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LuckyCharms

(17,425 posts)
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:00 PM Sep 2018

What was it like before abortion was legal?

I have to believe that making them illegal will cause a huge uptick in deaths and injuries among women of child bearing years.

I had a relative that used to perform abortions in motels. I found a newspaper article about it when he was sent to prison for 5 years. I then started asking family members, and found out the entire story. He wasn't anything close to a medical professional. Far far from it. He was just an average criminal. And he was performing abortions on high school girls. In motels. Oh yeah, and in vehicles too. His nickname was "Doctor B". He didn't have a high school education.

Those days sound like they were pretty dark in this regard.

So, if Roe is shot down, I guess we just regress several decades. We go back to some dirtbag sticking coat hangers into frightened women?

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What was it like before abortion was legal? (Original Post) LuckyCharms Sep 2018 OP
Women will always get abortions. But when abortion is illegal, women die. That's it. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2018 #1
I think that is what they want. For women who get abortions to die. smirkymonkey Sep 2018 #3
They want to punish women, whether with death or injury, or by saddling them with a child. WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2018 #5
Yeah don't think it will just end safe abortions workinclasszero Sep 2018 #32
More people wanted abortion repealed than bothered to protest to not repealt donkeypoofed Sep 2018 #2
I don't think that at all. thucythucy Sep 2018 #7
No elleng Sep 2018 #12
Rich women could get them, usually by going out of the country. The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2018 #4
Yep. Motel room, abortionist having a few shots of rye, barbecue skewers, blood spreading. Shrike47 Sep 2018 #6
Hello "Barefoot and pregnant". BigmanPigman Sep 2018 #8
That has crossed my mind, too! Rhiannon12866 Sep 2018 #17
It was the older Irish citizens who voted to keep abortion illegal. BigmanPigman Sep 2018 #18
Exactly, those who would no longer be affected. Rhiannon12866 Sep 2018 #19
In what state? jberryhill Sep 2018 #9
Correct. J_William_Ryan Sep 2018 #13
Horrifying underthematrix Sep 2018 #10
States will jump in, elleng Sep 2018 #11
True J_William_Ryan Sep 2018 #16
If you had the means it was done quietly and discreetly. spiderpig Sep 2018 #14
That's right truly affects those in poverty the most lunasun Sep 2018 #29
Women died. Rhiannon12866 Sep 2018 #15
There was an underground river of information that PoindexterOglethorpe Sep 2018 #20
In some cities, the local mob was the conduit for illegal abortions EffieBlack Sep 2018 #23
I was in college in the mid 60's. In Utah leftyladyfrommo Sep 2018 #21
There will be a black market for mifepristone, Ilsa Sep 2018 #22
Like Argentina is now RussBLib Sep 2018 #24
I had an experience with a friend in high school mountain grammy Sep 2018 #25
When I was in college (early 60s) everyone knew about - DURHAM D Sep 2018 #26
Russia tried banning abortion during Soviet Union AlexSFCA Sep 2018 #27
What was it like? TreasonousBastard Sep 2018 #28
Those who were wealthier radical noodle Sep 2018 #30
Sherri Finkbine from Arizona - a huge news story kskiska Sep 2018 #33
Yes, thank you radical noodle Sep 2018 #41
My childhood doctor's daughter died from a botched abortion. Cracklin Charlie Sep 2018 #36
There was a shame about unmarried pregnancy then radical noodle Sep 2018 #42
I grew up in New York Yupster Sep 2018 #31
Women will always find a way. secondwind Sep 2018 #34
Doctors performed a lot more D&C procedures eleny Sep 2018 #35
My great-grandmother died from an illegal/unsafe abortion. OhioBlue Sep 2018 #37
In my small town frogmarch Sep 2018 #38
What happened when the girl was very young, (like 11), was she forced carry the baby, or did they Meadowoak Sep 2018 #39
I went to college in Northern Indiana. murielm99 Sep 2018 #40

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,326 posts)
1. Women will always get abortions. But when abortion is illegal, women die. That's it.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:01 PM
Sep 2018

Women will always get abortions. Always.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
3. I think that is what they want. For women who get abortions to die.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:04 PM
Sep 2018

They think they deserve it for having sex that isn't meant for procreation.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,326 posts)
5. They want to punish women, whether with death or injury, or by saddling them with a child.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:06 PM
Sep 2018

It's all about punishment for them.

 

workinclasszero

(28,270 posts)
32. Yeah don't think it will just end safe abortions
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:49 PM
Sep 2018

when Kavanaugh and the Trump packed court overturns Roe.

The Evangelical right will push hard to make any attempt at an abortion a first degree murder charge.

No exceptions for rape, incest or birth defects either.

donkeypoofed

(2,187 posts)
2. More people wanted abortion repealed than bothered to protest to not repealt
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:01 PM
Sep 2018

The will of the people wins again.

thucythucy

(8,045 posts)
7. I don't think that at all.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:07 PM
Sep 2018

Hillary Clinton won the popular vote by three million, and a lot of that was due to the fact that she is pro-choice, while Trump is anti-woman.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,672 posts)
4. Rich women could get them, usually by going out of the country.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:05 PM
Sep 2018

Poor women would go to doctors who weren't doctors, or tried to do it themselves, and sometimes they got fatal infections; or else they had babies they couldn't take care of.

