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FIL just had delicate surgery on his respiratory system.
Guess what?
They both got the flu.
FIL had to have urgent care come to the house, because of his post-surgery situation.
He continued to get worse.
They came back, and took chest x-rays.
Sure enough, he has pneumonia.
Did I mention he's also a cardiac patient?
And didn't get his pneumonia shot either.
He's supposed to get on a plane on Thursday to spend Christmas with his grandkids.
Real consequences, folks.
Update Monday night:
MIL still sick, now has a sinus infection.
FIL still sick with both flu and pneumonia.
He will get another chest x-ray tomorrow.
The trip to see the grandkids for Christmas is off.
Thanks to those who wish them well.
I do as well, but I'm also frustrated as hell.
samnsara
(17,604 posts)Hubby is a pharmacist and gives shots to people all day. hes offered and I always say no. he doesnt push it.
MineralMan
(146,254 posts)i wouldn't, though, take that chance. At least get the 13-valent pneumonia vaccine, please. That way, if you get the flu, you'll be less likely to end up in the hospital with pneumonia. That is distinctly no fun at all, and even worse sometimes.
chowder66
(9,055 posts)Unfortunately not everyone does. I got pneumonia when I was 2 and again at 16 with pleurisy. I was in the hospital for a long time.
I wouldn't dare skip a flu vaccine let alone my pneumonia vaccine.
lithiumbomb
(250 posts)I used to never get flu shots, because I rarely got the flu. Here's what convinced me to change my mind. You could be carrying the flu virus, but not get sick. So you could then transfer it to someone else, who does. If you get the shot, it could lower the chance that you make someone else sick.
https://www.cdc.gov/flu/prevent/vaccine-benefits.htm
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)and not have symptoms. Here's a link to something from the NIH which verifies that. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2646474/
The real problem is the people who go to work or out shopping or whatever when they are sick. Especially if they're in a job where they come in contact with the public.
TwilightZone
(25,428 posts)"One in three influenza-infected individuals is asymptomatic"
"The proportion of transmission by asymptomatic individuals, defined as Theta (? in transmission models, is assumed to be one-third to one-half that of influenza-infected symptomatic individuals"
Your assertion is clearly false, as indicated by your own source.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)As well as the next sentence:
Again, it's the people who knowingly go to work sick who should be shouldering more blame.
Beartracks
(12,797 posts)... or don't have health insurance to go to a doctor -- or both. And being underpaid to start with, they simply can't "afford" to be off work. How much does our capitalist economy "save" by not providing living wages and health insurance to workers, compared to how much the economy "loses" when these workers get sick and can't work?
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PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)but you can accuse erroneously and counter-factually to be an asymptomatic carrier?
Regardless of why people go to work sick, they are the ones spreading disease. Not healthy people.
Beartracks
(12,797 posts)If studies show that asymptomatic people are not big carriers of the flu, I'm down with the science.
But I still think it's a travesty that people who get sick often HAVE to go to work, or FEEL like they have to go to work, for fear of losing their job or not making the rent. That was the only gist of my post.
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Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)Aussie105
(5,328 posts)for a set period before you realize you have symptoms.
'Why am I feeling so tired and vague? Let me just ignore it, it will go away' . . . type of thinking.
olegramps
(8,200 posts)greatauntoftriplets
(175,729 posts)Rebl2
(13,462 posts)If you get the flu please stay in your house and dont expose those with compromised immune systems. Cancer patients and especially babies that are to young to get a flu shot.
AlexSFCA
(6,137 posts)People, please stop spreading flu, get vaccinated each and every year, as early as it is first available. Yes, not every years vaccine is effective but there are no real side effects and you may help save lives! Besides, refusing a flu vaccine means you may be dumb!
Dem2theMax
(9,637 posts)I am on a biologic medication, and I have to take it every week, for the rest of my life. I am not allowed to take live vaccines, and the flu vaccine is live. Until they come up with a 'dead' option, I am one of the 'ineligible' people.
eggplant
(3,908 posts)The shot isn't.
Dem2theMax
(9,637 posts)If I want to take it, I have to stop my biologic medication for a month before and a month after. And it is not worth it. I am in excruciating pain without that medication.
Edited to add that this specifically goes for the shot. They won't let me have the shot version unless I stop my biologic medication for two months.
And this isn't just coming from my GP. My dermatologist, rheumatologist and the pharmacist are all in the same position when it comes to flu shots versus biologic medications.
eggplant
(3,908 posts)Only correcting the misunderstanding about whether the flu shot contains live vaccine. I don't question your medical team's advice, or your decision to opt out. Biologics have serious consequences.
Dem2theMax
(9,637 posts)Actually, some of the shots do contain live vaccine. It totally depends on the strain. And I'm too old for the nasal spray vaccine, so I don't have to worry about that one. Lol.
Laffy Kat
(16,373 posts)And it is absolutely impossible to get the flu from the shot.
Dem2theMax
(9,637 posts)And with that, I am stepping out of this discussion.
womanofthehills
(8,661 posts)Flu vaccines work best on younger people whose bodies are better at making antibodies.
Can I get vaccinated and still get flu?
You may be exposed to a flu virus shortly before getting vaccinated or during the period that it takes the body to gain protection after getting vaccinated. This exposure may result in you becoming ill with flu before the vaccine begins to protect you. (Antibodies that provide protection develop in the body about 2 weeks after vaccination.)
You may be exposed to a flu virus that is not included in the seasonal flu vaccine. There are many different flu viruses that circulate every year. A flu vaccine is made to protect against the three or four flu viruses that research suggests will be most common.
Flu vaccine varies in how well it works, and unfortunately, some people can become infected with a flu virus that a flu vaccine is designed to protect against, despite getting vaccinated. Protection provided by flu vaccination can vary widely, based in part on health and age factors of the person getting vaccinated. It also can vary based on the match between the vaccine viruses used to produce vaccine and circulating viruses that season. In general, a flu vaccine works best among healthy younger adults and older children. Some older people and people with certain chronic illnesses may develop less immunity after vaccination. Flu vaccination is not a perfect product, but it is the best way to protect against flu infection.
