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Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 09:59 AM Jan 2013

Why do dogs leave first?



Why Do Dogs Leave Earth First?
a child answers

Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.

I examined Belker and found that he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything more for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. The young boy, Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.

The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a long time after Belker's Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.

Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."

Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. It has changed the way I try to live.

He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life - like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?"

The Six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."
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Why do dogs leave first? (Original Post) Earth_First Jan 2013 OP
Well, guess I'm going to be a little late to work this morning... Gidney N Cloyd Jan 2013 #1
Some dust got in my eye while ready that story. aikoaiko Jan 2013 #2
Seems to be a dusty morning. Whovian Jan 2013 #3
I saw a crop duster overhead about 1/2 hour ago! AAO Jan 2013 #21
VERY dusty. calimary Jan 2013 #80
The text below; for a little easier reading for less than 20/20 eyes. :) Cerridwen Jan 2013 #4
TY! Earth_First Jan 2013 #5
No problem. :) Cerridwen Jan 2013 #6
Hey it's a good excuse. /nt TheMadMonk Jan 2013 #11
Simply precious, thank you for sharing. mother earth Jan 2013 #7
wow heaven05 Jan 2013 #8
aww barbtries Jan 2013 #9
Thank you for posting this! n/t Dalai_1 Jan 2013 #10
Wisdom from the mouths of babes pecwae Jan 2013 #12
Take comfort in the words of this child... ReRe Jan 2013 #23
that's so true liberal_at_heart Jan 2013 #13
I've never observed people getting nicer with age. Folks usually get meaner. DaveJ Jan 2013 #32
Have faith. I've seen many, many folks get nicer with age. TygrBright Jan 2013 #35
I think people become more completely themselves with age. GaYellowDawg Jan 2013 #49
That's been my observation as well. nt ucralum Jan 2013 #66
Au Contraire! I'm a LOT nicer @ 58 than I was @ 28. pink-o Jan 2013 #60
I have. LWolf Jan 2013 #63
Actually, Pandas are a pretty fucking evil species that have humans duped... snooper2 Jan 2013 #51
there's lots of species that would seem to be mean looking through our prism liberal_at_heart Jan 2013 #72
Ever wonder why...... BrainDrain Jan 2013 #14
So true. Aldo Leopold Jan 2013 #54
Beautiful. nt Granny M Jan 2013 #15
Monday Morning Tears for my 16-year-old Martin Eden Jan 2013 #16
my younger son's cat is 17 riverbendviewgal Jan 2013 #25
my cousin's cat lived to 21. pansypoo53219 Jan 2013 #41
My Golden made it 16 years 5 months. In_The_Wind Jan 2013 #76
Lady Leigh must have been well loved and cared for Martin Eden Jan 2013 #85
Earth_First Diclotican Jan 2013 #17
Thank you for this. 99Forever Jan 2013 #18
Thanks for the post. santamargarita Jan 2013 #19
I am worried about my dog........... kooljerk666 Jan 2013 #20
good luck tomorrow renate Jan 2013 #33
That was a wonderful post n/t War Horse Jan 2013 #67
Thank you for Inspiration where I have very little.......... kooljerk666 Jan 2013 #88
Yes. I have this framed, with pics of my 2 beagle-boys ... Myrina Jan 2013 #22
Thanks for posting this story of a Vet, and a little boys wisdom ReRe Jan 2013 #24
Out of the mouth of a child... Historic NY Jan 2013 #26
Out of the mouth of babes Smilo Jan 2013 #27
a beautiful story, children do understand Sunlei Jan 2013 #28
Is that your Rottie looking so lovingly at you? smirkymonkey Jan 2013 #56
Ruth was the rottie, she looks at my husband.She loved to be toweled after a bath :) Sunlei Jan 2013 #57
Awww. I am so sad for your loss. She is really beautiful. They all are. smirkymonkey Jan 2013 #59
Amazing.. virgdem Jan 2013 #29
My heart still aches for all those I've lost- including those even from decades ago and always will. marew Jan 2013 #30
That is so lovely. Chemisse Jan 2013 #31
That was hard to read. I just lost my 7 year old dog MelissaB Jan 2013 #34
I feel your grief. RebelOne Jan 2013 #36
Sorry for your loss (Hugs) DogPawsBiscuitsNGrav Jan 2013 #38
I'm so sorry MelissaB livetohike Jan 2013 #42
Oh, MelissaB pecwae Jan 2013 #43
Thanks everybody! MelissaB Jan 2013 #48
so sorry, it's sad to lose a dog when 7 is the prime of their life. Sunlei Jan 2013 #58
Deeply touching. TheKentuckian Jan 2013 #37
Tears here.... Swede Atlanta Jan 2013 #39
Well, there goes the eye make-up. WinkyDink Jan 2013 #40
We lost our 12 year old on New Years Day DollarBillHines Jan 2013 #44
it is STILL dusty .... nt littlewolf Jan 2013 #45
We (almost) always outlive our pets, and saying goodbye is always devastating... VOX Jan 2013 #46
And I thought I could get through the day without crying... nt Mnemosyne Jan 2013 #47
This message was self-deleted by its author Fedaykin Jan 2013 #50
Why is it so dusty on a snowy day? WoodyD Jan 2013 #52
Ok I just lost it Politicub Jan 2013 #53
Having had to just put down socalgal58 Jan 2013 #55
Very Dusty in here. Flatpicker Jan 2013 #61
a quote Skittles Jan 2013 #62
I also like this one: AngryOldDem Jan 2013 #82
"I strive to be the kind of person my dog thinks I am" Skittles Jan 2013 #83
I feel sorry for the people whose lives have not been touched by the love and companionship namaste2 Jan 2013 #64
So sweet, and so true MissDeeds Jan 2013 #65
annie slept with me the last night PatrynXX Jan 2013 #68
Scuse me... something in my eye... Scootaloo Jan 2013 #69
A few years ago dinger130 Jan 2013 #70
I am so sorry for your losses MissDeeds Jan 2013 #71
That is truly a "Wow" moment. defacto7 Jan 2013 #73
A touching epilogue The Wizard Jan 2013 #74
Crying now... CADEMOCRAT7 Jan 2013 #75
I've had five adopted ferrets TlalocW Jan 2013 #77
Because painful as it may be, we can handle it. flvegan Jan 2013 #78
i thought of this fact too. Duppers Jan 2013 #84
An Epitaph. Manifestor_of_Light Jan 2013 #79
A nice Epitaph, indeed 66 dmhlt Jan 2013 #86
That is so true. tavalon Jan 2013 #81
Thanks For Sharing cantbeserious Jan 2013 #87

