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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 05:53 PM Dec 2012

Judge orders father of 9 to stop having children until he can provide for them

Judge orders father of 9 to stop having children

RACINE, Wis. (AP) — A Wisconsin father of nine who's behind on child support payments has been ordered by a judge not to have any more children until he can show he can provide for them.

Corey Curtis, who fathered the children with six women, owes nearly $100,000 in back child support and interest, according to Racine County prosecutors.

In sentencing the 44-year-old father Monday in Racine County Circuit Court for failing to pay support, Judge Tim Boyle lamented that he didn't have the authority to order sterilization for Curtis.

"Common sense dictates you shouldn't have kids you can't afford," the judge said.

Assistant District Attorney Rebecca Sommers told the judge he did have some authority regarding Curtis' reproduction rights. Sommers cited a 2001 Wisconsin Supreme Court ruling upholding a judge's power to order a defendant, as a condition of probation, to not procreate again unless he can show he can financially support the child.

"I will make that a condition of the probation," Boyle said immediately, sentencing Curtis to three years' probation.

Read more: http://www.sfgate.com/news/article/Judge-orders-father-of-9-to-stop-having-children-4089938.php#ixzz2E7etHSlN


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Judge orders father of 9 to stop having children until he can provide for them (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 OP
Common sense indeed. unreadierLizard Dec 2012 #1
BIG slippery slope. Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #2
^ This. This again. Still this. nt Poll_Blind Dec 2012 #4
Really? atreides1 Dec 2012 #7
I'd file it under Le Taz Hot Dec 2012 #17
+1 HonEur12 Dec 2012 #41
When the burden of feeding and housing those children falls to the state, LiberalAndProud Dec 2012 #73
Reproductive rights involve caring for children BainsBane Dec 2012 #77
Yes, a woman can blueamy66 Dec 2012 #91
Those are consequences BainsBane Dec 2012 #93
Then why sleep with a man who already has 9 children? blueamy66 Dec 2012 #94
"Women aren't stupid." intheflow Dec 2012 #97
Why not use protection? blueamy66 Dec 2012 #106
Np, a woman doesn;t take ANY blame for someone not paying support obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #109
Last time I checked, support was based on both the mother and the father's salaries blueamy66 Dec 2012 #123
Yeah, the Woman Does RobinA Dec 2012 #127
Who says she can't support her kids??? obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #131
The issue is the children BainsBane Dec 2012 #98
True that, I guess. blueamy66 Dec 2012 #108
You stated this so-called "debate" obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #110
obviously the women are responsible BainsBane Dec 2012 #124
This obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #132
Some of them may not have known of his other children Marrah_G Dec 2012 #113
"So, who files for this "taxpayer" assistance?" Exactly. n/t lumberjack_jeff Dec 2012 #118
Its called the 9th amendment Ya Basta Dec 2012 #22
Only if it is, in fact, a right. Is it a right to create life and then violate its right to life, patrice Dec 2012 #44
only corporations have the right to create life. and destroy it. HiPointDem Dec 2012 #54
Define right tama Dec 2012 #83
Using the 9th Amendment is a BIG slippery slope dballance Dec 2012 #80
no, the constitution only guarantees reproductive freedom to corporations, as well as the HiPointDem Dec 2012 #53
+++1 patrice Dec 2012 #71
Agreed. n/t gollygee Dec 2012 #20
Yep n/t LadyHawkAZ Dec 2012 #30
one that badly needs to be slid down, IMO.... mike_c Dec 2012 #35
I've read a few of your posts lately, and we've got quite a lot in common. Gregorian Dec 2012 #40
There's a lot of confusion out there about the differences between liberty and freedom. nt patrice Dec 2012 #46
not to mention the Judge's inability to enforce the order. dixiegrrrrl Dec 2012 #67
No just throw his sorry arse in jail if he does. TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #75
Is he on probation for life? Luminous Animal Dec 2012 #76
Why not? He's probably sentenced his kids to life behind the 8-ball. TheMadMonk Dec 2012 #107
I'd agree as long as it was the same for everyone. Live and Learn Dec 2012 #86
So you're anti-choice. nt Union Scribe Dec 2012 #89
only to the extent that, say, Garrett Hardin was "anti-choice...." mike_c Dec 2012 #128
Yes. There are a lot of seemingly good 1 offs to violate Constitutional Freedoms. 99.99999% are bad stevenleser Dec 2012 #38
How? RomneyLies Dec 2012 #50
Unfortunately, rejecting the conditions of his probation defacto7 Dec 2012 #82
Agreed. nt Live and Learn Dec 2012 #85
Life is a slippery slope and ashling Dec 2012 #117
I agree. Third Doctor Dec 2012 #3
9 children by 6 women. Seems like the women should get the same sentence...no? Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #6
are they each having nine children? moreover are they not providing for their kids? La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #33
I don't know blueamy66 Dec 2012 #95
Who cares -- the guy is 100K in support arrears obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #114
Why? obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #112
Is this a "poor people shouldn't be allowed to have kids" post? noamnety Dec 2012 #12
isn't that what the judge is saying with the sentence? Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #15
Yep, but I expect that from some judges, noamnety Dec 2012 #34
You don't know DU very well then, I guess. closeupready Dec 2012 #47
yes, and getting lots of support from the good liberals here. HiPointDem Dec 2012 #56