Even if you do get the flu after being vaccinated, some studies have shown that a flu vaccine can reduce the severity of your illness.
A 2017 study showed that flu vaccination reduced deaths, intensive care unit (ICU) admissions, ICU length of stay, and overall duration of hospitalization among hospitalized flu patients.
A 2018 studyexternal icon showed that among adults hospitalized with flu, vaccinated patients were 59 percent less likely to be admitted to the ICU than those who had not been vaccinated. Among adults in the ICU with flu, vaccinated patients on average spent 4 fewer days in the hospital than those who were not vaccinated.
https://www.cdc.gov/flu/season/faq-flu-season-2019-2020.htm
eilen
(4,950 posts)which is an indication you should wear a mask in crowds, at the Dr. office, at hospitals etc. during flu season and if symptomatic. At my job, if we do not get the flu shot, we have to wear a mask everywhere until they announce the flu season is over and we can take them off. However, every public idiot off the street can visit without a flu shot or a mask.
Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)You might check with your doctor.
blaze
(6,345 posts)Aristus
(66,286 posts)and other deadly but preventable diseases as you get older. Getting the flu vaccine is the right thing to do.
Not only will you substantially decrease your risk of getting the flu, you will avoiding passing it on to someone else; someone who may be more vulnerable than you. We have a duty to protect the vulnerable through herd immunity.
If someone says "I'm not anti-vaxx, I just don't want to get immunized", they're anti-vaxx.
It's the infectious-disease equivalent of "I'm not racist, but..."
ailsagirl
(22,885 posts)I've had my first-- it's interesting how my injection site is both itchy and painful!
I'm going to wait awhile for the second... maybe 3-4 months.
Each shot costs $175-- ouch!!
But no way am i going to leave myself vulnerable to shingles!
Aristus
(66,286 posts)communicable, deadly, or in the case of shingles, very painful diseases: Get it.
DENVERPOPS
(8,790 posts)The single shot/dose vaccine for Herpes Zoster does not work. I had the single and still got Shingles.
Shingles is like nothing you have ever had....
I just got the two shot vaccine at considerable expense even though I have great Part D coverage.
the first shot was no big deal, the SECOND shot is the one you have to watch out for.
My pharmacist said that people had reported pain at injection site and flu like pain for days after.....
No kidding.......but still far better than shingles eruption and pain, I will tell you!
The pain is rough, and since it is nerve? pain, no pain meds work, including opioids.
They have a new pain med specifically for this pain, it is a fortune, and I didn't get any relief from it.
spanone
(135,791 posts)minimal at best for me.
woodsprite
(11,904 posts)I'd still get it, but they said I won't need one for a few years. I did not have the same reaction to the flu shots that I've had, either this year or past years.
ailsagirl
(22,885 posts)mcar
(42,278 posts)at age 50. Everyone kept telling me it was so unusual for someone my age to get it - it's for older people! Other everyones told me about how they got it in their 30s, 40s. My DIL got it last year at age 38.
The pain was significant. Months later, I'd still feel sharp pains in the area, occurring randomly.
Yes, get the shingles vaccine. It is well worth it.
woodsprite
(11,904 posts)They say that diabetics are considered in the lowered immunity group and there has never been any evidence that I ever had chicken pox.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)Anti-vaxxers crow about 'natural immunity', acquired from the disease itself. But don't stop to think about the sequelae of diseases, which can be as bad as the disease itself, or even kill you. With measles (which anti-vaxxers dismiss as 'just a rash!' ) it's subacute sclerosing panencephalitis, a nasty, deadly disease.
AllyCat
(16,140 posts)I have had shingles twice in the past calendar year. I missed SEVEN WEEKS of work because of contagious rash and extreme pain. My clinic didnt have the vaccine. I moved from #80 to #56 on the waiting list at my local pharmacy.
I have never had such pain in my life. Had both children with no drugs. Rarely took pain medicine after breaking bones. Really high pain tolerance. This disease KNOCKED ME ON MY ASS. I have permanent nerve damage in my face.
Get the flippin vaccine. NO ONE should suffer like that.
Farmer-Rick
(10,135 posts)Shingles is the most frequent cause of suicide due to pain. It is that horrible and painful. Get your shingle's shots and avoid a possible life time of unbearable pain.
I got the 2 shots and each one made my arm itch and I ached all over....but only for 3 days. Better than actually getting it. I watched my spouse suffer from it...it is one horrible disease.
catbyte
(34,333 posts)I've had about 12 bouts of shingles since 1994. Multiple bouts run in my family but I take the cake for the number of outbreaks. All but one of them have been down my right sciatic nerve, hence I have permanent nerve damage from Post-Herpetic Neuralgia. Not fun. I'm on a daily antiviral to help suppress the virus in my system. Doctors can't figure it out because my immune system is totally normal.
Anyway, make sure you get that second shot. Please!
Demonaut
(8,914 posts)ashredux
(2,599 posts)LiberalArkie
(15,703 posts)the flu. A lot of people don't have someone who can run to the store etc while they are contagious. A lot of people have to get the shots to protect others at work from catching the flu.
Only a very callous person would come down with the flu and spread it around to others.
Cousin Dupree
(1,866 posts)womanofthehills
(8,661 posts)https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/02/190219111742.htm
jpak
(41,756 posts)that's what they all say
Iggo
(47,534 posts)How is that the opposite of being anti-vax?
Are you anti-vax for yourself but pro-vax for everyone else?
USALiberal
(10,877 posts)shanti
(21,675 posts)Dunno, but I'd rather be safe than sorry. I've taken the flu shot since about 2011. Before that I never got one, and I never got the flu either. It's just me, so if I get sick there's no one to take care of me but myself, so I take ALL the vaccines offered.
