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UncleTomsEvilBrother

(945 posts)
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:25 PM Sep 2018

Are DEMS overplaying Kavanaugh's sexual assault so close to the midterm?

I'm sitting here remembering how absolutely horrified I was when 45 said, "Grab them by the P*ssy." I remember seeing the sadness in the eyes of the 19 women who came forward to accuse him of sexual assault. I watched him say that Megyn Kelly had blood coming out of whatever.

I'm sure you can appreciate, then, how astonished I was to find that 53% of white women voted for Trump.

Obviously, Dr. Ford needs her story heard. I believe her. I'm just wondering if DEMS, who have openly said they are depending on college educated white women to win midterms, should be so invested in the narrative surrounding Kavanaugh.

For some reason, focusing on sexual assault did not win 2016. What makes us think it'll win now?

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Are DEMS overplaying Kavanaugh's sexual assault so close to the midterm? (Original Post) UncleTomsEvilBrother Sep 2018 OP
Playing infers this is some sort of game. It's not to women. I'd rephrase the fuck outta this OP. bettyellen Sep 2018 #1
I felt the same way that you put in words. Blue_true Sep 2018 #33
Just because everything the GOP does is played like a game doesn't make this one! I hate that some bettyellen Sep 2018 #85
It is one thing among many things that should be discussed. guillaumeb Sep 2018 #2
That concerns me too. NurseJackie Sep 2018 #3
lol.nt BootinUp Sep 2018 #16
Huh? manor321 Sep 2018 #4
It's not a matter of overplaying, or playing at all. It happened when it happened The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2018 #5
+100000000000 Little Star Sep 2018 #10
totally agree nt steve2470 Sep 2018 #22
That's what I was going to say. dchill Sep 2018 #28
Exactly. Dems are playing the hand they were dealt. ooky Sep 2018 #29
OMG yes gollygee Sep 2018 #46
Too Many Americans Had Naive Expectations With Respect to Trump dlk Sep 2018 #6
The Democrats aren't over playing anything. This story has legs on its own, and the media is still_one Sep 2018 #7
Here they come. BumRushDaShow Sep 2018 #8
Senate committee is forcing this upon us. elleng Sep 2018 #9
no shanny Sep 2018 #11
"DEMS" always support women. Full stop. Fred Sanders Sep 2018 #12
If the Dems don't fight they're called wimps Downtown Hound Sep 2018 #13
+1000 Bettie Sep 2018 #23
Thank you mcar Sep 2018 #31
You do know... UncleTomsEvilBrother Sep 2018 #37
And I gave you an answer Downtown Hound Sep 2018 #42
Please... UncleTomsEvilBrother Sep 2018 #44
Well then, If you're not going to read my posts I'll stop reading yours Downtown Hound Sep 2018 #45
I think the wording of your OP may not convey spooky3 Sep 2018 #63
Will you marry me? leftynyc Sep 2018 #60
I am already taken. Very sorry. Downtown Hound Sep 2018 #64
Me too leftynyc Sep 2018 #68
Yeah, sure. Such transparent bs. brush Sep 2018 #58
Ding ding malaise Sep 2018 #74
When would it be more convenient or politically expedient for women to finally get justice? n/t Blaukraut Sep 2018 #66
overplaying? wtf? 0rganism Sep 2018 #14
What an odd question for an "ally" to ask. Tarheel_Dem Sep 2018 #15
+1 nt steve2470 Sep 2018 #18
And how odd to continuously capitalize DEMS forgotmylogin Sep 2018 #43
Dems don't play MaryMagdaline Sep 2018 #17
Nope. Nice try.... MineralMan Sep 2018 #19
no overplaying or playing being done here steve2470 Sep 2018 #20
This message was self-deleted by its author tenderfoot Sep 2018 #21
Too bad there is no Unrec for this transparent OP. Kingofalldems Sep 2018 #24
The assault is a legitimate concern. roamer65 Sep 2018 #25
It's the right thing to do dawg day Sep 2018 #26
Um no. MFM008 Sep 2018 #27
So we should just drop it? mcar Sep 2018 #30
How can someone overplay a value? Blue_true Sep 2018 #32
No. It's not a game. tymorial Sep 2018 #34
OH, Jesus. Go away. Squinch Sep 2018 #35
Nice hit-and-run post! GoCubsGo Sep 2018 #36
I was only using "overplaying"... UncleTomsEvilBrother Sep 2018 #38
This has nothing to do with winning elections. GoCubsGo Sep 2018 #47
Post removed Post removed Sep 2018 #40
Healthcare, gun control and women's health can be overplayed? What the fuck? Squinch Sep 2018 #51
You know who thinks sexual assault, healthcare, gun control and women's health are "overplayed"? MrsCoffee Sep 2018 #77
Not just no, but hell no Hekate Sep 2018 #39
Oh FFS... SidDithers Sep 2018 #41
Two recs for your thread ChubbyStar Sep 2018 #48
Not sure if trolling Separation Sep 2018 #49
How is the weather in St. Petersburg this time of year? winstars Sep 2018 #50
Was thinking the same thing myself. Separation Sep 2018 #55
The "Dems suck" crowd are well on the way here. Be vigilant. winstars Sep 2018 #70
Lots of this from low post count marybourg Sep 2018 #54
I agree. Separation Sep 2018 #59
No. Liberal In Texas Sep 2018 #52
How do you "overplay" sexual assault? n/t chillfactor Sep 2018 #53
Civil people do not.... there is no "playing" ChubbyStar Sep 2018 #56
How much trouble is it to spell out the word "Democrats?" Glorfindel Sep 2018 #57
Typing on a small tablet with clumsy arthritic fingers, I often abbreviate Dems. nt tblue37 Sep 2018 #72
No offense intended, tblue37. I guess I'm showing my age. Glorfindel Sep 2018 #75
Um ... no. EffieBlack Sep 2018 #61
Are you underplaying the importance of opposing sexual assault? LiberalFighter Sep 2018 #62
I see that your deep, deep concern has not garnered much support or sympathy Hekate Sep 2018 #65
I Don't think so. You can't overplay young women being raped. njhoneybadger Sep 2018 #67
Feeling you overplayed your hand vercetti2021 Sep 2018 #69
Low post member, check. "Concern", check. Dems are making a mistake, check. denbot Sep 2018 #71
You made my list with this one. pwb Sep 2018 #73
No. I think his perjury and political hackery need to be mentioned more often... JHB Sep 2018 #76
you seem very concerned ! Are DEMS overplaying NO but this OP is . stonecutter357 Sep 2018 #78
Thanks for asking Zambero Sep 2018 #79
assaults dont take vacations samnsara Sep 2018 #80
No: tazkcmo Sep 2018 #81
It depends on how the testimony goes, in the end customerserviceguy Sep 2018 #82
No ellie Sep 2018 #83
53 percent of white women voters picked Trump largely because of racism, so we're good! WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2018 #84
No. They're kicking ass at last. I'm tired of 'keeping our powder dry.' Aristus Sep 2018 #86
 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
1. Playing infers this is some sort of game. It's not to women. I'd rephrase the fuck outta this OP.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:26 PM
Sep 2018