That could be the result and why it is a very poor decision. nt Live and Learn Dec 2012 #87
So, if he fathers another child, thats a violation of his probation and he goes to jail? Beaverhausen Dec 2012 #5
Apparently he is not making them out of jail either... peacebird Dec 2012 #9
So why not jail him now? closeupready Dec 2012 #13
he's behind 50K and 40K is interest (that's student loan type interest accrual) Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #14
doesn't MrDiaz Dec 2012 #11
Not making them now. At least that way he's not making babies anymore. nt geek tragedy Dec 2012 #27
Doesn't it take two people to make a baby? blueamy66 Dec 2012 #96
Where did it state the mothers are neglectful and not caring obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #115
I'm not slagging moms blueamy66 Dec 2012 #121
Stupid. closeupready Dec 2012 #8
I would say the same thing for a mother of 9 Quantess Dec 2012 #10
Absolutely, 100% correct! Rider3 Dec 2012 #28
Octomom should be in the klink? Cayenne Dec 2012 #84
So, exactly where would you put the limit on kids for the poor? Live and Learn Dec 2012 #88
Nobody would listen to me anyway, when policy is made. Quantess Dec 2012 #101
Yeah.....I totally agree blueamy66 Dec 2012 #122
I'm glad people on DU don't make laws. closeupready Dec 2012 #16
legislating reproductive rights, and based on finances? NightWatcher Dec 2012 #18
it seems that the the fact that there are 6 mothers makes the guy look like a bum. if it Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #23
If he were not married to her he would. alphafemale Dec 2012 #42
Well apparently he's good at something. ToxMarz Dec 2012 #102
An outlet for his "talent" alphafemale Dec 2012 #130
Exactly - it treats poor people differently treestar Dec 2012 #65
In most cases of fines and fees and so forth, I'd agree with your rationale. joeunderdog Dec 2012 #134
You're right re: fines treestar Dec 2012 #135
I would say... Though almost appropriate in this case, too dangerous a road to go down... Democracyinkind Dec 2012 #19
agreed La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #36
What is the criteria? zipplewrath Dec 2012 #21
How about complying with court orders and legal obligations? geek tragedy Dec 2012 #29
Right, where they are neglected by state child welfare agencies. closeupready Dec 2012 #32
You think he gives a shit about having his kids taken away? Jackpine Radical Dec 2012 #37
Ah, the answer to poverty! me b zola Dec 2012 #78
reproductive rights should be equal across the board. period. backtoblue Dec 2012 #24
off topic: your sig line is cute. lol Liberal_in_LA Dec 2012 #26
thanks! lol backtoblue Dec 2012 #39
Good! Rider3 Dec 2012 #25
sometimes what seems like a commonsensical decision, would be extremely La Lioness Priyanka Dec 2012 #31
i agree backtoblue Dec 2012 #45
Love! that sig! such a darling little stick-person! patrice Dec 2012 #70
Are we sure that it is about finances? or the level of personal responsibility for those lives? patrice Dec 2012 #72
Obviously you can't outlaw consensual fucking, so what if Ya Basta Dec 2012 #43
Unless the judge plans to have him castrated, I don't see how he can enforce this SoCalDem Dec 2012 #48
The judge said (in the article) that he didn't have the authority to have him sterilized. Angleae Dec 2012 #99
I hope he appeals, and that part of the ruling overturned. closeupready Dec 2012 #49
Most communities wouldn't allow you to have 9 CATS if you couldn't take care of them. alphafemale Dec 2012 #51
Cats can be euthanized, too. WinkyDink Dec 2012 #59
Good for the judge. Subsidizing those that overpopulate is ridiculous. nt Comrade_McKenzie Dec 2012 #52
yes, only the reproduction of those who can afford to consume 100 times their weight HiPointDem Dec 2012 #55
At best, this man is a bit player in his children's lives-- TwilightGardener Dec 2012 #57
Stay the fuck out of my bedroom! Ya Basta Dec 2012 #58
As almost a pure aside: Technically, this deadbeat dad is genetically WAY ahead of the game. Poll_Blind Dec 2012 #60
I agree with the Judge but how do you enforce it? arthritisR_US Dec 2012 #61
Ball peen hammer, hatchet, anvil, scalpel............ kooljerk666 Dec 2012 #104
Penis belt?;). n/t arthritisR_US Dec 2012 #129
I understand this but it scares me. This can be turned around against the mothers of these children jwirr Dec 2012 #62
Can't he just say he aborted them (financially)? The Straight Story Dec 2012 #63
Uh, no treestar Dec 2012 #64
It is a patently illegal order... ProgressiveProfessor Dec 2012 #66
The alternative was prison time. Angleae Dec 2012 #100
Other. Care Acutely Dec 2012 #68
How can that be done? Spirochete Dec 2012 #69
I too don't see how this can be enforced. KitSileya Dec 2012 #74
I don't know if the ruling is legal or not BainsBane Dec 2012 #79
Is the court going to provide free birth control for the man and any potential AllyCat Dec 2012 #81
Common sense dictates that you don't have another child with a dude that already has 9 blueamy66 Dec 2012 #90
It would be wonderful if more people applied some common sense to their family planning decisions slackmaster Dec 2012 #111
He should have given him 5 years probation and reduce it to 3 if he'd get a vasectomy TexasBushwhacker Dec 2012 #92
I think that's a wonderful solution. hamsterjill Dec 2012 #119
Take away tax deuction for more than 2 children ok maybe 3 thats it........ kooljerk666 Dec 2012 #103
I agree with the judge on this one. Ferretherder Dec 2012 #105
The problem I have with this is that Yo_Mama Dec 2012 #116
Bad sentence because it is near impossible to enforce AlexSatan Dec 2012 #120
Law student here, support the judge, totally- and I think within his power. nt cecilfirefox Dec 2012 #125
Support your kids, you fucking loser! Throd Dec 2012 #126
As Judge Judy says, "Snip it or zip it" obamanut2012 Dec 2012 #133

