 2018 #36
True - but when Democrats defend and explain away this behavior, we have a lot of work to do right EffieBlack May 2018 #41
Spot on.. HipChick May 2018 #43
Just sharing, not defending at all because it's indefensible. Lonestarblue May 2018 #57
The worst one of all: "Being President while black." RedSpartan May 2018 #45
Yep, look at the accusation that Obama made racism worse in America MrScorpio May 2018 #47
I'm struck by how many women have instigated these. nolabear May 2018 #51
Most women who buy into U.S. conservitivism are passive agressive to begin with. haele May 2018 #53
That is the best description I've ever read about that. Lars39 May 2018 #60
It's the latest permutation of a long pattern of black men having their lives put in danger EffieBlack May 2018 #55
It is. But it also lets them dominate other women. nolabear May 2018 #58
I was on a jury for a DWI case where the defendant will "driving" while black Gothmog May 2018 #52
I remember this white sheriff in Brevard County, Florida raven mad May 2018 #59

secondwind

(16,903 posts)
1. This is downright inexplicable and totally inexcusable.
Thu May 10, 2018, 10:01 AM
May 2018

WTF is happening here? Is this a sample of Trump’s America??!?

BobTheSubgenius

(11,559 posts)
21. Yes and no.
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:14 PM
May 2018

Of course, everyone is living within "Trump's America" at the moment, and there's no doubt that this travesty has emboldened a shockingly high number of bigots to go public. As did the Presidency of BHO, but it was more focused.

Sometimes, an undercurrent lurking just below the surface, but it's always been present.

Response to MrScorpio (Original post)

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
7. Well, in one case it's about Native American folk merely existing
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:37 AM
May 2018

No, this stuff doesn't happen to white people every day.

Response to gollygee (Reply #7)

Response to IronLionZion (Reply #26)

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
50. I've seen one or two, but in those cases
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:21 PM
May 2018

there are huge red flags, like writing stuff about killing people. That's not the same as being a college-aged kid napping in a dorm where you need a key to get in. No one would have called about a white college-aged kid napping in a dorm common area.

MarvinGardens

(779 posts)
54. What something did she see?
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:53 PM
May 2018

Because when I read mainstream news accounts, it made me angry. Perhaps you could enlighten me as to "what actually happened". Tell me, what did CNN leave out of this account?

https://www.cnn.com/2018/05/04/us/colorado-state-university-racial-profiling-trnd/index.html

MrScorpio

(73,630 posts)
13. Is that one of those white peoples rules?
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:03 PM
May 2018

You know, the kind that some white people make up for people of color?

Response to MrScorpio (Reply #13)

MrScorpio

(73,630 posts)
37. Right, and all singularly derived from a white person's point of view, of course
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:02 PM
May 2018

Which, pretty much, is part of the problem.

Response to Name removed (Reply #28)

yellowdogintexas

(22,231 posts)
14. things that involve people of all races every day.....
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:06 PM
May 2018

OK where are the accounts of any race other than black being subjected to this much harrassment? If my friend and I went into a Starbucks I seriously doubt if anyone would even approach us if we waited to order until our friend arrived much less call a policeman.

A white woman would not have been questioned about napping in a commons room at Yale



Response to yellowdogintexas (Reply #14)

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
39. Speaking of "known facts," you've conveniently skipped a few.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:02 PM
May 2018

Let me help you out:

What would happen if you and your friend refused to leave a private business upon request?

Known Fact: Starbucks isn't a "private business." It's a public accommodation and once the public is invited, they are allowed to stay as long as they follow the posted rules of the establishment. Known Fact: Starbucks had no rule that people must buy something within 2 minutes of entering the restaurant, therefore the manager had not legal authority to request that they leave.

Oh, and another Known Fact: the manager never actually asked them to leave. She just called the police on them.

What would happen if the two women had not gotten into a confrontation over breaking the rules?

Known Fact: The women were not accused of "breaking the rules." The women accused the restaurant of not following ITS own rules. Known Fact: Confrontations require two parties. The restaurant manager confronted the women, not vice versa.

Bonus Question: What would have happened if the restaurant staff hadn't gotten into a confrontation over breaking their OWN rules.

What happens when white women back their car into police officers?

Care to elaborate with some known facts?

ismnotwasm

(41,965 posts)
44. I KNOW a white crackhead who backed into a police car
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:05 PM
May 2018

After threatening several people with a knife. He then drove off like nothing happened. Cops mildly arrested him a block away. He was out the next day. Cops knew his ass.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
48. And 9 times of 10, white mass shooters are taken alive UNLESS they kill THEMSELVES
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:18 PM
May 2018

Meanwhile, innocent black people minding their own business are shot in their own backyards because the cops got skeered.

ismnotwasm

(41,965 posts)
56. Its infuriating
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:02 PM
May 2018

And disgusting. There is no reason to treat people differently, and cops themselves don’t think they do it, so there is a shirt on of denial going on.