Shrike47

(6,913 posts)
6. Yep. Motel room, abortionist having a few shots of rye, barbecue skewers, blood spreading.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:07 PM
Sep 2018

People had abortions then, it was just a whole lot more dangerous and nasty. Of course, the wealthy went to a foreign country where it was legal.

BigmanPigman

(51,584 posts)
8. Hello "Barefoot and pregnant".
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:13 PM
Sep 2018

Who would have thought that Ireland would be more advanced on this issue than the US?

BigmanPigman

(51,584 posts)
18. It was the older Irish citizens who voted to keep abortion illegal.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:35 PM
Sep 2018

The younger citizens made change happen. We can stop Kavanaugh if we really try. Some Irish voters that were in other countries actually flew back to Ireland just to cast their vote in the historic election. I hope our country doesn't get to that point and we take action NOW! (202)224-3121 is the DC operator for the various senators' phone numbers.

Rhiannon12866

(205,173 posts)
19. Exactly, those who would no longer be affected.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:38 PM
Sep 2018

Just like the majority male Supreme Court in this country. Thanks for the post!

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
9. In what state?
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:15 PM
Sep 2018

It’s not as if there was a uniform national law. Things very much depended on what state one was in.

J_William_Ryan

(1,752 posts)
13. Correct.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:24 PM
Sep 2018

And that will be the case after Roe is overturned.

But abortion was available to many women, performed by doctors in hospitals and clinics – it simply wasn’t called ‘abortion.’

As already noted, low income women, those without means, were forced to jeopardize their health and lives.

elleng

(130,864 posts)
11. States will jump in,
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:19 PM
Sep 2018

making it tolerable in some places and very difficult in others; no uniform effect.

J_William_Ryan

(1,752 posts)
16. True
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:30 PM
Sep 2018

For most states – blue states in particular – Roe being overturned will be moot, as they’ll continue to recognize a woman’s right to privacy.

States hostile to privacy rights will be at liberty to criminalize abortion, however pointless and ridiculous that might be.

spiderpig

(10,419 posts)
14. If you had the means it was done quietly and discreetly.
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:25 PM
Sep 2018

I grew up in a red state, and it happened all the time.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,841 posts)
20. There was an underground river of information that
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:44 PM
Sep 2018

women tapped into. Sometimes it got them an abortion that didn't kill or maim them. Sometimes they weren't so lucky.

Desperate women did anything to abort. I remember those days.

A book that is a pretty good depiction of that time is The Afternoon Women by Lael Tucker Wertenbaker. A doctor who's daughter died from a botched abortion is some time after approached by a woman wanting to terminate her pregnancy. When he refuses, and asks her why she'd even dream he'd do such a thing, she replied, "Because of what happened to your daughter." He is stunned, and even though he doesn't give that woman an abortion, he thinks long and hard, and the next woman who approaches him, he does it. And again. Eventually his practice becomes one in which he performs abortions in the afternoons, hence the title. I read it when it first came out, which was 1970. We had no idea Roe v Wade was coming. The book is available on Amazon, but oddly enough there are no reviews.

leftyladyfrommo

(18,868 posts)
21. I was in college in the mid 60's. In Utah
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:46 PM
Sep 2018

I had a friend who went to Mexico. And I had a friend who went to Oregon.

A lot of women died. They would go to some back alley abortionist and often ended up in the hospital due to perforations or horrible infections. Often the abortions were done in filthy motel rooms. Other women tried to do it themselves with coat hangers or by drinking some awful poison. Women died agonizing deaths.

It was doubly bad then because women who got pregnant out of wedlock were made outcasts. Having a bastard child was the ultimate sin. Having an abortion was a huge sin, too.

It was ok for men to be sexually active. Boys will be boys afterall. But women who were sexually active were whores.

And then along came the feminists like Gloria Steinem and things began to change.

Ilsa

(61,694 posts)
22. There will be a black market for mifepristone,
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 10:53 PM
Sep 2018

misoprostol, and methotrexate for early term abortions. Midterm abortions will be more dangerous and deadly since they will be surgical.

RussBLib

(9,006 posts)
24. Like Argentina is now
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:10 PM
Sep 2018

Women dying daily in Argentina from botched or unsafe abortions. Scary, and I hope American women will not put up with this garbage.

Google it.

mountain grammy

(26,619 posts)
25. I had an experience with a friend in high school
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:17 PM
Sep 2018

in the sixties. It was horrific. I'll never forget it. The thought of illegal abortions make me sick. Men are disgusting and depraved to do this to women and we're crazy if we allow it. It has nothing to do with killing unborn children, but everything to do with controling women. We really had no rights until Roe. And the votes of women helped make this happen. I can't even think anymore.