Cerridwen

(13,257 posts)
4. The text below; for a little easier reading for less than 20/20 eyes. :)
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:18 AM
Jan 2013

Thank you for posting this, Earth_First.




Why Do Dogs Leave Earth First?
a child answers

Being a veterinarian, I had been called to examine a ten-year-old Irish Wolfhound named Belker. The dog's owners, Ron, his wife Lisa, and their little boy Shane, were all very attached to Belker, and they were hoping for a miracle.

I examined Belker and found that he was dying of cancer. I told the family we couldn't do anything more for Belker, and offered to perform the euthanasia procedure for the old dog in their home.

As we made arrangements, Ron and Lisa told me they thought it would be good for six-year-old Shane to observe the procedure. They felt as though Shane might learn something from the experience.

The next day, I felt the familiar catch in my throat as Belker's family surrounded him. The young boy, Shane seemed so calm, petting the old dog for the last time, that I wondered if he understood what was going on. Within a few minutes, Belker slipped peacefully away.

The little boy seemed to accept Belker's transition without any difficulty or confusion. We sat together for a long time after Belker's Death, wondering aloud about the sad fact that animal lives are shorter than human lives.

Shane, who had been listening quietly, piped up, "I know why."

Startled, we all turned to him. What came out of his mouth next stunned me. I'd never heard a more comforting explanation. It has changed the way I try to live.

He said, "People are born so that they can learn how to live a good life - like loving everybody all the time and being nice, right?"

The Six-year-old continued, "Well, dogs already know how to do that, so they don't have to stay as long."

Cerridwen

(13,257 posts)
6. No problem. :)
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:24 AM
Jan 2013

It's a great sentiment and I'd hate for others to miss it because their eyes are as bad or worse than mine.

