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nitpicker

(7,153 posts)
Fri May 18, 2018, 05:11 AM May 2018

Royal Wedding 2018: Prince Charles to walk Meghan down the aisle

http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-44168082

Royal Wedding 2018: Prince Charles to walk Meghan down the aisle

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Prince Charles will walk Meghan Markle down the aisle on Saturday when she marries Prince Harry, Kensington Palace has said.

Ms Markle's father, Thomas, is unable to attend the wedding.

She released a statement on Thursday saying she hoped he could be given space to focus on his health.
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Royal Wedding 2018: Prince Charles to walk Meghan down the aisle (Original Post) nitpicker May 2018 OP
Her family is starting to sound like they are related to SoCalDem May 2018 #1
One of the half-nephews is the pot farmer. CottonBear May 2018 #2
Kate Middleton's family isn't all sunshine either. DetlefK May 2018 #3
Black sheep? Shit that ain't nuthin'. I got a cousin, disappeared in the middle of the night, 3Hotdogs May 2018 #6
It's like the news says, one of us is becoming a royal. NightWatcher May 2018 #8
hubby and i wed at the drive thru the wedding chapel in vegas... samnsara May 2018 #11
Convenient!!! We did dawn wedding at empty beach in hometown. NightWatcher May 2018 #12
Sounds like it. I wonder if Harry will have doubts down the road... Honeycombe8 May 2018 #15
The two seem to be in love and have common interests and generally stay out of the spotlight. Blue_true May 2018 #38
They do seem to be genuinely in love, don't they? You can just tell. nt Honeycombe8 May 2018 #45
The appear to have closely matched viewpoints on charity work and activism. Blue_true May 2018 #48
You don't get to choose your family...these are halfs...remember Billy Carter? Demsrule86 May 2018 #53
Yes, yu get to choose what family yu marry into. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #58
That is rather elitist...you marry the person not the family. I would marry the person I loved Demsrule86 May 2018 #59
Wonderful idea, not a dry eye in the crowd dembotoz May 2018 #4
Very sweet spinbaby May 2018 #5
Right, and here too when I read it, elleng May 2018 #29
I'll be up at 4 am! I'm a sucker for weddings, especially Royal ones Happyhippychick May 2018 #7
Me too leftynyc May 2018 #13
I'll watch just the ceremony. I still remember Diana & Charles' wedding. It's something to see. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #17
Me too (on wanting it to work out) leftynyc May 2018 #20
I can't wait to see the ceremony at the 14th c. St. George's Chapel appalachiablue May 2018 #31
Oh, the wedding is going to be at Windsor Castle? Honeycombe8 May 2018 #47
PBS has been airing a program covering the royal wedding. appalachiablue May 2018 #49
I'll wave to you from DC! Happyhippychick May 2018 #19
Yup - fuck cancer leftynyc May 2018 #21
Live here. From NY! Happyhippychick May 2018 #30
There aren't many leftynyc May 2018 #36
I love it here, very cosmopolitan but you can get into the shows and museums, concerts Happyhippychick May 2018 #40
What time is the ceremony? RandomAccess May 2018 #43
Me too, I've watched all of them Raine May 2018 #50
Me too. I love weddings. Demsrule86 May 2018 #54
I feel sorry for her Father and seeing this, I think makes it even worse... hlthe2b May 2018 #9
I saw on tv that he'd had another heart incident. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #14
I feel exactly the same. It's been bugging me though I don't know chowder66 May 2018 #32
I'd like to think the couple would go to visit him as soon as possible. n/t hlthe2b May 2018 #37
He Father is ill. Perhaps she has become close to Charles. Demsrule86 May 2018 #55
I will get the highlights from the news. TNNurse May 2018 #10
Her mother would have been the better choice. Equinox Moon May 2018 #16
I guess it's the tradition thing. If the Royal family is anything, it's traditional. Honeycombe8 May 2018 #18
It happens. Jackie Kennedy's father, Jack Bouvier, got so drunk that he was unable to walk her down Tanuki May 2018 #22
Thank you for pointing this out. Things happen in families, and you just deal with it... Hekate May 2018 #41
Don't understand that The King of Prussia May 2018 #23
He's the father of the groom. tammywammy May 2018 #24
Oh yes of course he is! The King of Prussia May 2018 #25
Even if you believe Harry's biological father was someone else tammywammy May 2018 #35
Harry looks like his uncle: the red hair, the face. My son is a 2-generation throwback ... Hekate May 2018 #42
I think Harry also looks like Charles. He has the same closely spaced blue eyes. LisaL May 2018 #52
Perhaps. WillowTree May 2018 #26
If I knew how to do it The King of Prussia May 2018 #27
The King of Prussia gets a gold star! WillowTree May 2018 #28
My sister had no idea leftynyc May 2018 #34
they don't really look alike at all. Harry's face is very much like Prince Philips JI7 May 2018 #51
I don't know much about her, but I definitely know asshole relatives eissa May 2018 #33
I am lucky. None of my relatives will embarrass me. Blue_true May 2018 #39
The royal family is full of embarrassing relatives of it's own. kwassa May 2018 #44
I read on CNN that she's really walking herself down the aisle in a feminist statement.... Kirk Lover May 2018 #46
Clooney is there! underpants May 2018 #56
Well this has a look to like no other Royal Weding before underpants May 2018 #57