DURHAM D

(32,609 posts)
26. When I was in college (early 60s) everyone knew about -
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:19 PM
Sep 2018
The Davalos Clinic in Juarez was a well-known and well-used abortion clinic. It was closed down in 1969. The February 13, 1969 Albuquerque News reported that a report on the Clinic prepared by five University of New Mexico Medical students says that the Clinic performed at least 60 to 80 abortions a week and that about 90% of these were on women from the United States


If you did not have the means to travel to Mexico it was back alley.

I recently mentioned the Davalos Clinic during a conversation I was having about Roe v. Wade with two women my age. One was from Michigan and the other from Illinois. They both knew what I was talking about.

AlexSFCA

(6,137 posts)
27. Russia tried banning abortion during Soviet Union
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:25 PM
Sep 2018

They lost a lot of men during WWII and needed to rebuild population. Turns out, banning abortions leads to reduced birth rate. This is because women fertility health is worse due to botched abortions. Many won’t ever be able to have a child again. Even under putin abortions are legal in russia. Just think of how far back concervatives want to push America. I am not sure Roberts will be ok with overturning row v wade, I think it could be more incremental, e.g. banning late term abortions. Robers has testified on multiple ocassions that he considers roe v wade a settled law. Remember, overturning ACA was a no brainer for someone like Roberts, even Kennedy was on board.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
28. What was it like?
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:37 PM
Sep 2018

Unwanted children.

Dead, or severely injured, women.

Farms and institutions where pregnant girls were sent to have their babies out of sight from their "Christian" neighbors. Babies which were often taken from them.

And a society that happily let all of this happen while looking the other way.

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
30. Those who were wealthier
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:49 PM
Sep 2018

and who had physician friends could often get them done quietly. They weren't as safe as they are now but were safer than those who had to go to a back alley.

A few years before Roe, a woman who had taken Thalidomide got a lot of press coverage about her trip to Europe to have an abortion. I don't remember there being much discussion of abortion until the 60s when so many babies were being born with birth defects due to Thalidomide.

In the mid 60s, I had a miscarriage at 5-1/2 months and the doctor told me to just dump the fetus (we buried it in a little tin box) but the doctor said it could just be thrown in a ditch. No one then looked at pre-birth babies as having rights. That didn't come until abortion became legal.

My guess is that there will be better black market abortions now if they become illegal, but only if you have some money. For the poor, the danger would be very real.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
36. My childhood doctor's daughter died from a botched abortion.
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 12:16 AM
Sep 2018

One of the wealthiest families in town. They loved their daughter and would have helped her, if only she had told them of her condition.

The family never really recovered.

radical noodle

(8,000 posts)
42. There was a shame about unmarried pregnancy then
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 12:32 PM
Sep 2018

and the wealthiest, who might have been saved by telling her parents were victims of that shame.

I just happen to know one who was lucky enough to confide in her parents.

Yupster

(14,308 posts)
31. I grew up in New York
Mon Sep 3, 2018, 11:49 PM
Sep 2018

Abortion was legal in New York long before Roe versus Wade and would be legal long after R vs W.

OhioBlue

(5,126 posts)
37. My great-grandmother died from an illegal/unsafe abortion.
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 12:16 AM
Sep 2018

She had 3 small children at at the time and an alcoholic husband. I am guessing this would have been 1918-1919. I don't know what circumstances she found herself in. I don't know if she lived with family or depended on them for assistance or was working to try and keep up a home with an absentee husband....

Whatever her circumstances, she was obviously desperate to care for her 3 children and the thought of a fourth made her feel that care would be jeopardized either by another mouth to feed or her decreased ability to provide through pregnancy and nursing an infant.

After her death, my grandmother and her sister went to live with their Aunt (their mother's sister) and I believe their brother either went to live with his father or father's family.

I remember a discussion with Senator Sherrod Brown's late mother, Emily and several older Democratic ladies at a luncheon in '08 as they were discussing women they knew that had died from illegal and unsafe abortions. Some had no children, some had children that were then brought up by family members.

Looking back, it reminds me of the results of the opioid crisis of today, except that it only affected women. Young lives lost and orphaned children.

Note: I absolutely do not intend to compare addiction to abortion - just the affects of losing young lives, the sadness and devastation that it brings to family and community.

frogmarch

(12,153 posts)
38. In my small town
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 12:30 AM
Sep 2018

some doctors did the D and C procedure (dialation and curretage) for friends of mine who wanted abortions - oops, make that, who had heavy menstrual cycles with lots of cramping.

I assumed that everyone who had their uterus scraped was actually having an abortion.

Meadowoak

(5,545 posts)
39. What happened when the girl was very young, (like 11), was she forced carry the baby, or did they
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 12:46 AM
Sep 2018

Have a way to abort in special circumstances?

murielm99

(30,733 posts)
40. I went to college in Northern Indiana.
Tue Sep 4, 2018, 03:04 AM
Sep 2018

Women at that time used a service called Jane Collective. It was based in Chicago. It was very quiet, using only word of mouth to help pregnant women.

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