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http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-44168082Royal Wedding 2018: Prince Charles to walk Meghan down the aisle
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Prince Charles will walk Meghan Markle down the aisle on Saturday when she marries Prince Harry, Kensington Palace has said.
Ms Markle's father, Thomas, is unable to attend the wedding.
She released a statement on Thursday saying she hoped he could be given space to focus on his health.
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SoCalDem
(103,856 posts)Sarah Palin..
Honestly, I feel for Meghan..
Her half sister has now apparently invented a traffic accident (police say they have no record of it)..
her half-brother wrote a letter to Harry saying he should not marry Meghan (and he's there in the UK promoting his new marijuana project "markle sparkle"..
and the poor Dad has some issues too..
Her parents divorced when she was under 4...and the halfs were not a big part of her life, and they are sure trying to insinuate themselves now..
CottonBear
(21,596 posts)The idiot half-brothers ex-wife, their two sons and a girlfriend are in the UK. They had been scheduled to comment on live TV during the wedding, but were dropped at the last minute. None of them had seen Meghan in the last 20 years.
DetlefK
(16,423 posts)There's an uncle who's the black sheep of the family. And Kate Middleton's cousin is a stripper doing a princess-themed act.
You can't pick your relatives.
3Hotdogs
(12,366 posts)ain't been seen since.
L.E. visited me about him. "I don't know shit,"
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)The Mrs and myself eloped and sent everyone pictures from our wedding for 2. We didn't invite any of the drama and had a much nicer day by ourselves.
samnsara
(17,615 posts)..didnt even get out of the car!
NightWatcher
(39,343 posts)Avoided all the drama.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)that motley crew is likely to cause trouble for Harry & Meghan for years.
Imagine...they're a weird unethical crew who were estranged from her, anyway. And then she becomes a semi-famous actress w/money. That's bad enough. Then she up and marries a Prnce! You better believe they're green w/envy and will be spittin' angry that this relative they dislike is living a charmed life.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)The biggest issue will be how they sustain their core relationship (failure there is part of the reason many marriages fail, along with selecting the wrong person to start).
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Blue_true
(31,261 posts)My only wish is that they continue to do those things together instead of individually. Busy individual schedules can create distance between couple, whereas when they do stuff together, they have the downtime hours for eachother. My guess is that they will also quickly try to have children.
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)I see no reason why a person should be judged on their family...
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)I hope he doesn't regret it. Her half siblings are antagonistic and will (and have) sold negative stories about her, want to embarrass her and make her life less happy....
I'm sure he realizes this, and the RF has a lot of experience dealing with this sort of thing. I hope he's prepared. The Queen takes things in stride, so she'll roll with it.
Yeah, Billy was an embarrassment. But only because he was a sad figure with issues. He didn't hate Jimmy and sell damaging stories to attack him, which is a bit different.
They seem so much in love. I hope it stays that way. They're both so attractive physically...it's just not fair. They'll still look good when they're old. Did you see her mother? She looks 20 years younger than she is and has a rockin' figure!
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)regardless of family. I am sure Harry should have walked away after all 'her family is not up to snuff and all She will never be accepted by some (not saying you) because she is a POC...so I guess if he cared what people thought, he wouldn't have married her.
dembotoz
(16,799 posts)Wish them well
spinbaby
(15,088 posts)Ill probably not watch it, though. Even a royal wedding isnt all that interesting.
elleng
(130,861 posts)not a dry eye.
Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)leftynyc
(26,060 posts)"Phone date" with my sister and my kittie. The dress, the hats, the pomp. And Charles walking her down the aisle is very sweet. So much drama and sadness in our lives these days (just found out ANOTHER friend has breast cancer, I fucking hate cancer). Taking a few hours to get lost in a wedding suits me just fine.
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Although there will be reruns, and a stream probably, of all or part of it.
I like to see the drive-up to the Abbey, the walk down the aisle. The bridal gown, the other outfits. The Queen. It's all like a fairy tale.
They seem so much in love. I hope it works out.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)His mother was so miserable in her marriage and didn't really shine until she divorced Charles. And I watched that wedding also - it all seemed so surreal - me and Diana were the same age, I was in college and here she was marrying the heir to the throne. Doesn't cost me a freaking nickle so what do I care?
appalachiablue
(41,118 posts)at Windsor Castle outside London. Royal weddings are so special, I've seen a few. Diana's choice of the regal, baroque St. Paul's Cathedral in London was perfect for that splendid, romantic celebration.
It's unfortunate that Meghan's father can't walk her down the aisle, and I don't see why her mother can't perform that role even with the Royals 'traditions.' Charles is it, if that's what they want. A happy day is the point.
https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/g15881437/royal-weddings-history-windsor-castle-st-georges-chapel/
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)I haven't been keeping up with the plans.
You know, I figure that the mother wasn't asked because of tradition...but also it may have been a practical thing. It's last minute, and the mother doesn't know the place, would have to practice, and already has a role. So it may have been too much to change from her prior role (riding alone in the carriage with Meghan) to this new one, and to get her some practice sessions. Maybe she didn't feel comfortable doing that. And Meghan would have to have a replacement to ride with her in the carriage...it's usually family, and I think the Mother is the only close family there.
