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maxsolomon
(33,310 posts)but after 8 months of WFH, carry-out food, no contact with my relatives, scrupulous social distancing, and 100% masking, only to see my fellow citizens fuck it all up with adult-onset oppositional defiance disorder, well...
i have empathy for the staff that have to live this over and over.
moonscape
(4,673 posts)and covid would have a hard time finding me. The sacrifice is real and wearying and I vacillate between aching for their stupidity and having raw anger over it.
But yeah, the health care workers are amazing. Beyond heroes.
The Velveteen Ocelot
(115,674 posts)than admit covid19 is real and they have it.
Moostache
(9,895 posts)My mother's passing was marred by COVID-19 restrictions...she died without my ever getting to give her a last hug, or kiss her cheek or tell her IN PERSON it was OK to let go, that she had fought as hard and longer than anyone could imagine...ALL GONE BECAUSE OF A RAGING PANDEMIC THAT IS AS REAL AS IT GETS FOR ME - FOREVER NOW...
Fuck them.
I'm glad that they die in anger and hate instead of peace and love. They fucking deserve it.
Their relatives and like-minded fools all deserve worse.
To deny reality, even as reality is ending your existence is a special kind of stupid that actually DOES hurt...now take away these people's ICU beds and throw them in the parking lots to suffocate and die and use the bed space for the innocent victims of this scourge...but waste no resources on the jackass brigade.
I am sickened by the pain this has caused me, my family and the fact that it won't ever end, or go away or be made whole and then to hear of these morons it is just too much. FUCK THEM!
No sympathy here
lunatica
(53,410 posts)why the fuck they even go to hospitals if they think its all a hoax? Just die at home! Let someone else use the hospital bed.
Youd think hospitals and caretakers are out hunting house to house to find them and force them to get treatment!
malaise
(268,943 posts)Bangs head
joshcryer
(62,269 posts)This is tragic all around.
onlyadream
(2,166 posts)I'm sorry that you didn't get to say good-bye properly. Such a cluster-fuck.
JI7
(89,247 posts)others are in on some conspiracy . Fucking selfish assholes expect people to treat them while treating them like shit
Neema
(1,151 posts)denying science and god-damn common sense, and slavishly defending the murderously failed leadership of their orange god could power cities. I feel nothing but contempt for them at this point.
My mother died too this summer (not of covid). We were not close but it still is awful not to be able to gather with my family.
My business, which I started in the throes of the last big recession and managed to make it thrive anyway, is now barely surviving. Im really fucking good at what I do but it just so happens that my clients are all in industries hit hardest by the pandemic.
A big life change I planned for this year is now on indefinite hold because of the pandemic and my loss of income. And when youre my age, you dont have a lot of runway left to make big life changes.
So yeah, fuck their but this cant be real. Their cult thinking is destroying this country, and I have zero fucks to spare for them. Im saving what I have left for the medical professionals who have to treat them and the rest of us who are suffering due to their belligerent ignorance.
pandr32
(11,579 posts)What a way to find out. We sane people have been making that claim loudly, but they chose to believe we were lying because of our politics.
Meanwhile all of us have to deal with the consequences.
Fullduplexxx
(7,857 posts)lagomorph777
(30,613 posts)"COVID is a hoax!"
"I'm not sick!"
JI7
(89,247 posts)lame54
(35,285 posts)JuJuYoshida
(2,215 posts)smb
(3,471 posts)mchill
(1,018 posts)coti
(4,612 posts)Satire is dead.
Lady Freedom Returns
(14,120 posts)IronLionZion
(45,429 posts)the Dakotas might start electing Dems to the Senate and House again.
I suspect that may have played a factor in some other hard hit states like Arizona, Georgia, etc.
bucolic_frolic
(43,132 posts)They cannot be brought back to sanity. I doubt they'll accept a vaccine. They'll think it a Democratic Mind Control plot to make them vote against Republicans. This is the logic of the Salem Witch trials - an alternative reality, and explanation that has no basis in fact. With people like them, the virus as an element of natural selection, a pruning out of loud, social people who don't hunker down during obvious widespread illness and fatalities.