But that’s just me.
And FYI- the GOP is bleeding Dem women.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
85. Just because everything the GOP does is played like a game doesn't make this one! I hate that some
Sun Sep 23, 2018, 09:33 PM
Sep 2018

of us only see it that way. The fight against Kavanaugh is not a game for any of us to sit in the side lines. It’s simply the right thing to do.

guillaumeb

(42,641 posts)
2. It is one thing among many things that should be discussed.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:27 PM
Sep 2018

And it points out yet again the blatant misogyny in the GOP.

 

manor321

(3,344 posts)
4. Huh?
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:29 PM
Sep 2018

This is real life, not a strategy. They're trying everything to defeat this nominee. And Ford's story is compelling reason #46 for why he shouldn't be on the court.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,659 posts)
5. It's not a matter of overplaying, or playing at all. It happened when it happened
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:29 PM
Sep 2018

and it has to be dealt with now. It's no game.

ooky

(8,921 posts)
29. Exactly. Dems are playing the hand they were dealt.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 09:29 PM
Sep 2018

I don't know another response, given the situation.

dlk

(11,540 posts)
6. Too Many Americans Had Naive Expectations With Respect to Trump
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:29 PM
Sep 2018

In nearly two years of Trump actually in the WH, reality has set in for many. I’m hopeful it will make a big difference in November.

still_one

(92,116 posts)
7. The Democrats aren't over playing anything. This story has legs on its own, and the media is
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:30 PM
Sep 2018

pushing it, and rightfully so, because women will be a large part of the midterm election


Fred Sanders

(23,946 posts)
12. "DEMS" always support women. Full stop.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:32 PM
Sep 2018

And as we speak it is WE supporting a college educated white woman...if no one has noticed!