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
17. I'd file it under
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:01 PM
Dec 2012

reproductive choice myself. We may not agree with it but it is his right to have as many children as he can talk women into.

LiberalAndProud

(12,799 posts)
73. When the burden of feeding and housing those children falls to the state,
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 01:29 AM
Dec 2012

shouldn't the state have some authority to say, "no more"?

http://journalstar.com/news/local/crime-and-courts/man-owes-k-in-back-child-support-has-paternity-cases/article_1d5850a9-f107-5e4f-80ce-0f865e2c04cc.html

I'm counting 25 offspring in the linked story. This guy is a predator -- a con man. And part of the con is leaving the mark pregnant. It's probably best that I am not in the position to impose punishment on this one. Can't there be a point where reproductive rights are forfeited for dereliction of parental duties?

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
77. Reproductive rights involve caring for children
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 01:46 AM
Dec 2012

Not just siring them. He walks away from the consequences of procreation. A woman cannot.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
93. Those are consequences
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 05:13 AM
Dec 2012

And a man faces neither unless compelled to do so by a personal sense of responsibility or, in this case, the court.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
94. Then why sleep with a man who already has 9 children?
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 05:22 AM
Dec 2012

Women aren't stupid. We know what is going on.

So, who files for this "taxpayer" assistance?

intheflow

(28,442 posts)
97. "Women aren't stupid."
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 05:55 AM
Dec 2012

Uh, yeah, some are. Just as some men are. They are all people and some people are stupid. Also, stupid people tend to run in the same circles, just as smart people do.

Then there's the point that some people are really good fucking liars. Are the women who have gotten pregnant by this asshat to be blamed if he lied to them or withheld the information that he had xx number of children he was ignoring prior to shagging them?


obamanut2012

(26,042 posts)
109. Np, a woman doesn;t take ANY blame for someone not paying support
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:40 AM
Dec 2012

That is beyond ridiculous.