Which is my long-winded way of saying there's nothing you can do about it.
SharonAnn
(13,772 posts)Nothing, absolutely nothing, can get through to them that opposes their cultish beliefs.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)Shogani しょうがない
Shoganai is an important word in Japanese. It can be translated "it can't be helped." It's often used to describe Japanese culture, thinking and values. Shoganai is essentially a philosophy. It says that if something is out of your control it's better to quickly accept it and move on.
gratuitous
(82,849 posts)But I'm willing to take another hack at the problem. The original post mentions how these people are dying full of hatred and anger, and I think that goes for at least some of their surviving friends and relatives, being full of hatred and anger. I know I've been wrong at times in my life, and while I might not have appreciated it at first, I remember the folks who gently (or strenuously) tried to re-orient my thinking more in line with my principles and ethic.
I don't know that there's one magic phrase, but I'd remind the grieving survivors that in 2010, it was Democrats and Democrats only who tried to get universal health insurance to the American people, and force insurance companies not to deny coverage for "pre-existing conditions." It's been the Republicans who have tried mightily since then for 10 years to strip coverage away from our citizens. If a survivor is filled with hatred and anger, please consider for a moment who you should be properly mad at.
MontanaMama
(23,307 posts)and find common ground with them? No. Not happening.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,848 posts)They thinks it's a hoax? Fine, go home and don't bother us. If you die from a hoax, well, too bad.
AllaN01Bear
(18,159 posts)mchill
(1,018 posts)Roy Rolling
(6,915 posts)It's everywhere you look. It's the fools who mock and ignore good advice. They have their reward in mocking others. That's all there is.
Aussie105
(5,383 posts)Somehow, cult leader Trump has activated the inability to believe the virus is real, or that he is a mega-liar.
Throw in the adult-onset oppositional defiance disorder, ie the 'You are not the boss of me!' thinking, and you have perfect volunteers for COVID deaths. I guess the anger and hate comes from finding out you have been duped bigly.
Too late by then, unfortunately.
Something about America that makes it fertile ground for cultism - be it based on religion, the worship of money, a single person or fame.
No idea where it stems from though. Lack of critical thinking skills? The education system? The fake comfort of putting your existence and future in the hands of someone else?
Great term that, 'adult-onset oppositional defiance disorder' - describes the situation perfectly.
Quixote1818
(28,929 posts)aggiesal
(8,911 posts)Continue voting in (R)'s all you want, but don't tell the rest of us, it's a hoax.
You chose NOT to believe what we are telling you, because you made it political,
while we made it a healthy hazard, life threatening situation.
SharonAnn
(13,772 posts)aggiesal
(8,911 posts)dlk
(11,554 posts)I dont know how we can get a handle on it.
yuiyoshida
(41,831 posts)MAYEBE that's a step in the right direction.
MustLoveBeagles
(11,591 posts)OverBurn
(950 posts)and still got sick. It all goes back to the top, the orange asshole is responsible for a 100,000+ lives, no other way around it.
muntrv
(14,505 posts)their denials. They made their beds, now sleep in then.
bobalew
(321 posts)May they all croak of abject denial. Good Riddance, I say... They get what they deserve...
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I really do feel bad for these people... over the past thirty years, they've given up rational thought in favor of simplistic, right-wing branding, and are paying the ultimate price for a choice so poorly made, yet so easily avoided.
alittlelark
(18,890 posts)Crunchy Frog
(26,579 posts)FakeNoose
(32,634 posts)It's going to be a bumper crop for 2020
yankeepants
(1,979 posts)Hestia
(3,818 posts)I mean, if they don't *believe*, well, then, okay, here you go...
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)there is no hope for any of them.
Martin Eden
(12,863 posts)First their minds, then their bodies.
GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)I may well get it and die. As might the wife. But I have done my level best to keep myself, and more importantly, others safe.
If that fails, well, they dont call it a pandemic for nothing. And with out everyone on board we are bound to fail.
live love laugh
(13,100 posts)lindysalsagal
(20,670 posts)Talk about parental neglect.