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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsKavanaugh's opening remarks are a master class in a common sexual abuser defense tactic
By Wagatwe Wanjuki / Daily Kos (09/27/2018) - September 28, 2018
Judge Brett Kavanaugh just finished his opening remarks in front of the Senate Judiciary Committee, and I think my ears hurt. He came out with guns blazing, yelling at the microphone and shedding his oddly timed tears. With his confirmation to the Supreme Court at stake, Kavanaugh is feeling the heat and hes big mad that he may be facing consequences.
I put myself through the torture of listening to his statement, and it was full of more shit than I expected. However, his defense had a pattern that abusersespecially sexual abusersoften use when facing accountability.
The tactic is DARVO, which stands for: Deny the behavior, Attack the individual doing the confronting, and Reverse the roles of Victim and Offender. Its a term coined by Dr. Jennifer Freyd at the University of Oregon.
He rambled on for quite a while, so there are many examples to choose from, but I hope these examples give you the idea. Feel free to share additional examples in the comments. You can read his full prepared statement hereand what he actually said here.
He denies ever doing it.
I denied the allegation immediately, unequivocally, and categorically.
Kavanaugh, unsurprisingly, says he never attacked Dr. Christine Blasey Ford or sexually assaulted anyone else. However, he kept bringing up irrelevant factors as to why we should believe him.
In his world, powerful white mens words are taken as truth. He is commanding that his only-abusive-in-private-and-sometimes persona be enough for America.
He attacks Dr. Ford, Democrats, the deep stateeveryone, basically.
This whole two-week effort has been a calculated and orchestrated political hit fueled with apparent pent-up anger about President Trump and the 2016 election, fear that has been unfairly stoked about my judicial record, revenge on behalf of the Clintons, and millions of dollars and money from outside left-wing opposition groups. This is a circus. The consequences will extend long past my nomination.
Kavanaugh basically calls Dr. Ford a liar and a part of some vendetta machine that decided to create decades of sexual predation to derail him. Considering that most rapists never see a day in jail, and Anita Hills own testimony didnt stop Justice Clarence Thomas from happening, its a wild idea. Fabricating rape reports is just not a revenge plot in Democratic pockets.
I will say, I am impressed at how confusing Kavanaugh was. Trump must be proud that he got a Clinton mention in there.
He insists that hes the real victim here.
The day after the allegation appeared, I told this committee that I wanted a hearing as soon as possible to clear my name. I demanded a hearing for the very next day. Unfortunately, it took the committee 10 days to get to this hearing. In those 10 long days, as was predictable and as I predicted, my family and my name have been totally and permanently destroyed by vicious and false additional accusations. The 10-day delay has been harmful to me and my family, to the Supreme Court, and to the country.
In Kavanaughs world, the people he violated arent the victims; he is. He doesnt care about the truth being fully investigated; he cares that he might not get that seat on the Supreme Court. The pain is about him: his feelings, his reputation, his level of comfort. He wants us to all sympathize with him to cover up the fact that violent serial abusers arent the norm. They are in the tiny minority.
Just more evidence that, for Judge Kavanaugh and the Republicans, this hearing isnt about accountability. They feel entitled to do what they want to this country, and theyre angry that womens stories have gotten in the way.
https://dailysoundandfury.com/2018-09-28-kavanaugh-39-s-opening-remarks-are/
Judge Brett Kavanaugh just finished his opening remarks in front of the Senate Judiciary Committee, and I think my ears hurt. He came out with guns blazing, yelling at the microphone and shedding his oddly timed tears. With his confirmation to the Supreme Court at stake, Kavanaugh is feeling the heat and hes big mad that he may be facing consequences.
I put myself through the torture of listening to his statement, and it was full of more shit than I expected. However, his defense had a pattern that abusersespecially sexual abusersoften use when facing accountability.
The tactic is DARVO, which stands for: Deny the behavior, Attack the individual doing the confronting, and Reverse the roles of Victim and Offender. Its a term coined by Dr. Jennifer Freyd at the University of Oregon.
