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Amaryllis

(9,524 posts)
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 01:44 PM Jun 2021

Heartwarming interaction with my mail carrier in record heat yesterday.

We are having a stretch of record-breaking heat in the Pacific NW. Well over 100 in Portland yesterday - highly unusual.

I saw my mail carrier through my window. I opened the door and asked if he needed a water refill. He thanked me and said he was fine, but might take me up on it another time. It was almost the end of his day. He said all day long people had been so nice, giving him cold things to put in his cooler. (They drive a truck that they park while they deliver to sections of their area.)

I could see from the expression on his face how much this kindness and caring meant to him; he was clearly very hot, yet there was an open-hearted quality in his countenance that nearly moved me to tears.

Simple kindness. So simple, and yet so profound.

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Heartwarming interaction with my mail carrier in record heat yesterday. (Original Post) Amaryllis Jun 2021 OP
lovely Demovictory9 Jun 2021 #1
Just lovely. niyad Jun 2021 #2
Simple kindness is rare. You touched him deeply and his face acknowledged that fact. ♥ CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2021 #3
Thank you for sharing that, Amaryllis. smirkymonkey Jun 2021 #4
You are welcome! I still tear up when i think of it. The expression on his face... Amaryllis Jun 2021 #6
When I was a kid Diamond_Dog Jun 2021 #5
I have a similar memory of our postman from my childhood. Grammy23 Jun 2021 #22
You wrote this so beautifully..... secondwind Jun 2021 #7
Kindness is underrated. Lunabell Jun 2021 #8
Carriers have to carefully balance hydration and bladder pressure. Marcuse Jun 2021 #9
The hotter it is, luvtheGWN Jun 2021 #14
Since the start of the pandemic bluestateboomer Jun 2021 #10
What a lovey idea. 3catwoman3 Jun 2021 #23
What a lovey idea. 3catwoman3 Jun 2021 #24
Considering all the crap directed toward the USPS and employees by TFG over the last 4 years.... George II Jun 2021 #11
Thanks for sharing MustLoveBeagles Jun 2021 #12
Postal carriers have a tremendous workload. Patron kindness is golden. oasis Jun 2021 #13
Well done, Amaryllis! Fritz Walter Jun 2021 #15
great idea NJCher Jun 2021 #28
I miss my old carrier, he got promoted... Historic NY Jun 2021 #16
My carrier is always friendly and smiling when I see him nuxvomica Jun 2021 #17
My dad was a letter carrier. Captain Zero Jun 2021 #18
I'm so old that I remember that this just seemed a normal interaction. SleeplessinSoCal Jun 2021 #19
👍 Joinfortmill Jun 2021 #20
At least they have a truck in your area. Beacool Jun 2021 #21
For the record, Donny was our carrier for the 35 years we lived there. LakeArenal Jun 2021 #25
Right now tt's 109 here in Sellwood (Portland) BadGimp Jun 2021 #26
109 here too! (Portland) Amaryllis Jun 2021 #27
Been there, done that Postal Grunt Jun 2021 #29
Mailman story from way back, gab13by13 Jun 2021 #30
Appreciation Smackdown2019 Jun 2021 #31
thank you, my son is a letter carrier gopiscrap Jun 2021 #32

Amaryllis

(9,524 posts)
6. You are welcome! I still tear up when i think of it. The expression on his face...
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 01:55 PM
Jun 2021

hot, sweaty, overheated, but clearly an open heart due to people being kind all day long.

Diamond_Dog

(31,917 posts)
5. When I was a kid
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 01:51 PM
Jun 2021

We always offered the mail carrier a cold drink on a hot day. Sometimes he’d take us up on it, sometimes he’d say no thanks, he was fine. But if we kids ever had a lemonade stand out front, he’d insist on buying some from us. A good memory of olden days, I guess.

Grammy23

(5,810 posts)
22. I have a similar memory of our postman from my childhood.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 04:13 PM
Jun 2021

His name was Mr. Hastings. I guess we never knew his first name. He was a nice, friendly guy who brought our daily mail.If we set up a lemonade stand, he never failed to buy several cups from us. That was many, many years ago (1950s-60s) but I still remember Mr. Hastings and his huge, leather satchel of mail.

luvtheGWN

(1,336 posts)
14. The hotter it is,
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 02:51 PM
Jun 2021

the more you sweat, and the less frequently you have to pee! It all works out in the end

bluestateboomer

(505 posts)
10. Since the start of the pandemic
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 02:41 PM
Jun 2021

My daughter has had a box of water and snacks on the doorstep for USPS and delivery workers. She's had several nice notes of thanks.

