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demmiblue

(36,841 posts)
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 07:50 PM Aug 2018

"Gesture of love": Photo of police officer breastfeeding malnourished baby goes viral



A police officer in Argentina performed a "gesture of love" after she heard a crying baby that needed to be fed. Officer Celeste Ayala breastfed the malnourished infant, a moment that was captured in a photo and went viral on social media.

Ayala was working her shift Tuesday at Sor María Ludovica in Buenos Aires when the 6-month-old baby was brought in along with five of her siblings by social workers to the hospital, according to Argentine news outlet Clarin. The children were all malnourished and the little girl's cries prompted Ayala, a mother of a newborn herself, to do something.

With the permission of hospital staff, she sprang into action, comforting the baby and breastfeeding her until she stopped weeping. One of her colleagues caught the special interaction in a photo.

"I want to make public this great gesture of love that you made today with that baby, who you did not know, but for who you did not hesitate to act like a mother," said Marcos Heredia, who posted the image to Facebook. "Things like that are not seen every day."

https://www.cbsnews.com/news/celeste-ayala-baby-breastfeed-photo-viral-berisso-argentina-buenos-aires/?ftag=CNM-00-10aab7e&linkId=55799626


Brava, Officer Ayala!
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"Gesture of love": Photo of police officer breastfeeding malnourished baby goes viral (Original Post) demmiblue Aug 2018 OP
The power of LOVE FirstLight Aug 2018 #1
Women are amazing. MontanaMama Aug 2018 #2
Yes they are MontanaMama, If theres a blue wave it certainly will be lead by women............ Old Vet Aug 2018 #21
Make it so. n/t Beartracks Aug 2018 #48
Yes they are! workinclasszero Aug 2018 #32
My eyes are stinging with tears Hekate Aug 2018 #3
Mine, too, Hekate. tosh Aug 2018 #27
Mine, too. Scarsdale Aug 2018 #39
Mine too and my throat has a painful lump in it lunatica Aug 2018 #54
Madonna .... God bless her !! trueblue2007 Aug 2018 #4
Indeed, Brava, Officer Ayala GeoWilliam750 Aug 2018 #5
The officer's face... Tucker08087 Aug 2018 #6
When you see evil like a malnourished baby, it def will show up on your face. Nay Aug 2018 #11
Wow, I got the chills! PatSeg Aug 2018 #7
Only in Argentina.... AZ8theist Aug 2018 #8
We would see it if a compassionate nursing mother found herself in a similar situation, but Amaryllis Aug 2018 #9
I object to your use of "tard" as a pejorative suffix in this context. WhiskeyGrinder Aug 2018 #31
No need to limit your outburst to the religious. LanternWaste Aug 2018 #51
Trump would have her disciplined. lpbk2713 Aug 2018 #10
I was reminded of a few lines in We Were Soldiers. House of Roberts Aug 2018 #12
When I was young, I was told that I had a wet nurse at times. This was during WW2 demosincebirth Aug 2018 #55
Now you know what love is GETPLANING Aug 2018 #13
God bless her blueinredohio Aug 2018 #14
This is why I want more women in government. roamer65 Aug 2018 #15
More like Sarah Sanders? Kelly Ann Conway? Maybe an outsider like Ann Coulter? FiveGoodMen Aug 2018 #56
Best thing for that poor baby! SunSeeker Aug 2018 #16
Sure was! 2naSalit Aug 2018 #19
I thought the same thing. kag Aug 2018 #46
Message auto-removed Name removed Aug 2018 #17
Trump would be wanting to grab her boobs. Ilsa Aug 2018 #18
trDump would have pushed the baby away.... magicarpet Aug 2018 #40
I thought I read somewhere that the sound of a crying baby forgotmylogin Aug 2018 #20
Lactation... not exactly. GaYellowDawg Aug 2018 #22
Thanks for the clarification! forgotmylogin Aug 2018 #23
You're welcome! GaYellowDawg Aug 2018 #24
I posted minutes ago below before reading the thread. Duppers Aug 2018 #37
I never knew that about sirens! Chemisse Aug 2018 #41
Triggers milk ejection reflex. AllyCat Aug 2018 #26
k and r...wonderful... Stuart G Aug 2018 #25
What a beautiful story! Brava, Officer Ayala! CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2018 #28
I always had that let down reflex when I heard a crying baby... flying_wahini Aug 2018 #29
Would NEVER happen in the US Hulk Aug 2018 #30
You're right. She would be shamed even within her police department. Chemisse Aug 2018 #42
I was even expecting someone to say this was somehow treestar Aug 2018 #53
Pretty awesome. All babies need milk and if we could only get beyond the PatrickforO Aug 2018 #33
Similar to the ending in Steinbeck's DeminPennswoods Aug 2018 #34
That came to my mind, too... Wounded Bear Aug 2018 #36
thought of that treestar Aug 2018 #52
Omg. Duppers Aug 2018 #35
This is who we are podex101 Aug 2018 #38
Thanks for the uplifting comment. Chemisse Aug 2018 #43
An act of love Botany Aug 2018 #44
spectacular! GetRidOfThem Aug 2018 #45
Wow! That is so moving. Nitram Aug 2018 #47
im tearing up samnsara Aug 2018 #49
Me, too. The most caring thing we've seen in a long time. Vinca Aug 2018 #50
UPDATE: She received a promotion! demmiblue Aug 2018 #57