Have you had the pneumonia shot that is offered/pushed for seniors?
Brainstormy
(2,380 posts)but I don't get it because basically it doesn't work. When the efficacy rate gets above 50%, I'll consider.
Backseat Driver
(4,380 posts)I GOT MINE!
Oppaloopa
(866 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)before or since. I get the flu shot every year because even if it doesn't protect perfectly there's no way in Hell I ever want to get the flu and be that sick again. I think it's unwise, to put it mildly, not to get it, especially considering it's usually free, covered by Medicare and most insurance plans.
yardwork
(61,538 posts)Ohiogal
(31,909 posts)I paid $55 for a flu shot at Walmart.
tavernier
(12,368 posts)My doc told my husband to take my two year old and go stay with relatives. I was left at home with a newborn. It was Christmas. I mostly remember how badly my eyes hurt when I tried to look from left to right.
MineralMan
(146,254 posts)Sounds like that trip will have to be postponed.
Refusing the flu vaccine isn't wise, especially for older folks with other health issues. The flu can make everything else worse, or lead to life-threatening pneumonia in many cases. That's especially true for older people. I'm sorry to hear about your in-laws. I hope they survive this.
Karadeniz
(22,470 posts)comradebillyboy
(10,128 posts)every year. Glad I only needed one pneumonia shot. Also got both zoster (shingles) shots.
coti
(4,612 posts)The in-laws here really aren't in the phase of their lives where it's a good idea to be anti-vaxxers.
smirkymonkey
(63,221 posts)and got all those shots anyway. Have my 2nd shingles shot tomorrow after work. I just don't want to take any chances.
Even w/ the flu shot, I still managed to catch a bad cold from someone and have been sick since the Sunday after Thanksgiving w/ a cough & other upper respiratory symptoms. Have just been feeling awful. I am definitely on the upswing, but I have heard cases of perfectly healthy people who have come down with the flu and a few days later, they are dead. You just never know.
LiberalArkie
(15,703 posts)and heart problems also. I now come down with a runny nose, but at least I don't have to fight for every breath I take.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Young adults were the worst affected in that particular case.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)a phenomenon in which the virus somehow turns the body's immune system against it. Since young people usually have strong immune systems, a cytokine storm is more likely to kill a young person than an old person.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)My grandmother knew many who died in it.
I was too young to ask her much about that, but I do remember my mom telling me about it.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)was because it spread so rapidly in soldiers' barracks. The war was certainly a major factor.
DENVERPOPS
(8,790 posts)That 80% of all soldiers deaths in 1918 were the flu that ravaged Europe and the U.S.
A recent article, in one of the science magazines, is reporting that that nightmare influenza in 1918ish might have been first seen/recognized in a small rural town in Eastern Colorado. May have been an avian flu.
A doctor's notes in that small town were found, and everything he witnessed, he wrote down in his journal.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)I get my free shot at the Kroger clinic because they get the over 65. Many times Doctors are limited.
The waiting list for shingles is over 100. Pneumonia shot. Why take chances?
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)Some pharmacies have stock, some do not.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)I wil sy Doctor next time, thanks
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)One only has enough stock to give the 2nd shot and the other has enough for the 1st and 2nd.
lindysalsagal
(20,581 posts)In the real flu, you stare at the ceiling and moan. Every nerve in y our body aches simultaneously. You can't watch tv. You think you can't get to the bathroom and back. And it hits you in minutes: less than 30: you go from fine to crawling on the floor.
Flu isn't upper respiratory, although that can show up at the same time. It isn't stomach, although that can also piggypback on a weak system. Flu makes you wonder how you ever got through a day of work. The world is utterly mystifying, as you lie there, with the backs of your knees and hair hurting.
Get your shot. I always do.
yardwork
(61,538 posts)The last time I had the flu I became very depressed and had dizziness for months afterward. I was in graduate school and the effects of the flu caused me to postpone writing my thesis. The job I had lined up was almost rescinded because I didn't have my degree on time.
As you say, influenza is not something to mess with.
lindysalsagal
(20,581 posts)The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)because I was too dizzy to stand up due to the high fever. You ache all over and all you can do is lie there, thinking you'll need to get better in order to die. Don't get the flu. Get the shot.
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)Later I was afraid I was going to live.
lindysalsagal
(20,581 posts)Sorry to hear it.
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)I was out of town at the time staying in a hotel by myself. By the time it hit me I was too sick to go out and get anything. I'm pretty sure if I had tylenol, aspirin, etc, it wouldn't have been as bad.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)and then drag yourself to the bathroom to get a glass of water, which might have involved having to stand up. Flu turns you into an aching, almost immobile blob of feeble protoplasm.
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)But even though the flu hits you hard and fast, if you recognize what's coming you can take something before it puts you down.
If I start to exhibit any sort of fever symptoms, I take acetaminophen or ibuprofen right away.
lindysalsagal
(20,581 posts)coti
(4,612 posts)BamaRefugee
(3,483 posts)Auggie
(31,133 posts)Flu probably caused my immune system to screw up my thyroid. I know exactly when it happened - a year I didnt get a flu shot.
Im on friggin drug for life because I skipped a simple, inexpensive shot.
csziggy
(34,131 posts)Dave Barry
CHICAGO TRIBUNE
We have the flu. I don`t know if this particular strain has an official name, but if it does, it must be something like ''Martian Death Flu.'' You may have had it yourself. The main symptom is that you wish you had another setting on your electric blanket, up past ''HIGH,'' that said:
''ELECTROCUTION.''
Another symptom is that you cease brushing your teeth because (a) your teeth hurt, and (b) you lack the strength. Midway through the brushing process, you`d have to lie down in front of the sink to rest for a couple of hours, and rivulets of toothpaste foam would dribble sideways out of your mouth, eventually hardening into crusty little toothpaste stalagmites that would bond your head permanently to the bathroom floor, which is how the police would find you.
