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I would visit this country.
If theres anybody who reads this who is living in another country, would you visit the US for any reason other than your work requiring you to?
Tetrachloride
(7,834 posts)would live in the USA if given the permanent visa.
Angleae
(4,482 posts)Sounds a bit low.
Irish_Dem
(46,918 posts)Why would anyone want to move here or even travel here?
The US is hostile to anyone not straight, white, christian, male.
If you are pregnant or get pregnant you are in trouble.
And gun nuts are everywhere shooting at people.
Also half of the US government consists of corrupt evil buffoons with nuclear weapons.
MichMan
(11,910 posts)I wonder why?
SoCalDavidS
(9,998 posts)There are also plenty of countries FAR BETTER than America. That's INDISPUTABLE at this point.
JI7
(89,247 posts)go there also other than as tourists.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)Read about U.S. policies in Central America. Read about how the CIA and State Department caused the overthrow of democratically elected governments, in Chile for instance. Read what the guns and drug trafficking policies have done to Mexico.
People are desperate to escape unlivable situations that we helped create.
Brenda
(1,047 posts)They have been forced out of their homes in Honduras and other Central American countries because of the extreme droughts and hurricanes. They cannot farm. Their countries are being taken over by drug lords.
So, they migrate...walk away hoping to find a new place to make a living. Some stay in other countries, many are not allowed to stay in Mexico so they keep walking north.
They are not coming here on the hopes of making a better life in the wonderful opportunity-laden USA but out of desperation.
This will happen in our very own country by people driving away from the West and coastal areas in the near future escaping basically the same thing plus sea level rise along the coast.
unblock
(52,196 posts)I walked through Bedford Stuy alone
Even rode my motorcycle in the rain
Now they told me not to drive
But I made it home alive
So you'll say that only proves that I'm insane
You may be right
I may be crazy
former9thward
(31,981 posts)SoCalDavidS
(9,998 posts)We're Still A Shithole.
former9thward
(31,981 posts)By any measure. I have traveled to and spent time in 43 different countries. Always thankful to be back in the U.S. In a few minutes I am going to a Naturalization Ceremony for 75 new citizens. My job will be to register them to vote. I will ask them if they think this is a shithole country.
LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)like those rubber ducks floating by at a carnival game in those countries you visited?
former9thward
(31,981 posts)I registered people to vote from 30 countries tonight. They laughed when I told them some citizens in this country call it a shithole country.
LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)to change my opinion.
former9thward
(31,981 posts)But the opinion of new citizens (and people like President Biden on this subject) means infinity more to me than anonymous internet posters.
LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)Mine.
USALiberal
(10,877 posts)yardwork
(61,588 posts)LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)You registered people to vote from 30 countries tonight, and then what? You then just happened to casually mention that you were typing to some people on a website called Democratic Underground, and some of those people on DU think that the US has turned into a shithole country, and then you all laughed?
So, did everyone start clapping after that? Did you go out for drinks afterwards?
former9thward
(31,981 posts)The rest of what you said was word salad so I won't attempt to decipher it.
LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)You stated that you registered people from 30 countries to vote.
You then stated "They laughed when I told them some citizens in this country call it a shithole country".
So, here are my questions:
1) Are you "embellishing" the above statement?
2) Did you actually ask them that question?
3) What was the trigger that caused you to ask this question to individuals whom I am assuming are newly naturalized citizens? Was this the type of comment that you normally make at what I think would be a somewhat somber and serious proceeding? Did you actually use the word "shithole"?
4) Did the people from all 30 of these countries laugh?
5) I'm assuming that if people were laughing, they made some comments indicating why they were laughing. What comments did they make to explain their laughter?
6) How did you respond to their comments?
7) Did everyone applaud after this situation?
I hope this is a little less "word salad-like".
Violet_Crumble
(35,961 posts)LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)You may already know this, but there is also a subreddit called, I think r/iamverybadass or something like that. I get some good laughs from that one too!
Violet_Crumble
(35,961 posts)Subreddits like those are my go-to's, along with the Crap Bird Photography group on FB
npk
(3,660 posts)That they will make a lot of money and become rich but don't realize that is mostly bullshit.
former9thward
(31,981 posts)Far, far, far more economic opportunity in the U.S. than in their home countries. That is why they come here. They are not trying to get into any other country. Maybe you have not traveled much...
npk
(3,660 posts)Yes there are more opportunities here than in other mostly developing countries, but very few will realize the "American Dream" that ultimately brought them here.
