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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsDU photo pros - can you grab Christine Blasey's 1983 school photo?
Its used here under the 5th subject.
https://heavy.com/news/2018/09/christine-blasey-ford/
We need to use this photo of the child who was assaulted. She could be anyones daughter or granddaughter, or sister. Even many Republican senators.
Leghorn21
(13,523 posts)blm
(113,013 posts)Last edited Wed Sep 19, 2018, 03:45 PM - Edit history (1)
I havent seen it on fb or twitter.
blm
(113,013 posts)the one of her taken the year after? The difference in her face is striking. As if she aged 5yrs after the trauma.
Leghorn21
(13,523 posts)blm
(113,013 posts)We see the story she told. They dont see it. Feel free to delete.
Leghorn21
(13,523 posts)going to disappear it!!
Take care, b
blm
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honest.abe
(8,614 posts)blm
(113,013 posts)The one you posted is from college and is more widespread. But, thankyou for taking the time.
On edit...I was mistaken on timing of your photo. It is of Christine in her senior year which would be a year or two after the assault. Mea culpa.
honest.abe
(8,614 posts)Christine Blaseys page in Scribe 1984 her yearbook from Holton Arms School. On her page she quotes song lyrics, writes a letter to her family and includes a photo of her and her brothers.
blm
(113,013 posts)I thought the older photo of her was from college, because she looks so much older than she did just a year earlier.
honest.abe
(8,614 posts)She definitely looks much older there.
blm
(113,013 posts)I know many women who cut or changed their hair after being sexually assaulted.
blm
(113,013 posts)demeanor. Truly haunting.
honest.abe
(8,614 posts)Especially in her eyes. Sad.
blm
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JI7
(89,240 posts)more fear, worry. while the first is more normal smiling school girl.
blm
(113,013 posts)in its own post and direct people to observe the difference. I think its unmistakeable.
madaboutharry
(40,190 posts)you understand how she was just a young girl and must have been so traumatized by two boys dragging her in a room and assaulting her.
salin
(48,955 posts)I am not that familiar with heavy.com but guessing either they have a very right leaning readership, or some rw site has tagged this article and their minions have flocked the comments.
blm
(113,013 posts)Surprisingly, the left sites havent found it to use. I think it is a VERY important component.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)I am so upset after reading those comments. Is this normal for this site? It makes me never want to go back there if that is the kind of audience they attract.
salin
(48,955 posts)but don't read it that often.
But I have seen an item on a centrist or left site - get swarmed by rw trolls based on some publicity on the article/item being posted in some dark rw corner of the net.
JI7
(89,240 posts)even saw the regular du troll who doesn't regularly post do so on this issue.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,308 posts)blm
(113,013 posts)If you cant relate then move on - some of us can relate and can empathize with both photos.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,308 posts)This sets a very specific bar for future victims to reach. And in some cases, it's unreachable.
blm
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WhiskeyGrinder
(22,308 posts)blm
(113,013 posts)as SHE has told it. I believe the trauma has been a lasting one for her even after all these years. In the second photo it was still fresh. Some of us see it and some of you dont. Leave it at that, but, it most certainly isnt wrong for those of us who do. And certainly isnt malicious.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,308 posts)doesn't help other victims.
blm
(113,013 posts)their attackers get away with it because of societys refusal to examine the culture that allows it to continue, and even rewards the attacker.
She made it public knowing it would shape the arguments on both sides. I see the photos as evidentiary and that the trauma shows on her young face. And you dont. Enough.
WhiskeyGrinder
(22,308 posts)way she does in any of these photos, and your insistence that these photos are some kind of special evidence only you and a few others can "see" and "understand" implies that trauma is visible and visible effects of trauma are irrefutable evidence. What of the victims who don't have the look you insist should be seen by everyone?
blm
(113,013 posts)I never said what you are claiming. If anything you are the one insisting that only your view is correct. I said I see them as evidentiary, and some see the same. I dontinsist that everyone see it my way, because we all have different life experiences and observations and we express them here. Mine arent 100% perfect every time and neither are yours.
I feel my observation on this is accurate because I am familiar with that secret pain I see in the latter photo. Now....isnt that enough for you?
mythology
(9,527 posts)That they don't "look" like victims in some random person's eyes. There is literally no correct way to be a victim.
After a sexual assault, women can experience a wide range of reactions. It is very important to note that there is no single pattern of response. Some women respond immediately, others may have delayed reactions. Some women are affected by the assault for a long time, but others appear to recover more quickly.
In the time just after a sexual assault, many women report feeling shock, confusion, anxiety, and/or numbness. Sometimes women will experience feelings of denial. In other words, they may not fully accept what has happened to them or they may downplay the intensity of the experience. This reaction may be more common among women who are assaulted by someone they know.
https://www.ptsd.va.gov/public/ptsd-overview/women/sexual-assault-females.asp
If it were easy to look at somebody and see who they really are, Jeffrey Dahmer wouldn't have had 17 victims. You are looking at the pictures with the knowledge of what happened and applying that to the pictures. Your bias is clouding your judgement.
blm
(113,013 posts)I dont expect all to react the same way to what happens to them, but, I do recognize it when I see a shared pain in the face of others.
obamanut2012
(26,046 posts)The OP with her photos is really terrible, and has no place on DU.