Interesting to me how you are placing the supermajprity of the blame on the woman.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
123. Last time I checked, support was based on both the mother and the father's salaries
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 12:23 PM
Dec 2012

Did that change sometime recently?

And what is supermajpity?

RobinA

(9,884 posts)
127. Yeah, the Woman Does
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 04:14 PM
Dec 2012

Why doesn't the same position apply to her? Don't have chidren you can't support. They are as wrong as he is. Not supermajority wrong, but wrong in equal parts.

obamanut2012

(26,042 posts)
131. Who says she can't support her kids???
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 07:31 PM
Dec 2012

Why are so many posters saying the mothers cannot support their kids? Whether they can or cannot on their own doesn't mean the father doesn't have to pay support.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
98. The issue is the children
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 06:19 AM
Dec 2012

Not that the woman deserves what she gets because she sleeps with him. If mothers behave irresponsibly, the courts take their kids away. Why shouldn't this guy face up to his responsibilities? If he can't, he needs to keep his fly zipped.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
108. True that, I guess.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:34 AM
Dec 2012

If a mother behaves irresponsibly, their children are taken away....okay. In what world do you live?

Sure, he should live up to his responsibilities, but so should the mothers. Why not use protection?

As I have stated before, I have 2 nieces with 3 children each and they work their asses off to provide for them. They knew/know what they got into and are happy and successful and don't whine about the fathers.

I hate this debate. I'm out.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
124. obviously the women are responsible
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 03:22 PM
Dec 2012

No one is saying they aren't. Nor do we have information that those women tried to evade their responsibility. The law requires that men pay child support, even if women are "stupid enough" to sleep with them. You're assuming they knew he had 9 kids, or the other guy linked in one of the threads had 15. If he doesn't tell them, they aren't likely to know. If there is some pre-approved list of responsible men we can consult before dating, I'd love to see it.

Marrah_G

(28,581 posts)
113. Some of them may not have known of his other children
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:43 AM
Dec 2012

I don't think it's a leap to say that a guy with 9 children of which he supports none, might actually lie to a woman.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
44. Only if it is, in fact, a right. Is it a right to create life and then violate its right to life,
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:22 PM
Dec 2012

liberty, and the pursuit of happiness by abandoning it?

You ever read a book about fascism called Perfume by Patrick Suskind? or see that movie?

 

tama

(9,137 posts)
83. Define right
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 03:02 AM
Dec 2012

Life procreates life; and also social structures that can try to define and limit rights.

 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
80. Using the 9th Amendment is a BIG slippery slope
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 02:13 AM
Dec 2012

One could infer it implies unlimited rights for everyone. I doubt that's what the founders meant. I'm pretty sure what they meant was just because they didn't enumerate something as a right in the Constitution or Bill of Rights doesn't mean people don't have that right. Like the right to get married for instance. Not enumerated in the Constitution or Bill of Rights but pretty commonly accepted as a right.

There is also the fact that the constitution does give the federal government the power to enact laws. State constitutions also empower their legislators to enact laws. There are the executive and the judicial branches to overrule legislators when they cross the line.

If this guy has had so many children and cannot care for them then I think it's fine to prohibit him from fathering more children. Why exactly should the tax payers have to support his offspring when it truly was a choice on his part to impregnate six different women?

I doubt you'd have a problem with the court ruling a landlord cannot buy anymore properties until and unless they brought all of their currently-owned properties out of slum conditions and provided tenants with running water and heat. So how would it be different or wrong for this guy to be expected to be responsible for the human lives he already created or stop creating them?

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
53. no, the constitution only guarantees reproductive freedom to corporations, as well as the
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:33 PM
Dec 2012

freedom to rachet down wages and generally steal the means of survival from workers.

everybody else is on their own.

mike_c

(36,267 posts)
35. one that badly needs to be slid down, IMO....
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:12 PM
Dec 2012

If by "slippery slope" you mean the evils of state regulation of reproductive "rights," I advocate curtailing human reproduction and so I'm all for it. State regulation, that is. There are way too many humans making more humans than the planet can support.

Gregorian

(23,867 posts)
40. I've read a few of your posts lately, and we've got quite a lot in common.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:16 PM
Dec 2012

I want to post "more than one should be a crime", but the world isn't ready yet. We'll have to be swimming in the rising waters before anyone realizes what is happening.

