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Snake Plissken

(4,103 posts)
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:30 AM Mar 2020

I spoke with a client this morning who is a Trump supporter

Trump didn't come up until I asked him how his facility is coping with the crisis. I had no illusions of the COVID-19 pandemic changing his support of Trump, but I did expect him to at least acknowledge the fact that Wall St has no confidence in Trump, which turned out not to even be an option since I wasn't able to move the conversation in that direction. When I said we'll probably be working into our 70s now that our 401K have been decimated, it was met with silence.

The most disturbing part of our conversation was the fact that he has absolutely no regard for the healthcare professionals, first responders, and workers in general who are putting their lives in danger to take care of the sick and to keep our lives as normal as possible by keeping the our food supply flowing.

His mindset is consists entirely of Trump handling this entire crisis on his own without any help from anyone.

It truly is a cult, they aren't even allowed to consider giving credit to anyone but their cult leader. I really wanted to lay into him with some cold hard reality, but I can't risk losing this company as a client over a lecture that will fall on deaf ears.

I really don't know what it will take to wake these people up.

It would have been less disturbing if he was your typical low IQ right wing idiot who does nothing but parrot Fox News, but he's really not, however it certainly has lowered my opinion of him significantly.

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I spoke with a client this morning who is a Trump supporter (Original Post) Snake Plissken Mar 2020 OP
yes, cults - groupthink - does indeed exist. it is shocking when we see direct evidence of it. NRaleighLiberal Mar 2020 #1
It's the same mindset that produces TrishaJ Mar 2020 #13
I too am baffled this, people who should know better but insist on staying in the cult FM123 Mar 2020 #2
As was mentioned last night, about iq45 but babylonsister Mar 2020 #3
I don't think that would even change them. Butterflylady Mar 2020 #5
✔️ blm Mar 2020 #12
Trump has no loved ones. GeorgeGist Mar 2020 #14
Just think of Trump re-opening the country for "business" SummerSnow Mar 2020 #4
I have an acquaintance who is literally a brain surgeon. TwilightZone Mar 2020 #6
Fox gave them permission to take it seriously. TrunKated Mar 2020 #7
Now that Fox is pushing ending the lockdowns, he's not buying. TwilightZone Mar 2020 #8
are they calling all medical professionals dweller Mar 2020 #11
You know Ben Carson? geardaddy Mar 2020 #15
The hospital briefing where he was told this Phoenix61 Mar 2020 #18
It is a common attitude among the cult dalton99a Mar 2020 #9
When you suggest any fact it spins their brain 360 degrees back to where they started. BSdetect Mar 2020 #10
The only thing that will wake them up is if they get COVID-19 geardaddy Mar 2020 #16
Truer words were never spoken! They are devoid of empathy. Cousin Dupree Mar 2020 #30
Clearly it's the person who gets infected who is at fault. LastLiberal in PalmSprings Mar 2020 #49
How old is he? griloco Mar 2020 #17
I don't know his exact age but, If I had to guess I'd say 60 plus or minus a couple of years Snake Plissken Mar 2020 #19
They're authoritarians. Don't waste your breath TrogL Mar 2020 #20
republicans have been fairly delusional since nixon cutroot Mar 2020 #21
Conditioning works Pillow talk Mar 2020 #22
They wont be "woke up". They will die with the malignancy in their hearts. nt Ferrets are Cool Mar 2020 #23
Post removed Post removed Mar 2020 #24
I hear and understand your experience all too well, that's why SayItLoud Mar 2020 #25
"No regard" wryter2000 Mar 2020 #26
You might have pointed out that Trump's winging it on his own is his own choice. marble falls Mar 2020 #27
But isn't everyone against trump including most of this country's own media? Maybe he had lunasun Mar 2020 #29
I feel your pain blue cat Mar 2020 #28
I know someone like that. LisaM Mar 2020 #35
That's my evangelical aunt now on FB shanti Mar 2020 #43
Got one of those as a Son In Law. Wellstone ruled Mar 2020 #31
I'm so lucky to work in Europe DFW Mar 2020 #32
You are so lucky not to have to deal with these people. smirkymonkey Mar 2020 #39
Europeans have their blind spots as well DFW Mar 2020 #42
Yes, it's a cult for certain. The members can't be deprogrammed in the course of a conversation. Mister Ed Mar 2020 #33
It's astonishing thing to witness. Worshipping an imbecile who knows nothing. Pepsidog Mar 2020 #34
They will go to their graves gab13by13 Mar 2020 #36
Sounds like my brother. I know exactly what you mean and also have no idea KPN Mar 2020 #37
They are in an echo chamber where they support one another ideologically. Grammy23 Mar 2020 #38
Wish narcissitic authoritarian sociopaths I_UndergroundPanther Mar 2020 #48
The more people rail against Trump, DarleenMB Mar 2020 #40
THAT is the conundrum Cosmocat Mar 2020 #45
Stay as far away from Trump supporters. They make no sense and will rationalize everything to UCmeNdc Mar 2020 #41
This pandemic will bdamomma Mar 2020 #44
imagine what he would be thinking if this was President Hillary Clinton Skittles Mar 2020 #46
morning radio show explained it perfectly. Most people don't see clips of him bumbling about Demovictory9 Mar 2020 #47

