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elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:01 AM Jan 2012

10 year old is the new model for Versace. I see this as an endorsement of unhealthy body - image

Below the new Face of Versace (model Cindy Crawford's daughter, btw) you'll see a pic of Donatella Versace's daughter. Is Ms. Versace not aware of our societal anorexia problem? rant.off.

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10 year old is the new model for Versace. I see this as an endorsement of unhealthy body - image (Original Post) elehhhhna Jan 2012 OP
Scary hobbit709 Jan 2012 #1
Shades of Lolita LiberalEsto Jan 2012 #2
Is this child being exploited? snooper2 Jan 2012 #6
No, not that one BlueCaliDem Jan 2012 #16
Can you not see a difference between these 2? uppityperson Jan 2012 #89
Just pure blindness Aerows Jan 2012 #94
when the labia is potentially hanging lower than the skirt's hem... elehhhhna Jan 2012 #99
the one in red isn't touching her nips? elehhhhna Jan 2012 #101
She looks normal to me, she's 10 snooper2 Jan 2012 #3
I agree. HappyMe Jan 2012 #7
Big bowl of Pasta Aerows Jan 2012 #95
yep...my 9/10 year old started getting tall and lean at that age ProdigalJunkMail Jan 2012 #11
I see a kid who needs an eye patch. TwilightGardener Jan 2012 #4
Arrr matey. L0oniX Jan 2012 #22
LOL. Am I the only one who thinks she looks somewhat crosseyed, or has a lazy eye? TwilightGardener Jan 2012 #51
I see a strabismus REP Jan 2012 #90
My wife weighs a healthy 190 lbs, and she is the sexiest woman in the world! EnviroBat Jan 2012 #5
Do you think a man who expressed attraction to thin women would feel free to say that here? AngryAmish Jan 2012 #10
It's said every day........... Marrah_G Jan 2012 #19
Thank you for saying it. laundry_queen Jan 2012 #50
When I'm at the gym Arugula Latte Jan 2012 #54
I wish more folks thought the way you did. Marrah_G Jan 2012 #59
How do you know what people are thinking? nobodyspecial Jan 2012 #66
The looks, snickers and comments give me a good idea Marrah_G Jan 2012 #87
I've expressed that sentiment before and nary a flame erupted. LanternWaste Jan 2012 #58
oh my. excellent point. thx for theperspective. elehhhhna Jan 2012 #102
The 10 year old looks photoshopped muriel_volestrangler Jan 2012 #8
That may be a result of an optical illusion Goblinmonger Jan 2012 #17
VERY high-waisted skirt Aerows Jan 2012 #44
I still don't know Sera_Bellum Jan 2012 #9
Few reasons are used AngryAmish Jan 2012 #12
What? HappyMe Jan 2012 #15
I should have been more clear. Sera_Bellum Jan 2012 #18
I'm 5'3" Aerows Jan 2012 #32
I am 5'3" and 130 pounds, RebelOne Jan 2012 #64
I know! Aerows Jan 2012 #70
How do we know it is a skirt and not a skort? notadmblnd Jan 2012 #98
This has to be the most interesting Aerows Jan 2012 #100
YOU people? notadmblnd Jan 2012 #104
Not true Aerows Jan 2012 #48
Yup. Most of the women on my dad's side HappyMe Jan 2012 #56
I'm trying to get over an ear infection Aerows Jan 2012 #63
When I had cancer I weighed 85 lbs. HappyMe Jan 2012 #72
I sank to 79 lbs Aerows Jan 2012 #86
does the weightlifting increase your appetite or elehhhhna Jan 2012 #105
It's mostly for bodymass Aerows Jan 2012 #108
Ear infections suuuuuuuuuck REP Jan 2012 #91
Thank you sweetie Aerows Jan 2012 #93
If you are designing clothes to look good on a hangar - Mopar151 Jan 2012 #13
You realize she is selling children's clothes, right? AngryAmish Jan 2012 #14
Yup... n/t ProdigalJunkMail Jan 2012 #20
we are selling 10 yr old clothes where the butt hangs out and the crotch is seen when she sits seabeyond Jan 2012 #21
yep! backtoblue Jan 2012 #25
yep seabeyond Jan 2012 #26
That's too short for any age. Son of Gob Jan 2012 #47
That's what I THOUGHT! Aerows Jan 2012 #35
That makeup and hair says 'little girl' to you? redqueen Jan 2012 #34