I remember in Seattle, way before BLM I’d hear about a police shooting and I’d think “don't let it be another black man”—which is fucked up. Seattle PD got into trouble for using “excessive force”, but the Feds claimed no racial bias. Anecdotally, I can guarantee there was.

Blue_Tires

(55,445 posts)
6. It's an extension of the backlash against us...
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:36 AM
May 2018

Last edited Thu May 10, 2018, 01:58 PM - Edit history (1)

And it is a laughably easy way to fuck with us with zero chance of ever facing any consequences...

It's humiliating AND dehumanizing and there's always the distinct possibility the situation will escalate to a tragic outcome...

brush

(53,741 posts)
32. Yep, cowardly racists who call the cops on black people just living their lives...
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:41 PM
May 2018

so the cops can do their dirty work for them.

And they get off scot free even if the black person is even killed—Tamir Rice, John Crawford, and on and on and on and on.

There should be laws in place for consequences to be levied against these racist cowards.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
49. And then people claim the police HAD to arrest them because someone said they committed a crime
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:20 PM
May 2018

“Don’t blame me, blame that lady behind the tree ... who got scared because a black man, so she called the police and demanded I get him out of her sight.

HipChick

(25,485 posts)
8. Emptying the trash..
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:37 AM
May 2018

Emptying the trash into the communal resident trash container, had the police called on me, because a neighbor thought "I didn't belong there"

Solly Mack

(90,758 posts)
12. Checking in the hotel.
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:58 AM
May 2018

Personal experience with the police while checking in. Desk called police while we were checking in claiming the "wanted suspect" was at the location. We didn't know until the cops arrived.

Police were looking for a light-skinned, 5'2" suspect with dreadlocks.

Person with me is 6'5", close cropped natural, dark skin.

It took 1 hour - 1 hour - inside the lobby for the police to do their "due diligence", knowing the entire time who they were looking for - they even had a name. The police were not polite, not even civil.

We left and found somewhere else to stay.... but the look on the face of my friend.

aeromanKC

(3,322 posts)
15. Trump has normalized White Nationalism
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:09 PM
May 2018

Today in America it's people of color, in another time it was Jewish people.

IronLionZion

(45,380 posts)
16. Because they can't deport you
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:10 PM
May 2018

for me it's easier for them to just do the multi-generational perpetual foreigner H-1b BS and throw me out of my own country for stealing jobs away from entitled whites. It's harder for them to claim you were born in Kenya so they simply claim you're a criminal to let you know you don't belong here.

Either way, whether black or brown, if we get too uppity someone will come along and put us in our place.



yellowdogintexas

(22,231 posts)
18. threatened with a gun and police called over a topoff of slush into a soft drink
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:14 PM
May 2018

when one has done this daily for a long time in front of the same cashier.

Man buys gas, goes in station while car is filling to get a soft drink from the fountain machine, tops off with a touch of slushie to keep it colder. Pays. Goes back to car to close the pump, gas cap, etc. and notices attendant shorted his gas. Goes back in to ask about that and attendant starts screaming at him about stealing the slushie and calls police. Man reminds him he does this daily and attendant has never mentioned it, plus he bought gas and paid for it. Attendant starts screaming at him, swings at him, spills the drink, and whenthe man asks him to refill the drink, attendant puts gun to the man's head.

This was on Facebook this morning. If I find it again I will post it..

Do you think a white person would have had these problem Police told him to just pay for a second drink, to avoid a citation or arrest.

Mr.Bill

(24,238 posts)
20. How many of us who are white have been pulled over by a cop
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:14 PM
May 2018

and the cop's opening line is "Is this your car?"

Lonestarblue

(9,958 posts)
36. The Republican Party has supported and extended racism for nearly forty years.
Thu May 10, 2018, 12:59 PM
May 2018

Beginning with Ronald Reagan and perfected by Nixon, every Republican presidential candidate has used the strategy of creating racial fear and hatred as a means of winning elections. Political operatives like Lee Atwater and Karl Rove saw a way to turn people against those who more typically voted for Democrats. They did not care about consequences, only electoral results. From Reagan’s welfare queen driving a Cadillac to Nixon’s War on Drugs to Trump’s recent claim that people are cheating on the SNAP program and living better than those who are working hard, the goal has been to create an underclass of people who are not deserving of the economic and societal benefits enjoyed by white Republicans because they have not earned such rights and benefits. Unfortunately, I see no real solutions in the short term because Republicans and their right-wing radio shills will continue to sow racial discord so long as those tactics win elections for them. The only thing I can think to do is to apply the “if you see something, say something” message in a different way. If you see a person of color or a religious minority being targeted by another person, speak up for that person. If more of us stand up and say this is not acceptable, perhaps we can start changing some of these situations. Of course, that won’t apply in too many cases, like being stopped for driving while black or checking out of an AirBnB rental.