JI7
(89,247 posts)it's a myth that people come here thinking they will become wealthy.
JI7
(89,247 posts)and in most cases they do .
npk
(3,660 posts)Become just another exploited oppressed worker with few true opportunities of upward mobility. America has one of the lowest guaranteed wages on earth amongst developed countries.
JI7
(89,247 posts)It's not people from developed countries coming here.
The ones coming here are from poor and corrupt nations. So those people are better off.
alittlelark
(18,890 posts)For most of them The USA made them 'shithole' countries. Wealthy ppl that saw $$$ in cocaine and where it could be produced. They made fortunes on the corruptable damaged children of wealth. They got their supply on the backs of 'normal' ppl working for them.
It is about as twisted and sick as it gets.
Narcissists LOVE, sometimes NEED coke.
anarch
(6,535 posts)The only worse places to go are where there is open warfare going on
Tetrachloride
(7,834 posts)any neighborhood or government situation here.
If there are specific examples in mind, we can discuss with more confidence. Generalities dont help.
DFW
(54,349 posts)My wife, who is from Germany, where we live, came with me to the USA last Wednesday for a vacation. One of our daughters lives here (NYC), and she had not seen my brother in a year. Plus, we are staying on the outer tip of Cape Cod, Massachusetts, where the craziness does not yet appear to have penetrated.
raccoon
(31,110 posts)you always hear people saying after some such event happens. Mass murders, mass shootings, whatever dont happen in Anycity, Anystate.
Until they do.
DFW
(54,349 posts)It cant be Anycity because there really arent any cities here, just a string of small towns. Although one could always bring a gun here, there is rarely any need for one, and if theres a place here that sells ammunition, I couldnt tell you where to find it. Pain in the ass though it may be to get to, we have been coming here for 38 years in a row now. We have hosted friends from six different European countries, all of which have far more sensible gun laws than we do, and they have all loved it, some coming back for repeat visits.
The local community radio station in Provincetown, to which I have developed ties, has frequent programs on local and national issues. They are proudly one-sided, accurately reflecting the community in which they operate. If you dont know the Outer Cape or Provincetown, its hard to describe. But please believe mewhile there are no absolute guarantees, the likelihood of a right wing shooter standing it long enough here to hang around and formulate a plan for a terror act is really remote.
JI7
(89,247 posts)People risk their lives to try to get here.
raccoon
(31,110 posts)The shit hole slums I saw in Honduras Make Mexico look like fucking Norway.
I was in Tegucigalpa a week on a mission trip. We went out to two different neighborhoods, both of them shit hole slum areas. Those people had nothing. Some of the houses we saw would be a poor excuse for a chicken coop in any first world country.
Ive also been to Canada, England, and France. And in those countries I didnt worry about some dumb ass mass shooter killing me.
Sure, it could happen wasnt it in Denmark a few days ago there was a shooting? But in other first world countries it is very rare. its not like here where we have that one just about every week.
JI7
(89,247 posts)raccoon
(31,110 posts)Response to raccoon (Reply #17)
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LuckyCharms
(17,425 posts)Do you have fears, irrational or otherwise?
Tell me what those fears are, and I'll berate you for having them.
Is that how this works?
ecstatic
(32,685 posts)would-be immigrants, depending on their economic status, are operating on extremely outdated information? Maybe they're not watching CNN or MSNBC or BBC to realize what this country has become, especially since tfg's disastrous and horrific regime.
Millions disenfranchised by an outdated electoral college and/or gerrymandering. Several mass shootings a day. Police officers maiming/murdering unarmed citizens. Coup attempts that are not prosecuted. Women and girls are not guaranteed the right to control their own bodies.
Yes, 30 or 40 years ago, the United States was the Golden City on the hill. A land full of opportunities. Then reagan happened and the great right-wing resentment movement began.
JI7
(89,247 posts)and in that case it's much better in the US for them.
48656c6c6f20
(7,638 posts)After a mass shooting. I can't stomach the assholes that emerge from the caves to gunsplain shit.
Kaleva
(36,294 posts)In this other country? A standard of living similiar to the one you have now?
PJMcK
(22,031 posts)Because I'd know that I would be leaving in a week or two.
Pity for those of us who might be trapped here if the Republicans Reginas control of the government.
Spain and Portugal look good to us:
https://visaguide.world/golden-visa/spain-golden-visa/
rownesheck
(2,343 posts)considering Portugal myself. I don't feel right about raising my 2 non adult children in this country anymore. We're in Texas and it seems the rest of the country will be Texas soon.
