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Amy Klobuchar responds: (Original Post) Kingofalldems Feb 2019 OP
The truth and candor, no matter how you recieve it, is refreshing. DontBooVote Feb 2019 #1
honesty is good... qazplm135 Feb 2019 #2
Yea, some whiny-assed subordinate(s) couldn't handle the heat at the Senate level and DontBooVote Feb 2019 #8
if someone is throwing shit at you qazplm135 Feb 2019 #23
if someone is throwing shit at you Mr. Quackers Feb 2019 #58
lol qazplm135 Feb 2019 #87
I know, Democrats are so terrible, correct? Mr. Quackers Feb 2019 #90
no it's exactly what would happen qazplm135 Feb 2019 #91
Criticizing one democrat hardly equates to a "Democrats are terrible" whathehell Feb 2019 #147
The purity test UpInArms Feb 2019 #134
the dont be an asshole test qazplm135 Feb 2019 #140
Each of us vote for the person we believe will do best UpInArms Feb 2019 #160
Exactly... whathehell Feb 2019 #146
Agreed Catch2.2 Feb 2019 #162
Physical violence customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #112
If someone is throwing things, get out of the way. leftofcool Feb 2019 #139
Or better yet, throw things back at them whathehell Feb 2019 #145
It's not that easy Catch2.2 Feb 2019 #161
Thank you... whathehell Feb 2019 #144
+1000 smirkymonkey Feb 2019 #178
Just like those whiny-assed secretaries who finally said, Ms. Toad Feb 2019 #24
No, it is not "just like" that. And don't attempt to make me out to be someone I am not by DontBooVote Feb 2019 #30
Appropriate response. Kingofalldems Feb 2019 #50
Don't you just hate false equivalencies? elias7 Feb 2019 #56
Yes. And I hate it even more when someone tries to make you look like someone you are DontBooVote Feb 2019 #60
You mean you're not a sexist paternalistic authoritative domineering d-bag? elias7 Feb 2019 #104
Good response. lunatica Feb 2019 #75
You know what? jberryhill Feb 2019 #54
Especially if that is the very job description, as well as an understood aspect of the job for DontBooVote Feb 2019 #65
Hear, hear! pazzyanne Feb 2019 #73
Work ethic. Seems like such a simple thing 2naSalit Feb 2019 #93
The law clerks I know, however, were not so thrilled Ms. Toad Feb 2019 #175
Exactly.. n/t whathehell Feb 2019 #148
The complaints date back to her time as dflprincess Feb 2019 #179
And so what? She's not running to be my boss jberryhill Feb 2019 #52
I like my candidates qazplm135 Feb 2019 #89
Well said customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #113
Agree kevink077 Feb 2019 #132
"So what"?...It goes to this thing called "character". whathehell Feb 2019 #149
And a US Senate office is a demanding work environment jberryhill Feb 2019 #155
I'm sorry if you think tolerating physical abuse is part and parcel of whathehell Feb 2019 #157
I completely agree with you. smirkymonkey Feb 2019 #180
Yes, those are my sentiments exactly. whathehell Feb 2019 #188
I don't think she is actually. cwydro Feb 2019 #156
So how many male Senators are tough taskmasters and never called out for it? calimary Feb 2019 #163
Good, thoughtful post. Of course, the naysayers won't see themselves in it. Demit Feb 2019 #190
No, she isn't. She also explained that many of her staffers were hired by Obama pnwmom Feb 2019 #195
It wouldn't bother me to have a strong woman in the White House. ooky Feb 2019 #3
Especially one who can stand up GWC58 Feb 2019 #14
Its clear we have several strong, capable women who will work tirelessly to defeat the toxic traitor InAbLuEsTaTe Feb 2019 #32
So customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #114
Don't ooky Feb 2019 #116
At some point customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #118
Really strong women don't abuse subordinates.. whathehell Feb 2019 #153
+1000 smirkymonkey Feb 2019 #181
Thank you, Smirky whathehell Feb 2019 #187
Abuse is a strong accusation. ooky Feb 2019 #184
I'd call sending demeaning emails and throwing things "abusive". whathehell Feb 2019 #186
What did she throw? ooky Feb 2019 #189
Office supplies, I believe.. whathehell Feb 2019 #191
To be honest, ooky Feb 2019 #196
I understand.. whathehell Feb 2019 #197
Well there! bdamomma Feb 2019 #4
At least she's addressed it, but.... Siwsan Feb 2019 #5
If you fire someone for being divisive and pissing off DURHAM D Feb 2019 #10
I think I'm stuck on the reports she throws things, even indirectly, at people Siwsan Feb 2019 #16
I have not seen any believable reports of her throwing stuff. nt DURHAM D Feb 2019 #22
I haven't read of anyone refuting what's out there, but maybe that's the best tactic Siwsan Feb 2019 #28
My only critique is that I'm not sure that requires thrown objects... Volaris Feb 2019 #42
Are there thrown objects? DURHAM D Feb 2019 #46
It certainly doesn't.. That's abuse, and sounds like it could whathehell Feb 2019 #154
On the money. nt Blue_true Feb 2019 #47
And sometimes "abuse" is just perception. Demit Feb 2019 #15
Yes - you are absolutely right. Siwsan Feb 2019 #18
The problem might be that not everyone is cut out to work in a high-powered, high stress environment Demit Feb 2019 #41
So customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #115
People who don't like stressful jobs aren't victims. They're people who don't like stressful jobs. Demit Feb 2019 #131
Lol.. There's a difference between a "stressful"work environment and whathehell Feb 2019 #152
Why would her office be more stressed than that of other senators? whathehell Feb 2019 #172
For any number of reasons. Demit Feb 2019 #173
Name some.. whathehell Feb 2019 #176
There are various reasons for people leaving political jobs listed throughout this thread. Demit Feb 2019 #177
Character counts, dear whathehell Feb 2019 #185
I commented on this in another thread. Fla Dem Feb 2019 #76
Yes -- It speaks volumes. n/t. whathehell Feb 2019 #169
And women leaders who behave in exactly the same way as men are perceived pnwmom Feb 2019 #19
Klobuchar staff turnover is a fact Boomer Feb 2019 #151
Are you asserting that the 36% turnover rate is solely based on her behavior? Caliman73 Feb 2019 #168
It's a matter of comparative degree Boomer Feb 2019 #193
There is no evidence that she's been abusive, just some anonymous griping. pnwmom Feb 2019 #17
Thanks for the information! Siwsan Feb 2019 #20
Here's the Politico article at the bottom of this, headlined the Worst Bosses of the Senate, pnwmom Feb 2019 #25
Thanks for the link Siwsan Feb 2019 #31
I'm pretty sure that one or both of the initial outlets Ms. Toad Feb 2019 #27
What did the emails say? I haven't read any details. n/t pnwmom Feb 2019 #33
But her emails!!!111!! Kingofalldems Feb 2019 #48
Sounds familiar doesn't it! pazzyanne Feb 2019 #77
Not to mention that DC is an expensive city mcar Feb 2019 #92
Let's see customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #117
No, her attrition rate of 36% isn't even high. It's only about 6% a year. And the firm that did the pnwmom Feb 2019 #119
If Rep. Lee were running for president customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #120
The FACT is that her attrition rate isn't actually high, and the range in the Senate pnwmom Feb 2019 #121
