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Young Lady Sasha Obama Goes To The Prom (Original Post) Soph0571 May 2019 OP
Beautiful couple. Croney May 2019 #1
Lovely. thanks for post riversedge May 2019 #2
Oh my gosh...she grew up! lapucelle May 2019 #3
Drop dead gorgeous. Just like her Mom and sister. JanetLovesObama May 2019 #4
and her date not bad either Skittles May 2019 #5
I like the rakish tilt of his bow tie :-) n/t Soph0571 May 2019 #6
ah yesssss Skittles May 2019 #10
We wouldn't miss that malaise May 2019 #9
nope we would not! Skittles May 2019 #11
+1,000 malaise May 2019 #15
My one gripe: one should never wear a belt with a tuxedo. Aristus May 2019 #13
heh, I would not notice such details Skittles May 2019 #17
Neither have I... Aristus May 2019 #51
Nice. I wonder if Obamas will stay in DC now that Sasha is headed to college next year? hlthe2b May 2019 #7
I have a feeling it will be 2020 before they go Soph0571 May 2019 #8
It would be better if they were living in DC when Mr.Bill May 2019 #19
THAT would be great... hlthe2b May 2019 #22
Mrs Obama for the Supreme Court. President Obama for Sec of State or AG. n/t sarge43 May 2019 #56
Has Sasha chosen a college? Would be cool if she joined her sister at Blue_true May 2019 #29
OMG! She got her mother's arms! McCamy Taylor May 2019 #12
Sasha Obama Steps Out for Prom, Looking as Graceful as Only Michelle's Daughters Can Cha May 2019 #14
Mahalo Soph0571 May 2019 #16
How cute! smirkymonkey May 2019 #18
Class Billy Ray Joe Bob. May 2019 #20
K&R stonecutter357 May 2019 #21
She looks great, but isn't that dress a bit too revealing for a young person at a prom? Honeycombe8 May 2019 #23
"too much for a young girl" left-of-center2012 May 2019 #25
++1 Irishxs May 2019 #34
Under 18. Girl. I never use the word "lady." Honeycombe8 May 2019 #40
I think the perception of both words 'lady' and 'gentleman' have changed. Aristus May 2019 #52
In my observation, "ladies" is used a lot, but "gentlemen" is used for certain occasions. Honeycombe8 May 2019 #54
I realized I was edging into middle age when I started using the terms 'young man' Aristus May 2019 #55
I've caught myself saying, "What a nice young man." Honeycombe8 May 2019 #58
The bra can be sewn into the dress n/t TexasBushwhacker May 2019 #26
Ah. I see. Thanks. Honeycombe8 May 2019 #41
Strapless and spaghetti straps are in style Ilsa May 2019 #28
Thank you. Honeycombe8 May 2019 #42
Another popular style has Ilsa May 2019 #48
Not really NewJeffCT May 2019 #30
These all look fairly conservative...except for the tight red number. Honeycombe8 May 2019 #43
I'd have posted a few other girls NewJeffCT May 2019 #47
LOL. nt Honeycombe8 May 2019 #49
No. It's perfectly appropriate MaryMagdaline May 2019 #37
+1. nt Honeycombe8 May 2019 #44
What a bizarre statement RandiFan1290 May 2019 #39
What a bizarre response. Honeycombe8 May 2019 #45
This is what they're wearing now, and I think it's modest enough FakeNoose May 2019 #46
There aren't any cutouts AwakeAtLast May 2019 #50
I wonder if Barack had that much savoir-faire when he first met Michelle. NBachers May 2019 #24
Wow. Sasha has grown into a beautiful young woman. nt Blue_true May 2019 #27
Daaaaaaaayum... calimary May 2019 #31
I couldn't get to the REC button fast enough! Stinky The Clown May 2019 #32
What a joyous, beautiful picture of a gorgeous couple. blue neen May 2019 #33
I remember the night when they came out on the Irishxs May 2019 #35
Beautiful! blueinredohio May 2019 #36
Oh my...she's stunning! Totally Tunsie May 2019 #38
I miss having a real POTUS Gothmog May 2019 #53
Picking up a date from the ex-president's house IronLionZion May 2019 #57

Aristus

(66,294 posts)
13. My one gripe: one should never wear a belt with a tuxedo.
Sat May 25, 2019, 07:16 PM
May 2019

Suspenders all the way.