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
1. Her family is starting to sound like they are related to
Fri May 18, 2018, 06:09 AM
May 2018

Sarah Palin..

Honestly, I feel for Meghan..
Her half sister has now apparently invented a traffic accident (police say they have no record of it)..
her half-brother wrote a letter to Harry saying he should not marry Meghan (and he's there in the UK promoting his new marijuana project "markle sparkle"..
and the poor Dad has some issues too..

Her parents divorced when she was under 4...and the halfs were not a big part of her life, and they are sure trying to insinuate themselves now..

CottonBear

(21,596 posts)
2. One of the half-nephews is the pot farmer.
Fri May 18, 2018, 06:32 AM
May 2018

The idiot half-brother’s ex-wife, their two sons and a girlfriend are in the UK. They had been scheduled to comment on live TV during the wedding, but were dropped at the last minute. None of them had seen Meghan in the last 20 years.

DetlefK

(16,423 posts)
3. Kate Middleton's family isn't all sunshine either.
Fri May 18, 2018, 06:37 AM
May 2018

There's an uncle who's the black sheep of the family. And Kate Middleton's cousin is a stripper doing a princess-themed act.

You can't pick your relatives.

3Hotdogs

(12,366 posts)
6. Black sheep? Shit that ain't nuthin'. I got a cousin, disappeared in the middle of the night,
Fri May 18, 2018, 06:54 AM
May 2018

ain't been seen since.

L.E. visited me about him. "I don't know shit,"

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
8. It's like the news says, one of us is becoming a royal.
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:04 AM
May 2018

The Mrs and myself eloped and sent everyone pictures from our wedding for 2. We didn't invite any of the drama and had a much nicer day by ourselves.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
15. Sounds like it. I wonder if Harry will have doubts down the road...
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:45 AM
May 2018

that motley crew is likely to cause trouble for Harry & Meghan for years.

Imagine...they're a weird unethical crew who were estranged from her, anyway. And then she becomes a semi-famous actress w/money. That's bad enough. Then she up and marries a Prnce! You better believe they're green w/envy and will be spittin' angry that this relative they dislike is living a charmed life.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
38. The two seem to be in love and have common interests and generally stay out of the spotlight.
Fri May 18, 2018, 01:07 PM
May 2018

The biggest issue will be how they sustain their core relationship (failure there is part of the reason many marriages fail, along with selecting the wrong person to start).

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
48. The appear to have closely matched viewpoints on charity work and activism.
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:52 PM
May 2018

My only wish is that they continue to do those things together instead of individually. Busy individual schedules can create distance between couple, whereas when they do stuff together, they have the downtime hours for eachother. My guess is that they will also quickly try to have children.

Demsrule86

(68,539 posts)
53. You don't get to choose your family...these are halfs...remember Billy Carter?
Sat May 19, 2018, 07:20 AM
May 2018

I see no reason why a person should be judged on their family...

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
58. Yes, yu get to choose what family yu marry into.
Sat May 19, 2018, 08:04 AM
May 2018

I hope he doesn't regret it. Her half siblings are antagonistic and will (and have) sold negative stories about her, want to embarrass her and make her life less happy....

I'm sure he realizes this, and the RF has a lot of experience dealing with this sort of thing. I hope he's prepared. The Queen takes things in stride, so she'll roll with it.

Yeah, Billy was an embarrassment. But only because he was a sad figure with issues. He didn't hate Jimmy and sell damaging stories to attack him, which is a bit different.

They seem so much in love. I hope it stays that way. They're both so attractive physically...it's just not fair. They'll still look good when they're old. Did you see her mother? She looks 20 years younger than she is and has a rockin' figure!

