Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:48 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
Black men have suffered the most in America.They were buck broken, hung, dismembered, beaten — emasculated, made to watch their women be raped and bear their oppressors’ children. They have been robbed of their dignity and then looked at in disdain for being undignified. They’ve been in chains and now behind bars more than any group in history. America hates blacks — especially black men.
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Author | Time | Post |
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live love laugh | Jun 2021 | OP |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #1 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #2 | |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #7 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #8 | |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #20 | |
LakeArenal | Jun 2021 | #16 | |
DenaliDemocrat | Jun 2021 | #3 | |
eShirl | Jun 2021 | #4 | |
secondwind | Jun 2021 | #5 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #10 | |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #21 | |
StarfishSaver | Jun 2021 | #22 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #26 | |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #36 | |
SoonerPride | Jun 2021 | #38 | |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #39 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #40 | |
Laura PourMeADrink | Jun 2021 | #41 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #6 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #9 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #11 | |
Solomon | Jun 2021 | #12 | |
StarfishSaver | Jun 2021 | #23 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #25 | |
StarfishSaver | Jun 2021 | #28 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #31 | |
StarfishSaver | Jun 2021 | #33 | |
WhiskeyGrinder | Jun 2021 | #35 | |
Laura PourMeADrink | Jun 2021 | #42 | |
Jedi Guy | Jun 2021 | #17 | |
LanternWaste | Jun 2021 | #18 | |
StarfishSaver | Jun 2021 | #24 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #29 | |
Jedi Guy | Jun 2021 | #34 | |
Skittles | Jun 2021 | #37 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #32 | |
malaise | Jun 2021 | #13 | |
Raine | Jun 2021 | #14 | |
stillcool | Jun 2021 | #15 | |
JI7 | Jun 2021 | #19 | |
Sympthsical | Jun 2021 | #27 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #30 | |
Laura PourMeADrink | Jun 2021 | #43 | |
live love laugh | Jun 2021 | #44 | |
Laura PourMeADrink | Jun 2021 | #45 |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:51 PM
Skittles (148,567 posts)
1. from your description
it sounds like black women suffered just as much
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Response to Skittles (Reply #1)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:53 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
2. Women suffered badly but men even more. Women aren't
targets today like black men continue to be.
I’m sure many think that they should get over it and slowly they are but the recent assaults by police and anti BLM racism seem to be a way to keep them down. |
Response to live love laugh (Reply #2)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:58 PM
Skittles (148,567 posts)
7. women are always targets
Last edited Tue Jun 1, 2021, 09:57 PM - Edit history (1) there are many places black men can walk where black women would not dare
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Response to Skittles (Reply #7)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:00 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
8. I think we're talking about two different things. nt
Response to live love laugh (Reply #8)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 09:46 PM
Skittles (148,567 posts)
20. really?
you are comparing victims
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Response to live love laugh (Reply #2)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:22 PM
LakeArenal (25,790 posts)
16. How does one get over it when Black men are still killed over Skittles or less.
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:55 PM
DenaliDemocrat (1,387 posts)
3. I think Native Americans might argue that point
But it’s pretty close.
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Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:56 PM
eShirl (18,123 posts)
4. Suffering isn't a contest.
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:57 PM
secondwind (16,893 posts)
5. Plenty of folks in this country are not racist.
You cannot judge others, or paint them with a broad brush. Just my two cents. |
Response to secondwind (Reply #5)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:10 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
10. I didn't say that all people in America are racist.
Response to live love laugh (Reply #10)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 09:46 PM
Skittles (148,567 posts)
21. you said America hates blacks
that sound pretty inclusive
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Response to Skittles (Reply #21)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:05 PM
StarfishSaver (18,486 posts)
22. America is many things - none of which apply to every single person in the country.
Trying to distract from the OP's point about the systemic racism that still plagues this country in general and Black men in particular with the "not ALL Americans" (translation, "not ALL white people"
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Response to Skittles (Reply #21)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:14 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
26. America is a white supremacy, so...
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #26)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:08 PM
Skittles (148,567 posts)
36. so do you think
most Americans hate blacks?
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Response to Skittles (Reply #36)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:11 PM
SoonerPride (12,286 posts)
38. The racism is baked into just about every system
So yes. America hates black and brown people.
It is designed that way. |
Response to SoonerPride (Reply #38)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:13 PM
Skittles (148,567 posts)
39. blacksmith
alrighty then
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Response to Skittles (Reply #36)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:17 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
40. I think most Americans are reluctant to come to terms with how they live in a white supremacy and
how every white person benefits from it and every Black person loses out because of it.
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Response to live love laugh (Reply #10)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:23 PM
Laura PourMeADrink (41,110 posts)
41. You made a great point. Try not to take the bait and
let people twist your words around.
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Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 07:58 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
6. This isn't really useful.
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #6)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:01 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
9. It's probably not useful to you. nt
Response to live love laugh (Reply #9)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:12 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
11. Bullshit generally isn't.
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #11)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:15 PM
Solomon (12,086 posts)
12. Damn. I wouldn't call it bullshit!
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #11)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:06 PM
StarfishSaver (18,486 posts)
23. Wow.
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #11)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:13 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
25. Here, I'll clarify. I don't see how it's useful to pit the suffering of Black men against that of
Black women, and the suffering of Black people against that of other minorities, within the white supremacist system of the United States of America. At the same time, while I resist comparing suffering, I *also* don't think that Black men are seen as the least worthy of community care in this white supremacist system. Black and Native women are. That's where my "bullshit" comment came from, and I apologize for sounding dismissive.
