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The Volusia County Sheriff's Office said Saturday a woman who was held captive by her boyfriend for two days managed to slip a note to her vet reading, "Call the cops, my boyfriend is threatening me. He has a gun. Please don't let him know."
The note worked, and officers from the DeLand Police Department came and arrested the man, identified as 39-year-old Jeremy Floyd. Floyd is a convicted felon, according to the sheriff's office.
The woman told police Floyd had allegedly held her captive for two days and "repeatedly battered her on Wednesday night, threatened her at gunpoint, and physically prevented her from leaving their home." Finally, the woman managed to convince Floyd she needed to take their dog to the veterinarian, though he only did so while accompanying her with a gun, sheriffs said....
https://abcnews.go.com/US/woman-slips-note-veterinarian-boyfriend-holding-captive-police/story?id=55467851
Cha
(296,869 posts)art. Good on her.. her survival instincts kicked in beautifully!
Ferrets are Cool
(21,104 posts)even when these assholes get arrested, they are released and do harm to the women.
Bernardo de La Paz
(48,965 posts)marylandblue
(12,344 posts)The man gets all apologetic in jail and she foolishly takes him back. But this woman sounds stronger than that.
Ferrets are Cool
(21,104 posts)That vet provides excellent service.
Ligyron
(7,616 posts)robbob
(3,522 posts)Wacka-wacka! Sorry, I couldnt resist! 🤪
ooooops. I musta been thinking of June Cleaver.
PearliePoo2
(7,768 posts)The guy has a record of very bad behavior.
I am also surprised this creep allowed her to take the dog to the vet in the first place!
Usually if a person is a violent abuser of people, they will have a history of animal abuse also.
eggplant
(3,908 posts)How about we focus on the actual criminal, and not his victim?
Thank you, eggplant.
PearliePoo2
(7,768 posts)Have you ever said or thought or had an opinion that someone made a bad choice or decision? Ever?
My focus is on HER as a victim and for her safety, recovery and well-being for the rest of her life.
As for HIM, I hope he rots in prison and never gets out.
I also hope she gets in a program that protects her, because if/when he does get out of prison, the odds are good that he will go looking for her with bad intent.
eggplant
(3,908 posts)And when I was called out on it, I owned it, and acknowledged that I shouldn't have said anything of the sort. I learned from my mistake, and I am better for it.
You can, too.
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Duppers
(28,117 posts)Yes, often.
That was my first thought.
womanofthehills
(8,661 posts)more than he likes her or anyone. Some of these angry people cannot get along with anyone so they are into their dogs big time - but still would not think twice about kicking their "beloved" dog when angry.
I've seen him come home from work, not acknowledge her or me - just go to his dogs and love them up. She talks of leaving him but doesn't. My other friend finally left her right wing abuser husband and is living happily ever after with a f**king normal person.
Duppers
(28,117 posts)And so does my anger RW brother but he doesn't like TRump. He'd never harm one of his babies or anyone else's.
For some of us, it easier to love animals (and small children) than people.
I still hate hate hate his stupidity.
PearliePoo2
(7,768 posts)Was transported to the hospital by authorities. She had a head injury, a black eye and bruises on her arms.
The police found bullet holes in the walls of their home. Shots were fired when she struggled with him over possession of the gun. He then beat her repeatedly so bad she had to spend a day in bed before she talked him into going to the vet.
If this guy ever gets out of prison, I'm sure he will come looking for her. She better move far, far away and leave no trail.
Duppers
(28,117 posts)Had a friend decades ago who was living with an abusive husband. We all worked for the same company.
l was shocked to learn she had two bullets lodged in her arms but never reported it. Her seemingly sweet husband projected one persona to the public - very polite, kind, sweet, but he was terrible to her. I urged her to divorce him. She did.
We had then moved out of the state. Less than a year after the divorce, he murdered her. When I got the letter from her mother letting me know, I collapsed onto the floor. For years I felt guilt for being the main one who encouraged her to leave him. She may have at least stayed alive in that relationship. I agnognized and beat myself up. But her mom never blamed me - she and I corresponded for years until her death. I loved them both.
Francis was a special person. I'm wiping tears as I type.
Delphinus
(11,825 posts)Duppers
(28,117 posts)🙏
appalachiablue
(41,103 posts)3Hotdogs
(12,332 posts)Liberalagogo
(1,770 posts)The NRA will be so proud!
0rganism
(23,931 posts)right now i'd guess this possibly-quite-interesting side story will wither on the vine untold.
Crunchy Frog
(26,578 posts)As an already convicted felon, will he be facing a huge legal penalty for possessing illicit firearms?
marylandblue
(12,344 posts)malaise
(268,717 posts)We watched a show on Investigative Discovery last night where this wife escaped after seven days of the most horrific abuse by breaking a glass in a door and using a mop a as a crutch to reach a neighbor since she was too weak to walk. I was in tears - I could not believe anyone could be so cruel to another human being or even another animal in such a way. This was because she wanted to leave him temporarily.
SummerSnow
(12,608 posts)Some years back a good friend of mine husband was trying to kill her. We were to go out that morning, she was going to pick me up. It was no secret her husband was an abuser. Several times she would leave him and go back. This time was different. That morning we were supposed to go out, my phone rang and it was her husband. He said he was calling me and his wife wanted to talk to me. I thought this was odd cause he never called me and if she wanted to talk to me she would call me herself. She started talking on the phone and I did not ask her was she okay. I knew something was wrong but I didn't want to let on. She said to me 'remember that page in that book, page nine hundred and eleven, I want you to read that ok? I said sure I'll read it. She hung up the phone and I called 911 immediately and told them that my friends husband was trying to kill her. I gave them her address and when the police got there he had a rope tied around her throat and was trying to hang her. they took her to the ER and there were several cops there questioning her. I learned they had him in custody as well. She said he was planning on murdering her that day.he had huge black trash bags her was going to put her in. She also said he had tried to drown her in the bathtub. She said he was going to make it look like she was robbed and killed. I asked her why did he call me? She said she told him that we had a previous engagement that day and if I did not show I was going to get suspicious and come over that is why he allowed her to talk to me. He died last year of an illness
mia
(8,360 posts)So glad that you were able to save her.
Laffy Kat
(16,373 posts)Thank god you were there for her. You saved her life.