Old Vet

(2,001 posts)
21. Yes they are MontanaMama, If theres a blue wave it certainly will be lead by women............
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 09:21 PM
Aug 2018

Bravo to the policewoman

Scarsdale

(9,426 posts)
39. Mine, too.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 07:01 AM
Aug 2018

What a wonderful gesture. Love in action. I have a lump in my throat, for some reason.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
54. Mine too and my throat has a painful lump in it
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 04:46 PM
Aug 2018

A hungry baby is like god, if you believe in him, asking to be fed.

Tucker08087

(621 posts)
6. The officer's face...
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:05 PM
Aug 2018

People like her should do the job. People like her will do the job. The job eats away at the good ones. She’s so young, but you can see it in her face. I hope she continues on in her career.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
11. When you see evil like a malnourished baby, it def will show up on your face.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:31 PM
Aug 2018

Bless you, officer.

AZ8theist

(5,457 posts)
8. Only in Argentina....
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:19 PM
Aug 2018

Would we ever see something like this in America?? I have my doubts..

The religious creatards would be screaming about the "offensive" nature of the person involved....

That being said, I find the act of this policewoman a demonstration of humanity of the first order. She should be rewarded.

Amaryllis

(9,524 posts)
9. We would see it if a compassionate nursing mother found herself in a similar situation, but
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:24 PM
Aug 2018

you are right; many would find it offensive.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
51. No need to limit your outburst to the religious.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:31 PM
Aug 2018

No need to limit your outburst to the religious.... you're doing yourself a big (and irrational) disservice when you deny the additional demographics who oppose public breast feeding.

DU has its own secular fundamentalists who believe breast feeding in public is "uncivil", "just asking for attention", "disrespectful of those around her."

Heads-up for the future: just keep your eyes open for any breast-feeding thread-- it's chum for the "As a guy I would find it uncomfortable to see a women breastfeeding" crowd.

(all quotes pulled directly from previous breastfeeding threads)

lpbk2713

(42,754 posts)
10. Trump would have her disciplined.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:30 PM
Aug 2018


If that baby was one of the children Trump puts in cages the officer would be in a
lot of trouble because his jailers are not supposed to even touch those children.

