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1000s of El Pasoans say goodbye to Margie Reckard - Line to enter stretches for nearly half a mile. (Original Post) kpete Aug 2019 OP
Oh, I'm so glad everyone showed up. Merlot Aug 2019 #1
We were there in spirit. n/t luvallpeeps Aug 2019 #9
Yes we were. calimary Aug 2019 #46
Kick dalton99a Aug 2019 #2
Wonderful ... CatMor Aug 2019 #3
It's something like this that gives me great hope about the USA DonaldsRump Aug 2019 #4
+ 1. nt iluvtennis Aug 2019 #18
This gives me the same feeling I got upon hearing that a group of WWII pilots in Texas had gotten Leghorn21 Aug 2019 #5
I'm so glad Raine Aug 2019 #6
Oh My Goodness. calimary Aug 2019 #7
Me too...when I heard the CNN reporter tear up Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2019 #15
I couldn't be there due to geography and life, so I sent flowers. herding cats Aug 2019 #8
That was very kind of you renate Aug 2019 #10
Thank you. herding cats Aug 2019 #13
Wow that was very thoughtful ❣️. You're a nice person! Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2019 #16
Thank you, but, no, I'm just decent. herding cats Aug 2019 #19
Sent three graduation gifts this year and only got one thank you note. Don't Laura PourMeADrink Aug 2019 #34
Thank you, well said. KY_EnviroGuy Aug 2019 #35
Wonderful gesture grantcart Aug 2019 #17
Thank you, but generally speaking, people are kind. herding cats Aug 2019 #24
He said she loved getting flowers susanr516 Aug 2019 #20
I saw that, and I do hope so. NT herding cats Aug 2019 #22
wow..thats a line Demovictory9 Aug 2019 #11
awwwwwwww dixiegrrrrl Aug 2019 #12
This isn't nice. It is just basic decency. herding cats Aug 2019 #14
Antonio Basco's got family Brother Buzz Aug 2019 #21
THIS is what makes America great GETPLANING Aug 2019 #23
Big K&R! nt tblue37 Aug 2019 #25
i saw a post on DU a couple of days ago about this man and his lost wife BigmanPigman Aug 2019 #26
"We are your family, sir" Leghorn21 Aug 2019 #27
People told him "You're not alone" and "We're your family. kpete Aug 2019 #29
RIP to her and thank you to those good and decent people who turned out to see her off. brush Aug 2019 #28
This is What True Community Looks Like dlk Aug 2019 #30
Meanwhile, Trump/Melania using a baby orphaned by one of Trump's followers for a political photo-op. keithbvadu2 Aug 2019 #31
Diluted my covfefe with tears streaming down my cheeks. OxQQme Aug 2019 #32
this makes me cry CatWoman Aug 2019 #33
Me too RussBLib Aug 2019 #53
heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time Hermit-The-Prog Aug 2019 #36
I am really weeping. NNadir Aug 2019 #37
Right there with you. JudyM Aug 2019 #45
So touching. El Paso has so much love. The best of America. SunSeeker Aug 2019 #38
What is the community/church's plans to look after him after the funeral? CousinIT Aug 2019 #39
The overwhelming turnout will fade but everyone will know him on sight lunatica Aug 2019 #40
I hope you're right! n/t CousinIT Aug 2019 #41
Forgotten by many is the fact that humans do take care of each other lunatica Aug 2019 #42
+1,000 malaise Aug 2019 #43
That is a good thing to remember. Their mouth is bigger and they are the loudest and the crudest. Oppaloopa Aug 2019 #48
That's an insightful observation. Collimator Aug 2019 #44
Thanks! lunatica Aug 2019 #49
I hope he has loads of invitations to Thanksgiving and Christmas and other special days and times. calimary Aug 2019 #47
Remember that many people were gunned down too lunatica Aug 2019 #50
From your keyboard to God's screen. calimary Aug 2019 #54
We have to remember there is a lot of good out there. democrank Aug 2019 #51
💧❤️ BlancheSplanchnik Aug 2019 #52

Merlot

(9,696 posts)
1. Oh, I'm so glad everyone showed up.
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 10:49 PM
Aug 2019

And the flowers, just wonderful.

I would have gone if it were not so far away.

DonaldsRump

(7,715 posts)
4. It's something like this that gives me great hope about the USA
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 10:58 PM
Aug 2019

There are many wonderful people here.

Rest in peace.

Leghorn21

(13,524 posts)
5. This gives me the same feeling I got upon hearing that a group of WWII pilots in Texas had gotten
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 11:01 PM
Aug 2019

together to fly provisions into New Orleans after Katrina...

The People can do anything when they are called upon to serve

Raine

(30,540 posts)
6. I'm so glad
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 11:07 PM
Aug 2019

this was just so heartbreaking but there really are good people in this world.

RIP Dear Lady ...