Hell no, it doesn't Aerows Jan 2012 #37
That is DISGUSTING!!! Odin2005 Jan 2012 #23
I'm more concerned about the sexualization. redqueen Jan 2012 #24
My first thought exactly loyalsister Jan 2012 #52
There is so much worse out there, too. redqueen Jan 2012 #53
I'm not sure it is so new loyalsister Jan 2012 #61
I was going to PM this, redqueen Jan 2012 #62
Disgusting! loyalsister Jan 2012 #65
I think the media and society just can't get enough images of hypersexualized women and girls. redqueen Jan 2012 #67
I'm guessing that kids in their crip will be next Aerows Jan 2012 #74
Those sophisticated French people have it right. redqueen Jan 2012 #75
The exploiting of children doesn't exist only among sophisticated French people. polly7 Jan 2012 #79
Oh no, of course not, didn't mean to imply otherwise... redqueen Jan 2012 #80
I just don't understand Aerows Jan 2012 #88
we kicked that around last week elehhhhna Jan 2012 #106
She's cute trumad Jan 2012 #27
I think the young lady looks fine with the exception of the skirt length Marrah_G Jan 2012 #28
i didn't post a full-llength pic of her b/c it's horritying elehhhhna Jan 2012 #107
The 2nd girl has already has a eating disorder. Look at the bones in her neck. sarcasmo Jan 2012 #29
She's 10! Aerows Jan 2012 #30
That girl in the last pic looks like me when I had cancer! nt. Lunacee2012 Jan 2012 #31
Just so you know she is not modeling for Versace for adults but for a kids line LynneSin Jan 2012 #33
why would you dress a ten yr old girl in a skirt that has her butt hanging out and seabeyond Jan 2012 #39
I think the clothing line will be more of a European thing LynneSin Jan 2012 #42
europe does this to their ten yr olds? they still hold on strong to that patriarchy. even more so seabeyond Jan 2012 #49
No, Europe doesn't Aerows Jan 2012 #73
good to hear. seabeyond Jan 2012 #82
I weigh 106 lbs., I'm 5'6, and I could eat an elephant and wouldn't gain a pound. polly7 Jan 2012 #36
She's not a woman Aerows Jan 2012 #38
I was referring to the woman in the picture below those of the little girl. polly7 Jan 2012 #40
Well... Aerows Jan 2012 #41
Yes, that is seriously underweight. polly7 Jan 2012 #45
Had you asked me when I weighed Aerows Jan 2012 #68
Yes, I agree with you completely on all points. polly7 Jan 2012 #71
Those of us with a thin physique Aerows Jan 2012 #77
Thanks Aerows, polly7 Jan 2012 #84
There are lots and lots of people who are naturally thin/very thin who look and are healthy REP Jan 2012 #96
The woman below is anorexic AngryAmish Jan 2012 #43
Yes, I realize that. ? polly7 Jan 2012 #46
She was a raised by a crazy woman. YellowRubberDuckie Jan 2012 #60
I think she has been anorexic for a long time. I have never seen her look healthy. It is very sad. Glimmer of Hope Jan 2012 #97
She looks ok to me taught_me_patience Jan 2012 #55
Looks Normal For 10, if a touch on the skinny side NeedleCast Jan 2012 #57
She got her mom's looks - beautiful. AtomicKitten Jan 2012 #69
Fucking kiddie porn..... WCGreen Jan 2012 #76
Her body type is the same as my daughter's body type, ZombieHorde Jan 2012 #78
would you put your daughter in that skirt at ten. that is who she is selling to. seabeyond Jan 2012 #81
I wouldn't put my duaghter in that skirt because it is too high. ZombieHorde Jan 2012 #85
Cute outfit on Cindy Crawford's daughter. Quantess Jan 2012 #83
The 10-year old looks like a healthy 10-year old (for a change) REP Jan 2012 #92
no breasts, no hips, no pressure elehhhhna Jan 2012 #110
This message was self-deleted by its author white_wolf Jan 2012 #103
The picture of the 10 year old is not appropriate. blue neen Jan 2012 #109
Cindy Crawford's daughter looks very healthy and normal for 10 but her clothes... Jennicut Jan 2012 #111
Boyfriend peeking over my shoulder as I find this LadyHawkAZ Jan 2012 #112
Can we organize a DU Versace boycott? jberryhill Jan 2012 #113