House of Roberts

(5,168 posts)
12. I was reminded of a few lines in We Were Soldiers.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:33 PM
Aug 2018

"When Crazy Horse was a baby, he nursed at the breast of every woman in the tribe. The Sioux raised their children that way. Every warrior called every woman in the tribe "Mother". Every older warrior, they called him "Grandfather"

It's called "Milk Kinship" and has its own Wikipedia listing.

demosincebirth

(12,536 posts)
55. When I was young, I was told that I had a wet nurse at times. This was during WW2
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 05:16 PM
Aug 2018

I remember seeing a few women on street cars nursing their babies. This was in the forties and fifties. No big deal at
at the time.

FiveGoodMen

(20,018 posts)
56. More like Sarah Sanders? Kelly Ann Conway? Maybe an outsider like Ann Coulter?
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 06:50 PM
Aug 2018

Shit! I'm forgetting Laura Ingraham.

2naSalit

(86,569 posts)
19. Sure was!
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:57 PM
Aug 2018

Not only that, the baby's cries may have triggered her biological thing too making her lactate. Whatever, she did the right thing and I can only imagine that it is probably something about their culture that facilitated this action too.

kag

(4,079 posts)
46. I thought the same thing.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 11:29 AM
Aug 2018

I think it was supposed to be implicit in the story that hearing the child cry caused her "biological thing" to happen, i.e. her hormones to rush, causing her breasts to engorge with milk.

When women pump breastmilk for whatever reason, they are often told to look at a picture of their child in order to get their milk to come up. I had to do this when my child was lethargic from jaundice and had difficulty nursing. Worked like a charm.

As a previous commenter said...Women are amazing.

Response to demmiblue (Original post)

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
18. Trump would be wanting to grab her boobs.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 08:54 PM
Aug 2018

As if God made them only for him.

She's my hero for the day.

forgotmylogin

(7,527 posts)
20. I thought I read somewhere that the sound of a crying baby
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 09:02 PM
Aug 2018

actually triggers lactation in breastfeeding moms? I hope that's not just a piece of weird misinformation, but I know that the female hormone/endocrine system does of a lot of magical things.

GaYellowDawg

(4,446 posts)
22. Lactation... not exactly.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 09:28 PM
Aug 2018

There are two processes - milk production, which is triggered by prolactin, and milk letdown, which is triggered by oxytocin. Sounds can cause oxytocin production and milk letdown. Some women aren't responsive to sounds that way. Some experience milk letdown in response to just their own baby. Some in response to any baby. And, because sirens mimic the rise and fall in pitch of a baby (it's the reason why sirens are such an attention-getter; we're wired to respond to it), some women have milk letdown in response to sirens. It's not a universal response, but it is kind of magical. You may recognize oxytocin as the "bonding" hormone. It is also produced in a positive feedback mechanism during labor in order for uterine contractions to increase in intensity and frequency. That's why some women can experience uterine contractions during nursing for a short time postpartum.

And that policewoman is an incredible person.

forgotmylogin

(7,527 posts)
23. Thanks for the clarification!
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 09:30 PM
Aug 2018

I think I had read an anecdote about a mother who had ended breastfeeding and was shocked to find herself compelled to breastfeed when visiting another new mother.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
37. I posted minutes ago below before reading the thread.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 01:58 AM
Aug 2018

This happened to me all the time when I was nursing my son. If I heard an infant or baby cry anywhere, my milk was automatically triggered and I wanted to help the baby.

This is not just a human response - a few nursing animals will adopt and nurse other babies.

Chemisse

(30,809 posts)
41. I never knew that about sirens!
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 09:52 AM
Aug 2018

Luckily I never had that happen (or else I never made the connection). Imagine the hindrance that response would be to a breastfeeding emergency worker.

AllyCat

(16,180 posts)
26. Triggers milk ejection reflex.
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 09:39 PM
Aug 2018

Lots of breastfeeding mommas have dealt with this hearing babies crying in public.

flying_wahini

(6,589 posts)
29. I always had that let down reflex when I heard a crying baby...
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 09:58 PM
Aug 2018

I got that "must feed baby, NOW." Milk everywhere.
Always had to carry extra clothes, just in case.
 

