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Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:30 AM Mar 2013

DU is not a comfortable place for quite a few of us and hasn't been for a long time

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by Turborama (a host of the General Discussion forum).

I'm not going to go into specifics but I read plenty of "bashing" on DU that seems directly aimed at me, my race, my gender, my age, my sexual orientation, my birth cohort, my "too left" politics (I still haven't got my pony) and even (particularly?) where I live is subject for prejudiced comment on DU on a remarkably regular basis. Bear in mind that only two of the things I mentioned are under my control to any extent, my politics and where I live, the rest of the things I list are innate characteristics about which I can do nothing.

So I say to DU Catholics, welcome to the club, everyone gets made uncomfortable on DU from time to time and for some of us it would be a more than daily occurrence if our skin were so thin that we let the often ignorant opinions of others get under it.

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DU is not a comfortable place for quite a few of us and hasn't been for a long time (Original Post) Fumesucker Mar 2013 OP
Your race? UnrepentantLiberal Mar 2013 #1
... Fumesucker Mar 2013 #4
Excellent post! Le Taz Hot Mar 2013 #2
Often feel like I need to start any post with a list of things I'm not saying Fumesucker Mar 2013 #7
Good post. It's a discussion forum not an echo chamber Demo_Chris Mar 2013 #3
It's truly amazing how many people here skepticscott Mar 2013 #8
Too true... dkf Mar 2013 #5
Don't be silly skepticscott Mar 2013 #6
Have you priced lumber lately? Fumesucker Mar 2013 #10
Locking Turborama Mar 2013 #9
 

UnrepentantLiberal

(11,700 posts)
1. Your race?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:36 AM
Mar 2013

Your birth cohort?

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
4. ...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:03 AM
Mar 2013

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
2. Excellent post!
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:45 AM
Mar 2013

I figure if you haven't somehow offended someone or been offended by someone on DU by the end of your first week, you're just not doing it right.

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
7. Often feel like I need to start any post with a list of things I'm not saying
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:11 AM
Mar 2013

It's really hard to be both concise and accurate, everything you say can and will be misinterpreted and used against you in a court of public opinion.

 

Demo_Chris

(6,234 posts)
3. Good post. It's a discussion forum not an echo chamber
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 05:53 AM
Mar 2013

If someone cannot defend their positions or beliefs then it's bloody well time to reconsider them.

And you should anyway. You should constantly reexamine the things you believe. Why else are you here if not this?

 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
8. It's truly amazing how many people here
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:12 AM
Mar 2013

think they shouldn't have to. "this is what I believe, and I don't have to defend it to you" gets said a lot around here. Well, if you're going to post your opinions and beliefs on a public discussion board, yeah you kinda do...or they're going to get knocked down.

I get the distinct impression that a lot of people come onto this site never having had to defend their positions against any intelligent criticism.

 

dkf

(37,305 posts)
5. Too true...
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:06 AM
Mar 2013
 

skepticscott

(13,029 posts)
6. Don't be silly
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:07 AM
Mar 2013

Everyone knows that Catholics here are singled out for criticism and "bashing", just as they have been all through history. Right??

Fumesucker

(45,851 posts)
10. Have you priced lumber lately?
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:13 AM
Mar 2013


Turborama

(22,109 posts)
9. Locking
Mon Mar 18, 2013, 06:12 AM
Mar 2013

As it violates the "No whining about DU" SOP: http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=about&forum=1002

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