Tuxedo trousers don't usually even come with belt loops.

Nevertheless, a good-looking young man. And Sasha looks stunning.

Aristus

(66,294 posts)
51. Neither have I...
Sun May 26, 2019, 11:54 AM
May 2019


I'm a clothes-horse. I own two of them. A traditional black one, and a gray tuxedo (Vera Wang). I usually punch them up with a white dinner jacket, a navy-and-black-checked dinner jacket, and my pride and joy: a custom-fitted black and gray brocade dinner jacket. I ordered it back in February, and by the time it was finished, the weather was too warm for an occasion to wear it.

Soon...

I also ordered a custom black tuxedo shirt to go with it. Next Fall, I'm going to rock it at the opera!....

Soph0571

(9,685 posts)
8. I have a feeling it will be 2020 before they go
Sat May 25, 2019, 06:54 PM
May 2019

I am sure they will be working very hard for the blue wave

Cha

(296,868 posts)
14. Sasha Obama Steps Out for Prom, Looking as Graceful as Only Michelle's Daughters Can
Sat May 25, 2019, 07:21 PM
May 2019
Sasha wore a classic black dress to the Sidwell Friends prom, while Milton, whose waves were sure to have made a few chaperones seasick by the end of the night, matched Sasha’s fly in a classic black tux and the quiet confidence of a man taking the President’s daughter to prom
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https://www.theroot.com/sasha-obama-steps-out-for-prom-looking-as-graceful-as-1835027308

Who is Chris Milton? Meet Sasha Obama’s 2019 Prom Date

While Sidwell Friends is a highly selective private school located in Bethesda, Maryland, it appears her prom date hails from Middleton, Ohio. Milton’s older brother, Travis, proudly posted of his baby brother’s prom photos on his Facebook page, with the caption, “CONGRATS to Chris and Sasha Obama 2019 Sidwell Prom. Hanging out with the First Family….. PRICELESS!!”

https://heavy.com/news/2019/05/chris-milton-sasha-obama-prom-date-2019/

Mahalo, Soph! Our little Sasha all grown up!

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
23. She looks great, but isn't that dress a bit too revealing for a young person at a prom?
Sat May 25, 2019, 07:37 PM
May 2019

Can you wear a bra with that? I'm not trying to criticize; it's a serious question. That really is not considered too much for a young girl? You can see the sides.


So different from my high school days, which admittedly was a long time ago.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
40. Under 18. Girl. I never use the word "lady."
Sun May 26, 2019, 08:41 AM
May 2019

It dates back to the ancient times and was used as a way not to recognize women as "women." They were "ladies."

Aristus

(66,294 posts)
52. I think the perception of both words 'lady' and 'gentleman' have changed.
Sun May 26, 2019, 12:03 PM
May 2019

Nowadays, I think they have been divorced from any association with land, wealth, status, bloodlines, etc. I use them more in the context of character, personality, behavior, etc.

To me, a 'gentleman' is any man, regardless of socioeconomic status, who is polite, considerate, thoughtful, compassionate, selfless, and possesses a positive attitude.

The same goes for my usage of the term 'lady'. When I think of someone as a lady, I never think of her as chattel, property, or a prize to be won.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
54. In my observation, "ladies" is used a lot, but "gentlemen" is used for certain occasions.
Sun May 26, 2019, 12:19 PM
May 2019

Saying, "Ladies and Gentlemen," like in introducing a speaker, is tradition and fine.

In Congress, they'll say "The GentleLady from Wisconsin," but will also say, "The Gentleman from Wisconsin." It's tradition.

Throughout history, though, and even now, it's often used while "men" is used. It is a form of referring to the women as "those others," "those females of gentle persuasion, delicate, not befitting an equal seat at the table." "Woman" implies someone stronger, an adult, and has a different connotation than "lady." Much like "man" does.

That's just my feeling on it, such as it is. But it was my explanation defending the word "girl," since she is still a minor. "Minor female" didn't seem right. I suppose "young woman" would be fine. I just chose girl, since she's still a minor. Either one is fine, though, IMO. "Young lady" is not a term I would use for anyone, any more than I would refer in ordinary conversation to David Hogg as "young gentleman." It's not my manner of speaking.