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
16. No, not that one
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:37 AM
Jan 2012

but her skirt isn't hanging around her hips like Crawford's daughter's is, is it?

Apples and oranges, snooper2.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
99. when the labia is potentially hanging lower than the skirt's hem...
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 08:49 PM
Jan 2012

something is wrong

said Grandma.









jk on the Grandma part.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
101. the one in red isn't touching her nips?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 08:52 PM
Jan 2012

i swear

people are so accustomed to this crap they don't even see it clearly

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
3. She looks normal to me, she's 10
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:07 AM
Jan 2012



Now Allegra, that's another story. Somebody needs to give that girl a samwich

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
7. I agree.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:15 AM
Jan 2012

Cindy Crawford's daughter doesn't look unhealthy to me.


Allegra needs a big bowl of pasta.

REP

(21,691 posts)
90. I see a strabismus
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:19 PM
Jan 2012

If it's being exaggerated by the photo, she can get it under control with eye exercises (I did with mine, but I still can't cross my eyes).

EnviroBat

(5,290 posts)
5. My wife weighs a healthy 190 lbs, and she is the sexiest woman in the world!
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:09 AM
Jan 2012

Damn she turns me on! These "skeletons" look horrible, and really un-healthy. When I see them in ads, it's like a cold shower...

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
10. Do you think a man who expressed attraction to thin women would feel free to say that here?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:17 AM
Jan 2012

Why or why not?

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
19. It's said every day...........
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 12:38 PM
Jan 2012

Now it's the poor oppressed skinny people? really?

I am currently in the fight of my life, for my life, to get my weight down. In the meantime, I endure either nasty looks or I am ignored, I prefer to be ignored. Even when I go to the gym I know what people are thinking and saying about me. Society says I am not allowed to be seen as a woman, a sexual being and if I try to dress up or make myself look sexy in anyway that just bring ridicule.

You really cannot compare what skinny people go through to what heavy women go through. We are shamed every day, told to hate ourselves everyday, told we are ugly, lazy, worthless. Mostly when I leave the house I am hoping to just be ignored long enough so I can run my errands and get home. I try to go to the Y when it is least busy to avoid being an object of scorn while I sweat on the treadmill.

 

Arugula Latte

(50,566 posts)
54. When I'm at the gym
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:22 PM
Jan 2012

and I see people working out, my main thought is: "Good for you." If you're overweight -- good for you, you're doing something to help your health. If you're elderly -- good for you, you're exercising to keep yourself active and limber. If you're young and fit, good for you, you're doing something to stay in shape and have a healthier future.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
59. I wish more folks thought the way you did.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:53 PM
Jan 2012

I just avoid eye contact and do my best to be invisible, to be perfectly honest.

nobodyspecial

(2,286 posts)
66. How do you know what people are thinking?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:26 PM
Jan 2012

Can you read minds? You may want to consider how much of this is in your own mind. I'm saying this from experience. So many times I have let what I think other people are thinking about me hold me back. Truth is, hardly anyone is thinking about you or investing the amount of emotional energy into you as you are about your perceptions of their thoughts. I'm sure there may be a few, but most people are concentrating on themselves and their own workouts.