You're right, 75% customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #122
I don't know why my boss survived multiple years of turnover like that, pnwmom Feb 2019 #124
Is the place where you worked customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #126
It was at a university, but there were several other academic institutions in the city, pnwmom Feb 2019 #127
Loved that she responded to it, and good for her. a kennedy Feb 2019 #6
I sat and wept as I watched her speak. I haven't done that since Hillary. Even my hubby said he KewlKat Feb 2019 #7
"send her some money" .... DontBooVote Feb 2019 #9
I was surprised at my own reaction. DURHAM D Feb 2019 #13
She moved on to my radar scope today. ooky Feb 2019 #51
That was our opinion as well. KewlKat Feb 2019 #61
This is a quote I like from The Godfather exboyfil Feb 2019 #11
Unfortunately, it didn't help Moe Greene's case. JustABozoOnThisBus Feb 2019 #39
Claim jumper. You beat me to it. nt Blue_true Feb 2019 #53
I like the combination prosecutor and Senator. This gives Amy a better position, empedocles Feb 2019 #12
End of story. riverwalker Feb 2019 #21
Joe Biden's temper with his staff was legendary... First Speaker Feb 2019 #26
I had a male boss who also put the fear of God into people, as his Executive Assistant would say. pnwmom Feb 2019 #34
Wasn't Bill Clinton known for having a bad temper as well? NewJeffCT Feb 2019 #138
Good chicken salad response BeyondGeography Feb 2019 #29
If she were male and "tough", she'd be admired for it DesertRat Feb 2019 #35
Not by me. nt Ferrets are Cool Feb 2019 #59
No TimeToGo Feb 2019 #79
Tough is throwing objects? ok. nt USALiberal Feb 2019 #94
I would think just as poorly of a man who treated his staff that way. smirkymonkey Feb 2019 #182
I went to dinner with some friends last night who were gushing over her. I don't know very... NNadir Feb 2019 #36
That is very similar to what I wrote in a thread last night Awsi Dooger Feb 2019 #37
Good answer, we'll see how that plays out for her. jalan48 Feb 2019 #38
I don't know what the specifics are. But abusive is different from demanding, IMO. Honeycombe8 Feb 2019 #40
Boot camp is similar treestar Feb 2019 #96
No. We're tough on recruits, because when you're being shot at you need to follow orders quickly. Stand and Fight Feb 2019 #166
I'm not saying it's as dangerous treestar Feb 2019 #167
If Amy Klobuchar was a man doing this - nothing would be said jpak Feb 2019 #43
If a male boss threw stuff at his employees, he'd be arrested LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #107
My goodness, is that so? I guess you have examples of that? Demit Feb 2019 #108
Sure LongtimeAZDem Feb 2019 #110
I work for a large Fortune 100 company. smirkymonkey Feb 2019 #183
Same here. Boomer Feb 2019 #194
Not true...Abusive behavior by males is both resented and reported. whathehell Feb 2019 #192
Another stupid... Mike Nelson Feb 2019 #44
If she was able to keep her head with the way Kavanaugh was acting without exploding... PeeJ52 Feb 2019 #45
I agree. She would have ripped him a second asshole. Blue_true Feb 2019 #55
There are people customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #123
Side note: The great Chelsea Janes, former Nationals beat reporter Kingofalldems Feb 2019 #49
Biting my tongue. nt Ferrets are Cool Feb 2019 #57
Another "But Her Emails" issue ... I pray she has the discipline to just refer to this response uponit7771 Feb 2019 #62
I thought she was highly effective and compelling during Kavanaugh hearing elias7 Feb 2019 #63
I have a low tolerance for abusive bosses, male or female. I've seen the damage done. Paladin Feb 2019 #64
Total agreement jmbar2 Feb 2019 #71
+1 Ferrets are Cool Feb 2019 #100
Same here customerserviceguy Feb 2019 #125
Exactly my feelings on this nini Feb 2019 #143
As a man I say, good for her. She has nothing to explain. Pepsidog Feb 2019 #66
as many former and current staffers acknowledge she is tough Kurt V. Feb 2019 #67
LOL How fucking stupid this is. Oneironaut Feb 2019 #68
Got it ISUGRADIA Feb 2019 #72
Tbh, I think you missed the point I was making. Oneironaut Feb 2019 #158
How often president Obama was said to treestar Feb 2019 #97
i worked for a brilliant woman. barbtries Feb 2019 #69
She gave a good answer, ignore the attack. marylandblue Feb 2019 #70
Dignity and Respect ISUGRADIA Feb 2019 #74
This is not a tweet from Klobuchar. former9thward Feb 2019 #78
She said it to an NBC reporter: klook Feb 2019 #81
Thanks former9thward Feb 2019 #83
So? Kingofalldems Feb 2019 #86
I like to see direct quotes and their context. former9thward Feb 2019 #88
OK, but you can be tough and have high expectations w/o throwing things. nt Laffy Kat Feb 2019 #80
Exactly ZeroSomeBrains Feb 2019 #84
Why more contrition? How do you know it even happened? We're talking about anonymous reports pnwmom Feb 2019 #99
I see comments around the internet that this narrative DURHAM D Feb 2019 #105
This letter from AFSCME is concerning Quixote1818 Feb 2019 #111
Yeah, but the STATE union people did investigate, and they overruled the local group. pnwmom Feb 2019 #128
Where there is this much smoke, there is undoubtedly fire. Laffy Kat Feb 2019 #129
Really good point about the leaking staff. Nt Quixote1818 Feb 2019 #137
She needs to deny throwing stuff. Simple! nt USALiberal Feb 2019 #95
But all we have is an anonymous report from a couple of disgruntled employees. pnwmom Feb 2019 #98
If you are concerned about results, Amy delivers! pazzyanne Feb 2019 #82
While still in high school I took a summer job yaesu Feb 2019 #85
I think where I come down on this is that I am suspicious enough to take her out of my top teer Quixote1818 Feb 2019 #101
She's going to be great for SNL. jalan48 Feb 2019 #102
K&R...👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼 spanone Feb 2019 #103
Need to see more. She didn't do well when Kavanaugh insulted her. gulliver Feb 2019 #106
That would have been a great method to throw away her likability Awsi Dooger Feb 2019 #130
Toughness is good. Abuse is bad. She's my favorite candidate so far but, IluvPitties Feb 2019 #109
A good response... brooklynite Feb 2019 #133
I was bothered by this at first, but the more I think about it the more it's not "a thing." Vinca Feb 2019 #135
she should forget it. she's going to run into the Franken wall Rene Feb 2019 #136
5,974 People Find This Canned Response Convincing. Act_of_Reparation Feb 2019 #141
High expectations and bullying are two different things nini Feb 2019 #142
Major fail - this is bullshit Boomer Feb 2019 #150
Well, did anybody actually think she wouldn't be tough as nails? Texin Feb 2019 #159
Tough female prosecutor who comes across as calm and likable Awsi Dooger Feb 2019 #170
So many gullible suckers in this thread who believe an obvious hit piece BannonsLiver Feb 2019 #164
Could you imagine if we had heard these kinds of stories about Hillary? StevieM Feb 2019 #165
Where would, "How Candidate Treats Staff," have slotted on a priority list two weeks ago? Awsi Dooger Feb 2019 #171
Don't tell me people are falling for this bullshit here??? RhodeIslandOne Feb 2019 #174
 

