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You may become like them.
We're better than that.
Aristus
(66,286 posts)while they wish it on themselves...
Kaleva
(36,248 posts)FoxNewsSucks
(10,417 posts)and I do agree.
But I'm sick of them. Sick of them getting their way. Sick of the damage they do. I know it's not good to wish them gone, but I just can't help it anymore.
Paladin
(28,243 posts)Fits really nice on a tombstone...
The Magistrate
(95,241 posts)Paladin
(28,243 posts)onecaliberal
(32,777 posts)pidge
(274 posts)onecaliberal
(32,777 posts)dchill
(38,441 posts)I'll get over it when they either stop it or die.
thucythucy
(8,038 posts)and the lives of my loved ones at added risk.
Now we're being warned about a possible mutation that can sidestep the vaccine, sending us back to when lockdowns were the only way to stay safe, and all because these folks can't be bothered to do the right thing.
I don't wish anyone dead, but I sure wish they'd stop their antisocial and narcissist behavior before things get even worse for all of us.
Scrivener7
(50,911 posts)no one is "wishing" for it.
But I and many others have accepted the fact that they will not avail themselves of those efforts.
Because of that, at this point, the best case scenario for the human race is if Delta rips through the population as fast as possible and infects as many unvaccinated as possible as quickly as possible. This MIGHT keep a variant that is resistant to vaccines from taking hold and it MIGHT lead to herd immunity.
As it is, the vaccine refusers are acting as incubators for variants and are putting the rest of us at risk of a much worse version of this virus that we can imagine.
They are willfully putting the rest of us in danger of death.
It is not the other way around.
SharonClark
(10,014 posts)Throck
(2,520 posts)Some are front line workers who worked pre vax too. Are they suffering from PTSD or do they distrust Trump's administration that much?
The mental health breakdown during the pandemic has been incredible.
Deuxcents
(16,085 posts)I do wish TFG would blow a gasket.
NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)Sympthsical
(9,037 posts)It's very strange to watch.
As a well-adjusted person who does not wish death on political opponents or think people should die because they're dumb (or seek validation from the internet), I can't say it's terrifically pleasant.
It's the social media bubble. People get into them and become worse versions of themselves because worst instincts are constantly reinforced.
It's not like anyone's reinforcing the idea of volunteering at a soup kitchen (that would also involve, you know, doing something). It's always, "Why we hate X right now! Click click click."
Hatred is an addiction, and addicts will justify their fix.
I don't get how people don't recognize how mentally unhealthy this all is. But partisanship married to social media has been on this path for a long time now.
"This country is going to have a Civil War! Blargle!!!!" Oh, going to fight that one from your office chair, too?
tonedevil
(3,022 posts)on the death train in order to put me in my place I'm not sure how I am supposed to feel. Good for you that you are all well adjusted and stuff.
Sympthsical
(9,037 posts)The internet isn't real life.
People make their choices. It seems most people think all these anti-vaxxers are a bunch of Trumpists. It's a fiction manufactured for partisan use. As a person in the Bay Area, believe me, I've been dealing with Jenny McCarthy fall out for years. A school teacher who refused to get vaccinated or wear a mask was canned from school. Did that make DU? Seems like the perfect story to land here, no?
Ah, was in Marin and involved Democrats. Well, nevermind then.
If you think all these people are out to "own the libs" it makes it a lot easier to hate them. So we only hear about those people. When a study came out about the poor vaccination rates in the Black community, people freaked out, called it all racist, and shut that conversation down pronto.
But I thought we wanted to have a conversation about vaccination and what we can do to help?
Or maybe - and bear with me here - people are just getting their partisan rocks off with all of this? Seems to me, people who cared solely about vaccines and rates would be going after all aspects of the problem, not just the Trumpists on Twitter and cable news. Once I saw a whole thread full of people high-fiving over a teenager's accidental death - it wasn't even a Covid thing - I knew the psychology in the bubble had changed. Death has become almost desirable for political opponents.
Behavior reveals. And the celebratory behavior and laser focus on one aspect of the vaccine problem has certainly been revealing.
When people show you who they are, believe them.
tonedevil
(3,022 posts)NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)Just_Vote_Dem
(2,793 posts)And i almost had her talked into the vaccination, but my nieces put a stop to that-If she passes, somehow I bet they make me the bad guy
Sympthsical
(9,037 posts)I'm sorry to hear it.
A few years ago, my family was in a similar situation. Father got a cold or something. It progressed. My mom told him maybe go to the ER. I called from California, heard how he sounded, and urged him to go to ER. My brother did similarly.
But he insisted. Just wanted to get through Christmas. He got through Christmas. Then went into pneumonia, a ventilator, then sepsis, then dead.