Just go do your thing. You can make changes and get healthy. Any ugliness in their minds is most likely permanent and really their problem. Don't make it yours.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
87. The looks, snickers and comments give me a good idea
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:06 PM
Jan 2012

I won't even bring up the nastiness on tv, online (even here) and in the movies. If a woman doesn't fit the mold of being sexually attractive to the majority then her worth is lessened.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
58. I've expressed that sentiment before and nary a flame erupted.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:42 PM
Jan 2012

I've expressed that sentiment before and nary a flame erupted.

As to the Why-- I imagine it's because I expressed my sentiment in a manner that didn't minimize or trivialize any other demographic.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,271 posts)
8. The 10 year old looks photoshopped
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:16 AM
Jan 2012

Her heel-to-knee measurement looks the same as waist-to-eye. And that just ain't normal - at any age, I'd say. She doesn't look anorexic so much as 'distorted' - the bottom half of her body has been magnified.

 

Goblinmonger

(22,340 posts)
17. That may be a result of an optical illusion
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:41 AM
Jan 2012

derived from a VERY high waist on that skirt. Or it's photoshopped. Not trying to argue with you, actually, but do a lot of optical illusion stuff in the communication class I teach. Looks kind of like one of those. Plus perspective from the camera angle. Either way, all very purposeful to achieve the look.

 

Sera_Bellum

(140 posts)
9. I still don't know
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:16 AM
Jan 2012

why models of this body mass are still used. The average size of women is what a 14 or 16? Only starving Ethiopian women could relate to this size.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
12. Few reasons are used
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:24 AM
Jan 2012

1. Clothes hang better on a thin person.
2. Thin women are all the same, heavier women are all different. Two woman who are 140 lbs each may carry it in different spots. Some have bigger butts, some bigger breasts, some bigger arms, etc. They only send one pair of clothes to the agency and expect the model to fit the clothes with minimal alteration - pinning here and there. If model don't fit they get new model.
3. Most advertising is aspirational - you want to buy the product. Thinness is fashionable. So they want a thin model for the product.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
15. What?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:30 AM
Jan 2012

I wear a size 4. I'm 5'1" and weigh 105. I'm not starving, nor am I Ethiopian, bulemic or anorexic.


I don't think a 10 year old wearing a women's size 16 would be a healthy body weight.

 

Sera_Bellum

(140 posts)
18. I should have been more clear.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 12:02 PM
Jan 2012

I was referring to the adult model. Her sunken and hollow cheeks do resemble images of starvation . As far as your heighth relative to weight, you are the exception than the rule.

http://www.usatoday.com/tech/columnist/aprilholladay/2006-12-04-size-age_x.htm

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
32. I'm 5'3"
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:25 PM
Jan 2012

I currently wear a 1 or a girls 14 or 16. I've had weight issues in the past of being too skinny, but I HAVE to lift weights to keep enough weight on me.

That said, knowing that I've been on both sides of the fence, we DO focus way too much on body weight and youth instead of appreciating health.

This child - and she IS a child - is 10. She has NO business being in a skirt that short. Yeah, I could wear it, but I am an adult (and it kind of sucks that I have to even resort to shopping in the kid's department because every designer assumes all women are 5'8" and taller).

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
64. I am 5'3" and 130 pounds,
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:18 PM
Jan 2012

and when buying pants, I do think that the designers think that all women are 5'8" or taller. Unfortunately, I cannot shop in the children's department to get the correct length. I always have to hem the pants.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
70. I know!
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:36 PM
Jan 2012

It's irritating as hell.

Why can't they realize that there are women under 5'8" when making jeans, for instance?