You know the kind of flu I`m talking about.
More - and worth reading: https://www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-1986-04-27-8601300375-story.html
The first time I read this I had the flu - and Dave Barry nearly killed me. I laughed until I passed out. So don't read this if you actually have the flu.
lindysalsagal
(20,581 posts)True Blue American
(17,981 posts)Gastroenteritis?That is the one where I wished I was dead. My Doctor was out of town so I went to her partner. After telling me what I had she gave me anti nausea pills. There is nothing else.
The pills worked in reverse. Thank goodness my bathroom was there. Talk about projectile? I threw up half way across the room, although I had not eaten for several days. She later told my Doctor she should have sent me to the hospital. Wasnt that nice?Took me 2 months to get my strength back.
shanti
(21,675 posts)DO work, but apparently not for the flu!
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)Was to clear out the bad bacteria in my intestines. They really did not work for me either, yet they did in reverse in my empty, swollen stomach.
stage left
(2,961 posts)You ache to the bone. Nothing helps. The real flu laughs at any and all pain killers that don't knock you completely out. I have had it twice and don't want it again. I was late getting my flu shot this year and hope I don't have to pay for that.
Cousin Dupree
(1,866 posts)and treatment returned kidney function to within normal limits. Ive never been so sick.
Aquaria
(1,076 posts)I got swine flu during the epidemic of 2009 (handling mail posted by infected people will do that).
It did not consist of some sneezes, sniffles, or a bit of the trots. It was nearly a month of pain everywhere, struggling to breathe at all, and liquified innards. The only things I could keep down were jello and broth. All the medical staff could do was help me ride it out, keep me hydrated, and keep pneumonia at bay.
Even when the worst of it passed, I was still not well. I was shaky and weak for weeks after that.
I never want to be that sick again.
GaYellowDawg
(4,446 posts)I got it within a week of getting my vaccination - hooray for the delay in the primary immune response - and it was AWFUL. I felt it coming on at school. I managed to teach my schedule out for the day - it was Friday - and when I drove home, I wanted to go to bed so badly that I skipped going to the clinic. HUGE mistake. I got in the next morning and they said I'd missed the window for Tamiflu. So I got hit with the full strength symptoms. I could barely walk. I didn't feel like eating. My joints felt like they had ground glass in them. The shafts of the long bones in my arms and legs ached. I was just about incapacitated for a week, and felt really weak for two weeks after that. It was a couple of months before I felt fully like myself again.
Flu shots are an absolute must for me after that experience.
eilen
(4,950 posts)I thought I was going to be an invalid for the rest of my life. I managed to crawl up the stairs and bath once a day. My family is lucky that the week before I thought I would try Once a Month Cooking. So all they had to do is take a meal out of the freezer everyday. Every joint ached, every muscle ached, I had no appetite, water tasted horrible and hurt, my head... even closing my eyes hurt. I soaked in a tub with drops of tea tree and oil of oregano essential oils to try to feel better. I had cankersores in my mouth I had to rinse with saltwater. This happened 20 years ago. I never thought I needed a flu shot because I had always been really healthy. After that I got the flu shot every year.
meadowlander
(4,388 posts)I developed severe asthma as a complication and now need to use inhalers for the rest of my life.
I've had seven chest infections since then because the asthma medication I'm on means every single bug I'm exposed to goes straight to my lungs.
For all the people I work with who come in visibly ill, please stop. Nobody is impressed by your "dedication" and some of the people you work with could end up in the hospital as a result of your thoughtlessness.
I work in a job where people can easily telecommute and where the employer encourages people to stay away when they are ill. So there is really no excuse. But people do it anyway because the consequences of their actions don't affect them and therefore don't register.
NickB79
(19,224 posts)By the third sleepless day, I was in tears, begging my doctor for something to help. I got cough syrup with codeine; it was pure heaven to finally sleep through the night.
Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)He's going to be lucky if he recovers
ismnotwasm
(41,965 posts)I got no patience for this crap. People are dying as I speak and every year is a bad flu year.
Raven
(13,877 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)I have no earthly idea what the vaccination status is of anyone I come into contact with on any given day.
Raven
(13,877 posts)with them, I usually stay as far away as I can. But with people I know and family members (I have some in-laws who don't vaccinate) I remind them that I am 73 years old and that the flu in my age group can be a death sentence. I tell them I'll see them in the spring when the danger has passed.
Tipperary
(6,930 posts)about their vaccinations or lack thereof.
Raven
(13,877 posts)the other folks I run into who feel that way are folks in their 40's or 50's who think they are still in their 20's and have never gotten the flu.
womanofthehills
(8,661 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)Cannot remember the last time I got sick.
And again, how will I know what person has not been vaccinated? How to know whom to avoid?
Shrike47
(6,913 posts)lambchopp59
(2,809 posts)Just where all this anti-vaxxer confabulation began and questioning if the likes of Faux Noise has been disseminating that garbage?
If so, I'd say it's ripe for a great, big class action lawsuit, with pain and suffering damages in the billions.
coti
(4,612 posts)TwilightZone
(25,428 posts)He faked a study to "prove" that vaccines were harmful, because he thought he could make millions by offering an alternative.
The anti-vaxxer masses have been using his debunked, discredited, and disowned study as a primary source ever since.
Here's a good synopsis:
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3136032/
As for how it's spread, social media is a primary source, as it is with a lot of other discredited conspiracy nonsense.
brewens
(13,538 posts)and frat house all the time. You better believe I got my shot as soon as my pharmacy had them. Used to get the bonus 24 hours of PTO for never calling in sick almost every year. It pays off if you ask me.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)PJMcK
(21,995 posts)It's everyone's right to make their own personal decision about their health.
Nonetheless, it's rather foolish to not get recognized vaccinations... ESPECIALLY WHEN THEY'RE FREE!