I sometimes wonder how the Germans who didn't agree with the nazis felt in the 1930s, and if it pretty much matches how I feel now. It's like I'm taking crazy pills.
Wounded Bear
(58,647 posts)turn the US into a shithole 3rd world country that nobody will want to come to.
moondust
(19,972 posts)in a number of states is all it would take to keep me away if I lived elsewhere. There are lots of other places to visit that are much safer and saner.
Jspur
(578 posts)on this matter. I was born and raised in the US, but my parents are from Indian. Over the year my parents helped young Indian college students get settled in America who are on visas. I have befriended a lot of these kids and one thing that sticks out to me is when they tell me that their idea of how they originally viewed America was based off of shows such as Friends. They are only really marketed Blue America as I call it in the sense they see movies in which LA, NYC are mainly featured and think the rest of America is like this. That is all fun and no real problems. I don't think America would be that appealing if Red America was marketed in movies and TV shows.
yardwork
(61,588 posts)I mean, that's a huge demographic. I'm trying to think of what my Trumpster relatives watch. I don't see them often. Fox News. Hate radio. Action movies. They don't seem to watch sit-coms or Netflix series.
Silent3
(15,204 posts)...of becoming a victim of it while even living here full time are pretty damned low. For it to be a problem on a brief vacation visit is unlikely in the extreme.
The most I've been worried about being in a foreign country was a trip to Libya in 2006 to view a solar eclipse (as well as some amazing Roman ruins along the Mediterranean). Gaddafi was still in power at the time, but clearly the country wanted to cash in on the rare opportunity for tourism the eclipse provided, so they had good reason to treat foreigners well at that time, even Americans, and I was counting on that.
But we are talking about Gaddafi here, so I still harbored some fear the red carpet could suddenly be withdrawn at any time, and definitely breathed a sign of relief once the flight home was off the ground and out of Libyan airspace.
Raine
(30,540 posts)that I would care to visit at this period of time either. 🤔
malaise
(268,930 posts)an I used to come over at least once and often twice a year. The truth is that I'd have returned after Biden won but I'm also very Covid cautious.
brooklynite
(94,502 posts)The odds of something happening to you are infinitesimally small.
Violet_Crumble
(35,961 posts)I definitely wouldn't want to live there, not with the guns and lack of universal healthcare and far inferior working conditions than what I'm used to. But I wouldn't mind seeing places like the Grand Canyon and Yosemite and Alaska, so maybe one day I'll visit for a couple of weeks..
Forgot to mention the whole democracy being in danger is a bit of a big one. I wouldn't visit if things continue down the path they're going...
Roisin Ni Fiachra
(2,574 posts)The US is a great place to live, but I wouldn't want to visit here, unless I had lots of time and money.
Not interested in visiting urban areas, and having a lot of money would enable me to avoid the snarling, drooling fascist worshipers of the MAGAt king who live in the beautiful rural areas that I enjoy visiting, to a large degree. Hawaii is a very blue state, and drooling MAGAts are few and far between there.
Canada in the summer and fall is a better option for me, Mexico, Costa Rica, or South America in the winter and spring. 50 years ago, the US was a wonderful place to road trip in, and I had the good fortune to see most of what I wanted to see in the US before Reagan. Then Reagan came along, and totally fucked everything up.
I've lived in beautiful places on the beaches of Mexico for extended periods of time, and was only able to do so because of the money I made living in the US, combined with the low cost of living in Mexico.
None of European backpacker type travelers I met in Mexico had any interest in visiting the US. They perceive the US as being full of provincial "ugly American" conservatives/Republicans.
Another Jackalope
(112 posts)I've had that rule in place since W. I watch the news and its undercurrents, and I've developed a severe lack of trust for your country.
USALiberal
(10,877 posts)Torchlight
(3,327 posts)USALiberal
(10,877 posts)BlackSkimmer
(51,308 posts)I miss him so. Not.
Hortensis
(58,785 posts)worse than what you're complaining about here (maybe FAR worse) and wouldn't recognize a serious problem. Chances are also very good that you'd see what's happening here as improvements.
After all, there's no reason to think your formative years would have been in an advanced western liberal democracy (or ANY kind of advanced, or liberal, or western, or democratic nation) when those of so few (@17% of the planet's 7.8B) were.
And, of course, it's foolish to assume visiting the U.S. would be possible.
maxsolomon
(33,310 posts)go to any national park out west, and there will be f tons of euros and asians.