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
98. How do we know it is a skirt and not a skort?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 08:47 PM
Jan 2012

Skorts are skirts with shorts built in. Sometimes I think people come here just to see what the can feign outrage about. i don't see anything unhealthy looking about Cindy Crawford's daughter and if what she has on is a skort, it is not too short. She doesn't appear too thin nor does she appear to be made up to look older than her age. I see nothing overly sexual about her outfit. So yeah, what is there to be outraged about?

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
100. This has to be the most interesting
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 08:51 PM
Jan 2012

and also apologetic argument I've heard yet.

Good Lord. Do you see "skort" extensions in that picture where it is hiked up so far you can practically see her panties? No.

Wow a little criticism and the damage control team rolls right in. YOU people have destroyed the internet more than SOPA ever could.

notadmblnd

(23,720 posts)
104. YOU people?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 08:57 PM
Jan 2012

I wasn't attempting to look up her "skirt". I have see plenty of skorts that you couldn't tell were skorts in real life.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
56. Yup. Most of the women on my dad's side
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:31 PM
Jan 2012

of the family are very petit.

I can't imagine an additional 40+ pounds on my frame. I'm pretty sure I would be over-weight.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
63. I'm trying to get over an ear infection
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:17 PM
Jan 2012

and my previous weight has plummeted, though I'm still trying to lift weights to keep it up.

I can't imagine 40+ pounds on my frame, but I can certainly imagine losing that much (since I did).

I'd like to be a sound 110 or 115 and STAY that way.

Back to drinking tons of milk so that I'm not a rail, again, and more weight-training.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
72. When I had cancer I weighed 85 lbs.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:54 PM
Jan 2012

I looked like a walking skeleton.

My weight now tends to go from 105-110. I don't worry about it. I hear the oatmeal cookies calling me right now....

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
86. I sank to 79 lbs
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:00 PM
Jan 2012

during a bad breakup with my ex. I was so depressed, stressed with traveling for work, and just generally spread so thin I didn't even know what or who I was any more. I looked like shit, felt terrible, and was a nutjob. LOL

I know, I was there, and thankfully got healthy again I'm 110-115, but I lift weights a lot.

 

elehhhhna

(32,076 posts)
105. does the weightlifting increase your appetite or
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 09:06 PM
Jan 2012

your bodymass? both probably but which is the motivating reason? I was probably a touch too thin (ectomorphand prone to not eating when anxious - which was often) until about my 48th year. Now I have b**bs!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
108. It's mostly for bodymass
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 09:12 PM
Jan 2012

but also helps appetite. I don't do caffeine in any form now, either. It winds me up too much. My favorite drink has, and always will be unsweetened iced tea, but now, it's decaf.

REP

(21,691 posts)
91. Ear infections suuuuuuuuuck
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:25 PM
Jan 2012

Get better soon!

And even though I don't know you, I'm making this judgement about you: you're great! So stay away from sick ears!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
93. Thank you sweetie
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:30 PM
Jan 2012

It hasn't been easy or pleasant, but I am resilient and I appreciate your encouragement.

Mopar151

(9,975 posts)
13. If you are designing clothes to look good on a hangar -
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:24 AM
Jan 2012

You need a model built like a coathanger. And it is much harder to fit flat material to compound curves in 3 dimensions, then to drape a flat cutout.

 

AngryAmish

(25,704 posts)
14. You realize she is selling children's clothes, right?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 11:25 AM
Jan 2012

These are not women's clothes. She looks like a little girl.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
21. we are selling 10 yr old clothes where the butt hangs out and the crotch is seen when she sits
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 12:56 PM
Jan 2012

down?

then i think we need to have a different discussion here.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
25. yep!
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:11 PM
Jan 2012

the girl's skirt is entirely too short for her age. It's disgusting how young girls (this one isn't even a teenager!) are sexualized in advertisement and media.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
35. That's what I THOUGHT!
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:30 PM
Jan 2012

My god, if that child sneezes, she'll be a lingerie model! She's ten for heaven's sake.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
24. I'm more concerned about the sexualization.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:05 PM
Jan 2012