Anyways, it's good to have vigilant company.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
67. not to mention the Judge's inability to enforce the order.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 09:57 PM
Dec 2012

What's he gonna do, shove the baby back up the birth canal?
'Cause the only way to show a violation of the order is by a woman giving birth.
or 10 woment giving birth.
etc

 

TheMadMonk

(6,187 posts)
75. No just throw his sorry arse in jail if he does.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 01:43 AM
Dec 2012

Won't make a whit of difference for the kids he's not paying for anyway.

 

TheMadMonk

(6,187 posts)
107. Why not? He's probably sentenced his kids to life behind the 8-ball.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:21 AM
Dec 2012

These sort of scattershot serial breeders, generally target women at the bottom end of the socio-ecconomic scale with serious self esteme issues.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
86. I'd agree as long as it was the same for everyone.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 03:28 AM
Dec 2012

The problem with this ruling is that is is based on his not being able to support the children. That is a slippery slope. Who determines how many children one can afford? And do the rich actually have a right to more children than the poor?

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
38. Yes. There are a lot of seemingly good 1 offs to violate Constitutional Freedoms. 99.99999% are bad
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:16 PM
Dec 2012

ideas and slippery slopes.

 

RomneyLies

(3,333 posts)
50. How?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:31 PM
Dec 2012

He does not have to accept the conditions of probation. Probation is giving a convict a break. The convict is still free to reject the conditions of probation and serve his time in prison.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
82. Unfortunately, rejecting the conditions of his probation
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 02:36 AM
Dec 2012

could possibly affect an awful lot of people over a couple of years before he would be caught, and then there's the money on the public bill to prove it.

No, this guy has a mental problem and should be in jail or getting treatment. It's a bad call.

obamanut2012

(26,042 posts)
112. Why?
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:43 AM
Dec 2012

He is the one not paying support. I didn't read that the women are abusive and neglectful parents like the father is.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
47. You don't know DU very well then, I guess.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:25 PM
Dec 2012

These types of topics always bring out the contrarians, those who like to argue, and genuine conservatives.

Beaverhausen

(24,469 posts)
5. So, if he fathers another child, thats a violation of his probation and he goes to jail?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 05:56 PM
Dec 2012

And how will he make the child support payments from jail?



obamanut2012

(26,042 posts)
115. Where did it state the mothers are neglectful and not caring
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:46 AM
Dec 2012

For their children? I didn't read that.

You are slagging the moms and defending this guy all over this thread. Why?

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
121. I'm not slagging moms
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 12:17 PM
Dec 2012

just saying that it takes two people to make a baby

Did we check into how many children each of the mothers have and by how many Daddys and how many are on public assistance?

Sure, the guy is an ass. But let's put the responsibility on both parents.

The judge said....."common sense dictates you shouldn't have kids you can't afford"....hmmmmmmm

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
10. I would say the same thing for a mother of 9
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 05:59 PM
Dec 2012

Don't have any more, until you can support the ones you've got.

Cayenne

(480 posts)
84. Octomom should be in the klink?
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 03:10 AM
Dec 2012

Ridiculous. Sorry but he has a right to bodily autonomy as any woman has.

Live and Learn

(12,769 posts)
88. So, exactly where would you put the limit on kids for the poor?
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 03:32 AM
Dec 2012

And what penalty would you support for the mother that dared to get pregnant again?

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
101. Nobody would listen to me anyway, when policy is made.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 06:36 AM
Dec 2012

I don't have a problem with sterilization, in some cases. Especially not if they already have several children and appear to have difficulty stopping. That is my opinion.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
122. Yeah.....I totally agree
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 12:18 PM
Dec 2012

I think deadbeat Dads are wrong, but Moms that keep procreating aren't helping the situation either.

on edit: and yes, many here know that I have a personal interest in this....but I've held this opinion since I was a young teenager....my Mother told me that if I was going to have sex, protect myself and if I didn't and I became pregnant, don't expect help from anyone....you may be on your own....she told me to THINK about my actions

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
18. legislating reproductive rights, and based on finances?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:01 PM
Dec 2012

What's next, what if someone is too poor to have 9, or 8, or 7, or 6.... or 1?

I know that this is not purely based on finances, but civil court penalties. But if he had a few hundred thousand dollars and paid it to the mothers, it wouldnt be an issue.

