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sadness just out. Like you did when you were a kid and something hurt. Feel it. Let it out.
True Dough
(17,296 posts)Stuff that would keep my up most of the night, a lot of nights.
I agree with your second point about letting the thoughts and emotions overtake you and dealing with them. My mistake as a teen was desperately trying to push the tormenting thoughts out of my mind. Of course they'd immediately return and I'd feel anxiety about not being able to avoid them. So it created a negative feedback loop that would spiral out of control.
Not easy, but best to confront the troubling thoughts and do your best to make peace with them, or form a strategy to cope -- at least in my experience.
BigBearJohn
(11,410 posts)safeinOhio
(32,658 posts)the here and now.
samplegirl
(11,474 posts)bad I use to be able to fight them off so much easier. But much harder these days. Thanks for sharing this. I use to never tell anyone but now its easier to talk about it! Again thathans applegrove.
applegrove
(118,589 posts)Belly breathing, as I call it, works some of the time. Sometimes you just have to feel the pain.
Raine
(30,540 posts)I lately started trying mindfulness meditation and it's helped quite a bit. I saw a segment on PBS about it and then learned more about it on the internet.
DarthDem
(5,255 posts)It really does give comfort even from minor stress.
applegrove
(118,589 posts)socdem60
(52 posts)I've been using this breathing method for years. It works well when driving.
montana_hazeleyes
(3,424 posts)Things like this really help a lot.
applegrove
(118,589 posts)Raine
(30,540 posts)so much!
applegrove
(118,589 posts)Dennis Donovan
(18,770 posts)First I've heard of this! Hope it works...
rownesheck
(2,343 posts)I'd be doing nothing but repeating this breathing exercise for the next 2 years. Ay yi yi! When will it end???!!!
JustABozoOnThisBus
(23,336 posts)I can't exhale for 8 years. Maybe 4 years. Barely.
We need a new Dem prez in 2021. We huddled masses yearning to breathe free.