Ohiogal
(31,909 posts)They are only free if you have insurance. I had no insurance last October. My ACA plan does not kick in till Jan. 1. My flu shot cost $55 at Walmart. I figured that was still cheaper than paying for a hospital stay.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)That's the most important part of this story.
I went to a lecture recently about influenza and came away with some very interesting information. Now this was not by some anti-vaxxer, by any means, and clearly stated that she thought getting a flu vaccine was a very good idea. But there is evidence that getting the shot every single year isn't as effective as it ought to be, that a flu shot gotten more like two years after the previous one is more effective.
And then there's this chart:
Notice the huge spike in flu deaths in 1918. And then how it drops off. Even the Hong Kong flu epidemic in 1957 doesn't show a spike in deaths.
I am one of those who got flu several times growing up, including that same Hong Kong flu. I probably got flu a couple of times more over the next decade or so, and never since. So I don't get the vaccine. I might change my mind down the road, especially if I start having health issues, but meanwhile, I am simply the healthiest person I know my age.
And, as I posted above, please do not try to accuse me of being an asymptomatic carrier of flu. Those people probably don't exist. Check this link: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2646474
Be a lot more concerned about the people who knowingly go to work sick, which happens far too often.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)between increased influenza vaccination and a decrease in mortality from influenza.
Even for the people who eat kale at every meal, wash their hands ten times a day, lead a healthy lifestyle, and say their prayers at night, it's important to get one's vaccine every flu season.
It's not about being an asymptomatic carrier. It's about having the influenza antibodies that prevent the spread of infection.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)in any significant numbers until the 1980s or so. I never even heard about a flu vaccine until around then. So the remarkable drop in mortality took place well before the vaccine. And again, even recent epidemics or pandemics don't seem to result in so vast an increase in deaths as tends to be assumed.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)The Spanish Flu piggybacked on soldiers deploying from the US to Europe during World War I. Wartime communication security, combined with a need to get millions of warm bodies where they were going quickly, combined with ignorance and incompetence increased the spread and mortality of an already nasty virus.
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)It also reduces all sorts of other negative outcomes from the flu like hospitalizations, ICU admittance, missed work, etc. The only people arguing against this are anti-vaxxers, and a very common tactic by them is to suggest mortality rates have not been influenced by vaccines which is demonstrably false.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)Cannot claim from that graph that flu deaths declined from the 20's through the 80's because of flu vaccine.
The campaign for the general public to get it first began in 1976 with President Ford going on TV rolling up his sleeve getting a flu shot.
Less than half of the adult population gets a flu shot. Half of the adult population in the US are anti-vaxxers?
hack89
(39,171 posts)about the time you say flue shots became common. What is the mortality rate now?
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)Drahthaardogs
(6,843 posts)Influenza was a killer.
SidDithers
(44,228 posts)Sid
eilen
(4,950 posts)They want to eff you up. Viruses are fast moving little suckers and it only takes a little exposure.
You wouldn't believe how many people I've talked to, some even right here on DU, who refuse the vaccine and then brag about their clean living, yep, nothin' but fruits and vegetables for me, I wash my hands a lot and keep my house clean; blissfully unaware that the flu virus doesn't care about any of that; it's spread through droplets coughed or sneezed by an infected person.
SidDithers
(44,228 posts)If you're going to appeal to authority, let us decide if your source is legitimate.
Sid
spooky3
(34,405 posts)I did and got a high fever and red blotches and swelling. The pharmacist had assured me there was no problem getting them in the same arm, at once. The urgent care folks I saw after the reactions said it is too much medicine at one time.
Dont take the risk.
Rebl2
(13,462 posts)not a good idea. I know my rheumatologist never makes two changes in my meds at once because if there is a problem you dont know which is causing it.
TwilightZone
(25,428 posts)"For Adults
In adults, you can administer either pneumococcal vaccine (PCV13 or PPSV23) during the same visit with influenza vaccination. Administer each vaccine with a separate syringe and, if feasible, at a different injection site. "
https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vpd/pneumo/hcp/administering-vaccine.html
spooky3
(34,405 posts)The opinion was not shared by the staff at the urgent care.
Recommendations are typically based on adverse events reported. I had to be very assertive to get the pharmacy to input my adverse eventso I am very suspicious about whether adverse events are reported reliably.
Aquaria
(1,076 posts)But in different arms. I had no problems that way.
ProfessorGAC
(64,852 posts)The pneumonia shot caused my arm to be sore for a couple days, maybe 3, but I had no other negative effects.
I got one in each arm probably 10 seconds apart.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)Sore arms from shots but no problems.
spooky3
(34,405 posts)To experience the same side effects for there to be a demonstrated relationship with a procedure. An analogy would be that many lifetime smokers never get cancer.
If you look at the disclosure sheets that come with any prescriptions you may take, you will probably see that a percentage (eg 15%) of the group getting the med may experience headaches, for example, while a smaller % (eg 5%) in the placebo group get them. With a big enough sample this is a significant difference, even though the majority of the med group may not get headaches.
The urgent care folks had obviously run into this previously and their advice is gooddont get them at the same time. You may be someone who didnt get a reaction but it is easy for someone else to reduce the risk by getting the shots at different times.
True Blue American
(17,981 posts)Gave them, not EC. But you do not have to take pneumonia shots every year.. Mine was just a booster. That was a couple of years ago.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)that influence other areas of lives are pretty normal.
One very typical one at the end of this street insists prescription antihypertensives came close to killing him three times, -- but he saved himself and now self medicates with "alternative" medications. He's a fun person otherwise, and we were pleased to find him still alive when we arrived in Florida for the winter.
Our DIL has a nice friend I try to pretend to almost agree with when she passes on "insider" information from people Louise Mensch; you know, the real dope, unlike what corporations feed people on TV. She's also normal and not crazy, though.