Of course eating disorders are part of the result of the incredible amount of focus put on every woman's appearance in almost all forms of media, all the time, but that's a criticism of media in general IMO rather than modeling.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
53. There is so much worse out there, too.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:20 PM
Jan 2012

This is apparently a new trend. I hope enough people cry foul to stop it from progressing.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
61. I'm not sure it is so new
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:00 PM
Jan 2012

I remember when my sisters took dance lessons 30+ years ago and everyone thought it was so cute to see them shake their hips in those bathing suit with tutu costumes.

loyalsister

(13,390 posts)
65. Disgusting!
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:23 PM
Jan 2012

This does go far beyond the child beauty pageants and dance.
What I wonder is- now that we are more aware of pedophilia, is media actually trying to target them as consumers? It is so hard for me to comprehend how this is simply "cute" in any sense that should applied by adults to children.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
67. I think the media and society just can't get enough images of hypersexualized women and girls.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:28 PM
Jan 2012

Men, too, just 5x less often.

And until more people take a stand and stop contributing to it, with money or with apathy, it will continue to get worse.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
74. I'm guessing that kids in their crip will be next
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:04 PM
Jan 2012

My GOD.

These aren't even women old enough to conceive, yet they are portraying them as sophisticated women.

Pander to the pedophilia industry much?

Shame on ALL of them.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
75. Those sophisticated French people have it right.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:10 PM
Jan 2012

We're all just uptight repressed pearl clutching prudes.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
79. The exploiting of children doesn't exist only among sophisticated French people.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:16 PM
Jan 2012


It seems we're not above it here in NA, either.

redqueen

(115,103 posts)
80. Oh no, of course not, didn't mean to imply otherwise...
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:20 PM
Jan 2012

it's just that that link was about a trend in France and the outrage about it... and a reference to the all too common implication that we're so inferior to Europe when it comes to matters of sexuality.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
88. I just don't understand
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:11 PM
Jan 2012

people who believe in objectifying other people, period. Their kids? They allow it?

How far have we fallen as a society when we think objectifying children sexually is a profit industry?

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
28. I think the young lady looks fine with the exception of the skirt length
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:14 PM
Jan 2012

I think 10 is to young for a skirt that short.

The woman on the bottom just looks like she is really thin. I wouldn't jusmp to call her unhealthy because we can only see part of her. She has beautiful eyes.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
30. She's 10!
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:21 PM
Jan 2012

Dear lord, if I ever had a daughter, I wouldn't let her be caught dead in that. That skirt is so short, if she sneezed she'd be a lingerie model.

I do NOT understand this "children's padded bra" business, and a 10 year old trying to look 18. My goodness, let kids be kids. 10 is FAR too young to be posing like this in a skirt that damn short.

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
33. Just so you know she is not modeling for Versace for adults but for a kids line
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:27 PM
Jan 2012

I see nothing wrong with a 10 year old modeling for clothes made to be worn by 10 year olds although I Don't know how many 10 year olds could afford Versace Kids clothes.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
39. why would you dress a ten yr old girl in a skirt that has her butt hanging out and
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:34 PM
Jan 2012

if sitting down, crotch visible?

LynneSin

(95,337 posts)
42. I think the clothing line will be more of a European thing
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:43 PM
Jan 2012

I can't see it selling well here in the states but Europeans have a different sense of style.

I saw her in a photograph with an outfit that actually looked kinda cute and appropriate for a 10 year old girl.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
49. europe does this to their ten yr olds? they still hold on strong to that patriarchy. even more so
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:54 PM
Jan 2012

than the u.s.

on edit... i will look to see other pictures that are more age appropriate.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
73. No, Europe doesn't
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:58 PM
Jan 2012

This child was in a high-waisted skirt, purposefully pulled up her torso to make her look like an older woman.

