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TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 05:58 PM Nov 2020

The best thing I ever did on Thanksgiving.

I was a hospital RN and had a job where I traveled the building. It was 3p-11p shift. On the Cardiac Rehab floor there was an older gentleman who had not eaten all day. I was informed that on that dark rainy night his wife (who walked on forearm crutches...from polio, I think) was going to walk to car go home and make him cream of wheat and bring it back to him. The kitchen staff had gone home. I asked her to wait and see if I could find some cream of wheat for him. I went in this huge commercial kitchen (where I was not supposed to be), found a huge box of cream of wheat, a pan way too big for one serving and a stove that was the size of my car. I made it for him, cleaned up all evidence I had been there and took it to him. He sweetly told me that it was the best Thanksgiving dinner he ever had. I was just grateful I saved her the trip.

It has been quite a few years, but I still feel pretty good about it.

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The best thing I ever did on Thanksgiving. (Original Post) TNNurse Nov 2020 OP
Angels here on earth..... magicarpet Nov 2020 #1
That is beautiful. NameAlreadyTaken Nov 2020 #2
Thank you TNNurse! Those things really lighten the load for people with illness MaryMagdaline Nov 2020 #3
Nurses are a real blessing. llmart Nov 2020 #4
I have never forgotten DENVERPOPS Nov 2020 #45
That was very kind of you! smirkymonkey Nov 2020 #5
That is a lovely story. SoonerPride Nov 2020 #6
Just so you understand we are grateful for Joe and Kamala TNNurse Nov 2020 #7
Lovely malaise Nov 2020 #8
Little kindnesses can mean the world to people. Phoenix61 Nov 2020 #9
You SHOULD feel good about that ... still. Laelth Nov 2020 #10
Life has never so good sense I found my nurse. safeinOhio Nov 2020 #11
Please keep those still working in hospitals during this awful time TNNurse Nov 2020 #12
Thank god for people like you Piasladic Nov 2020 #13
The small things are often the big things. StarryNite Nov 2020 #14
Thank you 😊 sheshe2 Nov 2020 #15
So beautiful thank you TEB Nov 2020 #16
Thank You for Sharing... OddMom20 Nov 2020 #17
Welcome to our DU family, and Happy Thanksgiving. niyad Nov 2020 #29
You honor your profession, ma'am. n/t sarge43 Nov 2020 #18
Awww, love that story. nt iluvtennis Nov 2020 #19
Love this Joinfortmill Nov 2020 #20
I am so grateful for nurses... like you! n/t TygrBright Nov 2020 #21
Good on you. KPN Nov 2020 #22
Very kind and daring WA-03 Democrat Nov 2020 #23
The pan was huge, the stove massive TNNurse Nov 2020 #25
You should! mgardener Nov 2020 #24
Very, very nice story. BobTheSubgenius Nov 2020 #26
Lovely memory mcar Nov 2020 #27
Angels do walk amoung us. niyad Nov 2020 #28
Kudos to you. warmfeet Nov 2020 #30
Lovely Red Mountain Nov 2020 #31
Great story. Nurses truly are "Angels of Mercy"! (my wife was a nurse for about 40 years) George II Nov 2020 #32
Awww...That's so nice! Karadeniz Nov 2020 #33
... Duppers Nov 2020 #34
Good content n/t hibbing Nov 2020 #35
It was a small thing, but a huge kindness. I'm glad that you still feel good about it, cause you.... RussellCattle Nov 2020 #36
Oh, so very sweet - a gift for them both. electric_blue68 Nov 2020 #37
Thank you for being a blessing to this couple, and for all you do. You are truly an angel on earth. LiberalLoner Nov 2020 #38
It's the small things that mean the most. patphil Nov 2020 #39
Nurses save the world... N_E_1 for Tennis Nov 2020 #40
Thank you, TNNurse! calimary Nov 2020 #41
as another retired RN Bmoboy Nov 2020 #42
You are blessed by the blessings you bestow. You are truly blessed. marble falls Nov 2020 #43
I also wrote about this on FB TNNurse Nov 2020 #44
Your loving gesture made all the difference in their holiday dlk Nov 2020 #46
Best thing SimplyHadEnough Nov 2020 #47

llmart

(15,536 posts)
4. Nurses are a real blessing.
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 06:06 PM
Nov 2020

That is a special memory for you and those are the things one remembers all their lives. That man probably never forgot you and what you did for him.