Hulk

(6,699 posts)
30. Would NEVER happen in the US
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 10:27 PM
Aug 2018

Too many religious hypocrites and perverts. She would lose her job right away.

amerKKKa da gratest...

Chemisse

(30,809 posts)
42. You're right. She would be shamed even within her police department.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 09:55 AM
Aug 2018

It would be considered inappropriate, not heeding 'boundaries', and even sick and perverted by some.

I was in Panama recently, and breastfeeding in public - with the entire breast showing - was culturally acceptable.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
53. I was even expecting someone to say this was somehow
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:32 PM
Aug 2018

harmful or unsanitary - so far nothing in this thread at least.

PatrickforO

(14,570 posts)
33. Pretty awesome. All babies need milk and if we could only get beyond the
Mon Aug 20, 2018, 10:44 PM
Aug 2018

structural brutality of our world 'market' economy and back to that sense that we are all connected and all responsible for the welfare of all humans, all babies would get milk, and 25,000 people a day wouldn't starve to death on this planet.

Greed is killing our species.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
35. Omg.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 01:28 AM
Aug 2018

Yes!!! Bravo for this brave, beautiful mother. Nursing mothers usually have compassion for all babies.

I've nursed a neighbor's crying baby when I kept her for a few hrs. There was almost a year's different between my nursing son and her baby daughter. Without a backup bottle, I did what came natural.

Moms gotta do what moms gotta do. A crying infant cannot be ignored. A nursing mom's milk flows out when we hear crying infants. Nature just triggers us.



podex101

(53 posts)
38. This is who we are
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 03:54 AM
Aug 2018

Ladies and Gentlemen
This is who we are.... as humans we are inclined to help. I see acts of kindness everyday, every place.

“We only have what we give.”
― Isabel Allende

In all languages and religions and cultures..... we will survive because what you saw in this picture of the police officer breastfeeding the baby, happens, in different ways, all over the world a billion times over. It is just that the assholes that grab most of the headlines.

WE ARE BETTER THAN WHAT WE THINK WE ARE.

Thank you

Chemisse

(30,809 posts)
43. Thanks for the uplifting comment.
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 09:58 AM
Aug 2018

Sometimes I feel like we are surrounded by hatred and anger. It's good to notice the little things and realize we really are kind, by nature.

And welcome to DU!

Botany

(70,501 posts)
44. An act of love
Tue Aug 21, 2018, 10:11 AM
Aug 2018

I hope that child along w/his or her siblings grow up and become citizens of the world.

demmiblue

(36,841 posts)
57. UPDATE: She received a promotion!
Thu Aug 23, 2018, 06:49 PM
Aug 2018
Argentine Woman Who Breastfed Abandoned 7-Month Old Child Gets Promoted ''

Area woman with beating heart reminds us all what compassion looks like.

On August 14, six malnourished children who had been separated from their parents for undisclosed reasons arrived at Buenos Aires children’s hospital. Celeste Jaqueline Ayala, a 27-year-old officer who was making rounds at the facility, noticed that the youngest of the group was especially distraught. Being a mother of two, including a baby of 16 months, Ayala recognized the hunger cry and offered to breastfeed him. Ayala’s male colleague, Marcos Heredia, was shocked at the kind gesture, and posted the image above to Facebook. Praise-filled comments ensued, the post made the rounds on social media, and now things are changing for the hardworking officer.

Ayala has been a police officer for three years, and says she often works extra hours to get by (in a recent conversation with Cronica, she divulged her salary: 20,000 pesos, or about $1,060). After her breastfeeding feet, the New York Times reports that after her good deed, Ayala was promoted from officer to sargeant.

Ayala said she was just doing what she knew was right. She told Cronica, “I didn’t doubt it for a second. I gave him my breast and he calmed down.”

https://jezebel.com/argentine-woman-who-breastfed-abandoned-7-month-old-chi-1828557736?utm_campaign=socialfow_jezebel_twitter&utm_medium=socialflow&utm_source=jezebel_twitter


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