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demmiblue

(36,833 posts)
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:19 PM Aug 2020

Remember Melania's "I really don't care, do you?" jacket? Here's Melania's explanation, ...

Remember Melania’s “I really don’t care, do you?” jacket? Here’s Melania’s explanation, in her own words, to her close friend. http://vanityfair.com/news/2020/08/melania-did-not-care-in-blistering-new-book-stephanie-winston-wolkoff-the-first-lady-sounds-like-her-husband





What makes it all the more marked is that Melania has been so unknowable for so long, quiet and coiffed and largely out of view. This is the first real look at what’s under her hood, backed up with receipts. And what’s there, according to the book, is much more callous and uglier than it has appeared.

Take a conversation between Wolkoff and Melania about that infamous green jacket with “I really don’t care, do u?” scribbled across the back when the first lady toured a detention center holding children who had been separated from their parents at the U.S. border. Melania shrugged off the public firestorm around the sartorial choice—a common theme throughout the book. “I’m driving liberals crazy,” she told Wolkoff, according to the book. “You know what? They deserve it.” She added that people “connect stuff to my clothes” and that she wears what she wears “because I like it.” Fired up about the media, she continued:

“They all went crazy about the zero-tolerance policy at the border. But they don’t know what’s going on. The kids I met were brought in by coyotes, the bad people who are trafficking, and that’s why the kids were put in shelters. They’re not with their parents, and it’s sad. But the patrols told me the kids say, ‘Wow, I get a bed? I will have a cabinet for my clothes?’ It’s more than they have in their own country where they sleep on the floor. They are taking care nicely there.” She added, “Did Michelle Obama go to the border? She never did. Show me the pictures!”

In these passages she sounds far more like her husband than anyone has given her credit for. Other choices chronicled by Wolkoff carry a distinctive Trumpian flair. According to the book, Melania told Wolkoff that she would not move to D.C. until the shower and toilet in the White House residence had been replaced. She painted her office and closet bright pink, and she added a glam room to the residence in which she could have her hair and makeup done. She would pay no mind to wearing American designers, as Michelle Obama had. If Melania had her sights set on wearing Karl Lagerfeld, she wore Karl Lagerfeld. If she wanted to wear stilettos to visit a hurricane-ravaged town, she wore stilettos. If she wanted to be referred to on a Christmas card as “First Lady-Elect,” even though no other first-lady-to-be had used the term because, as Wolkoff reminded her, it is not an elected position, she did it anyway. “Melania,” she writes, “Did. Not. Care.” Melania doesn’t dish much on her marriage in the book because, as Wolkoff writes, “Any intimate question about her marriage was deflected by her seamlessly turning the chat back to what was going on with my husband, my kids, and my career, about which she was endlessly fascinated.” The same went for questions about her husband’s alleged affairs or payments made to women in the run-up to the election. She’d brush off his “grab ‘em by the pussy” tape or settlements to Stormy Daniels with, “It’s politics.” Over the years, according to the book, when Wolkoff would express her concern, Melania would matter-of-factly respond, “I know who I married.”






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Remember Melania's "I really don't care, do you?" jacket? Here's Melania's explanation, ... (Original Post) demmiblue Aug 2020 OP
They are all fascist, violent traitors. Soon we will be forced to see that for real and I pray Eliot Rosewater Aug 2020 #1
See You Next Tuesday, Melanoma. CurtEastPoint Aug 2020 #2
Ugh. demmiblue Aug 2020 #5
She is every bit as despicable as he is... Spazito Aug 2020 #3
They belong together Sanity Claws Aug 2020 #4
Racist Trash. JI7 Aug 2020 #6
Politics is grabbing pussy and paying off hookers? LakeArenal Aug 2020 #7
If Melania "KNEW" who she married...That makes her a gold digging HYPOCRITE then. ProudMNDemocrat Aug 2020 #8
I seem to remember snowybirdie Aug 2020 #9
Melanie is trash UpInArms Aug 2020 #10
"I'm driving liberals crazy," "You know what? They deserve it." maxsolomon Aug 2020 #11
She is repulsive! smirkymonkey Aug 2020 #20
And the complicit Republican media keeps trying "humanize" her. live love laugh Aug 2020 #12
Produce your immigration papers, lady... Raster Aug 2020 #14
"...my husband, my kids, and my career..." Raster Aug 2020 #13
That was the author saying the Melania deflected back to the author's husband, kids, & career. Caliman73 Aug 2020 #16
of COURSE she's like Trump qazplm135 Aug 2020 #15
Sickening. greatauntoftriplets Aug 2020 #17
To me she sounds defensively aggressive lunatica Aug 2020 #18
She and her family's goal is to line their pockets. That's it. That's all they care about. MerryBlooms Aug 2020 #19
Doesn't bode well for Barron, if both his parents are soulless narcissists muriel_volestrangler Aug 2020 #21

Eliot Rosewater

(31,109 posts)
1. They are all fascist, violent traitors. Soon we will be forced to see that for real and I pray
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:22 PM
Aug 2020

we are prepared.