Aristus

(66,294 posts)
55. I realized I was edging into middle age when I started using the terms 'young man'
Sun May 26, 2019, 12:27 PM
May 2019

and 'young lady' unironically.

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
28. Strapless and spaghetti straps are in style
Sat May 25, 2019, 08:09 PM
May 2019

for these dress-up occasions. As Ann Landers used to say, "If you are able to hold up a strapless gown, you are old enough to wear one." There are all kinds of special bras for these gowns. I'm certain her parents are okay with the dress.

I don't much like seeing the style in wedding gowns, though, for church weddings. They make special bridal boleros for the gowns, though, so they can be removed for a dance reception.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
42. Thank you.
Sun May 26, 2019, 08:45 AM
May 2019

Thank you taking my question seriously. I'm sure I sounded like an old fogie.

Very interesting...the strapless & spaghetti strap trend. I was wondering about the bra, though.

LOL....This former sort of hippie is getting old! I never thought I'd be this behind the times.

Anyway, she looks so pretty. Sigh. I can't believe she's all grown up.

Ilsa

(61,690 posts)
48. Another popular style has
Sun May 26, 2019, 09:19 AM
May 2019

Portions of the midriff bare, but top and skirt attached, and some are two pieces, with the top cropped close to the waist.

I own a gorgeous black lace over tan taffeta strapless gown I cannot wear any more, a classic, elegant, sexy design. It would look out of place today. So much for "classic."

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
30. Not really
Sat May 25, 2019, 08:45 PM
May 2019

that's fairly conservative for a prom in the 21st century

This was my daughter's prom 2 days ago:






Oh, 3 girls are seniors in the pic - one is going to Wesleyan University, one to Northeastern (biomedical engineering) and one to Kenyon College in Ohio.

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
43. These all look fairly conservative...except for the tight red number.
Sun May 26, 2019, 08:50 AM
May 2019

The thing about the Obama dress is that there's "side boob" showing. I'm familiar with the style...I watch celebrities on awards show and such. I just didn't realize it was for the high school prom crowd.

The more things change, the more they stay the same. I was a bit on the wild side and was sent home from places a couple of times for being dressed inappropriately.

NewJeffCT

(56,828 posts)
47. I'd have posted a few other girls
Sun May 26, 2019, 09:02 AM
May 2019

but, I'd feel like a creepy old guy posting pics of teenagers with plunging necklines

FakeNoose

(32,596 posts)
46. This is what they're wearing now, and I think it's modest enough
Sun May 26, 2019, 08:58 AM
May 2019

Since Sasha's parents approve of her dress, it's not up to us to criticize. These prom dresses are designed with the "bra" built into the bodice (same way swimsuits are made) so no additional undergarment needed.

I believe Michelle Obama has excellent taste in clothes, and she sets a good example for her daughters who are both tall and slender. They are lucky to have good genes, and they're both smart and beautiful girls.

AwakeAtLast

(14,123 posts)
50. There aren't any cutouts
Sun May 26, 2019, 11:49 AM
May 2019

So she's not showing as much flesh as some dresses I've seen.

I think she looks great! Classic elegance!

NBachers

(17,082 posts)
24. I wonder if Barack had that much savoir-faire when he first met Michelle.
Sat May 25, 2019, 07:55 PM
May 2019

Me? I'd have been tongue-tied in the face of all that beauty and intelligence.

Irishxs

(622 posts)
35. I remember the night when they came out on the
Sat May 25, 2019, 09:28 PM
May 2019

stage. I thought about how nice it was going to be to have a young family in the whitehouse again. I’ve never worked so hard to elect a president as I did Barack Obama. ❤️❤️❤️

Totally Tunsie

(10,885 posts)
38. Oh my...she's stunning!
Sun May 26, 2019, 04:17 AM
May 2019

What a nice looking couple they make. Hope they had a great time.

P.S.: Sasha, sure do miss your family, especially your dad.

IronLionZion

(45,380 posts)
57. Picking up a date from the ex-president's house
Sun May 26, 2019, 04:57 PM
May 2019

has got to be extremely nerve-wracking. You think Barack put some Dad fear into him? Bring her home by 10 or the secret service will make you disappear!

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