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16 years ago we adopted Luka (Original Post) Omaha Steve May 2018 OP
:( TimeSnowDemos May 2018 #1
I'm so sorry. I'm glad he had a long and happy spooky3 May 2018 #2
My heart goes to you and Marta. Doreen May 2018 #3
Sending loving thoughts to Luka, Marta and Omaha Steve ❤️☀️⭐️💫🌈❤️ MLAA May 2018 #4
I know the feeling all too well. Still grateful to have had them than not at all. Kirk Lover May 2018 #5
... Demovictory9 May 2018 #6
My heart aches with yours. IluvPitties May 2018 #7
I am so sorry Ohiogal May 2018 #8
I am so very sorry. Lunabell May 2018 #9
I am so sorry Steve. shanny May 2018 #10
So very sorry RandomAccess May 2018 #11
Please know that so many of us are with you. Guilded Lilly May 2018 #12
been there bigtree May 2018 #13
what a great friend, Omaha Steve peacebuzzard May 2018 #14
Big hugs to both of you. janx May 2018 #15
I'm so sorry KT2000 May 2018 #16
Thinking of you, and Marta, and your beloved friend, Luka. So very sorry. Judi Lynn May 2018 #17
a fine gentleman...the best of friends. spanone May 2018 #18
I'm so very sorry. To release them is one of the hardest things a loving sinkingfeeling May 2018 #19
Oh, I am so sorry for you and Marta. That is the hardest thing to do. smirkymonkey May 2018 #20
I'm so sorry. This is the miserable price we pay for all those years of love. Vinca May 2018 #21
So sorry jpak May 2018 #22
I feel so badly for you. BigmanPigman May 2018 #23
I too will be in the same place with my 16 y.o. mutt sweetroxie May 2018 #26
I am holding her and smothering her with kisses all the time. BigmanPigman May 2018 #28
Me too. llmart May 2018 #55
I'm so very sorry. cate94 May 2018 #24
We've had our own little Lukas in our lives, Hortensis May 2018 #25
Pretty cilla4progress May 2018 #27
😥 Duppers May 2018 #29
I am so sorry Worried senior May 2018 #30
Love to all of you catrose May 2018 #31
I'm so sorry, Steve and Marta. SMC22307 May 2018 #32
I'm sure Luka was a lucky dog to be with you! pwb May 2018 #33
So sorry. Hugs to all of you. onecaliberal May 2018 #34
Aww...Luka is so sweet. Remember he'll ALWAYS be with you in spirit iluvtennis May 2018 #35
This is hard. I'm so sorry. If he made it 16 years, he had very good parents. :( nt Honeycombe8 May 2018 #36
Strong Hugs for the Omaha Steve family. Tikki May 2018 #37
A Box of Rain for you, OS Stargleamer May 2018 #38
Sweet puppy! So glad he had a long wonderful life with you. emulatorloo May 2018 #39
Good Boy, Luka. Good Boy. nolabear May 2018 #40
My sympathies sellitman May 2018 #41
Awwwwwwwwwwww malaise May 2018 #42
You & Marta gave him a wonderful life & he added much to yours. appalachiablue May 2018 #43
I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your sweet Luka. phylny May 2018 #44
Ahhhhhhh.. It's soooo hard to let go. Love and comfort to you and Marta. SaveOurDemocracy May 2018 #45
Condolences to you and your wife, Omaha Steve. pazzyanne May 2018 #46
Sending lots of love.... backtoblue May 2018 #47
I'm very sorry for this. cab67 May 2018 #48
What a cutie! Scarsdale May 2018 #49
What a handsome fellow! You gave Luka a beautiful life filled with love, and he returned the love anneboleyn May 2018 #50
That's so hard. He looks like he has had a good, happy life. AJT May 2018 #51
Godspeed sweet Luka.... samnsara May 2018 #52
I am so sorry. I am sure that Luka had a good life with your family. (eom) StevieM May 2018 #53
He made your lives richer, you gave comfort and shelter, both gave love packman May 2018 #54
So sorry, he looks like such a happy little guy SonofDonald May 2018 #56
(((((((((((Steve, Marta and Luka))))))))) niyad May 2018 #57

IluvPitties

(3,181 posts)
7. My heart aches with yours.
Sun May 20, 2018, 03:40 PM
May 2018

I know the pain, but know Luka will never leave you, even if you can't see him.