Not because of politics, because that is what we do.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
13. If the Dems don't fight they're called wimps
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:33 PM
Sep 2018

If they do, they're "overplaying it."

Seriously just go away with your fake concern bullshit.

37. You do know...
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:30 PM
Sep 2018

...know that it was a question, right? I think your response is overly abrasive. I am simply having a discussion here.

Downtown Hound

(12,618 posts)
42. And I gave you an answer
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:43 PM
Sep 2018

And my answer is I'm sick of wishy washy candy asses (or fake concern trolls here to implant doubt and stir up shit) who are too afraid to take a stand on something important like this. Join the fight or get out of the way, but we have no room for your "discussion" right now. It's time to fight. It has been time to fight since years ago. Be fucking proud that for once, the Dems are finally taking a hard stand on something important. And if you can't do that, kindly spare us your "concern."

One of the big differences between our party and theirs is they fight tooth and nail on the issues they care about. More often than not, voices like yours are what "prevails" in our party and we end up standing for nothing at all. If we can't take a stand against something as clear as sexual assault on the god damn supreme court, on a seat that was already stolen from us, then we might as well pack it in and give it up right now.

Is that a suitable answer for your "discussion?"

44. Please...
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:50 PM
Sep 2018

...I stopped reading your message after "wishy washy".

For your information, I have spent the last three days preparing lunches for women and men who are working in shifts in order to march and protest at the Capitol Building to oppose Kavanaugh's approval to SCOTUS.

I have called my own state Senators with bot-like frequency, trying to jam their phone lines for no votes. I am a survivor of childhood sexual assault. Please don't try to act like you are some arbiter of DEM fighting because you can string together insults and expletives.

...and no, the drivel your posted is not a suitable answer for my "discussion".

spooky3

(34,427 posts)
63. I think the wording of your OP may not convey
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:45 PM
Sep 2018

What you meant. If what you are asking is whether some people are counting on this mess to win the election for them, one answer might be that maybe a few are. Some people might also agree that just as the horrors of 2016 were not enough, a lot of voters do not care about the Kavanaugh mess, and some are thrilled that he may be appointed. It is an awful commentary on where we are as a society.

 

leftynyc

(26,060 posts)
68. Me too
Sat Sep 22, 2018, 12:10 AM
Sep 2018

Don't care. I love people that fight for what they think is right. Those willing to go to the mattresses are the ones who get shit done. And we need to get shit DONE.

0rganism

(23,937 posts)
14. overplaying? wtf?
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:38 PM
Sep 2018

this isn't some jacked up game of poker.
this is about the senate considering the character of the next supreme court justice, prior to voting to consent to the nomination.
bringing up (and even focusing on) sexual assault in this context is not about Democrats winning an election in 2018 - arguably, it's possible Democrats could do better if Kavanaugh gets confirmed to the court.

so NO, the DEMS are not "overplaying Kavanaugh's sexual assault".

forgotmylogin

(7,523 posts)
43. And how odd to continuously capitalize DEMS
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:43 PM
Sep 2018

in an almost accusatory tone like they don't consider themselves one.

steve2470

(37,457 posts)
20. no overplaying or playing being done here
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 08:55 PM
Sep 2018

This isn't a trivial matter. It's about Dr. Ford being given a respectful hearing. Hmmmm......

Response to UncleTomsEvilBrother (Original post)

roamer65

(36,745 posts)
25. The assault is a legitimate concern.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 09:19 PM
Sep 2018

The pervert Thomas should not have been seated and this scumbag shouldn’t either.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
26. It's the right thing to do
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 09:22 PM
Sep 2018

Really, we already have a sexual predator on SCOTUS (and another in the White House).

The deciding vote on the Supreme Court should not be a sexual predator who lies and lies about it.

mcar

(42,295 posts)
30. So we should just drop it?
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 09:31 PM
Sep 2018

And ignore credible claims of sexual assault because some posit that Democrats are "overplaying?"

What about the victims? What about what is morally and ethically right?

Funny how some "progressive" voters insist on purity but some also are willing to overlook a lot.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
32. How can someone overplay a value?
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 09:35 PM
Sep 2018

Sexual assault is wrong, whether he got her cloths off or not, it's wrong. Even if he tried to touch her or kiss her against her will, it is wrong. How can that be overplayed?????????

38. I was only using "overplaying"...
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:36 PM
Sep 2018

...in its relation to the midterms. I stated my reasons for the questions.