Meghan and her mother are very close, I read. So I imagine it may have crossed her mind.
appalachiablue
(41,118 posts)One of the Brits in the group made the point that a person like Charles has experience with official events, walking the aisle etc. and could be helpful to Meghan especially and the young bridesmaids and grooms. We'll see. They also discussed whether Meghan's mother was maybe asked first to do it and declined. All seemed to concur that might have been the case.
The tradition of having the father give the bride away, esp. for someone like her who's been married before, isn't as big an issue as in the past. Both my brothers gave me away and represented my family. Whatever goes, things are flexible these days.
I was thinking that Meghan is about the age of Diana who passed at barely 36; was m. at 19, so young.
Meghan is now 35, Harry 33. William is 35, and Kate 36. Both are attractive, smart young couples, and they're close.
I think tomorrow we'll see a beautiful, spring wedding at St. George's Chapel at Windsor.
Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)Sorry about your friend. Fuck cancer.
leftynyc
(26,060 posts)LOVE DC - was there in October. Do you live there or are you visiting?
Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)leftynyc
(26,060 posts)places I would want to live other than NY but DC is one of those places. So much to do and see, easy to get around. I really need to get down there more.
Happyhippychick
(8,379 posts)When I'm back in NYC everything is so competitive. But NYC is still my favorite!
RandomAccess
(5,210 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)going back to Princess Anne, so I'm not going to miss this one!
Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)hlthe2b
(102,200 posts)At least if her Mother had walked her down the aisle, it would be both progressive and less a slap in the face to her own Father.
Yes, it is a "expected" choice of substitution, but it makes my heart hurt for the 'guy' left behind....
Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)Maybe he was having trouble dealing with the stress. He'd had a stint put in recently...but there was another incident just a couple of days ago.
chowder66
(9,066 posts)the family dynamics. I had to google him and the fuss over the pics is way overboard. I see nothing wrong with a dad having a little fun whether he was coaxed by the press or not. That could have been anyone's dad excited for his child's wedding. When I heard that her mom would walk her down the isle that seemed reasonable and fair but maybe her mom is too nervous or something. If that was the case, I'd be okay with Prince Charles standing in. I can't imagine the stress all of this has on Meghan as well. Hopefully, everything will work out and Meghan and her parents will be happy with the outcome.
hlthe2b
(102,200 posts)Demsrule86
(68,539 posts)TNNurse
(6,926 posts)Most of us have someone in their family who you would not want talking on TV. I wish the couple well. So thankful that we are not famous people. Life is hard enough without the public watching.
Equinox Moon
(6,344 posts)Honeycombe8
(37,648 posts)The mother is riding in the carriage alone with her daughter to the Abbey. Maybe Meghan didn't want to lose those private moments with her Mom. Or maybe there wasn't time for Mom to practice, and well, Charles certainly knows how to walk down that aisle.
Tanuki
(14,918 posts)the aisle at her morning wedding to JFK and her stepfather Hugh Auchincloss had to step in and do the honors. President Obama and Bill Clinton, to name only a few, also had half siblings who did embarrassing things at various times. I always think it reflects well on people who turn out well in spite of questionable relatives. I'm no big fan of royals but I wish the wedding couple nothing but happiness and hope they will use their prestige and fame responsibly and in service to their nation and to humanity.
Hekate
(90,633 posts)I have a feeling Meghan's mother would not want to walk her daughter down THAT aisle for anything. The scrutiny on her clothing, demeanor, hat, hair, how she walks -- This is not some intimate affair we're talking about.
The King of Prussia
(737 posts)He isn't related to the bride or groom.
tammywammy
(26,582 posts)The King of Prussia
(737 posts)Ummm... are you sure?
tammywammy
(26,582 posts)Prince Charles would still be his father - he raised him.
Hekate
(90,633 posts)...to his paternal grandmother's brother. Until son met great-uncle at the age of 14, he really didn't know who he resembled. My son and daughter looked very much like their dad when they were born, but she grew up to look like me, and he grew up looking like his great uncle.
LisaL
(44,973 posts)WillowTree
(5,325 posts)The King of Prussia
(737 posts)I'd insert a picture of James Hewitt at this point.
WillowTree
(5,325 posts)leftynyc
(26,060 posts)about what that was about so I found pics of him and Harry side by side - her mouth dropped open.
JI7
(89,244 posts)eissa
(4,238 posts)And I feel sorry for her that her half-siblings are so hell-bent on raining on her parade.
And count me in as a sucker for weddings, royal or otherwise. Woke up early to see Charles and Diana, and it STILL makes me teary even after the collapse of that awful marriage. Hope their kids have better luck.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)We have our differences, but there is a fundamental understanding that those differences don't get projected into embarrassing a relative.
kwassa
(23,340 posts)Dysfunction, meet dysfunction.
though Harry and Meghan seem alright.
Kirk Lover
(3,608 posts)then Charles will pick her up at a certain spot and then he'll leave her to let her walk to Harry when normally the giver away-er walks her right up to the groom.
Go girl....I have to admit, reading that today got me more interested !! But I'm still not thrilled that is what will be on when I'm laying in bed tomorrow morning.
underpants
(182,736 posts)underpants
(182,736 posts)And it is nice to see.