That lay label I feel fits a very pretty and charming young woman our son briefly dated in Georgia who, it turned out, believed The X-Files was channeling secret messages from The Resistance; you know, to get them past government censorship to the people. Our son doesn't care to be reminded. She eventually disappeared with her parents, we believe into somewhere in the Appalachians where they all planned to survive the coming race wars. Where she will have married and reproduced by now.
marble falls
(57,010 posts)was the absolute worst, my wife and I were both down for over a week and her 90year old mom was left to bring in supplies.
I did take it for this year, and the day after came down with a cold that got me hospitalized for three days. Coincidental, I know.
ToxMarz
(2,162 posts)What reason do they give? Fools!
NutmegYankee
(16,199 posts)For no out of pocket cost and very minor shoulder ache for one day I can prevent a week of misery. Why the heck wouldnt I do it?
beachbumbob
(9,263 posts)some don;t care, so there you go
TNNurse
(6,926 posts)I have a flu shot every year as does my husband. I have had the original and the newer Shingles vaccines. My husband has started on the Shingles plan. I got a DPT booster when a relative came home with a baby too young to be vaccinated for Pertussis.
One of the best things that our pharmacist told us this year was that if the Shingles vaccine made you feel a little achy and maybe like you have a fever, DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING. That is the vaccine giving you the desired protection, do not fight it. We thought more people should hear that.
Both of us have had the flu when the vaccine was not for the right strain. We both worked in a hospital and were exposed to sick people so it was hard to avoid some years. The person on here who described crawling to the bathroom had the flu. It is a huge event. As we get older (we are 70) and have other medical issues, the flu could kill you dead.
I have no sympathy with anti-vaxxers. They are choosing ignorance and superstition. I do not think they or their children should be allowed in public places. I was seriously immuno-compromised when I was on chemo and a serious infection or contagious illness could have ended my life. Some people live with that threat their whole lives, healthy people who could get vaccinated and do not endanger others. I think it is criminal.
Marthe48
(16,898 posts)After the flight was delayed for takeoff, he had to make the unpleasant decision to make a very sick person with medical problems get off the plane. He wasn't happy to make that choice, but he had a planeful of passengers and the rest of the crew to think of.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)I was riding on the flight deck jumpseat for my job with the airline. The pilots were doing their preflight checks when a flight attendant came up and explained that there was a woman in the very last row, vomiting profusely into an airsick bag. The captain asked her if she was comfortable letting this person stay on the plane and she said no, so they asked her to get off the plane for her own sake and that of the other passengers. She left the airplane looking pissed off but she also looked really sick. As we were pushing back an ambulance pulled up to the gate, so the gate agents must have figured she was pretty ill and got her some emergency help. It seemed just crazy to want to fly while vomiting.
Marthe48
(16,898 posts)To ignore how sick you are. I wonder if the transportation industry were more flexible about refunding fees, and employees more forgiving about illness, people would pay more attention to their health?
Gothmog
(144,919 posts)miyazaki
(2,239 posts)I'll tell anybody how easy it is. I walk into my grocery store one morning to get paper towels etc. and right there was the pharmacy with no customers. The sign says "flu shots available here". Five minutes later my shot was delivered and i'm rolling down my sleeve and cutting it up with the pharmacist.
Done.
I had suffered through a bad flu in my twenties once when I was alone and isolated and thought I very well may die. I was so sick, exhausted and delirious I didn't even care. Got the shot ever since.
MineralMan
(146,254 posts)The last two years, the pharmacy at my supermarket was a preferred pharmacy on my Medicare insurance, so I stopped in at the pharmacy, got my shot and then did my shopping. The shot, a high-dose vaccine for seniors, cost me nothing. The groceries and other supplies, on the other hand, cost me plenty.
Gothmog
(144,919 posts)MineralMan
(146,254 posts)I don't want to have the flu. So, I take the shot. I did get the flu a few years ago, despite having gotten the vaccine. But, and this is really important, I had a high fever for one day, a lower fever the next, and lost only one day of my normal activities, although I didn't feel great. The vaccine can moderate a case of the flu, even if it isn't a perfect match for that year's virus strain.
A full-blown case of the flu will knock you on your ass for a week. I've had that, too, but not since I started getting the shot every year. In fact, that case of the flue was back in the early 1970s, and I have gotten the vaccine every year since. Both my wife at the time and I were flat on our backs from the flu, with high fevers, bad coughs and joint pain. We were both students at the time and called the student health center. "Do NOT come into the health center! Take aspirin, drink lots of fluids and stay in bed." That was their advice, so that's what we did. We had enough food on hand to eat, so we stayed in bed for a week. Terrible!
Amimnoch
(4,558 posts)Im one of those individuals that almost never gets sick, and have the luck of healing pretty darn fast when I do.
Still, every year I get the vaccine. To me, its a matter of social responsibility not just for myself, but for everyone that I interact with daily.
As a P.S. The few times I do get sick, Im a big ass baby grouchy bitch.. my husband can definitely attest.
Initech
(100,038 posts)It's one of those things where it doesn't matter unless it affects them directly and even then they don't care.
CousinIT
(9,218 posts)They know it prevents illness (which is much more expensive than the damn vaccines).
There is NO EXCUSE for this stubborn ignorant shit.
JonLP24
(29,322 posts)I always received shots and never worried about it. When I was in the Army I received a lot of shots.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)"This will keep me healthy!" Even the typhoid shot, which hurt like a son-of-a-gun for hours. I had read enough history by that point to know how nasty typhoid is, and how many people have died from it.
I'd like to see one of these anti-vaxxers try their bullshit in military service. They pop off with "I just don't want to" even once, and they're out on their disease-riddled asses...
TheBlackAdder
(28,167 posts)Tipperary
(6,930 posts)What a terrible time of year to fall ill.
Squinch
(50,911 posts)Sea Glass
(52 posts)I know someone who posted the theory that polio vaccines were responsible for a polio outbreak. Uhhh, what about the polio that occurred BEFORE the vaccine?
Idiots, pure and simple. And they endanger the lives of millions.