Oh, and text to voice software won't read an image, if I remember correctly, so anyone using that software should be able to enjoy the story with the text included.

Please feel free to copy and paste my transcription into the OP if you'd like.



 

heaven05

(18,124 posts)
8. wow
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:43 AM
Jan 2013

I felt a tug at my heart at the beauty and truth coming from this child. Truly good words to start my monday. Thank you.

pecwae

(8,021 posts)
12. Wisdom from the mouths of babes
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:03 AM
Jan 2013

and entirely true. I appreciate this even more today as I'm getting too close to the leaving of my beloved hound. My heart is breaking thinking on it, but I know her love is unconditional and never changing as mine is for her.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
23. Take comfort in the words of this child...
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:06 PM
Jan 2013

...and remember that your hound has had a most wonderful life in your care. Nobody could have loved her as much as you have. Peace...

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
13. that's so true
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:06 AM
Jan 2013

Humans are for the most part a nasty, mean, and greedy species. We have our moments of nicety but they are sporadic moments in between long stretches of meanness. Maybe that's why over the centuries our lifespans have increased, to give us a longer time to try to learn. I don't think it is working.

DaveJ

(5,023 posts)
32. I've never observed people getting nicer with age. Folks usually get meaner.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 01:07 PM
Jan 2013

And we are at a disadvantage being 99% similar to those nasty primates, right out of the gate.

TygrBright

(20,758 posts)
35. Have faith. I've seen many, many folks get nicer with age.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 02:06 PM
Jan 2013

In my own family, too.

Age changes people in many ways. Yes, some people get meaner and more cussed. Others get more laid-back and tolerant. Being able to look into your past and remind yourself, "Yeah, I survived that, I'll survive this, too-- and this SHALL pass" can have a remarkably mellowing effect on some people.

encouragingly,
Bright

pink-o

(4,056 posts)
60. Au Contraire! I'm a LOT nicer @ 58 than I was @ 28.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:03 PM
Jan 2013

But even at my worst, my dogs always loved me.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
63. I have.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:33 PM
Jan 2013

Observed people getting nicer with age.

It can take a long time to learn some of the things that make a person "nice."

patience

more tolerance, less judgement...usually comes from a life of making your own mistakes, growing and becoming more aware, and observing others grow and become more aware, leading to less arrogance, more humility, more generosity.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
51. Actually, Pandas are a pretty fucking evil species that have humans duped...
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 05:50 PM
Jan 2013


This may sound heretical or even downright mean. But let's not mince words: pandas are evil. Oh, but they're so cute, you say, and chubby and fluffy and bumbling. They have those sweet, complacent smiles, and they eat bamboo! Well, listen here. The first step to getting over pandas is to imagine the coloration of their black-and-white fur as being the inverse of what it is — you see? Now it's less of a cuddly exotic woodland creature and more of a freakishly large raccoon. Slothful to the point of being circumspect, pandas loll around, knowing full well that most of the humans in their midst will fall for their deceptive, charming spell.

What most people don't realize is that pandas have us duped. They are the one species in the animal kingdom that seems to live outside the realm of Darwinian science. Most creatures in the universe follow German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche's axiom: a creature "will strive to grow, spread, seize, become predominant ... because it is living and because life simply is will to power." Pandas didn't seem to get the memo. They have no will to live or reproduce. To this day, scientists have to perform grotesque procedures to keep the panda population from collapsing into oblivion. Forget about the fact that pandas are mean-spirited, mate-abusing, progeny-mauling, deviant monsters. Forget about the fact that these hoodlum bears have conned humanity with their supposed cuteness. The most evil thing about pandas? The cunning with which they expose the stupidity of humans.



Read more: http://www.time.com/time/specials/packages/article/0,28804,2074429_2074446_2074791,00.html #ixzz2HKSBE261

liberal_at_heart

(12,081 posts)
72. there's lots of species that would seem to be mean looking through our prism
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 12:26 AM
Jan 2013

but they are just being animals. Some species are loners. Some have societies. Those with socities have their own set of rules. We apparently according to our societal rules are suppose to try to become nicer although in general I don't think we're very successful at it.

 

BrainDrain

(244 posts)
14. Ever wonder why......
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:34 AM
Jan 2013

children seem to know or see the truth of it when adults don't or can't? I think their innocence gives them an insight that as adults, we have long lost. Too bad, we adults could use alot more of that kind of insight. Thanks for sharing that story.