TrishaJ

(797 posts)
13. It's the same mindset that produces
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:10 AM
Mar 2020

religious zealots who congregate together. It's no coincidence that IMPOTUS's strongest supporters are the evangelicals.

FM123

(10,053 posts)
2. I too am baffled this, people who should know better but insist on staying in the cult
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:34 AM
Mar 2020
It would have been less disturbing if he was your typical low IQ right wing idiot who does nothing but parrot Fox News, but he's really not, however it certainly has lowered my opinion of him significantly.

babylonsister

(171,056 posts)
3. As was mentioned last night, about iq45 but
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:37 AM
Mar 2020

also applies to the cult, it will take one of their loved ones becoming deathly sick or dying for this to hit home. The blinders might slide then.

SummerSnow

(12,608 posts)
4. Just think of Trump re-opening the country for "business"
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:40 AM
Mar 2020

Some governors, who are apart of this cult will re-open their states, even to the detriment of their civilians. That is the scary part. These people, the ones who are in this cult will go on with business as usual and infect so many people. Their state will suffer so much and Trump will turn their backs on them when they cry for help.

TwilightZone

(25,462 posts)
6. I have an acquaintance who is literally a brain surgeon.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:40 AM
Mar 2020

He was regurgitating the same "everything is fine" nonsense for the first few days (he's a right-wing Fox News devotee), then did an abrupt 180 and is taking it very seriously. I have to wonder what changed.

Phoenix61

(17,000 posts)
18. The hospital briefing where he was told this
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:56 AM
Mar 2020

is an all hands on deck situation. He found out how the hospital was going to be reconfigured to create the number of ICU beds they anticipate needing. He found out he would be making rounds and should expect to not see his family for extended
periods of time.

dalton99a

(81,450 posts)
9. It is a common attitude among the cult
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 09:57 AM
Mar 2020

They are now blaming Democratic governors and mayors for the panic buying and unemployment

geardaddy

(24,926 posts)
16. The only thing that will wake them up is if they get COVID-19
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 10:42 AM
Mar 2020

and have to be hospitalized. Then it will be all about them and only them.

49. Clearly it's the person who gets infected who is at fault.
Wed Mar 25, 2020, 04:43 PM
Mar 2020

If only they had done everything Fat Donnie had told him to, they would never have gotten the disease. Nor would their children. Nor their parents. Nor their friends, coworkers or anyone else who came into contact with them.

The "Chinese virus" is God's will, and they have been told that Trump is God's chosen one to lead them safely through this crisis.

#CullTheHerd

TrogL

(32,822 posts)
20. They're authoritarians. Don't waste your breath
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:03 AM
Mar 2020

I grew up in an adopted authoritarian family. They cannot think like we do. It’s something genetic.

cutroot

(875 posts)
21. republicans have been fairly delusional since nixon
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:10 AM
Mar 2020

It has only become more and more pronounced since then. I have learned my lesson the hard way that doing business with them only costs you in the long run. They will not accept anything that does not fit the fox narrative. The programming is complete.