This isn't "European" anymore than a plate of grits are "European". If it is getting served like it is breakfast, we all know what it is.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
36. I weigh 106 lbs., I'm 5'6, and I could eat an elephant and wouldn't gain a pound.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:30 PM
Jan 2012

I weigh 106 lbs., I'm 5'6, and I could eat a truckload of elephants and wouldn't gain a pound.
I'm not weak or unhealthy. I lift heavy people, I play sports and do as well, or better, than some of the men, I work with horses that have never been touched by a human ...... and my weight hasn't changed since I was 16 years old. I've heard all my life how I could gain a few pounds, the problem is ...... even if I really wanted to, I can't.

I don't see, from a picture, that this woman is anorexic.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
38. She's not a woman
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:34 PM
Jan 2012

The real issue here is that she's a 10 year old girl dressed and made up like she's 20. THAT is the real issue here. That skirt is FAR too short.

EDIT: And I'm with you. I have to lift weights to keep weight on, and can eat like a horse. I had to quit caffeine for a while because I got too thin from too much coffee.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
40. I was referring to the woman in the picture below those of the little girl.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:35 PM
Jan 2012

The woman people have been saying is anorexic and resembles a cancer victim.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
41. Well...
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:38 PM
Jan 2012

Honestly, when I got down nearly past 80 lbs, I DID kind of look like a cancer victim and it took my doctor threatening to put me in the hospital to get me to take better care of myself.

If you are in your early thirties and weigh in the 80's at 5'3", it's not healthy.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
45. Yes, that is seriously underweight.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:50 PM
Jan 2012

I went down to 89 lbs. after losing my Dad, I'm sure I looked horrible then too.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
68. Had you asked me when I weighed
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:30 PM
Jan 2012

79 lbs. if I thought I was anorexic, I would have told you that, NO, I was still eating, I was just emotionally upset. And mostly it would have been true.

At some point, we have to face the fact that we can't punish ourselves that much, even when we are emotionally dying inside, because it could happen again to us, and the circumstances won't make our recovery so easy. Or at least, I did.

I'm not trying to judge or lecture, cher.

We are here as a community. We can do several things, but here is what I am here to do. Help others. Help myself. Tell the truth even when if makes me emotionally naked. And never dismissing pain. We heal ourselves by admitting it. I apologize if this is out of line.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
71. Yes, I agree with you completely on all points.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 04:42 PM
Jan 2012

I absolutely believe young girls / women ...... and boys / men, should know how dangerous trying to attain an overly-thin physique. I just didn't realize the woman in the photo actually 'was' anorexic until I googled for information on her.

That is why I was making the point that there are millions of skinny people in the world who, simply because of genetics alone, will never weigh what most others do ..... I thought her health was being judged on a photo alone ..... it turns out that wasn't true.


 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
77. Those of us with a thin physique
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:13 PM
Jan 2012

need to be careful, too, though because if we get too thin, it's very hard to come back. I'm sure you experienced something similar with your father's death, which by the way my most heartfelt condolences.

We also have an "I can't let myself go" factor, in that we have a genetic propensity to get dangerously underweight.

polly7

(20,582 posts)
84. Thanks Aerows,
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:27 PM
Jan 2012

so true, we haven't got the reserves to fight back with against serious illness. I have 8 brothers and sisters, of whom two have ever said they felt the need to lose weight and probably wouldn't be considered too slender ...... so far we've all been pretty lucky health-wise. That can certainly all change in an instant, though.

REP

(21,691 posts)
96. There are lots and lots of people who are naturally thin/very thin who look and are healthy
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 08:14 PM
Jan 2012

Not that I spend a lot of time making snap judgements about people, but to me, it's obvious when a person is who is very slender and healthy is just that - skin is a giveaway (there are others, but skin doesn't lie).

I have no doubt it is every bit as tiresome and unhelpful for the very slender to get "for your own good" advice about eating as it is for those who are overweight. I'm sorry anyone has to put up with intrusive bullshit about something so personal.