Aldo Leopold

(685 posts)
54. So true.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 07:22 PM
Jan 2013

Kids never fail to stun, amaze, and inspire if you just take the time to really listen to them.

And thanks, Earth First, for posting this wonderful story!

Martin Eden

(12,863 posts)
16. Monday Morning Tears for my 16-year-old
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:37 AM
Jan 2013

On December 3rd our Yellow Lab Hunny reached an extraordinary milestone for a large dog -- her 16th birthday.

She still eats her food, gets up and goes outside without help, and doesn't appear to be in pain. As long as this lasts, her time has not yet come. But my wife and I know her time remaining with us is short. We both hope that when we come home from work one day we'll find she passed away peacefully in her sleep, because taking her in to put her down will be hard. Very hard.


Thank you for posting this heartwarming story. Every little bit helps.

riverbendviewgal

(4,252 posts)
25. my younger son's cat is 17
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:16 PM
Jan 2013

Last edited Mon Jan 7, 2013, 03:09 PM - Edit history (1)

He came to live with me in 1999 when my younger son died. In 2009 I gave Mochey the cat to my older son because I moved into my boyfriends house. We wanted to travel and not have to keep looking for a cat sitter.

my older son moved to England last January. He was taking Mochey too but one vet said the cat had an irregular heart beat and would not sign the papers. A friend rec'd a holistic vet who checked out Mochey and signed him as OK. The vet said why keep him from his family., he will die someday and his chances of living through the flight were good. Well Mochey is enjoying life as an English puss. He is still running up the stairs and napping in the sun. His earth mission still continues on.

pansypoo53219

(20,972 posts)
41. my cousin's cat lived to 21.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 02:58 PM
Jan 2013

my 1st pair were like 18/19 + 21 or so. i was 5 or so when i picked him.


i also think they live shorter so we can met more pets. on my 3rd pair. but i have to say. THREE cats is best, no more 1 cat left, cause 0 cats sucks. gotta have spares.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
76. My Golden made it 16 years 5 months.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:11 AM
Jan 2013

Lady Leigh was pure love from beginning to end.
I love having dogs for what they unselfishly give to me.
I hate it that their time on earth is always too short.



May all of Hunny's days continue to be good ones.

Martin Eden

(12,863 posts)
85. Lady Leigh must have been well loved and cared for
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 08:20 AM
Jan 2013

12 years is a much more typical lifespan for retrievers. They give so much to us, but how well and how long they live depends on what we give to them. Several of my friends have dogs they love, but they're very "liberal" with food and the dogs are obese. Our Hunny has always been a trim 70-75 lbs, with a healthy canine diet. She's traveled to many states with us on vacations where the activity involves lots of hiking. Summer 2012 was the first year we didn't go, because sorry to say Hunny's hiking days are over. But we do whatver she can do, and it makes me feel better knowing she's had a very good life.

In August we added a new member to our family, a black lab/terrier mix named Winnie. She's a bundle of energy and very smart. Many good years to look forward to. Life is good, when shared with such companions.

Diclotican

(5,095 posts)
17. Earth_First
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:44 AM
Jan 2013

Earth_First

Small kids often look at the obvious - and say it out load as they see it.. And it is maybe true -dogs do know what to do - to be kind, to love, to care..To live a good life.

Diclotican

 

kooljerk666

(776 posts)
20. I am worried about my dog...........
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:04 PM
Jan 2013

he has been limping for 2 weeks & xrays tomorrow.

If anything happens to him, I don't know if I can go on..................

I hope The Rainbow Bridge is true, cause I will be ready.

ANd see, Domino, Bandit, Barney, Fred, Daisy, Bear & Sammy who is my best & only friend goes to vet tomorrow.

http://www.petloss.com/rainbowbridge.htm

renate

(13,776 posts)
33. good luck tomorrow
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 01:27 PM
Jan 2013

Maybe he just stepped on a thorn or something.

