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RandySF

(58,776 posts)
Mon May 3, 2021, 01:22 AM May 2021

The girl in the Kent State photo: She was only 14. Here's how her life turned out




Last May, when Mary Ann Vecchio watched the video of George Floyd’s dying moments, she felt herself plummet through time and space — to a day almost exactly 50 years earlier. On that May 4 afternoon in 1970, the world was just as riveted by an image that showed the life draining out of a young man on the ground, this one a black-and-white still photo.

Mary Ann was at the center of that photo, her arms raised in anguish, begging for help.

That photo, of her kneeling over the body of Kent State University student Jeffrey Miller, is one of the most important images of the 20th century. Taken by student photographer John Filo, it captures Mary Ann’s raw grief and disbelief at the realization that the nation’s soldiers had just fired at its own children.

The Kent State Pietà, as it’s sometimes called, is one of those rare photos that fundamentally changed the way we see ourselves and the world around us. Like the image of the solitary protester standing in front of a line of tanks in Tiananmen Square. Or the photo of Kim Phuc, the naked Vietnamese girl fleeing the napalm that has just incinerated her home. Or the image of Aylan Kurdi’s tiny, 3-year-old body facedown in the sand, he and his mother and brother having drowned while fleeing Syria.

These images shocked our collective conscience — and insisted that we look. But eventually we look away, unaware, or perhaps unwilling, to think about the suffering that went on long after the shutter has snapped — or of the cost to the human beings trapped inside those photos. “That picture hijacked my life,” says Mary Ann, now 65. “And 50 years later, I still haven’t really moved on.”





https://www.kansascity.com/entertainment/arts-culture/article250930469.html#storylink=cpy
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The girl in the Kent State photo: She was only 14. Here's how her life turned out (Original Post) RandySF May 2021 OP
What an amazing saga this woman has lived. Thanks for posting. LuckyLib May 2021 #1
A traumatic time for the nation. wnylib May 2021 #11
I'll always remember that photo ailsagirl May 2021 #2
VERY interesting ... THANKS for posting this. 👍 nt Raine May 2021 #3
She seems like an exceptional person... Rollo May 2021 #4
Great read. K&R! Auggie May 2021 #5
I lived in Opa Locka, Florida for twenty years. This is such an amazing biography. diehardblue May 2021 #6
Honestly, if not for that photo and the (near immediate) release of CSN&Y's 'Ohio' anthem... hlthe2b May 2021 #7
The song helps me remember "4 dead in Ohio." Sanity Claws May 2021 #15
Oh my goodness... OneGrassRoot May 2021 #8
"see what just happened here?" - thanks UTUSN May 2021 #9
Should Never Have Happened colsohlibgal May 2021 #10
A friend of mine was a Kent freshman at the time. wnylib May 2021 #13
Has that photo been altered? alphafemale May 2021 #12
Photo as it ran on May 5th in Ohio's largest newspaper: Auggie May 2021 #14
This message was self-deleted by its author ExTex May 2021 #16

wnylib

(21,433 posts)
11. A traumatic time for the nation.
Mon May 3, 2021, 09:42 AM
May 2021

I remember hearing a celebrity, but don't remember which one, saying, "Oh my God. We're killing our own children now."

But I also remember hearing a lot of people saying, "They asked for it. Shouldn't have been demonstrating."

But, aside from such a calloused attitude, it wasn't even true. The kids who died were not part of the demonstrations. They were just students on their way buildings on campus.

Rollo

(2,559 posts)
4. She seems like an exceptional person...
Mon May 3, 2021, 05:16 AM
May 2021

...but I don't think that photo ruined her life, as much as it helped define it. Which of course, can be a mixed blessing, because we can't always control how we are defined. Mary Ann Vecchio represents the better part of human nature.


hlthe2b

(102,231 posts)
7. Honestly, if not for that photo and the (near immediate) release of CSN&Y's 'Ohio' anthem...
Mon May 3, 2021, 07:12 AM
May 2021

I honestly think Nixon's RW thugs might have succeeded in permanently rewriting history on this and related anti-war incidents.

Sometimes it is a photo. Sometimes it is an incredibly poignant song. Both leave us feeling haunted.

colsohlibgal

(5,275 posts)
10. Should Never Have Happened
Mon May 3, 2021, 08:28 AM
May 2021

Somebody had to give the order to use real ammunition on those kids and I’m guessing it was the Governor. One of my best friends was up there but thankfully she didn’t get hit.

This still angers me all these years later.

wnylib

(21,433 posts)
13. A friend of mine was a Kent freshman at the time.
Mon May 3, 2021, 09:53 AM
May 2021

She said that when the demonstrations escalated on Friday night, she knew it would get worse abd went home for the weekend. As news came in about demonstrations at Kent and on other campuses over the weekend, her parents insisted that she stay home on Monday. So she was home when the shootings occurred. She knew some of the kids who had been shot. She never returned to Kent. Transferred to another school.

Auggie

(31,167 posts)
14. Photo as it ran on May 5th in Ohio's largest newspaper:
Mon May 3, 2021, 10:25 AM
May 2021

I can't imagine there would have been time to retouch it back then. That was a morning paper too.

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