Spazito

(50,232 posts)
3. She is every bit as despicable as he is...
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:24 PM
Aug 2020

I can't wait until he screws her out of her prenup as we know he will, assuming there is anything left to fight over.

ProudMNDemocrat

(16,780 posts)
8. If Melania "KNEW" who she married...That makes her a gold digging HYPOCRITE then.
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:34 PM
Aug 2020

Willing to turn a blind eye to his "bad boy talk" and behavior, while cashing in on the high priced designer clothes, accessories, all expense paid trips to exclusive designer hair and nail salons, rich surroundings, etc. A lifestyle for which she has become accustomed to.

Nice gig if you can get one like that.

snowybirdie

(5,222 posts)
9. I seem to remember
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:37 PM
Aug 2020

she was brought to a religious based facility with hot meals, clean rooms and educational opportunities. Not the cage filled warehouses with children sleeping on the floors and 12 year olds trying to take care of the babies. B_ _ _h!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
20. She is repulsive!
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 06:54 PM
Aug 2020

She deserves to get screwed. I hope she ends up with nothing and ends up back in Slovenia working as a shop girl.

live love laugh

(13,094 posts)
12. And the complicit Republican media keeps trying "humanize" her.
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:47 PM
Aug 2020

Which makes the Republican media as bad as Trump—they are all in this TOGETHER.

I found out who Melania is watching this (1:40) :

Raster

(20,998 posts)
13. "...my husband, my kids, and my career..."
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:51 PM
Aug 2020

You mean the monster you married for money, your anchor baby, and the escorting and soft core porn?

Caliman73

(11,726 posts)
16. That was the author saying the Melania deflected back to the author's husband, kids, & career.
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 05:01 PM
Aug 2020

It was a dodge. Melania knows her life, aside from the temporary money and power, is shit. She has her son, but who knows what their relationship is like. Her husband is disgusting, and she has no real career. She doesn't want to talk about that stuff because it is all a lie.

qazplm135

(7,447 posts)
15. of COURSE she's like Trump
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 04:58 PM
Aug 2020

all of the poor Melania bullshit has always been infuriating.

You don't marry that guy unless you suffer from similar moral failings.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
18. To me she sounds defensively aggressive
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 06:42 PM
Aug 2020

She pretends to be hard and uncaring because that’s her defense. I bet she feels deeply wounded and humiliated knowing her husband is a sexual predator and that everyone who looks at her feels sorry for her because of it.

Her hard exterior is her defense. She has to pretend she doesn’t know what everyone is thinking when they look at her. Yet she chose to stay with him for whatever reason. It certainly isn’t because the rich people in NY like him or that he’s opened doors for her so she can hobnob with the upper crust. They despise him, and by extension his entire family.

She probably didn’t know what she was getting into, but she certainly does now. Maybe she thinks she needs him In order to protect Barron. Who knows. But money is involved. She is self serving and corrupted.

MerryBlooms

(11,761 posts)
19. She and her family's goal is to line their pockets. That's it. That's all they care about.
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 06:45 PM
Aug 2020

She's a monster who married into a family of monsters. Her bullshit is really bad timing, considering the shitshow ratings, drop in the polls... Attacking two of the most beloved and respected First Ladies of our nation in one week, HUUUGE blunder. Especially so close to election month. I know folks are excusing her deplorable garden design, but old timers, who were around for the Kennedy years, will not be excusing it. Neither will fans of every other First Lady who added to Our garden!

muriel_volestrangler

(101,294 posts)
21. Doesn't bode well for Barron, if both his parents are soulless narcissists
Fri Aug 28, 2020, 07:08 PM
Aug 2020

Hard to grow up well-socialised in a failed home like that. Let's hope his school and friends can give him the support he won't get from his parents.

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