We did what we could to urge him, but people make their choices.
If the children are angry, well, they're grieving. I'd just leave it alone. As long as you know you did the right thing.
Just_Vote_Dem
(2,793 posts)And sorry for your loss.
NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)SharonClark
(10,014 posts)you apparently are, that wish death on the ignorant unvaccinated. I mostly see posts about karma and not caring if they die. That is hardly "wishing" for death.
leftstreet
(36,098 posts)The knee-jerk lack of compassion prevents people from looking for solutions
Devil Child
(2,728 posts)Lots of haterade being chugged and happily passed about.
atreides1
(16,066 posts)I still believe in the things that they hate...
The other side is the side who would put my grandchildren in camps, because they're not white enough, or "Christian" enough, or won't kiss their asses...
If enough of them would just die, maybe this country can move forward...
stillcool
(32,626 posts)to wish death upon, probably because I am no better, nor worse than anyone. I've got some nice vibes going.
NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)SYFROYH
(34,162 posts)maxsolomon
(33,244 posts)frustration with belligerent, intransigent adult children is a natural reaction.
their goal is to drag you into the mire with them. i just wish they'd have the courage of their convictions and stay out of the ICUs when they're dying.
Sympthsical
(9,037 posts)And it isn't even a difficult one to spot.
maxsolomon
(33,244 posts)You see the same impulse on display in DU comments wishing extrajudicial punishment (beatings, rape) for men sent to prison. Mostly they're knee-jerk reactions that the commenter didn't put a great deal of thought into.
"Shame Shaming", however, refers to shaming people for shaming anti-vaxxers. Kind of like this OP, but not precisely.
malaise
(268,693 posts)but if and when they're 'Cained', I have no tears left to shed. My tears are for those who believe in reason, science and knowledge. If you're part of the fuckfacts posse, don't expect sympathy or empathy from me.
dalton99a
(81,392 posts)dalton99a
(81,392 posts)malaise
(268,693 posts)BlueWavePsych
(2,635 posts)LexVegas
(6,026 posts)harumph
(1,893 posts)If they ever get total control, people like us will be excluded at best,
locked up, or outright executed. Peddle your virtue signaling elsewhere.
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NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)I know it's cathartic, but it is a dark indulgence, one that hurts yourself and does nothing to or about the so-called enemy.
It also shows a lack of perspective. Much of our outlook is shaped by our environment. If you had been born and raised in Mississippi, let's say, YOU would be an anti-vaccer. That would not make you evil. Your outlook would be problematic for yourself and others, but it would make sense to you. We can complain about you, try to regulate to change your actions upon these beliefs, and be angry that your opinions affect others. But we should not hate you and hope that you die so we can feel gleefully smug.
Try to remember, 'There but for the grace of the gods go I.'
Just_Vote_Dem
(2,793 posts)It's depressing reading DU these days. Maybe I should just stick to the Lounge.
harumph
(1,893 posts)Your comment is abysmally relativistic. Of course (if) I'd been born into an evangelical etc., etc., (Oh wait! I was and somehow
escaped and I'm not fucked in the head!). Not being smug - I'm actually afraid of these fuckers and what they would do if
they ever get absolute power. Need a hint - look at Texas. So every one who dies of this shit out of ignorance - every delusional
motherfucker - yes - it would be better if they couldn't vote - and the only way that's happening is if they're dead.
Elessar Zappa
(13,909 posts)is from Mississippi and none are anti-vaxxers. Why? Because they arent idiots.
elevator
(415 posts)Catharsis is often a good thing and it can facilitate perspective.
(There but for the grace of god (s) go I) implies all things being equal, there is an element of luck, but really, the betting odds on not being vaxed and getting sick stacked.
If many people didn't overcome and move beyond the shortsighted and self damaging beliefs offered in parts of our culture, that would be problematic.
NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)Not whether or not you get Covid when unvaccinated.
Statistics show that children usually grow up and hold the same political beliefs of their parents. There are exceptions of course.
johnp3907
(3,730 posts)Not wishing them dead is a suicidal attitude. An attitude that actually helps them kill us, in fact. Therefore if you you dont (at the very least) wish them dead youve already gone beyond become like them. You ARE them!
tonedevil
(3,022 posts)except contempt for them. In the words of Ebenezer Scrooge they should go ahead and die to decrease the surplus population.
nolabear
(41,932 posts)and I absolutely get the rage and fear that leads to it. Im furious. But Im Biden furious. Deny them access to the rest of us if they dont get the vaccine. Then its their choice as to how isolated theynot wehave to be. But I will not become the kind of person who does what they do, simply wish pain and death on another.