Let the love of a new furry friend give you renewed hope in the near future.

Lunabell

(6,046 posts)
9. I am so very sorry.
Sun May 20, 2018, 03:46 PM
May 2018

I have rescued so many and lost so many in my 56 years. I feel your pain. If the rainbow bridge exists, Luka will be there for you.

 

shanny

(6,709 posts)
10. I am so sorry Steve.
Sun May 20, 2018, 03:47 PM
May 2018

I recently had to do the same thing, also with a 16-yr-old friend...what a hole she left, in the house, in my ears, in my heart. But the time we had made it worth it, even so.

Peace to you all.

peacebuzzard

(5,148 posts)
14. what a great friend, Omaha Steve
Sun May 20, 2018, 04:38 PM
May 2018

courageous and loyal. it goes by so fast.
my heart goes out to you and Marta. so sad, so sorry for your final day and loss.
so very hard to go through the goodbye.

janx

(24,128 posts)
15. Big hugs to both of you.
Sun May 20, 2018, 04:43 PM
May 2018

I've had to do that four times, the last two of which were over a period of three and a half years. It never gets any easier. A wise friend of mine once said that he thought the cruelest thing God ever did to humans was to make the life of the dog so short.

Lucky dog to have you and your wife adopt him though. I'm sure you gave him a wonderful home and life.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
20. Oh, I am so sorry for you and Marta. That is the hardest thing to do.
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:15 PM
May 2018

I wish dogs lived longer lives. They worm their way into our hearts so quickly, but are never with us long enough. Again, my condolences.

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
23. I feel so badly for you.
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:22 PM
May 2018

I will be in the same boat too soon...my little girl is 15. I dread the day...I am still getting over losing my first little girl 16 years ago.

sweetroxie

(776 posts)
26. I too will be in the same place with my 16 y.o. mutt
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:30 PM
May 2018

I'm so very sorry you're in this place. May it go smoothly for all of you.

BigmanPigman

(51,567 posts)
28. I am holding her and smothering her with kisses all the time.
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:39 PM
May 2018

She is more than a child to me. Unconditional love...

llmart

(15,533 posts)
55. Me too.
Mon May 21, 2018, 12:30 PM
May 2018

Every day I look at my girl and see the inevitable coming. She's almost 16 and is a larger dog, so has already lived longer than I ever expected her to. Still, it's going to be tough. She has been with me through some pretty awful lows in my life.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
25. We've had our own little Lukas in our lives,
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:28 PM
May 2018

so we know. I still see our Emily at night, who had a routine of visiting me briefly when I went to bed, walking up the mattress with her tail straight up to touch noses, and then leaving. Her own bedtime was later, and then she'd come and curl up on the top of one of our pillows, and obstinately between us in winter, no matter the hazards. Jack, always somewhat feral and nervous around people but touchingly choosing to nap on my desk as I worked and following us around like a puppy dog whenever we returned from being away even briefly. And the other loved ones.

Duppers

(28,117 posts)
29. 😥
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:42 PM
May 2018

The 2nd worst days of our lives.

I'm so sorry.

Luka, beautiful boy.


❤'s and courage to you and Marta.