I'm a little worried about you from your post... you have a community of people here who care about you. Of course it's not the same as a best friend who lives with you and adores you unconditionally, and vice versa, but he isn't your only friend. And should the news tomorrow not be what you hope for, you could always volunteer at a shelter or work with animals in a way that honors him; it sounds like you have a lot of love to give and dogs are the perfect recipients because they return it with their whole hearts. But mainly I just wanted to say that I hope that the vet tells you that the limp is nothing and that the news is all good.

 

kooljerk666

(776 posts)
88. Thank you for Inspiration where I have very little..........
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 04:40 PM
Jan 2013

He got his x-rays today & noting is broke or torn. The only thing I could find on dogs sucking/chewing feet was Probiotics & Prednesone. Due to the anesthesia Dr sez no "roids" for a few days. I got some high powered foot cleaner pads, probiotics for food & if I need to he will get his roids & wear a lampshade till the irritation stops.

My dog is allergic to 22 things & we feed him Canadae food & treats but I got a couple huge boxes of milk bone with color dyes & I wonder if something in their is bothering him. At any rate nothing but Canadae from now on.

I am gonna inherit a good amount of cash someday & may start my own shelter or just give it to an existing one if I can put a mobile home on it to retire in. I have no desire to piss it away on fun cause I have already done most things 99% of the population just watches on TV. Scuba diver, 175mph motorcycles, 5 years of Kung Fu, Reiki Master, Chi Kung practice(Mantek Chia all courses up to Lesser Kan & Li) hung with wiccans & Haitian VooDoo community.............flew & landed airplanes etc.

I registered here about 5 years ago & did not post till last year and last January I had a TBI & was pronounced dead, I was out of the Hospital in less than 10 days. My temper & attitude are not that easy to control................

At any rate thank you for the kindness, I was so upset yesterday I was ready to quit & today I feel ok.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
22. Yes. I have this framed, with pics of my 2 beagle-boys ...
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:06 PM
Jan 2013

... one of whom left us last year at age 14, and the other - 13 years young with a bad heart murmur - still my closest pal.

They have made - and changed - my life in so many ways.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
24. Thanks for posting this story of a Vet, and a little boys wisdom
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:15 PM
Jan 2013

Truly an example of "Out of the mouths of babes."

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
28. a beautiful story, children do understand
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:32 PM
Jan 2013

Isn't it remarkable how each dog is so different in personality like people.? To me that is the saddest part of losing them, there will never be another like them.

I miss you "Ruth" you could say your name, so loyal and and always tried your very best. I miss you "Axis" a huggie boy golden who was always a good boy.

bath day

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smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
56. Is that your Rottie looking so lovingly at you?
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 08:14 PM
Jan 2013

That is such a sweet photo! It breaks my heart. The love of my life was a Rottweiler (although I have loved a lot of other dogs) but they are just so soulful and intelligent and it was so sad to lose her. I still think about her every day.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
57. Ruth was the rottie, she looks at my husband.She loved to be toweled after a bath :)
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 08:32 PM
Jan 2013

yes, I can understand how you will always think about your girl and miss her.

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
59. Awww. I am so sad for your loss. She is really beautiful. They all are.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 09:28 PM
Jan 2013

I can understand your pain. They always leave such a big hole when they go, don't they?

marew

(1,588 posts)
30. My heart still aches for all those I've lost- including those even from decades ago and always will.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 12:39 PM
Jan 2013

Just the thought of being separated from the two angels I have now brings me to tears- just like this story did.

They are so intertwined in our lives and we are so better for it.

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
36. I feel your grief.
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 02:16 PM
Jan 2013

I also lost a dog to cancer. My 13-year-old Rottweiler had inoperable cancer. I tried to ease her pain with medications and finally had to give in to the fact that she was only going to get worse. So I had to make that final visit to the vet with her.

I know how hard it is to lose a dog that was probably like your child. This was in 2010, but I still grieve for her. I had her cremated and have her ashes. At least I feel that she is still with me.

livetohike

(22,138 posts)
42. I'm so sorry MelissaB
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 03:08 PM
Jan 2013

I lost a 7 year old dog to cancer almost 26 years ago and I miss him every day . There have been other dogs since Smokey (including the two I have now). Gone too soon....hope your good memories will help ease the sadness.

MelissaB

(16,420 posts)
48. Thanks everybody!
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 05:05 PM
Jan 2013
It wasn't a great Christmas this year, but I know I gave her a good life while she was with us.