(Not discounting what you said at all - just wanted to chime in that some people understand we come in all shapes and our bodies are all different! :hi

polly7

(20,582 posts)
46. Yes, I realize that. ?
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 01:50 PM
Jan 2012

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I meant ... I realize she isn't a model and is Versace's daughter, but .... D'oh. I'm so sorry!, I didn't realize that she in fact is anorexic. That is sad.

YellowRubberDuckie

(19,736 posts)
60. She was a raised by a crazy woman.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:57 PM
Jan 2012

Of course she is anorexic. Her mother thought that the women in Europe that they have modeling are fat. They are healthy women and are trying to make sure their girls do not get these sorts of issues with their bodies. Her mother is obsessed with these skinny sick looking girls, and I would have thought better of Cindy Crawford, but apparently I was wrong.

NeedleCast

(8,827 posts)
57. Looks Normal For 10, if a touch on the skinny side
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 02:40 PM
Jan 2012

Crawford's daughter doesn't look unhealthy to me. The lady (who I don't know) in the bottom picture, maybe.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
81. would you put your daughter in that skirt at ten. that is who she is selling to.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:20 PM
Jan 2012

i think she looks fine. i think the sexualization of a 10 yr old is the issue.

the other woman? i dont say anything about cause just the face, so i really dont know.

ZombieHorde

(29,047 posts)
85. I wouldn't put my duaghter in that skirt because it is too high.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:34 PM
Jan 2012

Call me conservative, but I like my daughter's skirts to go to her knees. I didn't notice the skirt when I first looked at the picture.

I have nothing constructive to say about the third picture.

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
83. Cute outfit on Cindy Crawford's daughter.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 05:26 PM
Jan 2012

I guess the point is, that now age 10 is the pinnacle of womanly beauty. Age 15 is over the hill, or what?

REP

(21,691 posts)
92. The 10-year old looks like a healthy 10-year old (for a change)
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 06:29 PM
Jan 2012

The outfit - well, it's fashion and that's not anything I'm good at. I think it's kinda fugly. But the kid actually has muscle tone and is not skeletal. Which is nice. For younger girls who see that, they'll see a healthy-looking girl and not bones.

But if this is supposed to be what an adult woman looks like? Yeah, no. I'm sure even the model herself is looking forward to being an adult

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blue neen

(12,319 posts)
109. The picture of the 10 year old is not appropriate.
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 09:16 PM
Jan 2012

That is NOT appropriate clothing or body language for a 10 year old.

No way.

Jennicut

(25,415 posts)
111. Cindy Crawford's daughter looks very healthy and normal for 10 but her clothes...
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 09:19 PM
Jan 2012

My daughter is 7 and in 2nd grade. I wouldn't let her wear any skirt that short. I doubt that her friends in 4th grade would be allowed to wear skirts that short either.
Allegra Versace has been in treatment in the past for anorexia. I wonder what influence growing up around the fashion industry had on her. I wish her the best. It's a dreadful disease. One of my friends in college had it and when we graduated it had not gotten much better. It really is tough to treat anorexia.
All women have different body shapes and my main problem with the fashion industry is that they only show one standard. I am 5'4 and will never be tall and skinny. I am not overweight but a size 8 or 10 is considered "heavy" to the fashion world, which is ridiculous.

LadyHawkAZ

(6,199 posts)
112. Boyfriend peeking over my shoulder as I find this
Thu Jan 19, 2012, 09:20 PM
Jan 2012

BF: "Damn, she's hot."

Me: "Damn she's 10."

BF (sits straight up): "WHAT!?!"

Me: "10 years old in 10 pounds of makeup and a micro mini."

BF: "What the f-! Who dresses their kid like-! Ten year olds should not look like-! TEN-?? Seriously? What the f-!" and on and on for about 2 minutes.

Even my zero-social-conscience Neanderthal got it. Kids too young for sex should not be dressed up as adults to attract it.

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