Thanks for sharing that special story. It reminds me that there are good and caring people in our country.

DENVERPOPS

(8,804 posts)
45. I have never forgotten
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 04:48 PM
Nov 2020

particular nurses like that when I have been hospitalized.

In one case, I called in when I got home to compliment a certain nurse to HR. They told me someone would call me back.
A man called me back and wanted the Nurse's name and what she did. He went on to say he would take her down a single rose on her next shift, and give her a paid day off for her above the call of duty kindness. He mentioned that he intentionally did it in front of all the other nurses on that ward.
It turned out, he was the CEO of that hospital, one of the largest hospitals in Denver. Needless to say, I was blown away. Of course that was twenty years ago..........

Nurses are the front line in any hospital. It is a shame the way the Hospital Corporations are mistreating them and overworking them, especially since the Virus Hit. They are all angels...........

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
5. That was very kind of you!
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 06:09 PM
Nov 2020

It's people like you that restores one faith in humanity, but people like you never make it into the papers or in to the nightly news. It's good to know that such small acts of kindness can bring such happiness to others.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
7. Just so you understand we are grateful for Joe and Kamala
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 06:09 PM
Nov 2020

and since we were both hospital RNs, we are very grateful to be retired.

safeinOhio

(32,658 posts)
11. Life has never so good sense I found my nurse.
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 06:36 PM
Nov 2020

You did just the kind of thing she does every day. She just took off to take some left over sides to a shut/in down the street.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
12. Please keep those still working in hospitals during this awful time
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 06:41 PM
Nov 2020

in you thoughts, prayers (if you do that) and know they were there today, away from family.

Piasladic

(1,160 posts)
13. Thank god for people like you
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 06:45 PM
Nov 2020

I understand trying to rustle up food in a big kitchen after hours. Cream of wheat doesn't sound so special, but when it's prepared by someone who loves you and a friend, it means everything.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
25. The pan was huge, the stove massive
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 07:32 PM
Nov 2020

and I was quite afraid I would mess up something. All for one little bowl of cream of wheat.

But the smile on his face and the fact she was just sitting there made it worth my small effort.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,562 posts)
26. Very, very nice story.
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 07:38 PM
Nov 2020

Sadly, I'd be surprised if that couple was still around, but I'd also be surprised if they ever forgot your kindness.

warmfeet

(3,321 posts)
30. Kudos to you.
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 07:59 PM
Nov 2020

Cooking in a big hospital kitchen can be quite intimidating. Thank you for taking care of us.

RussellCattle

(1,535 posts)
36. It was a small thing, but a huge kindness. I'm glad that you still feel good about it, cause you....
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 08:51 PM
Nov 2020

.....really should. I'm sure that you have done many more over the years.

electric_blue68

(14,854 posts)
37. Oh, so very sweet - a gift for them both.
Thu Nov 26, 2020, 09:56 PM
Nov 2020

I'm giggling at the size of the kitchen stuff.
When I visited the Air Force Academy in Colorado we passed by the meal prep area. There were metal long rectangular open containers - maybe 2 ft wide and ? 15 ft long. 😄

You did a good thing. 💖

Bmoboy

(265 posts)
42. as another retired RN
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 01:20 PM
Nov 2020

I wonder why these kindnesses are so infrequent.

Why doesn't everyone stop to help?

"The first question which the priest and the Levite asked was: 'If I stop to help this man, what will happen to me?' But ... the good Samaritan reversed the question: 'If I do not stop to help this man, what will happen to him?'"- Martin Luther King Jr.

TNNurse

(6,926 posts)
44. I also wrote about this on FB
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 04:15 PM
Nov 2020

and said to my other old nurse friends that I believed every one of them would have done something similar.

dlk

(11,540 posts)
46. Your loving gesture made all the difference in their holiday
Fri Nov 27, 2020, 05:04 PM
Nov 2020

Thanks for sharing your uplifting story.

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