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CaptainTruth

(6,576 posts)
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 01:39 PM Jun 2021

My dad is 100 years old today.

Not sure if this is appropriate for this forum, this is a cross post from the Lounge & I wanted to share.

We had a nice celebration & he got to see his 1 remaining brother (out of 6 boys), which only happens every 1-2 years. This will probably be the last time they're together.

He's still living with my sister but send good thoughts because the last few months he's gone downhill rapidly & he needs more intensive care than we can provide so we're talking to a hospice facility that we know is good, they have cared for other relatives & they were wonderful.

Today I don't want to focus on the negative, I want to celebrate the fact that my dad lived a long healthy life of 100 years. No heart attacks, no cancer, no other physical ailments, & even today at 100 the only pills he takes are vitamins, Tylenol, & a baby aspirin. I truly think scientists should be studying him, he's an unnatural phenomenon.

Happy 100th Birthday Dad, you did good. You did damn good.

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My dad is 100 years old today. (Original Post) CaptainTruth Jun 2021 OP
Wow! Very cool. panader0 Jun 2021 #1
Congratulations to him that he's blessed with children who think so. Hortensis Jun 2021 #2
Thank you! CaptainTruth Jun 2021 #49
The Greatest Generation indeed. lpbk2713 Jun 2021 #3
Indeed. CaptainTruth Jun 2021 #50
Congratulations to your centurian Dad pandr32 Jun 2021 #4
Best wishes to him! n/t PoliticAverse Jun 2021 #5
Way to go! DFW Jun 2021 #6
That sounds very familliar. CaptainTruth Jun 2021 #52
This message was self-deleted by its author DFW Jun 2021 #7
100! Congratulation to your dad. SharonClark Jun 2021 #8
How lovely for both of you. 3catwoman3 Jun 2021 #9
Happy Birthday to your dad malaise Jun 2021 #10
That's awesome! I hope you have some nice photos FakeNoose Jun 2021 #11
That's fantastic. Congratulations to him! (and to you as well) n/t whopis01 Jun 2021 #12
What a wonderful thing to have in your life. blogslug Jun 2021 #13
That's fantastic! Lonestarblue Jun 2021 #14
Wow. barbtries Jun 2021 #15
Happy Birthday to your dad! He has lived long and prospered. Good for him! ♥ CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2021 #16
Happy 100th Birthday to your Dad! Glad he was able to celebrate! livetohike Jun 2021 #17
That is fantastic! Happy birthday to your Dad! GumboYaYa Jun 2021 #18
Impressive! murielm99 Jun 2021 #19
Congratulations to your Dad! nuxvomica Jun 2021 #20
Happy birthday to your dad. FuzzyRabbit Jun 2021 #21
Wow, that is fantastic. Happy Birthday to your father. CentralMass Jun 2021 #22
Go Dad! Sure hope you got his good genes! MLAA Jun 2021 #23
Happy Birthday to your Dad NEOBuckeye Jun 2021 #24
Happy Birthday to your dad! 🎉🎂 onecaliberal Jun 2021 #25
Awwwwww ... wish him Happy Birthday for all of us! calimary Jun 2021 #26
Wow, the family history he knows. BlueSky3 Jun 2021 #27
My dad has told us many times how he met my mother. CaptainTruth Jun 2021 #53
Congratulate him for me, even though you have no idea who I am. mac2766 Jun 2021 #28
Happy 100th kimbutgar Jun 2021 #29
So wonderful! A very Happy Birthday to your dear father! lucca18 Jun 2021 #30
Happy birthday to your pops! Hassin Bin Sober Jun 2021 #31
Happy birthday and congratulations to your Dad! ❤ littlemissmartypants Jun 2021 #32
👍🎈🎉 Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #33
My dad would have turned 100 on March 2nd. PlanetBev Jun 2021 #34
My dad would have been 100 on September 18th Fortinbras Armstrong Jun 2021 #46
Way cool bucolic_frolic Jun 2021 #35
He grew up on a farm, during the Depression. CaptainTruth Jun 2021 #54
Thank you, and there it is. bucolic_frolic Jun 2021 #55
This makes my heart happy! Heartstrings Jun 2021 #36
Happy birthday to your dad Retired Engineer Bob Jun 2021 #37
Good for him and best wishes senseandsensibility Jun 2021 #38
mine just turned 98 TallMike Jun 2021 #39
What a milestone! Congratulations to your dad! And how nice to think Tanuki Jun 2021 #40
🎉💯🥳 abbeyco Jun 2021 #41
Wonderful. Dark n Stormy Knight Jun 2021 #42
Happy Birthday Dad! PoindexterOglethorpe Jun 2021 #43
How wonderful! Congratulations to your Dad! Rhiannon12866 Jun 2021 #44
Aww, congratulations and Happy Birthday! Withywindle Jun 2021 #45
Well, he certainly raised some good and loving kids, and that speaks volumes. BobTheSubgenius Jun 2021 #47
How rare and wonderful to have good health all the way! JudyM Jun 2021 #48
Best wishes... Maxheader Jun 2021 #51