SMC22307

(8,090 posts)
32. I'm so sorry, Steve and Marta.
Sun May 20, 2018, 05:58 PM
May 2018

I know how hard it is to make that decision and let them go, but you gave him a good life.

pwb

(11,252 posts)
33. I'm sure Luka was a lucky dog to be with you!
Sun May 20, 2018, 06:05 PM
May 2018

And you were lucky humans to be with him. We can all learn a lot from dogs. They love their people no mater what race, sex, color or religion, just pure love to us all. Peace to you.

emulatorloo

(44,071 posts)
39. Sweet puppy! So glad he had a long wonderful life with you.
Sun May 20, 2018, 06:50 PM
May 2018

My heart aches for you. Take care of yourself.

sellitman

(11,605 posts)
41. My sympathies
Sun May 20, 2018, 09:01 PM
May 2018

We put down our beloved Black Lab "Buddy" a year and a half ago.

We still morn.

We also know we were blessed to share life with him for 15 years.

Keep the memories flowing. He will be with you forever that way.

appalachiablue

(41,103 posts)
43. You & Marta gave him a wonderful life & he added much to yours.
Mon May 21, 2018, 04:22 AM
May 2018

All the best now during this difficult time with your beloved pooch.

phylny

(8,368 posts)
44. I am so terribly sorry for the loss of your sweet Luka.
Mon May 21, 2018, 04:43 AM
May 2018

We just did this Saturday with Jack. We were lucky to have him for 8 years. I know your pain.

Luka, go find Jack and tell him we love him. They you two can play a bit until we get there.

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
46. Condolences to you and your wife, Omaha Steve.
Mon May 21, 2018, 10:54 AM
May 2018

I have had pets my entire life who have enriched my life with their presence. Each time the ultimate decision has to be made, I cry and am heartsick. However, the good memories help to heal grief and that in turn paves the way to future pet relationships. I hope it will be the same for you.

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
49. What a cutie!
Mon May 21, 2018, 11:09 AM
May 2018

Remember all the good times throughout those 16 years. He was a lucky guy, he was a member of a loving family. Too bad all animals are not this lucky. Stay strong, it really is sad to say goodbye. The only bad part of having a pet is that the end comes way too soon. Handsome little fellow, isn't he?

anneboleyn

(5,611 posts)
50. What a handsome fellow! You gave Luka a beautiful life filled with love, and he returned the love
Mon May 21, 2018, 11:28 AM
May 2018

many times over. That pic shows that very clearly — that bright and spirited-looking good boy knows that he is cherished (such a great picture of him), and that you made his life a life of happiness — filled with people who petted him, cared for him, and spoke to him with love instead of indifference or worse. You let him sleep happily by his humans, and you rescued him from circumstances that could have ended in a very different way for him. You gave him food he loved to eat and a warm place to sleep and feel safe.

I can see in this picture that he knew all of that and that he loved his life with you.

I know the loss is terrible; I am so sorry for your loss. Please remember the love you gave him, which showed him the beauty of the world and the goodness we humans can show when we choose to be our best selves. And remember the love he gave you with every breath, every wag, every happy shiver when you gave him a good petting or tummy scratch or pat on the head.

samnsara

(17,606 posts)
52. Godspeed sweet Luka....
Mon May 21, 2018, 11:32 AM
May 2018

..Steve and family: I am so very sorry for the difficult..but loving..decision you will make for your best friend and fur child. They are never with us long enough. I am keeping you close to my heart and in my thoughts during this time of profound sadness and loss.


(((HUGS)))

 

packman

(16,296 posts)
54. He made your lives richer, you gave comfort and shelter, both gave love
Mon May 21, 2018, 11:33 AM
May 2018

Small comfort, but linger in the memories of those years. The passing of someone, something that was so much of our lives, leaves empty spaces in our lives.


SonofDonald

(2,050 posts)
56. So sorry, he looks like such a happy little guy
Mon May 21, 2018, 01:21 PM
May 2018

Family Member

If there's a heaven for Dogs he'll be there running in sunshine

And waiting for you

niyad

(113,076 posts)
57. (((((((((((Steve, Marta and Luka)))))))))
Mon May 21, 2018, 02:28 PM
May 2018

May the Lady of the Beasts take Her little one gently home, and send healing and comfort to the grieving family.

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