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You might consider taking your own advice. Just sayin'. Arkansas Granny Feb 2020 #1
K&R !!!!!!!!!!!!!! n/t RKP5637 Feb 2020 #2
I have been treated very fairly here. True Blue American Feb 2020 #5
Exactly what I mean. flying_wahini Feb 2020 #7
Take heart Nature Man Feb 2020 #19
Ironic, isn't it? greatauntoftriplets Feb 2020 #12
like rain on your wedding day ironic? Nature Man Feb 2020 #20
There wasn't anything "not nice" in the OP Nature Man Feb 2020 #17
some people have a lot of time on their hands. mikeysnot Feb 2020 #3
I think it's fine DonaldsRump Feb 2020 #4
Same here! True Blue American Feb 2020 #6
I am wary of certain types of posters Sanity Claws Feb 2020 #8
I've been a DUer for years. TxVietVet Feb 2020 #9
I won't say you don't have some valid points. It is easy to slip into mistrust rather than hlthe2b Feb 2020 #10
Except DU isn't a dinner table in someone's private house Nature Man Feb 2020 #18
It belongs to owners/administrators. We are all visitors here and must follow the rules accordingly hlthe2b Feb 2020 #21
Although I appreciate where you're coming from Nature Man Feb 2020 #22
Just responding to what you DID say. hlthe2b Feb 2020 #24
That DU is a web-visible site Nature Man Feb 2020 #25
..... dware Feb 2020 #23
My insults and barbs are only directed toward the Repubs and trolls. CaptYossarian Feb 2020 #11
I have superior knowledge of ALL subjects. Get used to it. hunter Feb 2020 #13
I've been a member of DU since it's inception, dware Feb 2020 #14
what was your former username? Nature Man Feb 2020 #27
I think there's a lot of senior citizens here Nature Man Feb 2020 #15
. sarisataka Feb 2020 #16
Posts like this drive a wedge between those with high post counts and those with lower Mrs. Overall Feb 2020 #26

True Blue American

(18,438 posts)
5. I have been treated very fairly here.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 10:55 AM
Feb 2020

Much better than most boards I have been on. Emotions run high during Primaries. Mine included.

Nature Man

(869 posts)
19. Take heart
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:48 AM
Feb 2020

and understand it's easier to be snotty than to take a good look at oneself.

I completely understood what you're saying.

Nature Man

(869 posts)
17. There wasn't anything "not nice" in the OP
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:45 AM
Feb 2020

read like an observation.

You're making the OP's point, btw.

mikeysnot

(4,817 posts)
3. some people have a lot of time on their hands.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 10:53 AM
Feb 2020

And like to waste others peoples time presenting their opinions off as fact.

DonaldsRump

(7,715 posts)
4. I think it's fine
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 10:54 AM
Feb 2020

There's a lot of suspicious traffic around these parts and a little tough love early on in your DU experience doesn't hurt.

I just cleared a 1000 posts a couple of weeks ago, and a few bits of this tough love at the start of my DU posting helped me think twice about what I was trying to accomplish. It also made me do a little bit of research before making a post.

I've had much tougher experiences in conversations, at work etc than at DU!

Sanity Claws

(22,135 posts)
8. I am wary of certain types of posters
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:00 AM
Feb 2020

I am wary of posters that seem to be concern trolls or that put down a candidate or that otherwise try to drive a wedge among the various groups in the Democrats' big tent.
I don't think DU should be accepting of them. I don't think I am rude to them but I will try to point out what the post seems to do.

hlthe2b

(108,496 posts)
10. I won't say you don't have some valid points. It is easy to slip into mistrust rather than
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:02 AM
Feb 2020

benefit-of-the-doubt when new posters make controversial first posts.

That said, civility goes both ways. One does not "shit" upon the dinner table of your newly acquainted hosts (as my grandmother used to say in an albeit more G-rated manner)

Nature Man

(869 posts)
18. Except DU isn't a dinner table in someone's private house
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:47 AM
Feb 2020

it's a web-visible site open to the public.

hlthe2b

(108,496 posts)
21. It belongs to owners/administrators. We are all visitors here and must follow the rules accordingly
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:49 AM
Feb 2020

So yes. Those who come here with the intent of antagonizing/inciting, rather than accepting the conditions of registration, are proverbially shitting on their hosts' table.

Nature Man

(869 posts)
22. Although I appreciate where you're coming from
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:51 AM
Feb 2020

I wasn't talking about that.

Nor was the OP.

But we all know what you are saying.

I don't personally own the gas station, someone else does. But when I go there, I definitely DO NOT take a steaming hot shit right by the cash register.

Nature Man

(869 posts)
25. That DU is a web-visible site
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:54 AM
Feb 2020

open to the public?

I made no mention of defecation until you did.

We all (hopefully) know that none of us actually OWN DU. But thanks for pointing it out!

CaptYossarian

(6,448 posts)
11. My insults and barbs are only directed toward the Repubs and trolls.
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:04 AM
Feb 2020

If they are misread or misunderstood, I sincerely apologize.

Just not to the Repubs and trolls. They can slither right on out of here.

dware

(14,968 posts)
14. I've been a member of DU since it's inception,
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:43 AM
Feb 2020

and I don't believe I've ever slapped down any new member because they're a new member or a low count poster.
As a matter of fact, I question the motives of those that do go after new members just because they are new members.

Just in case you are wondering why my profile says member since 2019, I had to take a leave of absence in 2004 due to life problems, but I did join up in 2001.

Nature Man

(869 posts)
15. I think there's a lot of senior citizens here
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:44 AM
Feb 2020

like myself.

The "shitty" will always be a thing on the Internet, I reckon.

Mrs. Overall

(6,839 posts)
26. Posts like this drive a wedge between those with high post counts and those with lower
Tue Feb 25, 2020, 11:57 AM
Feb 2020

post counts, between long time members and new members.

This thread is going to be a shit show.

Why not just kindly respond to the posts that seem to be condescending? Perhaps the DUer isn't even aware of his/her tone.

Calling this out publicly just seems to be an attempt to stir the pot.

(Even though I have a relatively low post count, I've been an active member since 2003, and personally, I tend to have some admiration toward those with high post counts--most of them know what they are talking about, and if you engage with them in disagreement, they tend to interact respectfully.)

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