DontBooVote

(901 posts)
8. Yea, some whiny-assed subordinate(s) couldn't handle the heat at the Senate level and
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:23 PM
Feb 2019

went crying to Huffpost about it because she took their binkie after failing to meet certain expectations.

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
23. if someone is throwing shit at you
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:37 PM
Feb 2019

I'm pretty sure it's not whiny to complain about it. That's toxic leadership, and even the Army doesn't tolerate it. I know, I've seen plenty of leaders go down for it.

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
87. lol
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 08:07 PM
Feb 2019

if this were a conservative Senator, folks would be tripping over themselves to talk about how bad they were, but we like her politics so now we are all internet toughies.

 

Mr. Quackers

(443 posts)
90. I know, Democrats are so terrible, correct?
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 08:22 PM
Feb 2019

/sarcasm

oh, and false equivalency. Nice try, but you're doing it wrong.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
147. Criticizing one democrat hardly equates to a "Democrats are terrible"
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:12 PM
Feb 2019

bias.
We can't be hypocrites. Criticizing abusive behavior is always right, regardless of party.

UpInArms

(51,280 posts)
134. The purity test
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 08:43 AM
Feb 2019

Fails to recognize that good people are not perfect ...

There’s a difference in the .... fill in the blank ....

Purists believe that any failing is a death sentence...

Everyone responds to pressure differently... and, I like to think that it is possible for all things to be a learning experience...

Let us not throw the baby out with the bath water.

UpInArms

(51,280 posts)
160. Each of us vote for the person we believe will do best
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 02:10 PM
Feb 2019

That is how I enter the voting booth ... every time

Peace

Catch2.2

(629 posts)
162. Agreed
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 02:51 PM
Feb 2019

We don't know all the details of this situation. Just because "politics are tough", doesn't give someone the excuse to mistreat their employees.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
112. Physical violence
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:38 AM
Feb 2019

except in self-defense, is never justified. Especially in an employer-employee situation.

leftofcool

(19,460 posts)
139. If someone is throwing things, get out of the way.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 10:19 AM
Feb 2019

Better yet, quit. There are hundreds of people who would be happy to have the job.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
145. Or better yet, throw things back at them
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:02 PM
Feb 2019

I don't know 'hundreds' of people who would "love" having an abusive asshole as a boss, but, whatever.

Catch2.2

(629 posts)
161. It's not that easy
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 02:49 PM
Feb 2019

A lot of people can't just quit their job. They have bills to pay, families to feed. Not to mention having to explain quitting from a previous employer. Some jobs/careers have extensive interview/background processes. Trying to explain that you quit because your boss was mean, doesn't always go over well. A lot of times it's a red flag.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
178. +1000
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:14 PM
Feb 2019

I don't think abusiveness is the kind of trait that I want in a leader. Even if they are a solid Democrat.

Ms. Toad

(33,999 posts)
24. Just like those whiny-assed secretaries who finally said,
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:37 PM
Feb 2019

"Hey - making your coffee is not in my job description"?

 

DontBooVote

(901 posts)
30. No, it is not "just like" that. And don't attempt to make me out to be someone I am not by
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:42 PM
Feb 2019

Last edited Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:18 PM - Edit history (1)

saying such a ridiculous thing.

 

DontBooVote

(901 posts)
60. Yes. And I hate it even more when someone tries to make you look like someone you are
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:43 PM
Feb 2019

not by inferring things about you, even trying to make you look as if you believe the diametric opposite of how you really think and how you've lived your life.

Not even a good try at it, either. SMH.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
75. Good response.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:26 PM
Feb 2019

I was recently accused by same of something just as ridiculous. I responded too, though it obviously didn’t do much good.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
54. You know what?
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:29 PM
Feb 2019

My son spent several months as the driver for a US Senator. He’s got a degree in public policy, and his job was to transport this Senator to a dizzying array of engagements and make sure he got there fed, rested, and ready to do whatever the occasion demanded.

If a US Senator wants his coffee and snacks just so, then you make fucking sure his coffee and snacks are just so. This is one of the couple of dozen most powerful people on the planet, and if they need a shirt picked up from the cleaners, then you are going to the cleaners to get that shirt or you can forget about the PRIVILEGE it is to be able to put “US Senate Staffer” on your resume.

 

DontBooVote

(901 posts)
65. Especially if that is the very job description, as well as an understood aspect of the job for
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:50 PM
Feb 2019

which you have applied, and accepted.

I'm in that job, I'm giving that senator a foot massage with my own hands, if that's what he or she wants.

We all know how short time is, especially when you are a leader.

And the gullibility of some people, right there on the eve of her announcement for president, from "anonymous sources". Until someone, with an actual name, goes on record to state for the record that Sen. Klobachar has thrown shit at them, this is nothing but russian-level manipulation and anyone who falls for it should take a few hours to look into the mirror ask themselves if they are really going to allow themselves to be manipulated in such a way.

Ms. Toad

(33,999 posts)
175. The law clerks I know, however, were not so thrilled
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 06:19 PM
Feb 2019

to be babysitters, drivers, turn-a-blind-eye to the state appellate/supreme court justice undressing in the back seat. (All attorneys, all female. None of the clerks I know who worked for male judges were subjected to such job demands - and none (working for either gender) believed such tasks were in appropriately part of their job descriptions.

dflprincess

(28,072 posts)
179. The complaints date back to her time as
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:17 PM
Feb 2019

Hennepin County Attorney. There were more than a few, mostly women who, apparently, we are suppose to write off as "whiny-assed" rather than ask if their complaints were/are legitimate.

I don't recall anyone here objecting to McCain's temperament being questioned when he ran in 2008

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
52. And so what? She's not running to be my boss
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:25 PM
Feb 2019

Some people don’t handle pressure well, other people thrive in it. Who cares if she’s a difficult boss?

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
89. I like my candidates
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 08:08 PM
Feb 2019

to not be assholes personally. If the accusations are true, then she will struggle to break that barrier for me.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
113. Well said
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:42 AM
Feb 2019

You can't sell "Minnesota Nice" while being a jerk in private. We have plenty of candidates who have been both firm and fair in their dealings with the people who work for them.

kevink077

(365 posts)
132. Agree
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:42 AM
Feb 2019

I have worked for nightmare bosses like this. No sale sorry to say. These issues seem to go back a very long time. She cannot manage a staff and has an anger management problem.

 

jberryhill

(62,444 posts)
155. And a US Senate office is a demanding work environment
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:31 PM
Feb 2019

I'm certain you will find disgruntled persons who got their buns chapped by working just about anywhere.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
157. I'm sorry if you think tolerating physical abuse is part and parcel of
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:36 PM
Feb 2019

a "demanding" job, but employers can and do get sued for this kind of behavior. Workplace bullying and harassment doesn't have to be about sex.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
180. I completely agree with you.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:20 PM
Feb 2019

I think the inability to manage one's temper is a sign of weakness. And being abusive toward subordinates tells me that this person does not embrace the qualities I would look for in a leader. Everyone has a bad day, but this seems to be the way she rolls most of the time. I'm not impressed.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
156. I don't think she is actually.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:33 PM
Feb 2019

I think she’s saying fuck this shit, that she’s not going to get in the mud with this nonsense.

Good answer on her part.

calimary

(81,125 posts)
163. So how many male Senators are tough taskmasters and never called out for it?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 02:51 PM
Feb 2019

Double standard much?

Sheesh - when Barbra Streisand directed her first film (“Yentl”, in 1983, in which she also starred) she got shit for this, too. I remember her being lambasted as a “bitch” because she was forceful and meticulous - holding herself and everybody else to a high standard, because it WAS, after all, HER movie.

It was also pointed out how sexist this criticism was. The first female studio chiefs Dawn Steele and Sherry Lansing found the same thing. When they were strong executives they too were lambasted as “bitches” and “ball-busters” - AND WORSE (“man-haters” and even “lesbians” for examples - insulting entire groups of women and artificially laying on negativity, in the process!). But a man doing the same things, with the same leadership style? HE would be PRAISED as “strong,” “gutsy,” “bold,” and other positive descriptions.

It was unfair, unjust, undeserved, and sexist then and it’s still that way now.

The climb for women has been slow and hard. We ARE held to a different standard, one that’s artificially imposed on us by others based on THEIR OWN cockeyed and wrong-headed thinking. That old bullshit has been awfully hard to fight through!