DollarBillHines

(1,922 posts)
44. We lost our 12 year old on New Years Day
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 03:43 PM
Jan 2013

Right at sunset, the dog just dropped like a rock.

We had a few glasses of wine while reminiscing, sharing fond memories, carried her down to the creek and buried her by moonlight.

VOX

(22,976 posts)
46. We (almost) always outlive our pets, and saying goodbye is always devastating...
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 04:11 PM
Jan 2013

Even when it's far better to ease the suffering of the beloved pet -- a family member, actually -- it still tears one's heart, sometimes irreparably.

I had a very special bond, unusually close, to my snowshoe cat, Dobbs. He'd had a rough start in life, losing a hind leg to an animal bite; to me, his disability made him all the more unique and endearing, and I adopted him on the spot. From that day forward, every time life threw something difficult my way, or when I ran into my own medical headwinds, I'd just think, "If Dobbs can lose a leg and still be loving and cheerful and funny and nutty, well, whatever I'm facing is small stuff."

Two years ago, my little boy quite suddenly lost his life to a saddle thrombosis. It was swift and unexpected. He was a good friend for 11 years, and taught me so much. My wife and I have other cats, but the connection I had with Dobbs was one in a million. I expect I'll miss him until the day I die.

Well, now that I've cheered everybody up...

Response to Earth_First (Original post)

WoodyD

(215 posts)
52. Why is it so dusty on a snowy day?
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 06:33 PM
Jan 2013

Darn tricky "snow dust" getting in my eyes . . . I Googled for a half-remembered quote but couldn't find it. I thought it was Sir Walter Scott. Something like "it is a design flaw in the universe that we outlive our dogs." But I did find this:

“I have sometimes thought of the final cause of dogs having such short lives and I am quite satisfied it is in compassion to the human race; for if we suffer so much in losing a dog after an acquaintance of ten or twelve years, what would it be if they were to live double that time?"

- Sir Walter Scott

I think both my dogs need a hug now . . .

socalgal58

(19 posts)
55. Having had to just put down
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 07:45 PM
Jan 2013

my beautiful, sweet, goofy greyhound last Thursday, this was timely. She didn't have nearly enough time on this earth (6 years) or with us (18 months), but she had a profound impact on us. Parting with a dear friend is never easy and the sadness I feel will be with me for a long time, but the words of a child go a long way in helping to ease the pain.

namaste2

(74 posts)
64. I feel sorry for the people whose lives have not been touched by the love and companionship
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:40 PM
Jan 2013

of a canine. Isn't it amazing how many ways their lives have added so much to ours that we can never repay all they do for us. It is actually been proven that even just petting a sweet dog will lower our blood pressure. I believe they are angels on earth. Thank you so much for posting such a great story. I immediately felt the dust storm that seems to be going around tonight.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
65. So sweet, and so true
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 10:41 PM
Jan 2013

Just four weeks ago we had to put our twelve and a half year old bichon to sleep. He woke up one morning vomiting...I thought he had the flu again as he had it in the past. I took him to the vet that morning, and within three days we had to do the unthinkable. His liver was failing and two vets assured us there was no hope and he would only become weaker and would suffer. It was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. I have cried every day since. "Boo Bear" was the sweetest, most loving little fellow who showed me every day what unconditional love and loyalty are all about. His passing has left a terrible void in my life. I'm not sure if I believe in a hereafter, but I am comforted by Will Rogers' words..."If there are no dogs in heaven, then when I die, I want to go where they went." Me too, Will.

K&R

PatrynXX

(5,668 posts)
68. annie slept with me the last night
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:10 PM
Jan 2013

couldn't bear to go. mom and dad did. unfortunately dad came away with the wrong message and really started hating me once she left. This brings a knot in my throat even after all that.

dinger130

(199 posts)
70. A few years ago
Mon Jan 7, 2013, 11:49 PM
Jan 2013

one of my two dogs was out in front of my home and a mountain lion scooped him up and he was gone. I had him for 19 years. My other dog, aged 20 was blind and soon after the mountain lion incident lost her ability to walk. I put her down. I will never forget what the vet said after giving her the injection. He looked at me and said, "Now she can see."