WA-03 Democrat
(3,037 posts)We know these people have been brainwashed. We know how they changed with social media and the lying former guy. I do hate the sin but cannot hate the sinner. I am pro life and pro humanity.
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)When you come into a place and intimate that we are ANYTHING at all like them
..
I would get a hide and a ban for saying whats on my mind.
Irish_Dem
(46,492 posts)Get vaccinated, wear a mask.
They are the ones hell bent on death.
StarfishSaver
(18,486 posts)maxsolomon
(33,244 posts)I haven't actually seen these posts wishing death on the unvaxxed. I've seen posts expressing a lack of sympathy at their passing, sure.
All this needless death, all the unpleasant measures we have to take, the constant daily focus on it, the job losses, the lack of social contact - it's all traumatizing every one of us.
It is the refusers who are forcing this Fatalism on the rest of us. Saying F them is a natural reaction.
CrackityJones75
(2,403 posts)Saying you dont have tears for idiots that choose death over vaccination is NOT wishing death upon anyone. Fucking hell, we have had 18 months of our lives disrupted mainly because these morons wont get on the train and do the right thing and whats more they attack us for doing the right thing. And here is a thread chastising US for being a little pissed off and fed up with it. I can almost understand a bunch of fucking morons attacking us. They are idiots. But to come here and get chastised? What the fuck?
Bettie
(16,069 posts)but I don't care if they choose death.
They can deal with the consequences of their poor decision making.
NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)It's disturbing though when the comments pass that and actually celebrate their deaths and wish they all die that way. That's what I've been seeing on some of these threads.
Vinca
(50,236 posts)many of us draw the line. At this point I don't care if they live or die.
harumph
(1,893 posts)stupid shit to torment us. Not saying I would push them over a cliff, but that I'm not going to
try and stop them - nor get close enough to the cliff's edge. Been there done that.
Tried to talk sense to a few. Didn't work. On top of that, my wife is a nurse and is exposed to this stupidity
almost daily. Although she is vaccinated and takes every precaution - she still could get sick and die
due to these intransigently stupid people. I think it's perfectly normal to wish people dead. "Wishing"
doesn't make things come true. People that have a problem with "indecent thoughts" typically believe that there is
some kind of magic about thought. While it's true that thoughts are powerful inasmuch as they motivate -
or shed new light on problems, their power is limited. Not one anti-vaxxer is going to drop dead by me
saying out loud or wishing that they do so.
Dawson Leery
(19,348 posts)who intended to kill them.
Though in this case, the trash is taking itself out.
wellst0nev0ter
(7,509 posts)I have absolutely no sympathy for those who refuse to do the bare minimum to prevent community spread of the disease.
No, I don't wish that the anti-maskers or the anti-vaxxers drop dead, but I won't shed a tear if they do.
As far as I'm concerned, they killed my dad.
JustAnotherGen
(31,780 posts)I seriously don't care about the unvaxxed - I just don't want them clogging up hospitals and keeping people with treatable ailments out of the ER/ICU.
They don't believe in science - then they don't believe in medicine. They need to have the courage of their convictions to stay out of the way of those who protected themselves - but have other health issues to worry about.
Javaman
(62,500 posts)however, if the right wing antivaxx, anti mask morons get covid and drop dead, I won't shed a fucking tear.
they have access to the very same information we do, yet choose to ignore it at their own peril. And side with grifting con artists for their information instead.
48656c6c6f20
(7,638 posts)They have done nothing but tried to remove your pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness. So it's well deserved.
ShazzieB
(16,272 posts)I have simply run out of fucks to give about grown ass adults who get sick and die due to refusing to take a SAFE, EFFECTIVE, AND FREE vaccine. After a year and a half of worrying about getting sick myself and reading about the horrendous suffering that goes with dying from covid, the stress hospitals and health care workers are under, and on and on, I am just plain worn out.
I feel sorry for kids who are not old enough to be vaxxed or who aren't vaccinated because they have antivaxxer parents. I feel sorry for those who are immunocompromised and have to either navigate a minefield of antivaxxers and maskholes or stay at home all the time. But people who get seriously ill or due due to willfully refusing the vaccine get no pity from me. Pity is for disasters that are out of one's control. When someone makes a conscious choice that leads to a bad outcome that could easily have been avoided, I have a very hard time finding a fuck to give, especially when it comes to covidiots who refuse to take the virus seriously until it's too late.
discntnt_irny_srcsm
(18,475 posts)NH Ethylene
(30,803 posts)raptor_rider
(1,014 posts)What ills you wish on others, youll get 10 fold back at ya. Careful what you wish for fuckers
roamer65
(36,744 posts)Fuck em.