It just sets a weird benchmark in my opinion

 

Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
23. it seems that the the fact that there are 6 mothers makes the guy look like a bum. if it
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:06 PM
Dec 2012

were a father unable to support 9 kids by 1 woman, I bet he would not receive the same sentence.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
42. If he were not married to her he would.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:21 PM
Dec 2012

Although that scenario seems very unlikely.

I've never understood some of the attraction to breed with proven useless lowlifes.

joeunderdog

(2,563 posts)
134. In most cases of fines and fees and so forth, I'd agree with your rationale.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 07:48 PM
Dec 2012

But whether it's unwillingness or inability to pay for the care of a child, the bottom line remains the same. With rights come responsibilities. I feel that it is unfair for this man to place (by default) his burden on others, on the mother of his children or on his own children.

treestar

(82,383 posts)
135. You're right re: fines
Thu Dec 6, 2012, 01:03 PM
Dec 2012

They should be proportionate to income.

Children are not entirely a burden though. We do benefit from other people having children. Taxpayers, future and future workers, soldiers. We can't do it all on our own. These are fellow Americans too. We don't need all from well off backgrounds. I think there's an argument they are not a burden.

The man in the story is unusual too. General rules should not be made for this situation.

Democracyinkind

(4,015 posts)
19. I would say... Though almost appropriate in this case, too dangerous a road to go down...
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:02 PM
Dec 2012

Imagine wingnut judges getting that power. The Suffragettes of the early 20th century could tell stories about that...

zipplewrath

(16,646 posts)
21. What is the criteria?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:04 PM
Dec 2012

The problem here is that there is really no criteria for determining what economic conditions should prohibit someone from having children. Plenty of people have children that can't really afford them. What role should government have in determining before the fact that someone should not have children?

It's not that I don't think we can create such laws, standards, or regulations. I just don't think we have and judges should be trying to do it in our stead.

 

geek tragedy

(68,868 posts)
29. How about complying with court orders and legal obligations?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:08 PM
Dec 2012

If you can't feed your kids, they get taken away.

Jackpine Radical

(45,274 posts)
37. You think he gives a shit about having his kids taken away?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:13 PM
Dec 2012

How many of them do you think he can name?

The legalities and legal implications of this are obviously complex, but I wanna register my complete disgust with all 7 parents.

me b zola

(19,053 posts)
78. Ah, the answer to poverty!
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 01:50 AM
Dec 2012

Jonathan Swift had some thoughts on this:

A Modest Proposal for preventing the children of poor people in Ireland, from being a burden on their parents or country, and for making them beneficial to the publick (1729)

~snip~

As to my own part, having turned my thoughts for many years, upon this important subject, and maturely weighed the several schemes of our projectors, I have always found them grossly mistaken in their computation. It is true, a child just dropt from its dam, may be supported by her milk, for a solar year, with little other nourishment: at most not above the value of two shillings, which the mother may certainly get, or the value in scraps, by her lawful occupation of begging; and it is exactly at one year old that I propose to provide for them in such a manner, as, instead of being a charge upon their parents, or the parish, or wanting food and raiment for the rest of their lives, they shall, on the contrary, contribute to the feeding, and partly to the cloathing of many thousands.

There is likewise another great advantage in my scheme, that it will prevent those voluntary abortions, and that horrid practice of women murdering their bastard children, alas! too frequent among us, sacrificing the poor innocent babes, I doubt, more to avoid the expence than the shame, which would move tears and pity in the most savage and inhuman breast.

The number of souls in this kingdom being usually reckoned one million and a half, of these I calculate there may be about two hundred thousand couple whose wives are breeders; from which number I subtract thirty thousand couple, who are able to maintain their own children, (although I apprehend there cannot be so many, under the present distresses of the kingdom) but this being granted, there will remain an hundred and seventy thousand breeders. I again subtract fifty thousand, for those women who miscarry, or whose children die by accident or disease within the year. There only remain an hundred and twenty thousand children of poor parents annually born. The question therefore is, How this number shall be reared, and provided for? which, as I have already said, under the present situation of affairs, is utterly impossible by all the methods hitherto proposed. For we can neither employ them in handicraft or agriculture; we neither build houses, (I mean in the country) nor cultivate land: they can very seldom pick up a livelihood by stealing till they arrive at six years old; except where they are of towardly parts, although I confess they learn the rudiments much earlier; during which time they can however be properly looked upon only as probationers: As I have been informed by a principal gentleman in the county of Cavan, who protested to me, that he never knew above one or two instances under the age of six, even in a part of the kingdom so renowned for the quickest proficiency in that art.