He rambled on for quite a while, so there are many examples to choose from, but I hope these examples give you the idea. Feel free to share additional examples in the comments. You can read his full prepared statement hereand what he actually said here.
He denies ever doing it.
I denied the allegation immediately, unequivocally, and categorically.
Kavanaugh, unsurprisingly, says he never attacked Dr. Christine Blasey Ford or sexually assaulted anyone else. However, he kept bringing up irrelevant factors as to why we should believe him.
In his world, powerful white mens words are taken as truth. He is commanding that his only-abusive-in-private-and-sometimes persona be enough for America.
He attacks Dr. Ford, Democrats, the deep stateeveryone, basically.
This whole two-week effort has been a calculated and orchestrated political hit fueled with apparent pent-up anger about President Trump and the 2016 election, fear that has been unfairly stoked about my judicial record, revenge on behalf of the Clintons, and millions of dollars and money from outside left-wing opposition groups. This is a circus. The consequences will extend long past my nomination.
Kavanaugh basically calls Dr. Ford a liar and a part of some vendetta machine that decided to create decades of sexual predation to derail him. Considering that most rapists never see a day in jail, and Anita Hills own testimony didnt stop Justice Clarence Thomas from happening, its a wild idea. Fabricating rape reports is just not a revenge plot in Democratic pockets.
I will say, I am impressed at how confusing Kavanaugh was. Trump must be proud that he got a Clinton mention in there.
He insists that hes the real victim here.
The day after the allegation appeared, I told this committee that I wanted a hearing as soon as possible to clear my name. I demanded a hearing for the very next day. Unfortunately, it took the committee 10 days to get to this hearing. In those 10 long days, as was predictable and as I predicted, my family and my name have been totally and permanently destroyed by vicious and false additional accusations. The 10-day delay has been harmful to me and my family, to the Supreme Court, and to the country.
In Kavanaughs world, the people he violated arent the victims; he is. He doesnt care about the truth being fully investigated; he cares that he might not get that seat on the Supreme Court. The pain is about him: his feelings, his reputation, his level of comfort. He wants us to all sympathize with him to cover up the fact that violent serial abusers arent the norm. They are in the tiny minority.
Just more evidence that, for Judge Kavanaugh and the Republicans, this hearing isnt about accountability. They feel entitled to do what they want to this country, and theyre angry that womens stories have gotten in the way.
https://dailysoundandfury.com/2018-09-28-kavanaugh-39-s-opening-remarks-are/
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Kavanaugh's opening remarks are a master class in a common sexual abuser defense tactic (Original Post)
MrScorpio
Sep 2018
OP
Feeling so entitled, kavboys distain for women was on full display...not only did he
asiliveandbreathe
Sep 2018
#4
maxsolomon
(33,251 posts)1. DARVO. That's going in the file.
Its precisely what Trump has done as well.
CincyDem
(6,338 posts)2. DARVO ? Is that the new Dilly Dilly ! :-)
maxsolomon
(33,251 posts)3. In that it's not funny in the least,
Not really.
asiliveandbreathe
(8,203 posts)4. Feeling so entitled, kavboys distain for women was on full display...not only did he
disrespect Senator Feinstein, he felt the need to attack Sen. Klobuchar, apology not accepted..during those interactions with these distinguished women he might as well have just put his hand over their mouth to keep them from speaking...
at140
(6,110 posts)6. I know for sure, there is no cure for sexual predator habits!
A pedophile raping a 15 year old child as Kavanaugh is accused of, will continue sexual abusing until he dies. Kavanaugh has been an adult for 30 years working in various capacities. If he attempted rape of Dr Ford when she was 15, I can guarantee he tried the same vile act several times during those 30 years of adulthood.
More women need to come forward who worked with him in some capacity.
CousinIT
(9,225 posts)5. AND American Male Entitlement
niyad
(113,074 posts)7. k and r
unitedwethrive
(1,997 posts)8. Yes! Every woman who has ever known an abusive man knows the M.O.