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
15. Me too...when I heard the CNN reporter tear up
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 11:47 PM
Aug 2019

It broke me heart. He said he was so grateful to be a part of it all down there. Beto always says it's a special place. He was telling the truth. Makes me want to visit.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
8. I couldn't be there due to geography and life, so I sent flowers.
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 11:23 PM
Aug 2019

I hope he found it consoling and beautiful. 😢

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
13. Thank you.
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 11:33 PM
Aug 2019

It's still my state and they're still my people. It was just the decent thing to do.

I know a lot of Texans who sent flowers who weren't able to attend due to our geographic limitations.

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
19. Thank you, but, no, I'm just decent.
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 12:16 AM
Aug 2019

We've lowered the bar so much common decency now seems kinder than it should. This is what we all once did when on of ours was in pain and need. We've just forgotten, I think. Sending flowers was a basic kindness I hope was well received.

 

Laura PourMeADrink

(42,770 posts)
34. Sent three graduation gifts this year and only got one thank you note. Don't
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 11:15 AM
Aug 2019

think parents are teaching kids about thank you's. It's like you don't ever even know if they got it or not and you can't ask.

KY_EnviroGuy

(14,490 posts)
35. Thank you, well said.
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 11:52 AM
Aug 2019

Just the simple acts of people being ladies and gentlemen seems to be fading away.

We indeed need to reset a lot of our simple values to rebuild community.......

herding cats

(19,564 posts)
14. This isn't nice. It is just basic decency.
Fri Aug 16, 2019, 11:41 PM
Aug 2019

We've seen so much horror we tend to conflate the two. I get it. This is just people who lean toward community and compassion standing up for another broken brethren.

BigmanPigman

(51,585 posts)
26. i saw a post on DU a couple of days ago about this man and his lost wife
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 01:34 AM
Aug 2019

and was hoping people would show up. When I saw this on CNN tonight I got teary...what a wonderful show of compassion.

Leghorn21

(13,524 posts)
27. "We are your family, sir"
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 01:38 AM
Aug 2019
This is how Antonio Basco was greeted as he
made his way into his wife’s memorial “We are
your family sir... We’re your family.”





dlk

(11,560 posts)
30. This is What True Community Looks Like
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 09:36 AM
Aug 2019

Strangers reaching out to comfort one another in times of great loss-we can all take a lesson from this outpouring of love.

keithbvadu2

(36,783 posts)
31. Meanwhile, Trump/Melania using a baby orphaned by one of Trump's followers for a political photo-op.
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 10:37 AM
Aug 2019

Meanwhile, Trump/Melania using a baby orphaned by one of Trump's followers for a political photo-op.

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Hermit-The-Prog

(33,328 posts)
36. heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 12:03 PM
Aug 2019

Our MAGAt infestation in this country will not destroy decency.

NNadir

(33,515 posts)
37. I am really weeping.
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 12:53 PM
Aug 2019

How can a country with so many loving people in it be lead by a corrupt ignorant thug?

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
40. The overwhelming turnout will fade but everyone will know him on sight
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 02:02 PM
Aug 2019

People will greet him and talk to him, and a few people will naturally take care of him because some people do that all the time. El Paso is a tight community of open acceptance of ethnic and racial contrasts. The big city dynamic of being lost in a sea of people doesn’t exist there. People will go out of their way to go see him and check on his needs.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
42. Forgotten by many is the fact that humans do take care of each other
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 02:50 PM
Aug 2019

He’s a symbol of El Paso now. The embodiment of a city’s tragic loss. The community needs him now as part of their recovery. They want to be kind and caring because he will give them back the kindness they need. The fact that so many were killed makes El Paso a city in mourning and that means the embrace of community is needed and vital. Shared grief is very powerful. Just think how the aftereffects of 911 still resonate with us. When Jon Stewart fought for the first responders in Congress it was the community support the entire country gave him and them that made even Moscow Mitch fold. Community is a powerful thing even when what brings us together happened 20 years ago, or in past history.

Collimator

(1,639 posts)
44. That's an insightful observation.
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 03:06 PM
Aug 2019

And a sorely needed positive perspective.

Thank you.

It's so easy to become discouraged these days. May I recommend a book called, The Brighter Side of Human Nature: Altruism and Empathy in Everyday Life.?

calimary

(81,220 posts)
47. I hope he has loads of invitations to Thanksgiving and Christmas and other special days and times.
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 04:30 PM
Aug 2019

This weekend will fade. He'll still need the comfort and companionship.

Please don't let this dear fellow be forgotten after it's all over!

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
50. Remember that many people were gunned down too
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 05:18 PM
Aug 2019

The entire community is grieving and they need him and each other. When tragedy like that happens to so many the community bonds like never before. El Paso will never forget this shared horror and grief. They will help each other for a very long time. No one will be forgotten.

BlancheSplanchnik

(20,219 posts)
52. 💧❤️
Sat Aug 17, 2019, 07:53 PM
Aug 2019

I truly hope he made many connections that give him strength through the coming weeks....and years.

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