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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy dad is 100 years old today.
Not sure if this is appropriate for this forum, this is a cross post from the Lounge & I wanted to share.
We had a nice celebration & he got to see his 1 remaining brother (out of 6 boys), which only happens every 1-2 years. This will probably be the last time they're together.
He's still living with my sister but send good thoughts because the last few months he's gone downhill rapidly & he needs more intensive care than we can provide so we're talking to a hospice facility that we know is good, they have cared for other relatives & they were wonderful.
Today I don't want to focus on the negative, I want to celebrate the fact that my dad lived a long healthy life of 100 years. No heart attacks, no cancer, no other physical ailments, & even today at 100 the only pills he takes are vitamins, Tylenol, & a baby aspirin. I truly think scientists should be studying him, he's an unnatural phenomenon.
Happy 100th Birthday Dad, you did good. You did damn good.
panader0
(25,816 posts)Hortensis
(58,785 posts)One of the things he did good.
CaptainTruth
(6,576 posts)lpbk2713
(42,736 posts)CaptainTruth
(6,576 posts)pandr32
(11,553 posts)PoliticAverse
(26,366 posts)DFW
(54,291 posts)My parents never even made it 80, and the odds are that I wont either. But we all flew over to America for my grandfathers 100th birthday in Manhattan. He said that he shouldnt have been the focus of so much fuss, but we all knew he loved every moment of it.
I hope your dad manages to feel some of the same.
CaptainTruth
(6,576 posts)Dad never wanted a fuss, he didn't feel like he was deserving of a fuss, that comes from how he was raised & I totally understand it. However, every time we made a fuss, tears escaped from his eyes, & we knew it meant a lot to him.
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SharonClark
(10,014 posts)3catwoman3
(23,947 posts)🎂 🎉 🥳
malaise
(268,694 posts)FakeNoose
(32,579 posts)... to share with your grandkids. It's nice to save family stories and pass them down. Some day your grandkids will thank you (and your Dad) for the memories. Some families even have collections of stories written down for posterity.
whopis01
(3,491 posts)blogslug
(37,982 posts)Here's to your Dad!
Lonestarblue
(9,958 posts)Happy birthday to your Dad, and I hope you inherited his genes. They sound like really good ones.
barbtries
(28,769 posts)this speaks well of your longevity too. Happy birthday Dad!
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,523 posts)livetohike
(22,121 posts)GumboYaYa
(5,941 posts)murielm99
(30,717 posts)Happy birthday to him.
nuxvomica
(12,410 posts)My mom was born in the same year but she passed away in 2018. You are so fortunate to have him around!
FuzzyRabbit
(1,967 posts)May we all live as long and as well as he has.
CentralMass
(15,265 posts)MLAA
(17,250 posts)NEOBuckeye
(2,781 posts)onecaliberal
(32,777 posts)calimary
(81,110 posts)BlueSky3
(509 posts)Happy Birthday! I've always revered the people who have long lives and good stories to tell. I wish my grandmother were still alive-- I never thought to ask her how she met my grandfather, what was their early life together like, and on and on and on.
I know you treasure your time with him.
CaptainTruth
(6,576 posts)She passed a few years ago, but dad's story always begins with a recounting of how, in his senior year of high school, he showed up on the first day of school (this was in rural farm country, with a one-room schoolhouse) & he noticed a freshman "cute blonde girl." They became friends, they dated through high school, he got drafted into WWII, she finished high school, & he spent 74 years, 11 months, & 21 days married to that "cute blond girl" (he remembers it to the day). His first high school love... OK... stop cutting onions.
How often does that happen???
mac2766
(658 posts)lol...
100 - very impressive. I hope he's had a full and wonderful life. I do wonder how he reminisces. I loved the late 60's and 70's very much. The 80's so so, and then it was downhill from there. I can't imagine what it would be like to think back to the mid to late 1920's, through the great depression, WWII/Korea/Vietnam, Television, commercial air travel, the development of the automobile - to it's current state - the EV. NASA to the current privatization of the space program, and on and on. He's a lucky man and you are a lucky son (or daughter) for having him with you for so long. He MUST be great fun to talk to. I'm kind of jealous. You have an actual historian in your family.
kimbutgar
(21,055 posts)I wish my parents had lived that long. My Dad left us at 75 years and my Mother made it to 93.
What a great milestone! Enjoy!
lucca18
(1,239 posts)Hassin Bin Sober
(26,311 posts)And yes they are studying the over 90 crowd which is, as of this 60 Minutes report in 2014, is the fastest growing segment of the US population (whatever that means)
This might interest you. And your dad!
littlemissmartypants
(22,572 posts)Demovictory9
(32,421 posts)Congrats
PlanetBev
(4,104 posts)He made it to 88. Its quite an achievement to live to 100, especially with your health intact. Its a time to celebrate and appreciate all the years youve had with him.
Fortinbras Armstrong
(4,473 posts)He also made it to 88. My mother never forgave him for dying before her.
bucolic_frolic
(43,045 posts)If I may ask, how was his diet, what was his oil consumption like over the decades? I ask because we know a lot about other diseases, like diabetes, heart disease, carcinogens, but oil? We're just about 20 years or so into identifying a slew of diseases surrounding fatty liver and our modern diet. Thanks, and you are blessed with a 100 year old!
