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Cyrano

(15,025 posts)
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 02:16 AM Jan 2022

So our measure of time has brought us through another cycle

About 48 hours ago, I lost my significant other and I am in grief that may never end.

In this new cycle, even as I grieve my loss, I fear that all of us are about to lose our democracy and our freedoms.

And they will be lost to those who have no souls.

The term "politics" is meaningless to me at this time. I'm thinking about the concepts of decency and being human.

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So our measure of time has brought us through another cycle (Original Post) Cyrano Jan 2022 OP
so sorry for your loss. essaynnc Jan 2022 #1
That last sentence... Sucha NastyWoman Jan 2022 #2
Deepest Condolences SheltieLover Jan 2022 #3
I know the grief you are feeling for our fellow human beings. mia Jan 2022 #4
I am sorry. dchill Jan 2022 #5
My deepest sympathies, Cyrano. Backseat Driver Jan 2022 #6
It's a difficult way to start a new year... 2naSalit Jan 2022 #7
Ah Cyrano. mahina Jan 2022 #8
So sorry, Cyrano. ❤ littlemissmartypants Jan 2022 #9
Condolences ornotna Jan 2022 #10
... alwaysinasnit Jan 2022 #11
Oh, so sad! My deepest condolences... electric_blue68 Jan 2022 #12
I am so sorry. Please take care. LoisB Jan 2022 #13
Damn. I'm so sorry, Cyrano. calimary Jan 2022 #14
Sorry for your loss Tree Lady Jan 2022 #15
I am so sorry Meowmee Jan 2022 #16
I deepest sympathy mercuryblues Jan 2022 #17
Losing a loved one is difficult but I have found that doing what they loved to do, even if in2herbs Jan 2022 #18
I'm very sorry for your loss. yardwork Jan 2022 #19
Very sorry for your loss! AwakeAtLast Jan 2022 #20
Oh my God. Cyrano. BComplex Jan 2022 #21

Sucha NastyWoman

(2,740 posts)
2. That last sentence...
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 02:24 AM
Jan 2022

Yes, politics does not seem like a strong enough remedy to solve the problem of opponents who seem to have lost their humanity.

Can you tell us about your lost love, or is it not a good time right now?

SheltieLover

(57,073 posts)
3. Deepest Condolences
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 02:41 AM
Jan 2022

Not sure what the circumstances were, obviously, or where you are, but every hospice organization has a bereavement therapy department with professionals trained to help people to resolve their grief.

mia

(8,358 posts)
4. I know the grief you are feeling for our fellow human beings.
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 02:43 AM
Jan 2022

I'm so sorry for the loss of your near and dear loved one.

Backseat Driver

(4,377 posts)
6. My deepest sympathies, Cyrano.
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 03:21 AM
Jan 2022

To everything there is a season; may your season of grief be comforted and your season of joy return as it will

2naSalit

(86,289 posts)
7. It's a difficult way to start a new year...
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 03:21 AM
Jan 2022

My condolences.

Take care of yourself for now and take what time you need, just remember to come back to those who know you and know they care. Stay within your circle until you feel string again, we'll be here, too.

mahina

(17,591 posts)
8. Ah Cyrano.
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 03:26 AM
Jan 2022



How do we bear this kind of loss? In this mess too.
Hoping your can breathe. Sending aloha.

calimary

(81,044 posts)
14. Damn. I'm so sorry, Cyrano.
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 04:23 AM
Jan 2022

I’m so sorry.

Hard to put it into words.

Wish it could be more. Shit, we can’t even hug safely …

I’ll be thinking about you all day.

Meowmee

(5,164 posts)
16. I am so sorry
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 07:14 AM
Jan 2022

I hope you have support and friends.

Everything you said is true. We lost my father also and that was all that was in my mind, nothing will be same, he was murdered by those soulless people. They have caused much of what happened and what it looks like will happen. I would give anything to have made different choices and left years ago.

in2herbs

(2,944 posts)
18. Losing a loved one is difficult but I have found that doing what they loved to do, even if
Sat Jan 1, 2022, 10:34 AM
Jan 2022

you were not interested in participating, helps in the grieving process. For example, a friend lost a loved one who did volunteer work at an animal shelter. He never was interested but started volunteering at the shelter after she died. It helped with the grief he was experiencing because he brought happiness to the animals and that lessened his pain. Take it day by day.

BComplex

(8,015 posts)
21. Oh my God. Cyrano.
Sun Jan 2, 2022, 02:07 AM
Jan 2022

I'm so sorry for your loss.

It's those, like you, who have the capacity to love deeply, that is what makes this world worth fighting for.

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