DFW

(54,291 posts)
6. Way to go!
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 01:54 PM
Jun 2021

My parents never even made it 80, and the odds are that I won’t either. But we all flew over to America for my grandfather’s 100th birthday in Manhattan. He said that he shouldn’t have been the focus of so much fuss, but we all knew he loved every moment of it.

I hope your dad manages to feel some of the same.

CaptainTruth

(6,576 posts)
52. That sounds very familliar.
Thu Jun 10, 2021, 07:31 PM
Jun 2021

Dad never wanted a fuss, he didn't feel like he was deserving of a fuss, that comes from how he was raised & I totally understand it. However, every time we made a fuss, tears escaped from his eyes, & we knew it meant a lot to him.

Response to CaptainTruth (Original post)

FakeNoose

(32,579 posts)
11. That's awesome! I hope you have some nice photos
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 02:11 PM
Jun 2021

... to share with your grandkids. It's nice to save family stories and pass them down. Some day your grandkids will thank you (and your Dad) for the memories. Some families even have collections of stories written down for posterity.

Lonestarblue

(9,958 posts)
14. That's fantastic!
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 02:16 PM
Jun 2021

Happy birthday to your Dad, and I hope you inherited his genes. They sound like really good ones.

nuxvomica

(12,410 posts)
20. Congratulations to your Dad!
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 02:36 PM
Jun 2021

My mom was born in the same year but she passed away in 2018. You are so fortunate to have him around!

BlueSky3

(509 posts)
27. Wow, the family history he knows.
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 04:34 PM
Jun 2021

Happy Birthday! I've always revered the people who have long lives and good stories to tell. I wish my grandmother were still alive-- I never thought to ask her how she met my grandfather, what was their early life together like, and on and on and on.

I know you treasure your time with him.

CaptainTruth

(6,576 posts)
53. My dad has told us many times how he met my mother.
Thu Jun 10, 2021, 07:54 PM
Jun 2021

She passed a few years ago, but dad's story always begins with a recounting of how, in his senior year of high school, he showed up on the first day of school (this was in rural farm country, with a one-room schoolhouse) & he noticed a freshman "cute blonde girl." They became friends, they dated through high school, he got drafted into WWII, she finished high school, & he spent 74 years, 11 months, & 21 days married to that "cute blond girl" (he remembers it to the day). His first high school love... OK... stop cutting onions.

How often does that happen???

 

mac2766

(658 posts)
28. Congratulate him for me, even though you have no idea who I am.
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 04:41 PM
Jun 2021

lol...

100 - very impressive. I hope he's had a full and wonderful life. I do wonder how he reminisces. I loved the late 60's and 70's very much. The 80's so so, and then it was downhill from there. I can't imagine what it would be like to think back to the mid to late 1920's, through the great depression, WWII/Korea/Vietnam, Television, commercial air travel, the development of the automobile - to it's current state - the EV. NASA to the current privatization of the space program, and on and on. He's a lucky man and you are a lucky son (or daughter) for having him with you for so long. He MUST be great fun to talk to. I'm kind of jealous. You have an actual historian in your family.

kimbutgar

(21,055 posts)
29. Happy 100th
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 04:58 PM
Jun 2021

I wish my parents had lived that long. My Dad left us at 75 years and my Mother made it to 93.