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
190. Good, thoughtful post. Of course, the naysayers won't see themselves in it.
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 12:01 AM
Feb 2019

They have decided. When men take charge it's good, whatever their management style is. When women take charge their management style is supposed to be "nice.". Women don't dare manage in the way that men do! That makes them wrong, that makes them bullies. Women are expected to be nurturing, as if their staff are a bunch of nestlings that need to be fed.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
195. No, she isn't. She also explained that many of her staffers were hired by Obama
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 12:54 AM
Feb 2019

which is a sign of how good they were. When you are a good boss, you applaud your former employees for being able to move up, even if that means leaving you.

ooky

(8,908 posts)
3. It wouldn't bother me to have a strong woman in the White House.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:19 PM
Feb 2019

Especially after the wimp we have now.

Good response.

GWC58

(2,678 posts)
14. Especially one who can stand up
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:28 PM
Feb 2019

to the Putin’s & Uns of the world. God knows this one won’t or, worse, can’t!

InAbLuEsTaTe

(24,122 posts)
32. Its clear we have several strong, capable women who will work tirelessly to defeat the toxic traitor
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:42 PM
Feb 2019

occupying the White House.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
114. So
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:43 AM
Feb 2019

Trump being an asshole justifies whatever comes next?

Maybe if Klobuchar is our only choice other than Trump, but we still have a lot of choices at this point in time.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
118. At some point
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:55 AM
Feb 2019

she might be, and I have to admit, that no matter what comes out of her staff, past and present, is something I will have to choose to ignore if negative, when it comes to a choice between her and the orange anus.

I will wait to see what the news media and the oppo research people for the other campaigns can unearth, if there is anything.

ooky

(8,908 posts)
184. Abuse is a strong accusation.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 09:26 PM
Feb 2019

So is bullying. I don't support either, but I haven't seen any evidence of either presented in this case. From what I've heard so far I would summize that she has high expectations of the people that work for her, and pushes them. I'm not going to fault her for that.

I was once on the staff of a VP who had very high expectations of his directors and department managers. We had turnover too. But he had a job to do that he counted on us to do our jobs with the expected commitment so he would meet his deliverables to our CEO and our shareholders. He was tough, but he didn't abuse and he didn't bully. Maybe Amy didn't either. Abuse is not synonomous to being strong or demanding.

She's going to be on Rachel tonight. I expect it will come up and it will be interesting to see what kind of questions Rachel asks her about it.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
191. Office supplies, I believe..
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 12:24 AM
Feb 2019

She wlso expects her staff to do some of her housework, like washing dishes, straightening her closet and picking her dclothes off the floor... Seriously.

Here's a link to the Huffpost article.
https://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5c5db1ece4b03afe8d674530

ooky

(8,908 posts)
196. To be honest,
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 01:20 AM
Feb 2019

one of my adult children has type 1 diabetes, so the health care crisis is a real threat to us, to his livlihood, to his family's livlihood, including my grandchildren, and possibly a threat to his life, if health care doesn't soon get fixed. So if I thought she had the right policy positions and abilities to deliver affordable health care to all, none of the things that have been said or "alleged" about her in the Huffington Post would be enough for me not to vote for her. And I would not care who she "offends" to get it done. I need results, and soon. I'm not going to assume "abuse", I don't know what her staff's job descriptions are, and in short there isn't enough here for me to say she is unfit. I can see she has made some enemies along the way though, and I would agree she has probably pushed it. She's not perfect, but she might be effective.

That said, if its enough for you, I can respect that. I can agree to disagree. Incidentally, she isn't my first choice, for now, Brown is, if he runs, and I like some other candidates as well. I'm not locked in yet. But I'm going to be listening closely to health care proposals, and judge their feasibility of ever becoming reality; also, taxation. I want the tax scam repealed. Those are my swing issues for the primaries, along with electability.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
197. I understand..
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 11:07 AM
Feb 2019

but I do think you'd get healthcare relief from any Democratic candidate. I like Brown too, though my first choice is Elizabeth Warren.
As to Klobuchar, I rather liked her too before I got wind of her documented 10 year history of employee abuse.

That said, I'll have to vote for whoever's nominated, even if I'm holding my nose doing it..

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
5. At least she's addressed it, but....
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:20 PM
Feb 2019

You can have high expectations of yourself and everyone else, without being abusive. Those are the claims, if true, that I find disturbing.

DURHAM D

(32,606 posts)
10. If you fire someone for being divisive and pissing off
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:26 PM
Feb 2019

the other longtime staff/employees is that "disturbing"?

I was a business owner and I am a female. Divisive people are poison. The sooner you remove them the better.

If you don't let them go the loyal hardworking staff will start to resent the boss. I learned this early on.

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
16. I think I'm stuck on the reports she throws things, even indirectly, at people
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:32 PM
Feb 2019

I've worked for some really tough bosses, both in the Navy and as a civilian, who were still respectful of their subordinates. If a boss has to yell or throw things, the problem might be with them, rather than entirely with their employees.

But I ABSOLUTELY agree about the divisive people scenario. I retired a good 3 years early because the company I worked for didn't remove a VERY divisive and hostile employee.

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
28. I haven't read of anyone refuting what's out there, but maybe that's the best tactic
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:39 PM
Feb 2019

To be honest, she's not at the top of my 'wish' list, but it's VERY early days. I'll do some reading up, on her.

Volaris

(10,266 posts)
42. My only critique is that I'm not sure that requires thrown objects...
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:59 PM
Feb 2019

I've pissed my boss off on more than one occasion, and haven't been fired yet. I've also never had her throw things at me sooo...

DURHAM D

(32,606 posts)
46. Are there thrown objects?
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:03 PM
Feb 2019

Where did you read this?

I am seeing comments around the internuts that this narrative is being pushed by some party insiders that are waiting for Joe Biden.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
15. And sometimes "abuse" is just perception.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:31 PM
Feb 2019

call me when there's video of this abuse so I can see for myself how "disturbing" it actually is.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
41. The problem might be that not everyone is cut out to work in a high-powered, high stress environment
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:56 PM
Feb 2019

It's true in big-law law firms, it's true in politics. Things move fast, things are always needed yesterday, it's high stakes stuff and you have to be devoted to it. "If you don't come in on Saturday, don't bother coming in on Sunday" is an old joke but it's true. Or, as a president once said, "If you can't stand the heat get out of the kitchen." So some people do.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
115. So
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:48 AM
Feb 2019

she has chosen staffers that are less emotionally equipped to deal with the stresses of working on staff for a Senator than most other Senators? What does that say about her ability to choose suitable people to work with her?

Nice way to play "blame the victim", by the way. I'm still waiting for the answers to some tough questions on this issue.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
131. People who don't like stressful jobs aren't victims. They're people who don't like stressful jobs.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:06 AM
Feb 2019

I hope you get all your tough questions answered. Something tells me, though, you've already decided in your own mind what the answers are, and any other possibilities won't satisfy you.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
172. Why would her office be more stressed than that of other senators?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 05:27 PM
Feb 2019

She has the highest staff turnover in the entire Senate.

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
173. For any number of reasons.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 05:53 PM
Feb 2019

In any system of comparison, there's always going to be a highest/lowest or most/least. Even when the difference is slight. Even when there are all different contributing factors. You're letting one article guide your judgment about it.

I have a question for you: How, practically speaking, would how she deals with her staff affect how she would be as president? If you think that it would negatively impact her policies, or how she interacts with foreign leaders, or how she approaches global problems, then you have your reason for why you can't in good conscience vote for her.

