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gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 01:56 PM Sep 2022

In a quandry here any advice will be welcome

as many of you know I am hard by Christian Nationalist Hillsdale College. My county is a mix of hard right Trumpers and Christo fascists. I am from the Democratic wing of the Democratic party. A Facebook group I belong to is made up of Dem leaning/ progressive people and largely a counterbalance to the hate spewed by the other county groups. Admins. recently held a meeting face to face asked us how we could do more good for community and share ideas. I fully intended to go though it would take a great deal of effort. I had a couple of ideas I thought would work. Chief among those was for members to fund a fellowship program for graduating seniors. I thought that would make a splash and let county know about the group and our goals. I suggested to apply they would submit a research paper on topic of their choice. I suggested Democracy, Womens rights, systemic racism, civil rights for all and voting rights for all. Reasoning that this would be a pushback against the racist intolerant ideas common around these parts. This was scheduled for Sat. in a local park.

Flash back to middle of week get a message that local Dem party has endorsed current Mayor of Hillsdale for reelection. Mayor is a supporter of forced birth, Christian Nationalism, guns for everyone, ending public education and said he didn't care how many died during Covid. Imagine my shock I actually went to our Dem Facebook page and found it was true. Mayors opponent is a joke and will probably get 10% of the vote. I protested that we had just condoned all these behaviors. Got a lot of pushback from current Dem officers saying crap about the alternative candidate was worse. I told them this was an own goal and to reconsider putting our stamp of approval on this. It kind of turned into a pissing contest on both sites. This wasn't my intent. Have since heard from someone much higher in Dem food chain nothing will improve from giving ground.

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In a quandry here any advice will be welcome (Original Post) gibraltar72 Sep 2022 OP
I agree with your position. blm Sep 2022 #1
Exactly. "Nothing will improve from giving ground." calimary Sep 2022 #22
Every day this site awes me with it's depth. gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #25
What is your goal? WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2022 #2
As always promote Dem party and have gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #6
But I mean...are you trying to coordinate this Facebook group with the local party unit, WhiskeyGrinder Sep 2022 #10
This particular mission was to do good and promote the FB group gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #15
I heartily agree with you. halfulglas Sep 2022 #3
Not a Dem it is a "non political" position supposedly. gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #5
This doesn't smell right - my Spidey-sensers are up FakeNoose Sep 2022 #4
Should have made clear this is a "non political" contest gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #7
If a Republican is running as a Republican, it's ALWAYS political. halfulglas Sep 2022 #12
From your comments. . . . h2ebits Sep 2022 #8
Govt should take over the 3 channels IMHO. Brainfodder Sep 2022 #9
Why is it necessary to endorse either candidate? surrealAmerican Sep 2022 #11
That is exactly my point. Bastard now calls himself bipartisan problem solver. gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #16
It's a tough issue but here's my experience mcar Sep 2022 #13
A few are unhappy on the Hillsdale County Dem page but no fighting Kaleva Sep 2022 #14
They actually tried to infer I was disloyal to object. gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #17
I don't understand why they endorsed him Kaleva Sep 2022 #18
Some of the crap they spout gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #20
I wonder if some of them are RWNJ incognito. GreenWave Sep 2022 #19
I don't think that I just think they are terribly misguided. gibraltar72 Sep 2022 #21
Why endorse anyone? AverageOldGuy Sep 2022 #23
Could your local party leadership be taken over by RWers Hortensis Sep 2022 #24

blm

(113,042 posts)
1. I agree with your position.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:03 PM
Sep 2022

Coddling them, especially when unnecessary to do so, is a terrible precedent.

calimary

(81,209 posts)
22. Exactly. "Nothing will improve from giving ground."
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:42 PM
Sep 2022

Sorry you have to deal with this, gibraltar72. We’re with you, here, though.

Seems to me the best thing you can do is remain resolved! Stay on message. Give not a millimeter!

And stay in touch here at DU. There are so many great writers, thinkers, analysts, and activists posting here, and they generate tons of ideas, talking points, resource material and links, relevant life-experience perspectives, great on-defense strategies, well-thought-out arguments, and more. And they can be found all over this site.

This isn’t just a website or a chat room. It’s an online think tank!!!

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
25. Every day this site awes me with it's depth.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 05:58 PM
Sep 2022

My Dem candidate for state Senate has reached out to me on this. She is very linked in with state Dems. I think she'll mention this to higher ups.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
6. As always promote Dem party and have
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:39 PM
Sep 2022

done so for many many years. We had no candidate in this contest it is non political. I thought we could do both. FB group has hundreds of more members than party. I have even offered multiple times to pay dues for new members to party.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,323 posts)
10. But I mean...are you trying to coordinate this Facebook group with the local party unit,
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 03:07 PM
Sep 2022

or change party unit leadership, or get more people involved in the local unit? Also...what dues?

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
15. This particular mission was to do good and promote the FB group
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 03:57 PM
Sep 2022

Growing the party in Hillsdale is just not working. Even as National Republican party falls apart local will flourish. A way to get progressive ideas out into community and show our ideals. Just don't see a way to do it with party as everything with Dem tag on it is poison here. The dues for Dem party membership. I thought if people were introduced and participated it could grow. Pretty much met with apathy.

halfulglas

(1,654 posts)
3. I heartily agree with you.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:12 PM
Sep 2022

Just because the Dem candidate is bad does not mean you have to endorse anyone. Endorsing a candidate says you agree with most of their ideals and if you do not agree with the current mayor you cannot endorse him. He is against everything the Democratic party stands for.