Aussie105
(5,328 posts)Cytomegalovirus (glandular fever) from a food vendor on a Singapore street.
Swine flu from a co-worker who decided to 'tough it out' and go to work, and spread it at the same time.
(The prevailing advice at the time from the government was to go get tested if you had flu like symptoms.)
Wife has recently recovered from pneumonia, she went off to hospital in an ambulance.
(A blessing in disguise, she says, scans showed a 2 cm lung cancer that has now been thoroughly irradiated and hopefully gone.)
BUT neither of us have had the flu for years. It's a free shot here, and the vaccine is up to date as far as which strains you are protected from.
And from the glandular fever I know you feel ok for 10 minutes after waking, feel without energy for the rest of the day, and sleep 16 hours a day. And that goes on for months.
Why 'volunteer' for that, anti-vaxxers?
Laffy Kat
(16,373 posts)It's ubiquitous. At least half of Americans have antibodies for CMV and most of us don't remember having the infection. I'm not trying to put you on the spot, I don't doubt you, just curious. I only found out that I had positive titers after I had to have loads of tests while applying for life insurance.
lark
(23,061 posts)Medicare pays in full for flu and pneumonia shots - recipient pays zero. My dr. always pushes me to get these now and I had to annually for 20 years because of my job. Since I started getting these shots, my previously annual flu and respiratory infections have almost completely stopped. Before I was 65 I didn't get pneumonia shots, just the required flu shot, and got respiratory infections every year. Since I added the pneumonia shot, the upper respiratory problems have greatly decreased
Farmer-Rick
(10,135 posts)She's pretty good at keeping me healthy.
This time when I got the flu shot, I didn't get all achy and sore. It was almost as if I never had the shot.
I'm hoping I won't catch the flu on my Christmas trip like I did on my spring trip.
Texin
(2,590 posts)I got my shot the first week of October (just as the first cases of infection started to be reported). Earlier this month I asked my doctor if there was any benefit to getting another round sometime in January or February. (I read that many doctors believe there is a benefit to receive another shot later in the flu season, and I wanted to see if that had any merit.) My doctor said she believed it would be beneficial, as the effectiveness of the vaccination does wane over time and new strains start beginning to emerge in late winter and early spring that the earlier vaccination may not protect against. I plan to get another senior flu shot sometime toward the end of January as a result.
I don't believe the shots are fail safe. People can and do get the flu after receiving the shot, but the severity of the illness is usually greatly reduced. I had flu as a young person and it is absolutely miserable. I honestly cannot in my life understand why anyone would want to contract that illness if there might be even a small chance of preventing it through a vaccine once or twice a year. It just fails to make any sense to me unless the person is allergic to any of the components that compose the vaccine (such as eggs).
Nonhlanhla
(2,074 posts)But keep in mind that it's still possible to get the flu. My daughter and I both have asthma, and we had our flu shots in October, and yet she was diagnosed with the flu this weekend. Luckily we took her to the urgent care quite quickly, so she was able to get Tamiflu. Two days later and she's already visibly better. (The doctor annoyed me, though, by asking if I've "ever considered getting flu shots" for my family. Yes, doctor, we had them - ask, don't assume that I'm negligent.)
I hope your in-laws recover. Flu is nothing to play with.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)I only ask because people think even the least little sniffle is the flu. If a patient tells me they got the flu after getting the flu shot, I ask them what their primary symptoms were. Usually they say: "Nausea and vomiting". I tell them that's not the flu. They're thinking of 'stomach flu', and is there is no such thing. Influenza is respiratory in nature.
If she did actually have the flu, the vaccine gave her at least a partial immunity, thereby preventing what could have been a much worse infection; possibly deadly.
If you only knew how many times I've heard: "I got my flu shot and got the flu anyway!" stories. Always anecdotal. Never any proof to go with the story.
Nonhlanhla
(2,074 posts)I'm not one of those idiots who confuse the common cold with the flu. They did the clinic test and it was positive for the flu, hence her doctor's prescription of Tamiflu. But yes, she already seems much better - likely because her shot does lessen her symptoms, and also because of the Tamiflu.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)I have seen some providers, MD's even, wildly misdiagnose and treat patients. I had a patient not long ago following up on a visit with one of my colleagues. She had been treated with antibiotics, prednisone, and an albuterol inhaler for a respiratory infection. I read the chart note, and didn't see anything on it that would seem to indicate the need for such treatment. The history and exam pointed toward a garden-variety cold, for which only symptomatic treatment would be required.
I can understand the desire to prescribe certain treatments in the absence of clear-cut evidence, 'just to be safe'. But not all treatments are easily tolerable by patients, and prescribing 'just to be safe' can be detrimental to the patient. It's called defensive medicine.
boomer_wv
(673 posts)But let's be real, flu shots are ridiculously ineffective compared to most vaccines. They have to be repeated yearly and only offer protection against a fraction of flu viruses that will circulate in a given year, and those strains may or may not be the predominant ones for the season.
A universal flu vaccine would save more lives than just about any other medical advancement I can imagine us reaching in the next decade.
MineralMan
(146,254 posts)We'll have it one year soon.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)Even when the boys in the back room at the CDC miss their educated guess, like they did a couple of years ago, the vaccine they come up with is rarely less than 25% effective against the strain that emerges. And a partial immunity can be the difference between life and death.
Major Nikon
(36,818 posts)One is reducing the risk of getting the flu in the first place. Another is reducing the likelihood of severe outcomes like hospitalization, pneumonia, and death. Then there's reducing the chances of infecting someone else and subjecting them to a severe outcome.
For all of these things, the flu vaccine produces a benefit. We know this and it isn't something that should be debated any longer, especially since the cost of vaccination is low and the convenience is high. Most pharmacies and clinics can give you the shot and many employers will do it at your place of employment.