Response to Snake Plissken (Original post)

SayItLoud

(1,702 posts)
25. I hear and understand your experience all too well, that's why
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:40 AM
Mar 2020

I have given up expending one iota of energy trying to enlighten anyone in tRUMP's orbit. It's useless, frustrated me and left me depressed and feeling hopeless. I've modified my behavior to point towards the positive of what and who I believe in. Expending my energy supporting people and positions I believe will be good for all Americans and the entire world. Yes, I do "slip" every once in a while and rant via a tweet or so but all in all only pushing forward with positives has helped me deal with the negativity and without doubt cult mentality of the mother fucker tRUMP. (Uh oh, guess that would count as a "slip", sorry).

Onwards and #VoteBlue no matter who, up and down the ticket!

wryter2000

(46,036 posts)
26. "No regard"
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:41 AM
Mar 2020

Total lack of empathy. He won’t care until he’s directly hurt and he has no one else to blame.

lunasun

(21,646 posts)
29. But isn't everyone against trump including most of this country's own media? Maybe he had
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:54 AM
Mar 2020

no choice but to bravely assemble a team and fight this challenge alone !

LisaM

(27,801 posts)
35. I know someone like that.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:22 PM
Mar 2020

She keeps posting things about everyone loving each other, choose love, blah blah blah.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
43. That's my evangelical aunt now on FB
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 01:31 PM
Mar 2020

'Stop the blame game', 'don't be political'. She's a retired RN too.

DFW

(54,341 posts)
32. I'm so lucky to work in Europe
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:12 PM
Mar 2020

There is NO ONE here I work with, from Portugal to Russia, from Norway to Italy, that thinks Trump is anything other than a dangerous, ignorant criminal.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
39. You are so lucky not to have to deal with these people.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:42 PM
Mar 2020

They are just as maddening as he is. Why are so many Americans so stupid and sheeplike, while so many Europeans can see him for exactly who he is?

DFW

(54,341 posts)
42. Europeans have their blind spots as well
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 01:19 PM
Mar 2020

They are just in other areas. There are no greater critics of French politicians, for example, than the French. Most Germans (except the SPD) like Merkel, but they mostly all have no use for one another, and Merkel's party itself is full of resentful men who are furious that a successful woman of both humility and wiliness has managed to outsmart them on the way to the chancellor's office four terms in a row.

It's rare that a nation here unites behind one popular leader with a solid majority. Even the UK only went with BoJo and the Tories because Labor offered up one of the few party leaders who was so unpleasant as to disgust out even Labor. Very few governments here have a solid majority of one party in their parliaments. It's almost always a coalition of several, one or more of whom always demands more influence than their small representation justifies. They often get away with it, too, since they can blackmail the majority with a my-way-or-the-highway threat of blowing up the coalition and sparking new elections.

Many countries have their own Mitch McConnells. It's just that they rarely get the power to do as much evil as Trump and Mitchie have managed to wreak, although Orban in Hungary is coming close. In Turkey, Erdoğan has even surpassed Trump. Erdoğan is smarter and more evil than Trump, but luckily for us, he only rules Turkey, where Trump is more dangerous as an American president who really is a turkey.

Mister Ed

(5,928 posts)
33. Yes, it's a cult for certain. The members can't be deprogrammed in the course of a conversation.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:14 PM
Mar 2020

So, you're right. There's no use in debating them. I once made an attempt at that with a Moonie cult member who confronted me in a supermarket parking lot about forty years ago.

KPN

(15,642 posts)
37. Sounds like my brother. I know exactly what you mean and also have no idea
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:24 PM
Mar 2020

how we'll ever "wake these people up".

My brother got to tRump via his cHristian religion ... which in itself boggles my mind. Understanding how and why he found his way to evangelical cHristianity by talking with him about that has, in itself, helped me understand his fealty to tRump. He believes in something that I see as a humanly fabricated explanation of some greater power, dimension and energy that we are simply unable to comprehend in our 4-dimensional construct. That belief is what gives him his security and overall sense of well being. His religion is a cult -- there is no questioning that Jesus is the only way to redemption and "everlasting life".