Me, I think that article is making a mountain out of a molehill. Maybe you should ask why THAT is.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
176. Name some..
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 06:31 PM
Feb 2019


After that, you should realize that this isn't a matter of letting "one article" affect my judgement -- There have been several reports of her bad behavior -- Even former Senate Leader Harry Reid chided her for mistreating subordinates.

However people in power treat "global leaders", their treatment of subordinates, speaks volumes about their character. We already have one bully in the Whitehouse, I don't want another

 

Demit

(11,238 posts)
177. There are various reasons for people leaving political jobs listed throughout this thread.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:09 PM
Feb 2019

Anyway, if you think how a senator deals with her staff (based on the several reports you've heard!) will affect her abilities as president, or that these several reports you've heard mean that she is just like Trump, well, don't vote for her. I think it's a stupid basis for judging a candidate's qualifications, myself. She's not running for den mother. Beyond that, I don't have anything else to offer you. You've made up your mind.

Fla Dem

(23,591 posts)
76. I commented on this in another thread.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:27 PM
Feb 2019
https://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=11803363

Personal staff
In 2000, every Representative hired 14 staff members, while the average Senator hired 34. In 2000, Representatives had a limit of 18 full-time and four part-time staffers; Senators had no limit on staff.[5] Budgets for staff were determined by the population of the state; Senators from California, the most populous state, get more money for staff than Senators from Wyoming, the least populous state. Members can choose how to distribute staff between their Washington office and their United States congressional district home office or offices.[5]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Congressional_staff



According to the above, on average, a Senator has about 34 staff. Some in DC others in their home state headquarters. The article cited 4 former staffer and emails. Former staff were not identified and emails were not published. Not saying they don't exist, but hard to rely on anything without some documented proof.

Also claim was made that Sen Klobuchar had the highest staff turnover.

In the Senate, Minnesota Democrat Amy Klobuchar led the pack with an annual turnover rate of 36 percent, followed by Sen. Maria Cantwell (D-Wash.) with 30 percent and Sen. Joe Manchin (D-W.Va.) with 28 percent.

https://www.politico.com/story/2018/03/21/worst-bosses-congress-476729



Maybe because she does have high performance standard she produces more excellent candidates to fill high ranking positions in other government positions.

“Senator Klobuchar loves her staff ― they are the reason she has gotten to where she is today,” a campaign spokesperson told HuffPost. “She has many staff who have been with her for years ― including her Chief of Staff and her State Director, who have worked for her for 5 and 7 years respectively ― and many who have gone on to do amazing things, from working in the Obama Administration (over 20 of them) to running for office to even serving as the Agriculture Commissioner for Minnesota. She is proud of them and the work they have done for Minnesota.

https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/amy-klobuchar-abuse-staff-2020_us_5c5a1cb1e4b0871047588649


I haven't decided yet which candidate I'm hitching my wagon to for 2020, but I do like Sen Klobuchar and what she has done. I would be disappointed if these complaints have more substance than just the regular complaining of any disgruntled employee.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
19. And women leaders who behave in exactly the same way as men are perceived
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:34 PM
Feb 2019

as not-nice when they are assertive or demanding.

Boomer

(4,167 posts)
151. Klobuchar staff turnover is a fact
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:24 PM
Feb 2019

Data gathered from the Senate shows she had the highest office staff turnover for five years running. That's concerning because I don't want yet another POTUS with a revolving door of key White House staff.

She needs some anger management counseling.

Caliman73

(11,726 posts)
168. Are you asserting that the 36% turnover rate is solely based on her behavior?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 05:11 PM
Feb 2019

Could it be a combination of some people leaving because of the demands and some people moving to to other things like running for office, promotions, etc..?

I am not disputing that she may not treat her staff all that well, but it appears that people are very quick to disqualify Klobuchar without a larger context, especially when such behavior would likely be overlooked or even praised in a male counterpart.

Boomer

(4,167 posts)
193. It's a matter of comparative degree
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 12:48 AM
Feb 2019

If Klobuchar has "high staff turnover" I wouldn't think twice about it, except as the usual sexist standards applied to women who are supposed to be nice.

But "five years of the highest staff turnover in the Senate" kicks that up a notch. This goes beyond being a boss with high standards and into the realm of dysfunctional management.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
17. There is no evidence that she's been abusive, just some anonymous griping.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:32 PM
Feb 2019

Her attrition rate was 36% over 6 years, as compared to Barbara Jackson Lee's at 62%.

And even BJL's rate is not particularly high on an annual basis -- just over 10% a year.

And Legistorm, the outfit that collected the data, made the point (overlooked in most of the TV reports) that there are lots of reasons for attrition, including the fact that many staffers are interns and others who are moving on to better or more challenging positions.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
25. Here's the Politico article at the bottom of this, headlined the Worst Bosses of the Senate,
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:38 PM
Feb 2019

a claim made based on attrition rates. But the article itself contains a disclaimer that attrition might have little to do with a "toxic environment."

So the fact that this is coming out now makes me think someone is trying to kneecap AK, by going after her for something that is supposed to be her strength -- her likability in Minnesota and the midwest.

https://www.politico.com/story/2018/03/21/worst-bosses-congress-476729

“It’s much more important, for example, if a chief of staff turns over than if a lowly staff assistant turns over,” said Jock Friedly, LegiStorm’s CEO and founder. “It’s perfectly normal for a staff assistant to turn over. And obviously it’s particularly usual for paid interns to turn over so that obviously has little impact on an office.”


The office of Texas Democratic Rep. Sheila Jackson Lee topped the list in the House, with an annual turnover rate of 62 percent, according to LegiStorm. Rep. Raul Ruiz (D-Calif.) came in behind her with 60 percent annual turnover, followed by Rep. Mark Sanford (R-S.C.) with 54 percent.

In the Senate, Minnesota Democrat Amy Klobuchar led the pack with an annual turnover rate of 36 percent, followed by Sen. Maria Cantwell (D-Wash.) with 30 percent and Sen. Joe Manchin (D-W.Va.) with 28 percent.

LegiStorm declines to guess whether the high turnover stems from a toxic work environment or employees simply advancing in their careers.

SNIP

The office of Texas GOP Rep. Kay Granger, which had the seventh-highest annual turnover rate in the House from 2001 to 2016, said her office has been a launching pad for staffers, who have gone on to serve in the Bush administration and congressional leadership. Barrett Karr, Granger’s former chief of staff, for example, is House Majority Leader Kevin McCarthy’s chief of staff.

“Congresswoman Granger hires the best, and when staff does decide to leave, they go to work for influential people or businesses,” said Kevin Boland, Granger’s communications director. “She appreciates the dedication and hard work of her current and former staff members.”

Siwsan

(26,251 posts)
31. Thanks for the link
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:42 PM
Feb 2019

I think the 'kneecapping' is going to be something affecting a lot of our candidates. And, it's very unfortunate. Especially considering the hot moral, ethical and legal mess the GOP has on their plate.

Ms. Toad

(33,999 posts)
27. I'm pretty sure that one or both of the initial outlets
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:39 PM
Feb 2019

were given copies of emails from Klobuchar. Hardly anonymous griping when those doing the reporting were doing so based on emails Klobuchar actually wrote.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
117. Let's see
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:52 AM
Feb 2019

We have not only the attrition rate, especially odd considering "Minnesota Nice", but we have the union letter from before her assuming the office of Senator, and the fact that Harry Reid needed to step in.

Enough evidence for a conviction? No, of course not, but enough evidence to continue being suspicious and be cognizant of what comes out next.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
119. No, her attrition rate of 36% isn't even high. It's only about 6% a year. And the firm that did the
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:02 AM
Feb 2019

calculations, Legistorm, specifically said that no conclusions could be drawn by the number. Politico's headline writer decided to spin with the title, "worst bosses," but Legistorm said that there there are a number of factors that affect attrition, including the # of interns, people getting opportunities for better paying or more challenging jobs, etc.