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
41. True - but when Democrats defend and explain away this behavior, we have a lot of work to do right
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:04 PM
May 2018

here in our midst.

Lonestarblue

(9,958 posts)
57. Just sharing, not defending at all because it's indefensible.
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:14 PM
May 2018

I know a number of Republicans who do not even know the racist history of their own party and they vote Republican because that’s what they’ve always done. Some of them might care about party tactics, but some of them wouldn’t. How do you educate those who do care but don’t really pay enough attention to politics to see through the rhetoric to the racist attitudes and policies beneath?

RedSpartan

(1,693 posts)
45. The worst one of all: "Being President while black."
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:06 PM
May 2018

It seemingly drove a good portion of the country insane with rage, including our current chief executive, Dolt 45.

MrScorpio

(73,630 posts)
47. Yep, look at the accusation that Obama made racism worse in America
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:13 PM
May 2018

When we all know that his only crime was triggering white bigots with his own blackness.

nolabear

(41,932 posts)
51. I'm struck by how many women have instigated these.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:28 PM
May 2018

It’s awful to contemplate how women are revealing their own racism through passive aggressive acts. It’s ironic in that it accepts the unfair restrictions these very acts place not only on minorities but on the women themselves. It’s cowardly in an incredibly sad way.

haele

(12,640 posts)
53. Most women who buy into U.S. conservitivism are passive agressive to begin with.
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:48 PM
May 2018

They trade their agency and personal responsibility to be able to enjoy the security and "benefits" of being taken care of by their husband(s), paternal relatives or church. All they have to do is put up with their menfolk, keep a good home, and always be compliant...
And when they find out how god-awfully miserable and restrictive their lives are if they are to be "Good Women" kept by their man, they can become viciously mean to anyone they consider either socially below them - or unprotected by some other man.

When women like that feel the urge to strike out, but are afraid of at least half the people in their lives, any creature they consider beneath them is fair game.

Haele

 

EffieBlack

(14,249 posts)
55. It's the latest permutation of a long pattern of black men having their lives put in danger
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:00 PM
May 2018

because a white woman pointed her finger at him and said, "THAT one."

nolabear

(41,932 posts)
58. It is. But it also lets them dominate other women.
Thu May 10, 2018, 02:54 PM
May 2018

Quite a few of these have been leveled at women. I guarantee if my white bodied, white haired friends and I slept in public, spent hours in Walmart, complained about the napkins, barbecued in a park or took EVERY damn thing out of an AirBnB the neighbors would be bringing us sponge cake and asking if we needed a hand.

Gothmog

(144,919 posts)
52. I was on a jury for a DWI case where the defendant will "driving" while black
Thu May 10, 2018, 01:38 PM
May 2018

My father was killed in a DWI and when I found out what type of case that I was on the jury panel for, I announced this. I thought that I was safe for sure. Most people do not want a lawyer on a jury panel and I announced that I had issues with DWI due to the death of my dad. I was surprised when I was put onto the jury.

It seems that the defense counsel wanted me on the jury because he had a great probable cause defense because the defendant was pulled over for "not belonging" in that neighborhood. The Defendant was African American and the arresting officer pulled the defendant over for "driving while black" in a white neighborhood.

The trial lasted two days before the judge took the case away. This was in 1995 and I learned that the breath meters are not that accurate if the defendant is 135 pounds and very fit. The defendant blew the bare minimum for DWI but the machine was designed for someone who is much larger.

The defense counsel apologized to me afterwards. I agreed that he had a great probable cause argument and that a white liberal Jewish Democratic Lawyer was a good juror for his case.

raven mad

(4,940 posts)
59. I remember this white sheriff in Brevard County, Florida
Thu May 10, 2018, 11:09 PM
May 2018

I'd stopped my horse to talk with a friend who was tending his carrots - my Stoney loved that!

Cop asked if he was giving me trouble. I said, no, the horse is always like that................

He wanted to hassle my friend while planting.

So. Farming While Black goes on this list - the pig (and he was one) would have.

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