In listening to his rationalization of belief in Jesus he speaks of truths/facts for which I know of no real basis except somebody long ago said so. He uses classical philosophical arguments to defend his beliefs, (e.g., if it is not this then it is something else, and if that something else is not this which we know because science says this, then it is something else, and so on -- really, a quite in depth and erudite rationalization). He is convinced that his belief is ironclad in its justification, making faith a relatively minor step or no step at all.

One, with that kind of rationalization, how can he not believe and support tRump when tRump is doing everything the evangelical cHristians want; and two, with the powers of rationalization he already possesses.

In a word ... delusional. My greatest fear is how he and all the other right wingers will react when we finally do boot tRump and his GOP goons out of DC. Will they start a civil war? They have the guns and ammo, that's for sure. My second biggest fear is we will continue to placate them when we have power by continuing to compromise on issues that ultimately hurt the middle and lower classes -- just to avoid a civil war. Is "the cure worse than the problem?"

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
38. They are in an echo chamber where they support one another ideologically.
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:40 PM
Mar 2020

When their dear leader speaks, they repeat his “wisdom” and reinforce it among themselves. As long as they can comfort themselves with OTHER people and places being impacted by the virus they will listen and believe. Let one of them have a family member or close friend get the virus, then you’ll hear the howls and demands to do something! Cries of anguish will cross the land when it is their mother or brother who dies. I suspect even tRump might feel a twinge of pain if his precious Ivanka was a victim. Sadly, his ability to feel anything is severely compromised by his narcissism. We’ve known this all along but this real life health crisis has put a fine point on just how disabled he is.

It still baffles me how the people around tRump are allowing him to run amok with policies that will harm all of us in one way or another. What we need to realize is there are many, many more people who think and act like tRump than we ever dreamed. They endorse him and his cruel ways of governing. They see benefits for themselves and screw the rest of us. They got theirs (and will see to it that they continue to get theirs) and if you are in trouble, too bad. You should have been smart like them. That is how tRump thinks and they follow him for that reason. It is a vicious, dog eat dog way of viewing the world and your place in it. But that is the world we live in.

Thank goodness there are others who are not cruel, not greedy and they are in a battle with tRump and his minions over who will prevail. The virus does not care. It is going to do what viruses do. So let us hope that good will triumph over pure evil. That those of us with compassion for the world will outweigh the crass, greedy bastards that only see this situation in terms of dollars and cents.

I_UndergroundPanther

(12,463 posts)
48. Wish narcissitic authoritarian sociopaths
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 11:07 PM
Mar 2020

Would just die off already. They exist to create pain chaos and harm via cruelty.

DarleenMB

(408 posts)
40. The more people rail against Trump,
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 12:58 PM
Mar 2020

the more his hard-core supporters are digging in their heels and insisting he is the best (whatever) EVER. It isn't just because ... fox "new" either.

These people know in their hearts they made a huge mistake but there is no way they are ever going to cop to it. I'll bet your client doesn't ever admit to being wrong about anything, not just being a Trump supporter.

Best let sleeping dogs lie.

Cosmocat

(14,563 posts)
45. THAT is the conundrum
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 01:39 PM
Mar 2020

One of the core ideologies of conservatives is pride, with that thinking where the more wrong they are the more sure of how right they think they are.

You can slam them with facts, reason, common sense and they will only dig in deeper and hate you for it.

Doing or saying nothing gives you a 1 in 1,000,000 chance they figure it out for themselves, a saves you both from the heartburn.

That is the winning scenario ... no bad feelings while 99.99% of them happily wallow in the bullshit.

UCmeNdc

(9,600 posts)
41. Stay as far away from Trump supporters. They make no sense and will rationalize everything to
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 01:04 PM
Mar 2020

protect Trump. To them it is never Trump's actions that caused a problem.

bdamomma

(63,836 posts)
44. This pandemic will
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 01:34 PM
Mar 2020

get those cult45 members soon, they are in just utter denial and they will pay with their lives. Sadly.

Demovictory9

(32,448 posts)
47. morning radio show explained it perfectly. Most people don't see clips of him bumbling about
Tue Mar 24, 2020, 08:27 PM
Mar 2020

the nonsense talk, the behavior, ... media needs to get to the point about a topic so they play/show short clips that make it appear that he's competent. and Faux news definitely doesn't show Trump as we see him.

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