KPN
(15,635 posts)any of our 3 children. Not because we are anti-vaxxers or because we dont care about societys health overall. Its a personal health decision base on personal experience with a syndrome called GBS Guillaine-Barre Syndrome which affected our oldest when he was 12 and was rather debilitating for a couple of years. He basically was paralyzed for several months and was at high risk of losing his life in its early stages.
His GBS presented immediately following a minor bout with a flu. In researching GBS, we learned that along with post-pregnancy, and post flu shot are the primary triggering events. Since our sons episode, we have known personally three other people (all adults) who have been afflicted with GBS following a flu shot. We made the decision to forego flu shots following my sons episode 25 years ago based on discussions with his neurologist and our family practitioner who advised there was a risk factor that some individuals appear predisposed to and that it could well be a genetic trait related to the immune-system.
For some, there may be a legitimate reason to forego some vaccines. I sometimes think mans greatest affliction is the one- size fits all mentality that society so frequently demonstrates in a immense diversity of ways.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,587 posts)or other treatment that works for most others. If your doctors advised you not to get the flu shots, of course you shouldn't get them. But that's not true for most people, and not getting a flu shot because you might have complications is a whole lot different from not getting it because you don't think you need it since you've never gotten the flu before, or because you read something on the internet about how it causes autism or rabies or some damn thing, or you read something else on the internet about how large doses of kale or some homeopathic nonsense will prevent you from ever getting sick. The point is that anyone who does not have a medical condition that contraindicates getting the flu vaccination should get it, for their own sake and for that of the people they interact with.
hack89
(39,171 posts)so I totally understand your position.
KPN
(15,635 posts)Thanks for letting me know.
womanofthehills
(8,661 posts)A tiny percentage of people who get vaccines, do get severe reactions and one is GBS. The government Vaccine Injury Compensation Program has paid out billions for vaccine injury - $4,061,322,557.08. There is no lawyer cost for the injured, but often cases take 2 to 3 yrs.
https://www.hrsa.gov/vaccine-compensation/index.html
KPN
(15,635 posts)validation of the legitimate risks. Compensation is helpful but can never fully mitigate the impacts of something like GBS, especially in a childs life from our experience.
Im just glad some people here recognize there are some legitimate concerns.
womanofthehills
(8,661 posts)from CDC
Children younger than 6 months of age are too young to get a flu shot.
People with severe, life-threatening allergies to flu vaccine or any ingredient in the vaccine. This might include gelatin, antibiotics, or
other ingredients. See Special Considerations Regarding Egg Allergy for more information about egg allergies and flu vaccine
https://www.cdc.gov/flu/prevent/egg-allergies.htm
and talk to your health care provider before getting flu vaccine if you have any of the following:
Tell your vaccine provider if the person getting the vaccine:
Is younger than 2 years or older than 49 years of age.
Is pregnant.
Has had an allergic reaction after a previous dose of influenza vaccine, or has any severe, life-threatening allergies.
Is a child or adolescent 2 through 17 years of age who is receiving aspirin or aspirin-containing products.
Has a weakened immune system.
Is a child 2 through 4 years old who has asthma or a history of wheezing in the past 12 months.
Has taken influenza antiviral medication in the previous 48 hours.
Cares for severely immunocompromised persons who require a protected environment.
Is 5 years or older and has asthma.
Has other underlying medical conditions that can put people at higher risk of serious flu complications (such as lung disease, heart disease, kidney disease, kidney or liver disorders, neurologic or neuromuscular or metabolic disorders).
Has had Guillain-Barré Syndrome within 6 weeks after a previous dose of influenza vaccine.
In some cases, your health care provider may decide to postpone influenza vaccination to a future visit.
For some patients, a different type of influenza vaccine (inactivated or recombinant influenza vaccine) might be more appropriate than live, attenuated influenza vaccine.
People with minor illnesses, such as a cold, may be vaccinated. People who are moderately or severely ill should usually wait until they recover before getting influenza vaccine.
Your health care provider can give you more information.
https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/vpd/should-not-vacc.html
oswaldactedalone
(3,489 posts)a $5 discount coupon at CVS. I get a flu shot every year now. Getting paid to get a flu shot, can't pass it up.
garybeck
(9,939 posts)let's not conflate two completely different things please.
i never get flu shot, or the flu.
Coventina
(27,057 posts)I'm not conflating anything.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)have moved on to all vaccines, targeting adult immunizations, too. As usual, it manifests itself as 'concern' over whatever the hell they're told to evince concern over; the ingredients of the vaccine, the preservative, the warning on the package insert, the color of the medical provider's eyes, whatever; they're just 'concerned'.
So whatever they told you about the influenza vaccine to get you to refuse it, they're wrong. And anyway, it isn't about whether or not you get the flu (Disease-free human beings! My dream come true!) but whether you can pass it on to others who aren't as disease-resistant as you. Start getting the immunization.
DENVERPOPS
(8,790 posts)I know, also voted for Trump. Hell, next thing some of his followers will
be talking up is that the world is flat...........
Every thing that is happening on this earth is mother nature saying "you want to screw with my earth, watch out, I can get even"..........."If humans are what is causing my earth to suffer, I can take care of that too!!!"
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)that will hopefully fall out of hipster favor as did the Pet Rock.
The line "I never had the flu or a vaccine..." is usually followed by me leaving before I say something more hateful than usual.
catbyte
(34,333 posts)but thought I'd better get one this year. I traveled from Michigan to Arizona on the 1st and thought for sure I'd pick up something. Airliner air is so bad and both flights were packed. So far, so good. I know that the flu shot won't protect me from everything, but I felt better traveling knowing I'd gotten it.
Jerrika
(18 posts)Their health is in danger.
gopiscrap
(23,726 posts)MoonRiver
(36,926 posts)herding cats
(19,558 posts)I get the lesson here, and I agree completely. Still, I hope they heal fully and all they have to deal with are the inconvenience of missing a family gathering and suffering their ill health short term.
I also hope they grow and learn from this... I know that's less likely, but I still hope they do.