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PCIntern

(25,480 posts)
Wed May 25, 2022, 09:06 AM May 2022

Disturbing...

Yesterday, almost everyone in my office including another Doctor and I were sitting up front awaiting the next patient, and I casually looked down at my phone and saw an alert which stated that there had been a mass shooting in a school in Texas, with at least two children dead. My instant reaction was to say aloud, “Oh my God, another school shooting, this time in Texas. They’re saying two are dead but I’m sure it’s more, it’s always more.“

No one else looked up from what they were doing, and so I figured I’d spoken under my breath and I repeated exactly what I had said but a little louder, and one individual said “Oh that’s a shame” and went back to what she was doing. No one else reacted at all whatsoever.

I came to two realizations simultaneously: the first was that these people with whom I work possess very little in the way of altruism and I should always remember that in other contexts, and secondly that for a vast number of people, no matter how they claim to be “other-oriented” in their business or profession, they simply are not. I believe this is important because you need to know with whom you are dealing. There is no point in looking through rose colored glasses and pretending that most individuals truly care about your personal plight. I hate to be the cynical, but in my advancing age I have come to the realization that many if not most people are fundamentally selfish, despite their protest to the contrary.

And I simultaneously thought of something else: a few years before I was born a 28-year-old man named Howard Unruh in Camden, New Jersey, walked down the street and murdered I believe 13 people in a random act of violence. From the earliest age, his name was bandied about in the Philadelphia area as an anomaly, an extreme action which occurred once in a generation perhaps, and his name was synonymous with irrational behavior. As recently as my college and professional school career, his name would be used by lecturers as an example of what virtually never happens, and the worst thing that could possibly occur to an individual on the street.

We have clearly eclipsed this once in a generation Horror and apparently we are going to have “mass murder of the week” competitions. This society is devolving quickly and there are going to be many many casualties in this war upon humanity. I do not believe the facilitators will ever be held accountable , the NRA people, the legislators who refuse to address common sense gun control, or the gun manufacturers who also don’t care. Quite frankly, I think that for many people as long as it didn’t happen to them or their family it Just. Doesn’t. Matter. As long as they have their online gaming, free pornography, sports, and music, their lives are “complete and satisfactory”.

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FalloutShelter

(11,832 posts)
2. You put your finger on it.
Wed May 25, 2022, 09:19 AM
May 2022

There is a complete and total lack of compassion in the populace. I have no words.
In the 80’s, I was a PA county chair for the National Coalition To Ban Hand Guns, and after two years the Org. Folded operations in the state. They said… “This is a hunting state. we’ll NEVER get anywhere in PA.”
The gun control movement began to give up then.
40 years ago.. state by state we gave up and gave in to intimidation. Now, here we are.
But this is different. Americans have closed their minds and walled off their hearts.

Rebl2

(13,462 posts)
4. Hate to
Wed May 25, 2022, 11:04 AM
May 2022

say it, but think you are exactly right, especially the last couple of sentences in the last paragraph. Didn’t happen to my community or family so, oh well.

bucolic_frolic

(43,044 posts)
5. It's the Age of Immoral Post-Humanity
Wed May 25, 2022, 11:05 AM
May 2022

I read a book recently, "A Swim in the Pond in the Rain" by a Syracuse U. writing instructor, George Saunders. He dissected 8 Russian sort stories from the 1880s or so - Tolstoy, Chekov and a few others. He showed how these writers struggled to show morality, reality, what is humanity. And advised we can't write that way now because the subjects were filled but we do have our own generation's challenges if we can find them. He didn't suggest themes, but he did mention a lot of the challenges of modern society. What we do with it matters. But we've been railing against conservative hollowing out of America for 20 years or more. Is anyone listening? Can anyone read? Where could writers go with this and will it matter? The OP is right. People could not care less. They are fed and housed. Where's my coffee?

Lonestarblue

(9,958 posts)
6. There is no sense anymore of the common good.
Wed May 25, 2022, 11:15 AM
May 2022

That sense still exists among those of us here and people like the Bidens, but it does not exist any longer in the Republican Party or indeed among the many who see politics and voting as boring or as something that doesn’t matter to them. As the MAGA cult has demonstrated, everything is about them and what they want. It doesn’t matter that they’re a minority of the population. It was their right to refuse masks and vaccines, even though they were spreading a virus that killed other, and many of them. They simply didn’t care how many died as a result of their irresponsibility.

When they lose elections, they have the right to overturn them. It’s their right to ignore facts and arm themselves to the teeth so they can start a civil war.

We could perhaps deal with the MAGA cult if the people who just don’t bother to vote would step up and recognize that their country is falling apart around them. In the 2020 election, 67% of eligible voters voted. Imagine if even a portion of that other 23% had voted for Democrats. We might not be sitting here today with no voting rights laws, no gun protection laws, no law protecting reproductive rights. I know I’m tilting at windmills, but it’s better than beating my head against a wall!

calimary

(81,110 posts)
8. When all the other side is interested in - is power and domination
Wed May 25, 2022, 12:14 PM
May 2022

I’m not sure how one deals with that. Except to KEEP getting as many votes against them as possible.

And KEEPING them securely OUT of power.

KS Toronado

(17,147 posts)
9. trump is holding his "mass murder of the week"
Wed May 25, 2022, 12:22 PM
May 2022

convention in the basement of a Taco Joint in Florida! Is this true? $10,000 sign-up fee online?
Like tucker, I'm just asking the question.

Solomon

(12,310 posts)
10. Always love reading your posts. One of the very few people that I will read even long
Wed May 25, 2022, 12:31 PM
May 2022

posts from. Usually agree completely as I do now.

c-rational

(2,588 posts)
11. Yes, Disturbing is an apt title for your post, and the future may be even more so without true
Wed May 25, 2022, 12:37 PM
May 2022

and good leadership.

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