George II

(67,782 posts)
11. Considering all the crap directed toward the USPS and employees by TFG over the last 4 years....
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 02:43 PM
Jun 2021

...I go out of my way to be friendly to ours.

Lots of other people around here have too - we have a bunch of signs around town saying "Support the USPS"!

It doesn't take much, good for you!

Fritz Walter

(4,291 posts)
15. Well done, Amaryllis!
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 02:53 PM
Jun 2021

For the past couple years, I used to leave a couple bottles of chilled water in a styrofoam cooler directly beneath the mailbox on my front porch whenever the heat index was forecast to be in the triple digits. Added a large sticky note to the front of the mailbox, saying “help yourself.”

Summer of 2019, Maria — our letter carrier — would take at least one, and in the brutal heat, she’d grab both. Last summer, we had a different carrier who also appreciated the gesture.

New USPS letter carrier this year. Will provide same support. These civil servants deserve better than what the current Postmastur is forcing them to endure.

These folks have a rough job. Treat them well. Because it’s the proper thing to do.

NJCher

(35,621 posts)
28. great idea
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 08:52 PM
Jun 2021

I'm gonna' do that. We have all kinds of coolers around here and plenty of bottled sparkling water.

Historic NY

(37,449 posts)
16. I miss my old carrier, he got promoted...
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 03:02 PM
Jun 2021

Every day he stopped at the firehouse for water, ice and bathroom break. If he was lucky, a quick snack on some leftovers. I lived down the other end of the block, so I could always catch him there.

nuxvomica

(12,411 posts)
17. My carrier is always friendly and smiling when I see him
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 03:08 PM
Jun 2021

I think he enjoys scanning Funny Times every month. He sees I get Harpers and all sorts of Democratic Party and social-justice mailings; even my phone bills are from Credo. It dawned on me that he probably has a pretty good idea of everyone's politics.

Captain Zero

(6,785 posts)
18. My dad was a letter carrier.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 03:29 PM
Jun 2021
He bought lemonade from kids' stands, and if they had drawn a hopscotch on the sidewalk, he jumped it. .

SleeplessinSoCal

(9,087 posts)
19. I'm so old that I remember that this just seemed a normal interaction.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 03:40 PM
Jun 2021

Before the Great Divide of the 21st century.

Beacool

(30,247 posts)
21. At least they have a truck in your area.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 04:01 PM
Jun 2021

I'm in a city, so they have to walk pushing their cart in all kinds of weather. Since we mostly live in apts., I hardly ever see my mailman, let alone to give him water or a hot drink in cold weather.

I'm glad that you and others in your area have the opportunity to do something nice for these hard working people.


LakeArenal

(28,804 posts)
25. For the record, Donny was our carrier for the 35 years we lived there.
Sun Jun 27, 2021, 04:18 PM
Jun 2021

He was the best and nicest guy. We had lots of snow and yet we always got the mail.

Always went the extra mile for folks.

gab13by13

(21,264 posts)
30. Mailman story from way back,
Mon Jun 28, 2021, 05:30 AM
Jun 2021

We had a mailman and we had a dog, good sized dog but friendly. Mailman, every day gave our dog a Hershey kiss, I know shouldn't give chocolate to dogs. Mailman retired, new mailman, no Hershey kiss, no more letting our dog run loose. Now this was back in the 50's.

Smackdown2019

(1,184 posts)
31. Appreciation
Mon Jun 28, 2021, 09:14 AM
Jun 2021

I was a city carrier for 18 years, now I am a small town Postmaster. When I carried, I walked 9 miles a day and you never can escape the summer heat and humidity. Cold water is the best thing to give a mail carrier. Just be sure to check on your neighbors that may not respond to heat well due to their age or medical conditions.

gopiscrap

(23,726 posts)
32. thank you, my son is a letter carrier
Mon Jun 28, 2021, 11:20 AM
Jun 2021

and my wife and I will be in Portland today out by the airport. It is our 41st anniversary do you have any suggestions for a good place for dinner. We are staying at a Residence Innat Cascade Station.

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