~more @ link~

http://www.victorianweb.org/previctorian/swift/modest.html


The meeting of satire and reality is occurring far too often afaic.


backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
24. reproductive rights should be equal across the board. period.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:06 PM
Dec 2012

if this man owes money for not taking care of his kids, then he needs to be in jail on a work program paying as much as he can to help out with the kids. too many kids? yes. too little money? yes.

the bottom line is the courts should not have control over anyone's reproductive rights, be it man or woman.

perhaps if this man had insurance that provided coverage of a vesectomy, he could make that decision.

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
39. thanks! lol
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:16 PM
Dec 2012

i was pointing to equal rights as a whole on reproductive rights. in no way should this set precedence for women to be forced into not having children or forced TO have children against their wishes.

just a broader view than necessary, i suppose.

btw: i do not post much, but i read DU alot and have agreed with almost every point that you have made over the years.

 

La Lioness Priyanka

(53,866 posts)
31. sometimes what seems like a commonsensical decision, would be extremely
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:09 PM
Dec 2012

problematic if generalized.

this sentence to me seems like good old fashioned common sense, however disallowing people to have children based on finances seems extremely problematic overall

backtoblue

(11,343 posts)
45. i agree
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:24 PM
Dec 2012

it could be used as precedence in future court rulings on reproductive rights of both men, women, rich, and poor.

patrice

(47,992 posts)
72. Are we sure that it is about finances? or the level of personal responsibility for those lives?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 11:11 PM
Dec 2012

Must admit, I've just been kind of scanning, but didn't pick up anything that said that the fellow, though financially delinquent, was/is physically active in the care and upbringing of those lives, which to me would seem to suggest that whatever he claims his rights are in the matter, those rights are violating the rights of the babies to life liberty and the pursuit of happiness, much of which is damaged MORE by physical delinquence than it is by financial delinquence.

 

Ya Basta

(391 posts)
43. Obviously you can't outlaw consensual fucking, so what if
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:21 PM
Dec 2012

he wears a condom but the condom breaks? How would that violate this Nazi judge's order?

Big, big, big slippery slope.

SoCalDem

(103,856 posts)
48. Unless the judge plans to have him castrated, I don't see how he can enforce this
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:26 PM
Dec 2012

He/she (the judge) can only punish him after-the-fact. A judge can impose any restriction he/she likes, but it's always up to the one having the rules imposed, to either obey, or not..

Anytime someone goes against a court order, they are accepting whatever punishment may follow, but just having the restriction rarely keeps them from re-offending..

Angleae

(4,479 posts)
99. The judge said (in the article) that he didn't have the authority to have him sterilized.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 06:20 AM
Dec 2012

If he violates this court order, he goes to prison. If he continues to fail to pay child support, he goes to prison. Either way, it's looking bad for him.

 

alphafemale

(18,497 posts)
51. Most communities wouldn't allow you to have 9 CATS if you couldn't take care of them.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:31 PM
Dec 2012

But these are just human beings hes supposed to neglect because he just has that right to stick unwrapped plow in any fertile ground.

It's a term of probation and that is all.

Lot's of things can be termed probation violations.

I don't think this is that out of line given the circumstances.

 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
55. yes, only the reproduction of those who can afford to consume 100 times their weight
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:35 PM
Dec 2012

in resources should be subsidized.

TwilightGardener

(46,416 posts)
57. At best, this man is a bit player in his children's lives--
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:37 PM
Dec 2012

six households means that he is probably not really a parent figure in any of them. Nine children without a real father, the least he can do is provide financial support--and he can't even manage that. He is extremely irresponsible, just spreading his seed around and leaving the consequences behind. I understand that this order sounds harsh and would be hard to enforce, but he appears unable to control himself and think of anybody besides himself.

Poll_Blind

(23,864 posts)
60. As almost a pure aside: Technically, this deadbeat dad is genetically WAY ahead of the game.
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:38 PM
Dec 2012

I have one son, my girlfriend has two. This guy has FUCKING NINE KIDS. That's crazy good coverage for ensuring your genetic material continues. This guy is hardcore winning at a really old competition which is, in fact, so removed from our everyday existence that we don't think about it consciously. He's ensuring his genotypic traits continue.

Somehow I have a feeling that the deeper nature of all this may be lost on him.

Or, just watch the first few minutes of Idiocracy.