But I don't hear anyone complaining about Barbara Jackson Lee's 62% rate over the same time period, or the numerous House members who had higher attrition than Klobuchar.

The local union had heard a couple complaints from her staffers, and they seemed to be especially disgruntled that they hadn't gotten the pay raises they were hoping for. She fought for pay raises but it was beyond her control.

We don't know that Reid had to step in. His office says he doesn't remember that happening.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
120. If Rep. Lee were running for president
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:08 AM
Feb 2019

you would certainly hear complaints in the media about her turnover rate.

You want the top job, expect to be scrutinized. You want to represent a district that has been gerrymandered to the point where any Democratic incumbent can repeatedly be reelected, then you will probably get a pass from the media, not wanting to waste ink.

There's more to come on this story, and I plan to pay some attention to whatever it is.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
121. The FACT is that her attrition rate isn't actually high, and the range in the Senate
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:14 AM
Feb 2019

is tighter than in the House. Whether someone has a 3% or a 6% annual attrition rate really isn't important; both numbers are small. I once worked in an office where there was a 75% attrition over 2 years. THAT was high.

I think the "more" to this story is that, in Minnesota, Amy is personally very popular, and many thought she'd bring that same strength to other swing states. So someone is going after her now, on the same weekend that she announces, to try to knee-cap her -- to take a whack at her reputation for "likability."

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
122. You're right, 75%
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:19 AM
Feb 2019

over two years is very high, but I'm guessing that your boss only had to please his or her boss, and not too many other people. There will be more questions, and more answers, and I will be attuned to all of them.

Frankly, her biggest problem is probably name recognition. I doubt that one American in ten has ever heard of her before today. Senators Harris and Booker got most of the coverage on our side in the Kavanaugh hearings.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
124. I don't know why my boss survived multiple years of turnover like that,
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:25 AM
Feb 2019

but it wasn't because she didn't have many people above her to please. They even gave her an extra staffer -- me -- to stand between her and the people she was making miserable, and I got out as soon as I could.

She was my first experience with a boss who was a narcissist, though I had had one in my personal life. I don't see evidence of that in Klobuchar.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
126. Is the place where you worked
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:34 AM
Feb 2019

in a business that effectively had competitors? My last job was customer service for a utility company that had no competitors, so it was not the case that an abusive or demeaning boss would have hurt the company in market share by driving away the best people.

My lady left a place about six months ago, from a department with horrendous hours (16 hour shifts, tough when you are in your early 60's!) , just to get away from her customer service supervisor, who has turned over 75% of that department in the time that my lady has been away from it, three to four years ago. She explicitly complained in her exit interview, but some firms just don't give a rat's patoot.

It's difficult to believe this could go on in an industry where you have competition that would attract the best people and motivate them properly, with incentives and decency rather than threats and intimidation. However, there are only two Senators from each state, and only one hundred overall that you could work for if you wanted to be a Senate staffer, which is pretty close to a monopolistic entity.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
127. It was at a university, but there were several other academic institutions in the city,
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:40 AM
Feb 2019

so I guess it had competitors. But, no, I wasn't working in a field like sales, where they'd really want to keep the most profitable people. We were part of the overhead, as it were. And the number of similar jobs was limited.

KewlKat

(5,624 posts)
7. I sat and wept as I watched her speak. I haven't done that since Hillary. Even my hubby said he
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:21 PM
Feb 2019

liked what he heard and said send her some money.

ooky

(8,908 posts)
51. She moved on to my radar scope today.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:13 PM
Feb 2019

Solid speech, said a lot of the things I want to hear. I'll be paying closer attention to her now. I like her.

exboyfil

(17,862 posts)
11. This is a quote I like from The Godfather
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:26 PM
Feb 2019

Moe Greene:

"I got a business to run. I gotta kick asses sometimes to make it run right. We had a little argument, Freddy and me, so I had to straighten him out."


She would benefit by having a trusted management coach on her campaign team assuming that this is really a problem.



empedocles

(15,751 posts)
12. I like the combination prosecutor and Senator. This gives Amy a better position,
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:26 PM
Feb 2019

knowledge and platform wise, to go after traitortrump, in the campaign.

Also, Amy seems sensible, and has a regular, special approachable appeal.

riverwalker

(8,694 posts)
21. End of story.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:34 PM
Feb 2019

Getting an “all caps email” from your boss is not “abuse”. This whole thing is ridiculous.

First Speaker

(4,858 posts)
26. Joe Biden's temper with his staff was legendary...
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:39 PM
Feb 2019

...and you never heard a peep about it. Largely because he was also supportive, and fair. His people--and I knew one--would always wince when they saw he was in one of his moods...and also run thru a brick wall for him. I suspect Ms Klobuchar is similar, and I know that much of this story is imbued with sexist stereotypes...

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
34. I had a male boss who also put the fear of God into people, as his Executive Assistant would say.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:44 PM
Feb 2019

But she also said he was eminently fair, and I agreed. That's why I was happy to work with him.

I agree with you, that that might be the kind of boss Amy is -- but some people don't react well to the same behavior on the part of a woman that they would accept from a man.

BeyondGeography

(39,351 posts)
29. Good chicken salad response
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:41 PM
Feb 2019

I won’t pretend to know the truth, but that answer makes the best of a not great situation. An encouraging indicator, at least on the communications front.

TimeToGo

(1,366 posts)
79. No
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:31 PM
Feb 2019

If he is abusive, no. Now, that's the question -- is she, or is she just strong. People are coming out of the woodwork to attack all our candidates. So, I would want to know a lot more. I would not want to support a candidate who was harsh down, and sweet out. That is a strong, telling character flaw.

But, let's rush to judgement on no one.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
182. I would think just as poorly of a man who treated his staff that way.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:27 PM
Feb 2019

It has nothing to do with her gender.

NNadir

(33,475 posts)
36. I went to dinner with some friends last night who were gushing over her. I don't know very...
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:46 PM
Feb 2019

...much about her, or for that matter, any of the other candidates, but the one thing we need in this country is a candidate who can wipe the floor with the remains of this racist, ignorant, very stupid and corrupt orange asshole in the White House.

It may be her, or one of the many other fine candidates of whom I'm learning, but I don't know.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
37. That is very similar to what I wrote in a thread last night
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:48 PM
Feb 2019

Regarding the proper response, and what I expected her to say.

Not complicated at all. I would have been surprised if someone of Amy's caliber would have taken it in a different direction.

A less capable and less instinctive person would have been scrambling to have some recent or current staffer standing alongside while making awkward positive remarks.

Amy will be asked to elaborate on the talk shows in coming days. She'll handle it extraordinarily well.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
40. I don't know what the specifics are. But abusive is different from demanding, IMO.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 05:54 PM
Feb 2019

I've seen both. I've experienced both. There is a difference. The former is not conducive to good business and is not about good work or team work or good results. "Demanding" is what is necessary to produce good results in a demanding field.

I have no doubt that working on Mueller's team in any capacity is very demanding. I also doubt that it's abusive. Because that wouldn't be constructive.

Abuse is not about a good work ethic or demanding excellence.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
96. Boot camp is similar
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 09:46 PM
Feb 2019

They are tough on recruits. To prepare them for a demanding job. Nobody calls it abuse.