What a great milestone! Enjoy!

Hassin Bin Sober

(26,311 posts)
31. Happy birthday to your pops!
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 05:08 PM
Jun 2021

And yes they are studying the over 90 crowd which is, as of this 60 Minutes report in 2014, is the “fastest growing segment of the US population” (whatever that means)



This might interest you. And your dad!

PlanetBev

(4,104 posts)
34. My dad would have turned 100 on March 2nd.
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 07:38 PM
Jun 2021

He made it to 88. It’s quite an achievement to live to 100, especially with your health intact. It’s a time to celebrate and appreciate all the years you’ve had with him.

Fortinbras Armstrong

(4,473 posts)
46. My dad would have been 100 on September 18th
Wed Jun 9, 2021, 08:57 AM
Jun 2021

He also made it to 88. My mother never forgave him for dying before her.

bucolic_frolic

(43,045 posts)
35. Way cool
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 08:40 PM
Jun 2021

If I may ask, how was his diet, what was his oil consumption like over the decades? I ask because we know a lot about other diseases, like diabetes, heart disease, carcinogens, but oil? We're just about 20 years or so into identifying a slew of diseases surrounding fatty liver and our modern diet. Thanks, and you are blessed with a 100 year old!

CaptainTruth

(6,576 posts)
54. He grew up on a farm, during the Depression.
Fri Jun 11, 2021, 02:36 PM
Jun 2021

I'm sure that during his childhood there was no cooking oil in the house, everything was fried in animal fat, lard. Given the economy, portions of meat were small & augmented by taking pieces of bread & wiping the fat/grease out of the frying pan & eating it, something he continued to do his entire life. He ate very little processed food, in his younger years it was what they grew on the farm (meat, vegetables, & fruit) & I know there was no salt shaker on the table, that was a luxury they couldn't afford. After he moved off the farm he (we) had a large garden & orchard & the majority of what we ate came from the garden. Once a year we would get half a cow from my uncle & that would be our beef supply for the year. For years he's said he believes his excellent health is due to eating natural unprocessed food from the farm/garden with no additives or artificial ingredients.

It's always amazed me how he ate so much fat & grease his whole life & never had any problems with his arteries or heart.

bucolic_frolic

(43,045 posts)
55. Thank you, and there it is.
Fri Jun 11, 2021, 03:32 PM
Jun 2021

You have confirmed what I've been reading and watching in videos.

Natural diet, natural fats. Longevity doctors on the fringe of medical opinion have been focusing on oils and how we're swamped with them. We didn't eat processed oils 125 years ago. Then we started. War shortages brought a whole new industry - trans (hydrogenated) fats. Then oils - corn, soybean, canola (rapeseed).

Dr. Steven Gundry has a pile of lectures and books on the subject. He studies populations that grow very old - Utah, Greek islands. He likes only olive oil, which is likely true. A few doctors have recommended organic lard, hog fat. Say those are no problem. A natural diet is not loaded with processed (extracted) vegetable oils and refined sugar. Cases like your dad's confirms that thinking.

Thanks for sharing!

37. Happy birthday to your dad
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 08:45 PM
Jun 2021

100 years. Born 1921, think of all the experiences he has had, good and bad. I’m very happy to hear he had good health. Your time with him is precious, make the most of it that you can.

Seeing a loved one enter hospice care can be difficult 😞. Keep in mind the overall goal of keeping a person in peace and comfort. My grandma entered hospice care at 103. The nurses and assistants were comforting to both her and the family, these folks have great compassion.