After several very sad days, I decided to get another dog. It was the best decision I ever made. Dogs give comfort and take care of us. We may like to think that we are the ones that are taking care of them, but it's the other way around. They teach us. They teach us to treat everyone well and to live a good life. They fill our days. Its not about what you may have materially, it's about love, something you may not or can not anticipate.

I like to think about them. They comfort me. My heart remembers still.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
71. I am so sorry for your losses
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 12:01 AM
Jan 2013

Your post is a beautiful tribute to them... "Dogs give comfort and take care of us." Yes, they do. Thanks for sharing this. As someone who is still mourning the loss of a beloved dog, I will remember your words.

defacto7

(13,485 posts)
73. That is truly a "Wow" moment.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 12:33 AM
Jan 2013

Very wonderful story. Kids and dogs, the 2 most intuitive kinds of people in the world.

The Wizard

(12,541 posts)
74. A touching epilogue
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 12:41 AM
Jan 2013

On January 4, 1993, the cat in this book and the books that preceded it was put to sleep in Kerrville, Texas, by DR. W.H. Hoegemeyer and myself. Cuddles was fourteen years old, a respectable age. She was as close to me as any human being I have ever known.
Cuddles and I spent many years together, both in New York, where I found her as a little kitten on the street in Chinatown, and later on the ranch in Texas. She was always with me, on the table, on the bed, by the fireplace, beside the typewriter, on top of my suitcase when I returned from a trip.
I dug Cuddles' grave with a silver spade, in the little garden by the stream behind the old green trailer where both of us lived in the summertime. Her burial shroud was my old New York sweatshirt and in the grave with her is a can of tuna and a cigar.
A few days ago I received a sympathy note from Bill Hoegemeyer, the veterinarian. It opened with a verse by Irving Townsend: "We who choose to surround ourselves with lives even more temporary than our own live within a fragile circle…"
Now as I write this, on a gray winter day by the fireside, I can almost feel her light tread moving from my head and my heart down through my fingertips to the keys of the typewriter. People may surprise you with unexpected kindness. Dogs have a depth of loyalty that we often seem unworthy of. But the love of a cat is a blessing, a privilege in this world.
They say when you die and go to heaven all the dogs and cats you ever owned in your life come running to meet you.
Until that day, rest in peace Cuddles.
Kinky Friedman
Madina, Texas
February 5, 1993
I miss all my cats. Each of them made me a better human.

TlalocW

(15,380 posts)
77. I've had five adopted ferrets
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 01:49 AM
Jan 2013

In the past 10-12 years. You're lucky to get ferrets to 5-6 years. Eight-nine years is almost unheard of. In such a short span of time, they go from being carpet sharks full of energy and fun to a really fast decline where it becomes very clear their quality of life is almost nil. I've always adopted grown ferrets that others can't take care of. I recently had to have my last one put to sleep. I think she was actually 6 to 7 years old. With the loss of each one, I wonder why our pets, who seem to live for the sole purpose of loving us and bringing joy to our lives, only get to live so long. This is a good explanation.

TlalocW

flvegan

(64,407 posts)
78. Because painful as it may be, we can handle it.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:15 AM
Jan 2013

A dog lives for his or her person. Pines for them when gone. I can't imagine a greater suffering than a dog that loses his or her person. A whole world ended.

Duppers

(28,120 posts)
84. i thought of this fact too.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 07:44 AM
Jan 2013

I don't want to leave my babies with such a fate! So, as heartbreaking as it absolutely will be, this old gal is therefore determined to outlive them. They deserve no less.

I've cried throughout reading the touching remembrances of the special critters in this thread. My heart aches not only for the Loves I've lost but for my fellow DUers' losses as well. Such warm and loving folks here.

 

Manifestor_of_Light

(21,046 posts)
79. An Epitaph.
Tue Jan 8, 2013, 02:38 AM
Jan 2013

Lord Byron's Inscription on the Monument of a Newfoundland Dog:

Near this spot are deposited the remains of one who possessed Beauty without Vanity,
Strength without Insolence,
Courage without Ferocity,
and all the Virtues of Man, without his Vices.

This Praise, which would be unmeaning Flattery if inscribed over human ashes is but a just tribute to the Memory of Boatswain, a Dog.



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