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tulipsandroses

(5,122 posts)
Wed Sep 19, 2018, 08:22 PM Sep 2018

I am not the same person I was at 17 yrs old -Don't judge me for what I did when I was a teenager

I've heard this argument so many times this week - even from well meaning democrats-
Yes, I did some crazy things at that age - I was an immature little punk myself. Ran with a tough crowd. The difference is, I own it I've learned from my mistakes and growing pains. I am not still lying about it and pretending it never happened. I don't want to be judged today for the things that I did all those years ago.

However, if someone from my past brought up something that I did and I lied about it and said it never happened, then I should be judged for it. I can't pretend to be this changed person if I am lying about the awful things that I did even if I am no longer doing them.

Point is, no matter how changed you claim to be today, if you are lying about your past, when confronted and not owning what you did. Then you can't claim to be a changed person.

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I am not the same person I was at 17 yrs old -Don't judge me for what I did when I was a teenager (Original Post) tulipsandroses Sep 2018 OP
Excellent points! InAbLuEsTaTe Sep 2018 #1
I did some dumb - really dumb - things as a 17 year-old. TomSlick Sep 2018 #2
This, there's stupid, there's even stupid criminal acts like shoplifting or even getting into fights mythology Sep 2018 #3
I didn't try to rape anyone as a teen or after. Blue_true Sep 2018 #4
In my entire male life GusBob Sep 2018 #5

TomSlick

(11,088 posts)
2. I did some dumb - really dumb - things as a 17 year-old.
Wed Sep 19, 2018, 09:18 PM
Sep 2018

However, I never once put my hand over a girl's mouth as I tugged on her clothing.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
3. This, there's stupid, there's even stupid criminal acts like shoplifting or even getting into fights
Wed Sep 19, 2018, 09:20 PM
Sep 2018

Then there's attempted rape.

GusBob

(7,286 posts)
5. In my entire male life
Wed Sep 19, 2018, 09:32 PM
Sep 2018

If I ever mistreated a woman, my pop, my mom, my brothers,

Shit, our family dogs, would tear me to shreds

This entitled hunk of fuck preppy wouldnt last a minute in our family

Now he is protected

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