Also, those of you who think you're hurting me with condescending remarks, I'm a single dad to a snarky 14 year old girl. I can take it.

Again, I'm saying the Kavanaugh situation seems to driving other DEMS causes from the front pages.

Sexual assault allegations has proven that it does not win elections for DEMS.

GoCubsGo

(32,078 posts)
47. This has nothing to do with winning elections.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:06 PM
Sep 2018

This is about giving a life-long judicial post on the highest court in the land to someone who has been accused of sexual assault (among other things.) You say you have a daughter. Do you want this asshole making decisions that could affect her ability to receive reproductive healthcare? Or, anything else that could affect her life. Or, your own?

Response to GoCubsGo (Reply #36)

Squinch

(50,935 posts)
51. Healthcare, gun control and women's health can be overplayed? What the fuck?
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:20 PM
Sep 2018

Welcome to decency. No they can't.

MrsCoffee

(5,801 posts)
77. You know who thinks sexual assault, healthcare, gun control and women's health are "overplayed"?
Sat Sep 22, 2018, 09:14 AM
Sep 2018

Fucking deplorables.

This website is for Democrats.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
55. Was thinking the same thing myself.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:26 PM
Sep 2018

Next thing ya know, some people are gonna start having doubts and making posts about this midterm and "think" about voting green or 3rd party.

marybourg

(12,608 posts)
54. Lots of this from low post count
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:25 PM
Sep 2018

posters in past few days. Transparent goal: divisiveness. Just what the Ruskies are accused of. Coincidence?

Separation

(1,975 posts)
59. I agree.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:28 PM
Sep 2018

Last edited Sat Sep 22, 2018, 12:22 AM - Edit history (1)

Lmao and all this coming from a low poster such as myself.

That's ok though, I know certain people on this board irl, and I can be reached by phone if there ever is a question.

Liberal In Texas

(13,542 posts)
52. No.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:22 PM
Sep 2018

It's not a "play" or "overplaying" -- it is what it is. An assault that should be brought to light during the vetting of a Supreme Court nomination.

Glorfindel

(9,726 posts)
57. How much trouble is it to spell out the word "Democrats?"
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:27 PM
Sep 2018

Or is "DEMS" some kind of weird acronym that only a privileged few can understand?

Glorfindel

(9,726 posts)
75. No offense intended, tblue37. I guess I'm showing my age.
Sat Sep 22, 2018, 09:03 AM
Sep 2018

I still use a desktop computer, I still use a flip phone, and the only tablet I have is an Amazon Kindle Fire, which I almost never use. Fortunately, I have escaped arthritis so far.

njhoneybadger

(3,910 posts)
67. I Don't think so. You can't overplay young women being raped.
Sat Sep 22, 2018, 12:03 AM
Sep 2018

And out of touch old men dismissing that rape as boys will be boys. It's really disgusting.
We don't pick and choose issues based on votes.

JHB

(37,158 posts)
76. No. I think his perjury and political hackery need to be mentioned more often...
Sat Sep 22, 2018, 09:11 AM
Sep 2018

...to avoid them disappearing in the media's "that was last week's news, who cares about it now?" syndrome, but hell, no, it's not being "overplayed".

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
82. It depends on how the testimony goes, in the end
Sat Sep 22, 2018, 12:35 PM
Sep 2018

Anita Hill always portrayed strength and resolve. Even though Thomas was confirmed, Hill's testimony still galvanized people in this country to stand up to sexual harassment, and workplace policies duly took note of the change of climate regarding this issue.

I've read a few things that give me pause about Dr. Ford. The Wapo article on her moving 3,000 miles away states that she was part of a social scene that actively attended unsupervised, alcohol-fueled parties. That is bound to come up in testimony. I've also seen speculation on why she won't fly to D.C., how she would rather drive. People go to psychologists to defeat phobias like fear of confined spaces, if she admits to such a condition, that might be used to attack her credibility as a professional. And, has anyone ever seen a picture of her without sunglasses? If she insists on wearing them during a hearing, because of the television lights, it's not going to be good optics.

The fact that she was so very reluctant to even want her name disclosed as recently as a couple of weeks ago means that she has anxieties that may be able to be triggered by even a feather-light interrogation. If she has a meltdown on camera, that will feed into the narrative from the Repukes that she is a nut job who made this all up.

Yes, I know it's "blame the victim", but that's always worked well for the GOP in the past.

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