Stand and Fight

(7,480 posts)
166. No. We're tough on recruits, because when you're being shot at you need to follow orders quickly.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 04:47 PM
Feb 2019

Failure to do so could result in your death or that of your fellow service members. That's no where near the same thing.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
167. I'm not saying it's as dangerous
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 04:56 PM
Feb 2019

but that it is similar in nature, so perhaps it should not be as extreme, but but if the job is one where you are involved in decisions that could affect people's lives, (and in working for the POTUS would include the military) you might want to be very thick-skinned.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
107. If a male boss threw stuff at his employees, he'd be arrested
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 11:01 PM
Feb 2019

I don't know if she did such things, or not, but I'm amazed at how many people think this kind of behavior is acceptable.

LongtimeAZDem

(4,494 posts)
110. Sure
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 11:21 PM
Feb 2019
When the DES Office of Inspector General investigated, witnesses corroborated the employee's story of verbal and physical abuse, and the supervisor was arrested last week at work by armed OIG officers.


https://www.phoenixnewtimes.com/news/arizona-des-worker-terrorized-by-abusive-boss-wanted-to-get-gun-and-shoot-someone-8239541
 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
183. I work for a large Fortune 100 company.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 07:31 PM
Feb 2019

If anyone acted that way, even an executive, they would be tossed out on their ass eventually - or immediately depending upon the severity of the assault. Abuse is not tolerated, no matter who is dishing it out. People are expected to behave themselves, and almost always do, regardless of the pressure they may be under.

Boomer

(4,167 posts)
194. Same here.
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 12:51 AM
Feb 2019

Emotional abuse is not tolerated. We're held to high standards of productivity and professionalism, which includes basic respect for staff below and above.

whathehell

(29,034 posts)
192. Not true...Abusive behavior by males is both resented and reported.
Tue Feb 12, 2019, 12:29 AM
Feb 2019

I'm female and have worked for both males and females who were abusive. They both suck.

Mike Nelson

(9,944 posts)
44. Another stupid...
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:01 PM
Feb 2019

… scandal. She's tough on staff! Elizabeth Warren was proud of Native American heritage! Hillary Clinton wanted a private email server! … considering the real scandals going on in the White House, these are really dumb.

 

PeeJ52

(1,588 posts)
45. If she was able to keep her head with the way Kavanaugh was acting without exploding...
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:03 PM
Feb 2019

I'd say maybe some of the stories might be a little exaggerated. If she was a hothead, she would have blown her stack there for sure.

Blue_true

(31,261 posts)
55. I agree. She would have ripped him a second asshole.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:33 PM
Feb 2019

Instead, she interrogated his ass and made him look like a jackass.

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
123. There are people
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:21 AM
Feb 2019

who have a public side and a somewhat contrasting private side. I'm not saying that Sen. Klobuchar is one of them for sure, but where there's smoke, there may be fire.

Kingofalldems

(38,425 posts)
49. Side note: The great Chelsea Janes, former Nationals beat reporter
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:11 PM
Feb 2019

now doing a great job covering the political scene.

elias7

(3,991 posts)
63. I thought she was highly effective and compelling during Kavanaugh hearing
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:46 PM
Feb 2019

As someone who has gone through the total immersion of a grueling medical residency, I know that sometimes you need extraordinary measures to learn to dig deep and realize that when something needs to get done, you get it done. There is no try, only do...

Paladin

(28,243 posts)
64. I have a low tolerance for abusive bosses, male or female. I've seen the damage done.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 06:46 PM
Feb 2019

If it comes down to a Klobuchar vs. trump contest, I will of course vote for her. For now, I'll support another Democratic candidate.

jmbar2

(4,865 posts)
71. Total agreement
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:18 PM
Feb 2019

These stories are a big red flag for me, especially with so many good candidates available.

Having seen the toxic atmosphere created by a toxic leader, I am in wait and see mode. I have zero tolerance for abusive behavior anywhere. Great leaders hire great people and treat them with respect

customerserviceguy

(25,183 posts)
125. Same here
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:25 AM
Feb 2019

on the support in the general election thing, but I too have had nasty ass bosses.

Overall, the women I worked for were better than the men I worked for, but there were a couple of female supervisors who were way worse than any man I ever reported to. The best women bosses had an empathy that the best male managers could have only wished to aspire to.

Kurt V.

(5,624 posts)
67. as many former and current staffers acknowledge she is tough
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:01 PM
Feb 2019

and thank her profusely for it. not everyone can take that. i couldn't, but i could move on.

Oneironaut

(5,486 posts)
68. LOL How fucking stupid this is.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:03 PM
Feb 2019

LBJ used to loom over people and scream in their faces.

I don't want leaders who would be my friend. They have a country to lead.

ISUGRADIA

(2,571 posts)
72. Got it
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:21 PM
Feb 2019

Important people get to bully those below them, great idea! LBJ would intentionally humiliate people making them talk to him when he was sitting on the toilet.

A lot of these staffers are young in their 20s and don’t even make minimum-wage given they are salaried.

Oneironaut

(5,486 posts)
158. Tbh, I think you missed the point I was making.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:40 PM
Feb 2019

Of course bullying isn’t ok - especially by bosses and people in positions of power. However, this is more shooting ourselves in the foot. I don’t care if our next President is a nice person. Their job is to keep our country on the right course - we aren’t going to the movies together on the weekend!

Being a nice person isn’t a requirement for the office. I would prefer someone who makes our lives better.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
97. How often president Obama was said to
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 09:49 PM
Feb 2019

Be short of LBJ who could have gotten single payer through due to this. Obama was “too nice.” Saw plenty of that on DU.

barbtries

(28,769 posts)
69. i worked for a brilliant woman.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:06 PM
Feb 2019

she was kind, generous, unbelievably energetic, and she could be vicious. we're still friends. not all of my co-workers are still friends with her. many are, including some whom she treated very badly at times. for some reason she very rarely targeted me; i don't know why, but I did have co-workers who I thought should quit.

it's not an excuse. but i can believe the reporting about Klobuchar considering that she did have the highest turnover in Congress. I don't consider it disqualifying necessarily. But it's a minus in my book. Think about the person in the WH right now. I doubt her behavior even qualifies as abusive compared to trump.

marylandblue

(12,344 posts)
70. She gave a good answer, ignore the attack.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:17 PM
Feb 2019

All candidates will have negative information put out about them. It doesn't matter if it's true or not, it will be played up in the media and by Trump.

What matters is how they respond. Do they wilt or dodge? Or do they take it on and turn it around? Klobuchar turned it around. Good job.

Kingofalldems

(38,425 posts)
86. So?
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:57 PM
Feb 2019

The writer of the tweet is a respected reporter for the Washington Post. If you think she is lying let's have some evidence.

ZeroSomeBrains

(638 posts)
84. Exactly
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:53 PM
Feb 2019

She's going have to respond to these accusations with more contrition regarding her actions towards her staff. I wouldn't want to work for her if this stuff is considered acceptable behavior. And maybe she should have to act better than LBJ did back in the 60's. That's just my two cents.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
99. Why more contrition? How do you know it even happened? We're talking about anonymous reports
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:34 PM
Feb 2019

that are suddenly being pushed on the same weekend that she announces her candidacy.

Color me very skeptical.

DURHAM D

(32,606 posts)
105. I see comments around the internet that this narrative
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:44 PM
Feb 2019

is being pushed by Biden or his people. Joe would certainly be aware of attrition rates in the senate. It is really sort of inside baseball stuff but I guess that must be all that he has.

Quixote1818

(28,918 posts)
111. This letter from AFSCME is concerning
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:02 AM
Feb 2019

This is a pretty scathing letter. I would like someone to dig deeper on these things to get a fuller picture of all this:

https://www.scribd.com/document/399214761/AFSCME-Letter-on-Amy-Klobuchar-2006#from_embed

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
128. Yeah, but the STATE union people did investigate, and they overruled the local group.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 01:45 AM
Feb 2019

The state group had a bigger picture than the local group -- they knew Amy K. had worked for the raises the disgruntled employees were demanding -- and they decided to give Amy got the endorsement.