Maybe they think they have to endorse somebody to even be relevant but that is so wrong.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
5. Not a Dem it is a "non political" position supposedly.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:35 PM
Sep 2022

We had no candidate. That is what pisses me off.

FakeNoose

(32,628 posts)
4. This doesn't smell right - my Spidey-sensers are up
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:29 PM
Sep 2022

The Democratic party officers would never endorse a Repuke, regardless of incumbency. Either some kind of deal was made somewhere or they learned something about their current Dem candidate, and they feel they can no longer support him/her.

However endorsing a Repuke is absolutely wrong, in any case. The locals need to be reported to the state Democratic committee. That's what I would do. Good luck my friend.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
7. Should have made clear this is a "non political" contest
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:42 PM
Sep 2022

Of course it isn't really. But there is no Dem candidate. one incumbent and an independent challenger.

halfulglas

(1,654 posts)
12. If a Republican is running as a Republican, it's ALWAYS political.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 03:30 PM
Sep 2022

Yes, it stinks that there isn't a Dem opponent, but that doesn't mean you have to endorse anyone.

h2ebits

(644 posts)
8. From your comments. . . .
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:44 PM
Sep 2022

It appears that the local Democratic Party is not following the actual Party line by endorsing this candidate.

We ALL need to be fighting back as hard as we can to elect people that actually represent us.

Brainfodder

(6,423 posts)
9. Govt should take over the 3 channels IMHO.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 02:50 PM
Sep 2022

Apologizes on air every day before you speak on your show, for a month, or welcome to life in prison, whose turning down that deal?

K.I.S.S.




surrealAmerican

(11,360 posts)
11. Why is it necessary to endorse either candidate?
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 03:09 PM
Sep 2022

If both hold positions contrary to your group's values, neither should be endorsed.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
16. That is exactly my point. Bastard now calls himself bipartisan problem solver.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:00 PM
Sep 2022

And we endorsed his positions.

mcar

(42,300 posts)
13. It's a tough issue but here's my experience
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 03:46 PM
Sep 2022

I'm in a ruby red rural FL county filled with TFG cultists and religious zealots. On top of that, we've got a branch of the craziest of the crazies here that make the others seem like reasonable people. As an example, they've waged a year long effort to remove members of the library board (volunteer positions appointed by county commission), city council and county commission members because they won't ban books and because a few of the libraries had discrete Gay Pride month displays last year.

At the same time, we have an active Democratic party with several clubs - including my own Democratic Women's Club that I helped to form. We've just started a Young Democrats club and our women's club gave out its first scholarship last year.

Every election cycle, we encourage and support Democrats running for local office. We also encourage people to run in the non-partisan races like school board. Right now, we've got a few electeds in non-partisan positions and 1 in the school board.

So that leaves us with all the other elected positions - only Republicans run for them. Why? Well, this cycle, we had two young people (30s, 40s) begin runs for county commission - only to drop out after a week because they and their families, including small children, were getting death threats.

So we support (not officially, but personally) the Republican candidates who are sanest. It grates, for sure, but last cycle, it worked. With our help, 2 women were elected to the county commission. This cycle, another woman has already been elected because the primary was only Republicans. So, of the 5 county commissioners, 3 will be sensible women, 1 a reasonable man, and one RWNJ woman. This means that instead of the crazy theatrics of the last few years (I can't tell you how many long-time department heads have left), we'll have actual governance. Will I agree with everything they decide on? No. But at least their decisions will be based on reality.

To have a voice, we write a lot of LTEs to our local daily, we do a lot of community/charity stuff that gets our pictures in the paper. We're at every festival and do a lot of canvassing, calling, texting and writing to local Democrats and NPAs.

We may not have elected Democrats here, but our votes could help Charlie Crist and Val Demings win.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
17. They actually tried to infer I was disloyal to object.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:03 PM
Sep 2022

That was on Dem page. But most has occurred on FB page
of caring group.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
20. Some of the crap they spout
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:28 PM
Sep 2022

is to have a seat at the table. They don't and won't. Not in any meaningful way. In a terrible display of optics one of them says he thinks he's going to be appointed to tax appeals board. That is not a seat at the table.

gibraltar72

(7,502 posts)
21. I don't think that I just think they are terribly misguided.
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:30 PM
Sep 2022

Add naive to that. The guy can work a room some think he is a friend. IMHO they are being used.

AverageOldGuy

(1,523 posts)
23. Why endorse anyone?
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:46 PM
Sep 2022

If both candidates are repulsive, simply state that you are not endorsing anyone because etc., etc., etc. Lay it out in detail.

Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
24. Could your local party leadership be taken over by RWers
Mon Sep 26, 2022, 04:47 PM
Sep 2022

posturing as Democrats as needed? It happens.

Whoops, Greenwave wondered that first.

NO way, though, that normal liberal Democrats could ever be naive enough to not care about or endorse Christian Nationalism, guns for everyone, ending public education, etc.

LW IL-liberal extremists might. They occasionally do a lot of strange things to keep Democrats from being elected, like helping elect tRump (you know, "the worse it is, the better it is (for our agenda). Have they taken over your local leadership?

Or, perhaps the mayoral candidate isn't the crackpot extremist portrayed and it's believed he can do the job? Genuinely preferable to the alternatives?

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