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Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #25)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:20 PM
StarfishSaver (18,486 posts)
28. I don't think the OP is pitting anyone against each other.
They're highlighting the extraordinary hardships that Black men have. You may not agree with them, but that doesn't make the OP "bullshit."
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Response to StarfishSaver (Reply #28)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:29 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
31. Everything the poster says in the OP is fact; the subject line alone is opinion, and that's what I
reacted to. Some of the hardships Black men carry are indeed unique. But I don't think it's possible to quantify that those hardships have made them suffer "the most," and I don't think it's useful to try.
There are things that can be quantified. Like, we know cops kill Black men at disproportionate rates; that is definitely a form of suffering, and if we focus efforts on improving outcomes for Black men, it can only improve things for everyone across the board. |
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #31)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:50 PM
StarfishSaver (18,486 posts)
33. It's his/her opinion.
Calling it "bullshit" is a bit much.
The opinions of people of color are all too often dismissed as "bullshit," "divisive crap," "hyperbole," etc. - usually by people who don't know what they're talking about, lack any real awareness of the problem and have no lived experience beyond having a Black co-worker or watching an episode of Blackish. You are usually much more sensitive and insightful than the average poster, so your reaction is surprising. |
Response to StarfishSaver (Reply #33)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:56 PM
WhiskeyGrinder (19,537 posts)
35. I'm certainly out of my lane, and I apologize for coming in hot.
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #35)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:25 PM
Laura PourMeADrink (41,110 posts)
42. Wow WG
Response to WhiskeyGrinder (Reply #6)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:32 PM
Jedi Guy (2,752 posts)
17. Agreed. I don't see how a "biggest victim" contest is helpful.
Minorities of all stripes get a raw deal, in different ways and to different degrees.
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Response to Jedi Guy (Reply #17)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 09:41 PM
LanternWaste (37,748 posts)
18. In effect, you're stating historical data aggregates should be ignored...
simply because you fail to perceive its usefulness.
But I get it... this "biggest victim contest" you allege seems only to be brought up on DU when focus in placed on the AfAm community. |
Response to LanternWaste (Reply #18)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:06 PM
StarfishSaver (18,486 posts)
24. You noticed that, too?
Response to StarfishSaver (Reply #24)
live love laugh This message was self-deleted by its author.
Response to LanternWaste (Reply #18)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:54 PM
Jedi Guy (2,752 posts)
34. Hey, it's you again! Good to see you again, old pal!
Seeing your name on a reply to one of my posts warms my heart right down to the cockles. The only way it could've been more thrilling would be if there had been a shrug emoji. Oh well, I can always wait with hopeful anticipation for your next reply!
While my joy at seeing your name again knows no bounds, it pains me to note that you really should work on your reading comprehension, because that's really not what I was saying at all. But you knew that, of course. |
Response to Jedi Guy (Reply #17)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:29 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
32. And therein lies the problem--some are blinded or just unreceptive
to the fact that American black men — and all blacks to a lesser degree — have been and continue to be targeted by an unjust system.
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Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:16 PM
malaise (254,463 posts)
13. Ask the Indigenous people
They too faced hell
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Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:20 PM
Raine (29,474 posts)
14. Native Americans I'm sure feel differently. nt
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 08:21 PM
stillcool (32,620 posts)
15. we are all humans doing life
we come into this world and end up by happenstance in different circumstances. I could be an Iraqi, or Chinese, or Russian, or a black American. No matter what it would still be the only life I have. It appears as though there is no way I could survive in another ones shoes, but I know this is not true. We humans adapt. We bend. We laugh, we love, and we live, ..until we die.
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Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 09:45 PM
JI7 (87,738 posts)
19. Black women also , we just don't hear about it as much
but it's things like different treatment when it comes to reproductive health .
And black women were the first victims of rape happening to them. |
Response to live love laugh (Original post)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:18 PM
Sympthsical (6,350 posts)
27. This isn't a contest
We have to fix America so that it works for everyone. We have a long way to go. And we have to be mindful of all the groups that have suffered, how they've suffered, and that we owe it to them to fix it.
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Response to Sympthsical (Reply #27)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 10:24 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
30. This is an unpleasant topic not a contest.
Calling this BS or pointing to other groups is like saying “all lives matter” or “blue lives matter” etc.
My intention was to provoke thought not to be divisive. Yes indigenous people suffered. So do black men. Fifty percent of arrests in America are of blacks primarily men. Fifty percent of those exonerated are guess who? Guess what gender? These acts have gone on for centuries. What other groups have been affected for a similar length of time? |
Response to live love laugh (Reply #30)
Tue Jun 1, 2021, 11:27 PM
Laura PourMeADrink (41,110 posts)
43. Provoking thought ! Ahhh. Unfortunately it doesn't
exist here anymore. Too many disrupters. Paid and unpaid.
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Response to Laura PourMeADrink (Reply #43)
Wed Jun 2, 2021, 12:24 PM
live love laugh (10,922 posts)
44. Sad 😢 😞 nt
Response to live love laugh (Reply #44)
Wed Jun 2, 2021, 11:53 PM
Laura PourMeADrink (41,110 posts)
45. Amen. And all you have to do is go
elsewhere to grasp what kinds of things, like your post, ARE being discussed and debated in a civilized way. It is sad because there is (or was) such a great, unique assembly of like minded people here...
I say, don't let them win! But have to say, no fun just swatting flies away ![]() ![]() |