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gollygee

(22,336 posts)
Wed May 23, 2018, 05:28 PM May 2018

Boy Says Teacher Told Him It Will Be His Fault When Police Shoot Him At Age 16

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/10-year-old-teacher-police-shoot-him_us_5b0453e3e4b0740c25e5ee60?ncid=engmodushpmg00000004

Malachi Pearson, a 10-year-old black boy, says a teacher used the prospect of his death in a police shooting to chastise him when he was goofing off at school.

The fourth-grader at Rosehill Elementary School in Lenexa, Kansas, told FOX 4 that he was playing around with a friend in a lunch line when the unidentified teacher intercepted and pushed the two children apart, assuming they were fighting.

“She told me when you turn 16 and the police shoot you, the only person you can be mad at is yourself,” he said.

Malachi said the comment made him cry. His father was shot and killed in Kansas City when he was just an infant.

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Boy Says Teacher Told Him It Will Be His Fault When Police Shoot Him At Age 16 (Original Post) gollygee May 2018 OP
Making America Great Again IluvPitties May 2018 #1
Wypipo Dream Girl May 2018 #2
Cruel person... hlthe2b May 2018 #3
That Was My Thought Too Me. May 2018 #4
Is this actually proper usage of this term? ThirdEye May 2018 #28
A woman who would do this would surely go home and kick her dog as well. n/t Chemisse May 2018 #57
You'd be surprised... ThirdEye May 2018 #61
It is the environment that right wingers have created that encourages this. Caliman73 May 2018 #5
the teacher is wrong but how do you deal with a little monster dembotoz May 2018 #6
These are not monsters. They are children. gollygee May 2018 #9
Yes I do. dembotoz May 2018 #11
Which of the questions does that answer? gollygee May 2018 #14
Question for u... what do you do with a kid that warrants expulsion dembotoz May 2018 #17
I call the office to deal with them if they're that bad gollygee May 2018 #18
Also, this was a child goofing off, which children do gollygee May 2018 #19
Goofing off is a matter of definition . dembotoz May 2018 #22
There are people trained to handle it without threatening them with death gollygee May 2018 #24
so you automatically believe the kid? dembotoz May 2018 #25
Some kids but not kids who are goofing off in line gollygee May 2018 #26
if the kid deserves expulsion does that mean he is honest? dembotoz May 2018 #30
It doesn't freaking matter gollygee May 2018 #33
how do you define goof off in line??????????????????????????????????? dembotoz May 2018 #39
No, that isn't goofing off. That's assault. gollygee May 2018 #42
and you work in schools.....lol dembotoz May 2018 #46
No one gets expelled in grade school...most states have to provide full time teachers to tutor them Demsrule86 May 2018 #56
What happens when the kid is told he's going to get shot? Magically transformed? LanternWaste May 2018 #51
A kid is lined up which mean elementary school...and you expect behavior associated with an office.. Demsrule86 May 2018 #59
Not that way...if she can't do her job. She should find another profession. Demsrule86 May 2018 #15
you don't know that you have what the kid said dembotoz May 2018 #34
It doesn't matter. It takes a certain sort of person to teach. You never say things like that. Demsrule86 May 2018 #37
fire the teacher...due process be damned lol dembotoz May 2018 #38
There can be due process...but she should at the end be fired if she said what is claimed. Demsrule86 May 2018 #44
no i doubt she knew about the dad.....folders are painfully thin dembotoz May 2018 #49
I bet she did...it was a perfect thing for a monster teacher to say...you will end up just like Dad. Demsrule86 May 2018 #53
I live in a right to work state so firing can happen anytime for any reason or no reason. Demsrule86 May 2018 #47
and you support that....lol dembotoz May 2018 #50
Nope but I don't support what this teacher said...if she said it regardless of the circumstances she Demsrule86 May 2018 #54
Why the heck are you equating the OP's story Ilsa May 2018 #21
not determined if its kids being kids dembotoz May 2018 #32
So you assume the worst about kids. nt Ilsa May 2018 #45
Are you a teacher? Demsrule86 May 2018 #48
i know some inner city teachers well and i know you haven't a clue dembotoz May 2018 #52
I taught for 20 years....and in inner city schools some of the time hahaha...I should have known Demsrule86 May 2018 #55
sorry about the hahah...but honestly what do you know about this subject? Demsrule86 May 2018 #58
oh please don't do the black thing......the thing about calling the office....if the phones work dembotoz May 2018 #60
Racism and public execution are not the answers IronLionZion May 2018 #27
da plane da plane welcome to fantasy island dembotoz May 2018 #31
You don't make any sense IronLionZion May 2018 #36
and you do????????? dembotoz May 2018 #41
Nice fucking thread derail Cal Carpenter May 2018 #62
As far as I can determine, there is no mention of the teachers race... Ferrets are Cool May 2018 #7
I would bet money she was white. Demsrule86 May 2018 #16
So the kid gets identified by name, while the teacher remains anonymous. Crunchy Frog May 2018 #8
Yep, again.nt gollygee May 2018 #10
So this is how the wypipo use the shootings as a "teaching moment" ProudLib72 May 2018 #12
Same q as I have above - is this really what wypipo means? ThirdEye May 2018 #29
From checking on Twitter, it looks like gollygee May 2018 #40
Will everyone feel safer if teachers who talk like this have guns? struggle4progress May 2018 #13
Apparently the little monsters will deserve it. Crunchy Frog May 2018 #35
The teacher's reaction mercuryblues May 2018 #20
:( Starry Messenger May 2018 #23
They are now preemptively covering for societal racism and cops? NCTraveler May 2018 #43
Lenexa enid602 May 2018 #63