Demsrule86

(68,539 posts)
59. That is rather elitist...you marry the person not the family. I would marry the person I loved
Sat May 19, 2018, 09:23 AM
May 2018

regardless of family. I am sure Harry should have walked away after all 'her family is not up to snuff and all She will never be accepted by some (not saying you) because she is a POC...so I guess if he cared what people thought, he wouldn't have married her.

spinbaby

(15,088 posts)
5. Very sweet
Fri May 18, 2018, 06:52 AM
May 2018

I’ll probably not watch it, though. Even a royal wedding isn’t all that interesting.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
13. Me too
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:42 AM
May 2018

"Phone date" with my sister and my kittie. The dress, the hats, the pomp. And Charles walking her down the aisle is very sweet. So much drama and sadness in our lives these days (just found out ANOTHER friend has breast cancer, I fucking hate cancer). Taking a few hours to get lost in a wedding suits me just fine.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
17. I'll watch just the ceremony. I still remember Diana & Charles' wedding. It's something to see.
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:59 AM
May 2018

Although there will be reruns, and a stream probably, of all or part of it.

I like to see the drive-up to the Abbey, the walk down the aisle. The bridal gown, the other outfits. The Queen. It's all like a fairy tale.

They seem so much in love. I hope it works out.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
20. Me too (on wanting it to work out)
Fri May 18, 2018, 10:29 AM
May 2018

His mother was so miserable in her marriage and didn't really shine until she divorced Charles. And I watched that wedding also - it all seemed so surreal - me and Diana were the same age, I was in college and here she was marrying the heir to the throne. Doesn't cost me a freaking nickle so what do I care?

appalachiablue

(41,118 posts)
31. I can't wait to see the ceremony at the 14th c. St. George's Chapel
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:28 AM
May 2018

at Windsor Castle outside London. Royal weddings are so special, I've seen a few. Diana's choice of the regal, baroque St. Paul's Cathedral in London was perfect for that splendid, romantic celebration.

It's unfortunate that Meghan's father can't walk her down the aisle, and I don't see why her mother can't perform that role even with the Royals 'traditions.' Charles is it, if that's what they want. A happy day is the point.



https://www.townandcountrymag.com/society/tradition/g15881437/royal-weddings-history-windsor-castle-st-georges-chapel/

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
47. Oh, the wedding is going to be at Windsor Castle?
Fri May 18, 2018, 09:04 PM
May 2018

I haven't been keeping up with the plans.

You know, I figure that the mother wasn't asked because of tradition...but also it may have been a practical thing. It's last minute, and the mother doesn't know the place, would have to practice, and already has a role. So it may have been too much to change from her prior role (riding alone in the carriage with Meghan) to this new one, and to get her some practice sessions. Maybe she didn't feel comfortable doing that. And Meghan would have to have a replacement to ride with her in the carriage...it's usually family, and I think the Mother is the only close family there.

Meghan and her mother are very close, I read. So I imagine it may have crossed her mind.

appalachiablue

(41,118 posts)
49. PBS has been airing a program covering the royal wedding.
Sat May 19, 2018, 12:00 AM
May 2018

One of the Brits in the group made the point that a person like Charles has experience with official events, walking the aisle etc. and could be helpful to Meghan especially and the young bridesmaids and grooms. We'll see. They also discussed whether Meghan's mother was maybe asked first to do it and declined. All seemed to concur that might have been the case.
The tradition of having the father give the bride away, esp. for someone like her who's been married before, isn't as big an issue as in the past. Both my brothers gave me away and represented my family. Whatever goes, things are flexible these days.

I was thinking that Meghan is about the age of Diana who passed at barely 36; was m. at 19, so young.
Meghan is now 35, Harry 33. William is 35, and Kate 36. Both are attractive, smart young couples, and they're close.
I think tomorrow we'll see a beautiful, spring wedding at St. George's Chapel at Windsor.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
36. There aren't many
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:55 AM
May 2018

places I would want to live other than NY but DC is one of those places. So much to do and see, easy to get around. I really need to get down there more.

Happyhippychick

(8,379 posts)
40. I love it here, very cosmopolitan but you can get into the shows and museums, concerts
Fri May 18, 2018, 01:40 PM
May 2018

When I'm back in NYC everything is so competitive. But NYC is still my favorite!

hlthe2b

(102,200 posts)
9. I feel sorry for her Father and seeing this, I think makes it even worse...
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:14 AM
May 2018

At least if her Mother had walked her down the aisle, it would be both progressive and less a slap in the face to her own Father.