Laffy Kat

(16,373 posts)
129. Where there is this much smoke, there is undoubtedly fire.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 02:16 AM
Feb 2019

It's not a deal-breaker for me by any means and I am well aware of double standards at play. It's just I've worked with tyrants of both sexes and it was miserable. It's not good managing and it's not effective managing. You end up with a staff like our current president has, leaking and bad-mouthing.

pnwmom

(108,959 posts)
98. But all we have is an anonymous report from a couple of disgruntled employees.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:33 PM
Feb 2019

And one thing the report said is they were unhappy she hadn't been able to get them a higher pay increase.

pazzyanne

(6,543 posts)
82. If you are concerned about results, Amy delivers!
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:46 PM
Feb 2019

I can say this because I am one of her constituents! She easily has won her two re-election bids! She has been on my radar since early 2000, and had no bad press until now! Strange that this surfaces just before she is ready to announce throwing her hat in the ring. We have seen this tactic before, are seeing now on a national level, and it is just going to get worse as we move toward the 2020 election. Everyone has a chance to vet her themselves. I am just suggesting that the vetting be a total picture vetting, not focused on anonymous conjecture. Looking forward to the people making allegations stepping forward with their names attached!

yaesu

(8,020 posts)
85. While still in high school I took a summer job
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 07:53 PM
Feb 2019

at a wood shop that made pallets for shipping. While working at the band saw the owner would show up, drunk, screaming at you to work faster, a very dangerous proposition when working with power saws. Now thats worker abuse.

Quixote1818

(28,918 posts)
101. I think where I come down on this is that I am suspicious enough to take her out of my top teer
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:35 PM
Feb 2019

but it seems minor enough that if she gets the nomination it would be a tiny speck of an issue compared to ANY Republican!

The letter from the union refusing to endorse her because of treatment of her employees means something was going on.

gulliver

(13,168 posts)
106. Need to see more. She didn't do well when Kavanaugh insulted her.
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 10:45 PM
Feb 2019

She asked Kavanaugh whether he had ever had so much to drink he blacked out. He asked her, "Have you?" He did it a couple of times. Her response could have been a lot stronger there. She should have stood up from her chair, scowled, and gutted him like a fish. She could have said something like, "Are you seriously acting like a naughty ten-year-old on live TV in front of the Senate? Chairman, I have nothing further to ask Mr. Kavanaugh. He's plainly unfit to serve on the Supreme Court or any court. He doesn't have the maturity."

Instead she just said she didn't have a drinking problem.

Kavanaugh later apologized. He got away with the insult. Klobuchar later said she was stunned by his behavior or some such. That's no excuse in my book. By being stunned, she blew an opportunity to nail Kavanaugh.

I'll need to see more from her to trust she won't be "stunned" if/when she confronts Trump. Pelosi hasn't been.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
130. That would have been a great method to throw away her likability
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 03:00 AM
Feb 2019

It would have done nothing to Kavanaugh's bottom line toward confirmation.

Stand up and scowl? Acting like a 10-year old? Reminds me of the posters who want someone to shout, "You lie."

Klobuchar was much the best with Kavanaugh. I emphasized it immediately. It was obvious at the time, to anyone who knows what swing voters prioritize. That's why she has received so much praise for that questioning.

IluvPitties

(3,181 posts)
109. Toughness is good. Abuse is bad. She's my favorite candidate so far but,
Sun Feb 10, 2019, 11:19 PM
Feb 2019

abusive people are not my cup of tea. I hope this gets clarified.

Vinca

(50,237 posts)
135. I was bothered by this at first, but the more I think about it the more it's not "a thing."
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 08:49 AM
Feb 2019

I don't think you can expect hearts and flowers at the end of the day if you're a political aide. It's a tough business and not everyone is suited to it. I read somewhere that the person complaining about doing personal errands for her has a job with a description that includes running personal errands.

Rene

(1,183 posts)
136. she should forget it. she's going to run into the Franken wall
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 09:10 AM
Feb 2019

folks remember. won't let her get away with it

Act_of_Reparation

(9,116 posts)
141. 5,974 People Find This Canned Response Convincing.
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 11:30 AM
Feb 2019

"I can be though". "I run a tight ship". "I'm demanding". "I push my employees".

Every bad boss has the same excuse for being a bad boss.

nini

(16,672 posts)
142. High expectations and bullying are two different things
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 11:33 AM
Feb 2019

I'm a manager - I expect the same level of hard work from my team as I do myself.

However, I don't cut them down in front of others, demean them if they're too slow or not perfect etc..

She's known for going way beyond 'having high expectations'.



Boomer

(4,167 posts)
150. Major fail - this is bullshit
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:19 PM
Feb 2019

I don't want a Dem version of an abusive POTUS setting up yet another revolving door of White House staff.

A White House staff that walks on eggshells is not focused on their job and will hesitate before speaking Truth to Power. That's not the kind of POTUS this country needs.

Texin

(2,590 posts)
159. Well, did anybody actually think she wouldn't be tough as nails?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 12:57 PM
Feb 2019

My god. She was a successful prosecutor. A woman in that kind of job has got to be tough as nails. Hell, a woman in any professional position or elected office that is, and has been, traditionally male-dominated, has got to be three or four times harder and more professional than the average male. And because they are, and they are successful, they are consistently going to be criticized as being hard and demanding. So what? These ninnies haven't been around the average male executive professional? Why is "demanding" behavior, which includes stating unambiguous expectations and meting out reasonable criticism when demanded. As people have noted, there are some positions, professional or political, that are highly stressful because of the absolute critical role that person plays. These are the type of positions in which the person occupying the position or office must account to the people they represent. Anyone accepting a role within such an organization, campaign, political office, should sure understand that going in. Staffers working for such a person know that the job is going to be stressful and demand more than putting in a mere eight hours. When they slack or wilt under pressure and an assignment gets blown or a deadline missed may mean the difference between meeting a critical challenge or winning a particular case, or race. People that can't handle that kind of environment should not be in the position to begin with. And any male who is in a similar position as Klobuchar's who was described as "tough" would be respected for it.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
170. Tough female prosecutor who comes across as calm and likable
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 05:21 PM
Feb 2019

Very rare combination.

I don't doubt we'll throw it away.

Your summary was excellent toward the responsibility of those staff roles. I couldn't tolerate poor performance and would likely have some poor moments. But since I'm a 6 foot 4 white male in his late 50s I could undoubtedly get away with it.

BannonsLiver

(16,313 posts)
164. So many gullible suckers in this thread who believe an obvious hit piece
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 03:21 PM
Feb 2019

Pro tip: if you get an email from someone claiming to be a prince from a far away country who wants to give you millions of dollars don’t respond.

StevieM

(10,500 posts)
165. Could you imagine if we had heard these kinds of stories about Hillary?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 03:56 PM
Feb 2019

The media loved to proclaim that her campaign staff was unhappy and undedicated, and didn't even require a shred of evidence to substantiate it. People who weren't on her campaign are given total right to describe the experience that was had by people who were actually on it, and people who were on it are ignored when they speak out.

 

Awsi Dooger

(14,565 posts)
171. Where would, "How Candidate Treats Staff," have slotted on a priority list two weeks ago?
Mon Feb 11, 2019, 05:27 PM
Feb 2019

Among let's say 100 check boxes, when considering a potential presidential nominee?

Just an observation. I never see the topic here. But now it's being used as outright disqualifier.

Absolutely amazing how so many people are transfixed by recent news as opposed to the big picture.

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