ThirdEye

(204 posts)
28. Is this actually proper usage of this term?
Thu May 24, 2018, 09:27 AM
May 2018

My understanding is that this was a label for oblivious and uncaring white people. For example, those that would be more willing to help a hurt dog than make justice reform a priority, but NOT necessarily overt racist bigots.

ThirdEye

(204 posts)
61. You'd be surprised...
Thu May 24, 2018, 01:32 PM
May 2018

plus I thought the entire point of the term was to identify people who seemed to have a massive disconnect from their personal feelings they are a good person (I love dogs!) from their true non-holistic nature (I'd save a drowning dog before a person)

Caliman73

(11,730 posts)
5. It is the environment that right wingers have created that encourages this.
Wed May 23, 2018, 05:48 PM
May 2018

There are so many ways that teacher could have responded. "Hey guys, it isn't a good idea to mess around like that, someone can get hurt, or angry, and then things get out of control and people get into trouble." OR "Hey, I really need you guys to focus so that everyone can get their lunch and enjoy their time".

That teacher needs to (or better yet, the principal needs to) ask what message they were trying to send with the stupid comment.

dembotoz

(16,799 posts)
6. the teacher is wrong but how do you deal with a little monster
Wed May 23, 2018, 06:09 PM
May 2018

I know of one....kid is just out of control.
Know the kids special ed teacher.
elementary
kid hitting others, throwing books, screaming and running down the halls...parents shrug
calling teachers names, swinging at teachers....disciplinary file literally an inch thick....I have seen it...have not read anything in it.....expulsion proceedings are underway but central office admin has added a delay so the kid is literally saved by the bell.
Appears expulsion has lots of paperwork and maybe the kid will move over the summer.....
this kid is just getting bigger, stronger and meaner

mainstream does not always work....

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
9. These are not monsters. They are children.
Wed May 23, 2018, 06:24 PM
May 2018

They were just goofing off during class, which happens. I've done a great deal of substitute teaching, and we get tons of this. There are tons of ways to handle this kind of thing.

Are you saying this was acceptable? What do you think should be done? And do you know any teachers?

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
14. Which of the questions does that answer?
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:23 PM
May 2018

You do know teachers? If so, have you talked to them about whether it's OK for teachers to say this to kids?

dembotoz

(16,799 posts)
17. Question for u... what do you do with a kid that warrants expulsion
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:53 PM
May 2018

Do you deal with those...they put the safety of themselves and others at risk...

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
18. I call the office to deal with them if they're that bad
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:54 PM
May 2018

I don't tell them they'll deserve it when they get shot in a few years.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
19. Also, this was a child goofing off, which children do
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:56 PM
May 2018

Not someone putting anyone's safety at risk.

dembotoz

(16,799 posts)
22. Goofing off is a matter of definition .
Wed May 23, 2018, 09:30 PM
May 2018

What happens to the kid who goes to the office?
Magically transformed?

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
24. There are people trained to handle it without threatening them with death
Thu May 24, 2018, 08:19 AM
May 2018

so people who are trained on how to speak to children.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
26. Some kids but not kids who are goofing off in line
Thu May 24, 2018, 09:07 AM
May 2018

And even kids who warrant expulsion shouldn't be spoken to like this. They are still children and human beings. There is NO excuse for anyone saying this to a child. I don't care what the child did.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
33. It doesn't freaking matter
Thu May 24, 2018, 09:35 AM
May 2018

What the heck? I don't care if he's honest or deserves expulsion - he still shouldn't be talked to like that.

And that's a huge jump you're making. You seem to think there's some likelihood that he deserves expulsion when there's nothing like that said anywhere, and what is said is that he did something incredibly common - goof off in a lunch line. That is so common that it happens in pretty much every line unless you keep the kids engaged somehow. Kids don't often do something so bad to require expulsion - especially kids that young - but kids that young routinely goof off while standing in lines. Why are you trying to turn this into something bigger than it appears to be?

dembotoz

(16,799 posts)
39. how do you define goof off in line???????????????????????????????????
Thu May 24, 2018, 10:41 AM
May 2018

smash a chair over a kids head? is that goofing off?

love how you throw the teacher under the bus without any facts...guess that is why we used to have unions

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
42. No, that isn't goofing off. That's assault.
Thu May 24, 2018, 10:44 AM
May 2018

The teacher wouldn't have gotten between kids throwing around chairs so that obviously isn't what happened. Teachers call the office when there's violence.