Of course, the gamble is that with fewer resources the children will be less likely to live long enough to reproduce themselves.

PB

 

kooljerk666

(776 posts)
104. Ball peen hammer, hatchet, anvil, scalpel............
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 07:36 AM
Dec 2012

lot of ways.....take away tax deduction & make'em pay.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
62. I understand this but it scares me. This can be turned around against the mothers of these children
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:41 PM
Dec 2012

as well. Does this apply to children born after your cannot afford them or is it retroactive. When I got a divorce my children automatically became unaffordable for me. Especially since our disabled daughter had already placed us in that position long before the divorce. How far can this be taken?

The Straight Story

(48,121 posts)
63. Can't he just say he aborted them (financially)?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:55 PM
Dec 2012

His body, his choice - why should he have to go to work for 18 years to support something he does not want?

treestar

(82,383 posts)
64. Uh, no
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 06:58 PM
Dec 2012

Right wing talking point. There are no limits on procreation and his use of it as a condition of probation - subject to challenge.

Angleae

(4,479 posts)
100. The alternative was prison time.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 06:21 AM
Dec 2012

Which is likely his next destination anyway for either violating the court order or for continuing to fail to pay child support.

Spirochete

(5,264 posts)
69. How can that be done?
Tue Dec 4, 2012, 10:30 PM
Dec 2012

Men don't even have children. Sure, he needs to pay up and stop fathering any more of them them, and maybe should be treated to a free vasectomy, courtesy of the courts, but I don't think they can force this guy to stop being selfish and stupid. He'll just end up going back to jail for non-payment anyhow.

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
74. I too don't see how this can be enforced.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 01:39 AM
Dec 2012

In fact, I doubt the judge can make it impossible to father children since he cannot order the man to have a vasectomy (thank goodness! That would be a slippery slope indeed.)

If there is a website dedicated to deadbeat dads, the mothers should definitely put him up there, perhaps then more women won't be charmed into having unprotected sex with him. I guess I'm a prude that wouldn't consider having sex with a man without knowing him so well that I knew that he had 9 kids with 6 women. It's such a sad commentary on our messed up gender relations that this guy can con that many women into having a baby with him.

BainsBane

(53,012 posts)
79. I don't know if the ruling is legal or not
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 01:59 AM
Dec 2012

He can appeal the order, and the courts can decide its constitutionality. But the guy's behavior is irresponsible, and he should be called to task for it. The court is acting as the voice of community standards here, which this guy has clearly violated.

 

slackmaster

(60,567 posts)
111. It would be wonderful if more people applied some common sense to their family planning decisions
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:43 AM
Dec 2012

TexasBushwhacker

(20,131 posts)
92. He should have given him 5 years probation and reduce it to 3 if he'd get a vasectomy
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 04:59 AM
Dec 2012

Seriously, the guy has fathered enough children. That way the sterilization would still be voluntary.

hamsterjill

(15,220 posts)
119. I think that's a wonderful solution.
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 11:57 AM
Dec 2012

Give the guy some incentive to stop breeding, and solve the problem for good instead of just the amount of time the guy would spend on probation.

 

kooljerk666

(776 posts)
103. Take away tax deuction for more than 2 children ok maybe 3 thats it........
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 07:34 AM
Dec 2012

Hasn't everyone seen Idiocracy??

Seriously CLimate Change is coming fast & we need less people & to burn less carbon.

3 children max then u pay should be a great way to get to ZPG (zero pop. growth).

Yo_Mama

(8,303 posts)
116. The problem I have with this is that
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:52 AM
Dec 2012

he's really sentencing the guy not to have sex. Yes, he can put on a condom but they are not 100% effective as bc measures. The only 100% effective measures are ones that the woman uses.

So this guy may face prison based on factors he cannot control other than simply not sleeping with any woman of childbearing age, and this I do not think can be constitutional.

There are a long line of SC cases that have set forth the doctrine that the government does not have the right to control citizen's sex lives, and this type of sentence runs counter to the doctrine that the choice of sex partners is private and the choice of whether or not to bear children is private.

I seem to be greatly in the minority, but I think this sentence is unconstitutional and should be unconstitutional.

 

AlexSatan

(535 posts)
120. Bad sentence because it is near impossible to enforce
Wed Dec 5, 2012, 12:15 PM
Dec 2012

Either jail him or offer him a few thousand $ to get a vasectomy.

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