TallMike

(161 posts)
39. mine just turned 98
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 09:09 PM
Jun 2021

Recently sent me a birthday card. First one in 48 years. That train left some 32 years ago. What an absolute douche. Listerned to him rape my mother at 10 yo. I still hear that shit from time to time though adimttidly less so now. They were divorced 2 months later (good for her!).
Lived 2 miles from me for the better part of 20 years. Saw him once dispite many attempts on my part.
Waaaaaa! I got the wrong dad!!!! LMFAO!
What an absolute douchecanoe.
Happy Fathers day!

Tanuki

(14,914 posts)
40. What a milestone! Congratulations to your dad! And how nice to think
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 09:57 PM
Jun 2021

that you have inherited some serious longevity genes!


🌷 🥳 💕 🎂 🍨 🥂 🎉

Happy Birthday, Papa Truth!

Dark n Stormy Knight

(9,760 posts)
42. Wonderful.
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 11:20 PM
Jun 2021

Why some people enjoy long-lived health can be mystery, especially when we look at individual cases.

When I was in college, I worked at a two different nursing homes. There were people who reached advanced age in surprisingly good health, even though most of them didn't live especially healthful lives. I've always wondered at the 90+ year-old lifelong smokers (one who began a tobacco habit as a pre-teen) who were still smoking, yet had no lung disease or cancer.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,816 posts)
43. Happy Birthday Dad!
Tue Jun 8, 2021, 11:51 PM
Jun 2021

I'm only 72, but I have plans for my 97th birthday. I want to see the eclipse in August, 2045, right before my 97th birthday.

More closer in time, I've decided I will be on the Mall in Washington DC on July 4, 2026. I was on the Mall on July 4, 1976, for our nation's Bicentennial. My now ex husband was also there, but we wouldn't meet for another three years. It was WONDERFUL, including the walk back to DCA (National Airport) where I connected to two guys who had a car parked at the Marina, and offered me a ride home the rest of the way. Which I gratefully accepted.

So in 2026 I plan to be on the Mall again, and I will tell every single person I meet that I was there fifty years earlier. I am also planning for my son to be there with me. He might roll his eyes, but he'll be a participant, trust me. And I expect him to be on the Mall on July 4, 2076. He'll only be 93 years old at that point, and trust me, he'll still be around given the longevity especially on his father's side. And I hope he will tell every one he sees that he was there fifty years earlier, and his parents were there 100 years earlier. How cool is that?

I will add that none of my grandparents, and none of my husband's grandparents had even been born in 1876, at the nation's Centennial. And all of them were born in Europe anyway, so they couldn't have been here.

I do sort of love how different generations can work out.

But once again, Happy 100th Birthday Dad. So sorry I won't get to meet you. But hugs anyway.

Rhiannon12866

(204,771 posts)
44. How wonderful! Congratulations to your Dad!
Wed Jun 9, 2021, 02:28 AM
Jun 2021

And especially since he hasn't suffered major health problems - and has such a supportive family. Sounds like he's led an incredibly rich life. Thanks so much for sharing and send him our best wishes as well!

Withywindle

(9,988 posts)
45. Aww, congratulations and Happy Birthday!
Wed Jun 9, 2021, 04:27 AM
Jun 2021

A long happy life is a blessing, and your love for him shines through.

JudyM

(29,192 posts)
48. How rare and wonderful to have good health all the way!
Wed Jun 9, 2021, 12:40 PM
Jun 2021

My dad would’ve been 100 next month; lost him in ‘18 but still feel grateful for all those years. I was just thinking yesterday how wonderful it would’ve been to celebrate 100 with him, now imagining it vicariously through you. Glad there’s a good hospice available so you can focus on him without the distraction of finding good care. May your time together be especially sweet.

Maxheader

(4,370 posts)
51. Best wishes...
Thu Jun 10, 2021, 07:29 PM
Jun 2021


to the new Centenarian....


"A centenarian is a person who has reached the age of 100 years. Because life expectancies worldwide are below 100 years, the term is invariably associated with longevity. In 2012, the United Nations estimated that there were 316,600 living centenarians worldwide."
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