Yes, it is a "expected" choice of substitution, but it makes my heart hurt for the 'guy' left behind....

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
14. I saw on tv that he'd had another heart incident.
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:42 AM
May 2018

Maybe he was having trouble dealing with the stress. He'd had a stint put in recently...but there was another incident just a couple of days ago.

chowder66

(9,066 posts)
32. I feel exactly the same. It's been bugging me though I don't know
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:29 AM
May 2018

the family dynamics. I had to google him and the fuss over the pics is way overboard. I see nothing wrong with a dad having a little fun whether he was coaxed by the press or not. That could have been anyone's dad excited for his child's wedding. When I heard that her mom would walk her down the isle that seemed reasonable and fair but maybe her mom is too nervous or something. If that was the case, I'd be okay with Prince Charles standing in. I can't imagine the stress all of this has on Meghan as well. Hopefully, everything will work out and Meghan and her parents will be happy with the outcome.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
10. I will get the highlights from the news.
Fri May 18, 2018, 07:18 AM
May 2018

Most of us have someone in their family who you would not want talking on TV. I wish the couple well. So thankful that we are not famous people. Life is hard enough without the public watching.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
18. I guess it's the tradition thing. If the Royal family is anything, it's traditional.
Fri May 18, 2018, 08:02 AM
May 2018

The mother is riding in the carriage alone with her daughter to the Abbey. Maybe Meghan didn't want to lose those private moments with her Mom. Or maybe there wasn't time for Mom to practice, and well, Charles certainly knows how to walk down that aisle.

Tanuki

(14,918 posts)
22. It happens. Jackie Kennedy's father, Jack Bouvier, got so drunk that he was unable to walk her down
Fri May 18, 2018, 10:48 AM
May 2018

the aisle at her morning wedding to JFK and her stepfather Hugh Auchincloss had to step in and do the honors. President Obama and Bill Clinton, to name only a few, also had half siblings who did embarrassing things at various times. I always think it reflects well on people who turn out well in spite of questionable relatives. I'm no big fan of royals but I wish the wedding couple nothing but happiness and hope they will use their prestige and fame responsibly and in service to their nation and to humanity.

Hekate

(90,633 posts)
41. Thank you for pointing this out. Things happen in families, and you just deal with it...
Fri May 18, 2018, 01:45 PM
May 2018

I have a feeling Meghan's mother would not want to walk her daughter down THAT aisle for anything. The scrutiny on her clothing, demeanor, hat, hair, how she walks -- This is not some intimate affair we're talking about.

tammywammy

(26,582 posts)
35. Even if you believe Harry's biological father was someone else
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:54 AM
May 2018

Prince Charles would still be his father - he raised him.

Hekate

(90,633 posts)
42. Harry looks like his uncle: the red hair, the face. My son is a 2-generation throwback ...
Fri May 18, 2018, 01:52 PM
May 2018

...to his paternal grandmother's brother. Until son met great-uncle at the age of 14, he really didn't know who he resembled. My son and daughter looked very much like their dad when they were born, but she grew up to look like me, and he grew up looking like his great uncle.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
34. My sister had no idea
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:53 AM
May 2018

about what that was about so I found pics of him and Harry side by side - her mouth dropped open.

eissa

(4,238 posts)
33. I don't know much about her, but I definitely know asshole relatives
Fri May 18, 2018, 11:51 AM
May 2018

And I feel sorry for her that her half-siblings are so hell-bent on raining on her parade.

And count me in as a sucker for weddings, royal or otherwise. Woke up early to see Charles and Diana, and it STILL makes me teary even after the collapse of that awful marriage. Hope their kids have better luck.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
39. I am lucky. None of my relatives will embarrass me.
Fri May 18, 2018, 01:14 PM
May 2018

We have our differences, but there is a fundamental understanding that those differences don't get projected into embarrassing a relative.

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
44. The royal family is full of embarrassing relatives of it's own.
Fri May 18, 2018, 02:42 PM
May 2018

Dysfunction, meet dysfunction.

though Harry and Meghan seem alright.

 

Kirk Lover

(3,608 posts)
46. I read on CNN that she's really walking herself down the aisle in a feminist statement....
Fri May 18, 2018, 09:03 PM
May 2018

then Charles will pick her up at a certain spot and then he'll leave her to let her walk to Harry when normally the giver away-er walks her right up to the groom.

Go girl....I have to admit, reading that today got me more interested !! But I'm still not thrilled that is what will be on when I'm laying in bed tomorrow morning.

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