Kids play games when in line, and games between 9-year-old boys are like games between puppies. There's sometimes light pushing, so I can imagine a teacher thinking it might be a fight - or the start of one anyway - and getting between them. That is reasonable. Making them get out of line and go to the back and wait at the end of the line for lunch rather than the middle would be reasonable too. What the teacher said is not reasonable.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
56. No one gets expelled in grade school...most states have to provide full time teachers to tutor them
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:52 AM
May 2018

as they should.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
51. What happens when the kid is told he's going to get shot? Magically transformed?
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:43 AM
May 2018

What happens when the kid is told he's going to get shot? Magically transformed?

Six of one, half a dozen of the other... and each as fallacious and petulant as the other.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
59. A kid is lined up which mean elementary school...and you expect behavior associated with an office..
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:59 AM
May 2018

for heaven's sake...

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
15. Not that way...if she can't do her job. She should find another profession.
Wed May 23, 2018, 08:24 PM
May 2018

This kid did nothing you suggest...he was 'goofing' off...if that was a shooting offense this white girl would have been dead at 16. Teacher needs to go.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
37. It doesn't matter. It takes a certain sort of person to teach. You never say things like that.
Thu May 24, 2018, 10:31 AM
May 2018

I would fire that teacher. Also, since she probably knew the kid's Dad was shot, that makes it even more horrible.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
44. There can be due process...but she should at the end be fired if she said what is claimed.
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:01 AM
May 2018

Last edited Thu May 24, 2018, 11:40 AM - Edit history (1)

You understand she probably knew about the kid's Dad right...you can't talk to a student like that...it is just wrong...she should be fired after due process. I would also add she should not set foot in the classroom until the due process is over and hopefully she is fired. Teaching is a tough job, some can't cut it.

dembotoz

(16,799 posts)
49. no i doubt she knew about the dad.....folders are painfully thin
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:42 AM
May 2018

even when there is an iep.......


throw throw under the bus..................

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
53. I bet she did...it was a perfect thing for a monster teacher to say...you will end up just like Dad.
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:44 AM
May 2018

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
54. Nope but I don't support what this teacher said...if she said it regardless of the circumstances she
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:45 AM
May 2018

needs to go.

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
21. Why the heck are you equating the OP's story
Wed May 23, 2018, 09:26 PM
May 2018

with your personal anecdote? They aren't the same. These are kids being kids. They were in an environment with nomimal structure, so they start acting like little boys. Not anything like the special needs situation in your anecdote.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
55. I taught for 20 years....and in inner city schools some of the time hahaha...I should have known
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:48 AM
May 2018

you never taught. I went into business in Georgia as teaching there was a akin to child abuse...I never resorted to verbal abuse or any other sort of abuse...and I still get letters from my kids (and some friend me on facebook)...of course not everyone is cut out for teaching...which may include your 'friends'. I don't deny it is a hard job... so do it well are get another damn job. But let's not torture little kids as this poor excuse for a teacher allegedly did with her cruel comments.

Demsrule86

(68,552 posts)
58. sorry about the hahah...but honestly what do you know about this subject?
Thu May 24, 2018, 11:56 AM
May 2018

hearsay from your 'friends' who tell you inner city kids ( mostly Black) are monsters? There are some tough kids out there no doubt. And maybe your 'friends' need to seek new employment if they can't handle the job. I am 5 foot three and weigh 120 lbs...and somehow I managed to control high school kids...and this kid was younger.

dembotoz

(16,799 posts)
60. oh please don't do the black thing......the thing about calling the office....if the phones work
Thu May 24, 2018, 12:08 PM
May 2018

my point of reference is a totally out of control kid who should not be in a school setting....not safe for the other kids...and yet the kid remains......
you automatically believe the kid...i am not so fast
perhaps it is good you got out of education

and by the way the phones have been out for most of the year.....at least to parts of the school....

IronLionZion

(45,427 posts)
27. Racism and public execution are not the answers
Thu May 24, 2018, 09:24 AM
May 2018

There is training for teachers to deal with this sort of thing, especially when the kids are young. (Hook em while they're young) so they can get better not worse.

ThirdEye

(204 posts)
29. Same q as I have above - is this really what wypipo means?
Thu May 24, 2018, 09:29 AM
May 2018

My understanding is that this was a label for oblivious and uncaring white people. For example, those that would be more willing to help a hurt dog than make justice reform a priority, but NOT necessarily overt racist bigots.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
40. From checking on Twitter, it looks like
Thu May 24, 2018, 10:42 AM
May 2018

it could be used for white people who are overtly racist or who are unconsciously racist. Lots of times for people who aren't aware they are racist, but I bet if you asked this teacher they'd be incredulous at the suggestion anyone would consider them racist.

Crunchy Frog

(26,579 posts)
35. Apparently the little monsters will deserve it.
Thu May 24, 2018, 10:15 AM
May 2018

And at least some people on this board will happily defend it.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
43. They are now preemptively covering for societal racism and cops?
Thu May 24, 2018, 10:48 AM
May 2018

There are no ends as to how far they will go.

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