CaptainTruth
(6,576 posts)I'm sure that during his childhood there was no cooking oil in the house, everything was fried in animal fat, lard. Given the economy, portions of meat were small & augmented by taking pieces of bread & wiping the fat/grease out of the frying pan & eating it, something he continued to do his entire life. He ate very little processed food, in his younger years it was what they grew on the farm (meat, vegetables, & fruit) & I know there was no salt shaker on the table, that was a luxury they couldn't afford. After he moved off the farm he (we) had a large garden & orchard & the majority of what we ate came from the garden. Once a year we would get half a cow from my uncle & that would be our beef supply for the year. For years he's said he believes his excellent health is due to eating natural unprocessed food from the farm/garden with no additives or artificial ingredients.
It's always amazed me how he ate so much fat & grease his whole life & never had any problems with his arteries or heart.
bucolic_frolic
(43,045 posts)You have confirmed what I've been reading and watching in videos.
Natural diet, natural fats. Longevity doctors on the fringe of medical opinion have been focusing on oils and how we're swamped with them. We didn't eat processed oils 125 years ago. Then we started. War shortages brought a whole new industry - trans (hydrogenated) fats. Then oils - corn, soybean, canola (rapeseed).
Dr. Steven Gundry has a pile of lectures and books on the subject. He studies populations that grow very old - Utah, Greek islands. He likes only olive oil, which is likely true. A few doctors have recommended organic lard, hog fat. Say those are no problem. A natural diet is not loaded with processed (extracted) vegetable oils and refined sugar. Cases like your dad's confirms that thinking.
Thanks for sharing!
Heartstrings
(7,349 posts)Thank you for posting!
Retired Engineer Bob
(759 posts)100 years. Born 1921, think of all the experiences he has had, good and bad. Im very happy to hear he had good health. Your time with him is precious, make the most of it that you can.
Seeing a loved one enter hospice care can be difficult 😞. Keep in mind the overall goal of keeping a person in peace and comfort. My grandma entered hospice care at 103. The nurses and assistants were comforting to both her and the family, these folks have great compassion.
senseandsensibility
(16,929 posts)to you both!
TallMike
(161 posts)Recently sent me a birthday card. First one in 48 years. That train left some 32 years ago. What an absolute douche. Listerned to him rape my mother at 10 yo. I still hear that shit from time to time though adimttidly less so now. They were divorced 2 months later (good for her!).
Lived 2 miles from me for the better part of 20 years. Saw him once dispite many attempts on my part.
Waaaaaa! I got the wrong dad!!!! LMFAO!
What an absolute douchecanoe.
Happy Fathers day!
Tanuki
(14,914 posts)that you have inherited some serious longevity genes!
🌷 🥳 💕 🎂 🍨 🥂 🎉
Happy Birthday, Papa Truth!
abbeyco
(1,555 posts)Happy Birthday to your Dad - what an awesome milestone to reach!
Dark n Stormy Knight
(9,760 posts)Why some people enjoy long-lived health can be mystery, especially when we look at individual cases.
When I was in college, I worked at a two different nursing homes. There were people who reached advanced age in surprisingly good health, even though most of them didn't live especially healthful lives. I've always wondered at the 90+ year-old lifelong smokers (one who began a tobacco habit as a pre-teen) who were still smoking, yet had no lung disease or cancer.
PoindexterOglethorpe
(25,816 posts)I'm only 72, but I have plans for my 97th birthday. I want to see the eclipse in August, 2045, right before my 97th birthday.
More closer in time, I've decided I will be on the Mall in Washington DC on July 4, 2026. I was on the Mall on July 4, 1976, for our nation's Bicentennial. My now ex husband was also there, but we wouldn't meet for another three years. It was WONDERFUL, including the walk back to DCA (National Airport) where I connected to two guys who had a car parked at the Marina, and offered me a ride home the rest of the way. Which I gratefully accepted.
So in 2026 I plan to be on the Mall again, and I will tell every single person I meet that I was there fifty years earlier. I am also planning for my son to be there with me. He might roll his eyes, but he'll be a participant, trust me. And I expect him to be on the Mall on July 4, 2076. He'll only be 93 years old at that point, and trust me, he'll still be around given the longevity especially on his father's side. And I hope he will tell every one he sees that he was there fifty years earlier, and his parents were there 100 years earlier. How cool is that?
I will add that none of my grandparents, and none of my husband's grandparents had even been born in 1876, at the nation's Centennial. And all of them were born in Europe anyway, so they couldn't have been here.
I do sort of love how different generations can work out.
But once again, Happy 100th Birthday Dad. So sorry I won't get to meet you. But hugs anyway.
Rhiannon12866
(204,771 posts)And especially since he hasn't suffered major health problems - and has such a supportive family. Sounds like he's led an incredibly rich life. Thanks so much for sharing and send him our best wishes as well!
Withywindle
(9,988 posts)A long happy life is a blessing, and your love for him shines through.
BobTheSubgenius
(11,559 posts)Happy Birthday, "Dad."
JudyM
(29,192 posts)My dad wouldve been 100 next month; lost him in 18 but still feel grateful for all those years. I was just thinking yesterday how wonderful it wouldve been to celebrate 100 with him, now imagining it vicariously through you. Glad theres a good hospice available so you can focus on him without the distraction of finding good care. May your time together be especially sweet.
Maxheader
(4,370 posts)to the new Centenarian....
"A centenarian is a person who has reached the age of 100 years. Because life expectancies worldwide are below 100 years, the term is invariably associated with longevity. In 2012, the United Nations estimated that there were 316,600 living centenarians worldwide."