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jakeXT

(10,575 posts)
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 06:33 AM Jun 2013

11-Year-Old Boy Impregnates Friend’s Mom

An 11-year-old Auckland boy fathered a child after having sex with a school friend's 36-year-old mother.

Contact between the boy and the woman reportedly began right around April of last year, when the boy was 11.

The woman's son took a day off school and encouraged his friend to do likewise, spending the day at his home.

During the course of the day, the woman gave the boy beer and then later took part in a sexual encounter with him.

http://www.opposingviews.com/i/society/headlines/11-year-old-boy-impregnates-friend-s-mom

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11-Year-Old Boy Impregnates Friend’s Mom (Original Post) jakeXT Jun 2013 OP
Sick, sick, SICK DiverDave Jun 2013 #1
Not "get rid of that baby" Aerows Jun 2013 #16
does no one here read? TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #28
Thank goodness Aerows Jun 2013 #34
One of these days, that poor kid is going to learn about his birth parents derby378 Jun 2013 #100
This message was self-deleted by its author Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #2
That's your response to an 11 year old being raped & exploited like this? hlthe2b Jun 2013 #8
There are ~7,000,000,000 people on this planet. Absolutely everything that you can imagine, Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #21
That you make light of pedophilia says everything I (or anyone here) needs to know hlthe2b Jun 2013 #22
Yeah, well enjoy the rage. I'll be losing much sleep over your opinion, I'm sure. n/t Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #30
Nice try, but NO. undeterred Jun 2013 #31
Not trying anything. But it is reassuring to know that it is still simplicity itself to Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #44
It's curious that you had those so readily available at your fingertips Orrex Jun 2013 #48
Yeah, it took all of a minute to scroll down the page. Another curious thing Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #63
Well, I've seen your posts. Orrex Jun 2013 #68
Let me highlight the pertinent parts of your comment MattBaggins Jun 2013 #87
Why yes. I think that I made it perfectly clear that your opinion, as well as that of the rest Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #94
Posting about a child rape in Penthouse undeterred Jun 2013 #69
Swing and a fucking miss... n/t Earth_First Jun 2013 #50
So it is funny because worse things happen daily. LOL, you are a class act. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #65
So you're not going to join my fan club? Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #67
sick puppy. Whisp Jun 2013 #92
I said "if the victim's parents support it." I also said Ilsa Jun 2013 #79
Don't get upset about anything because something worse may happen. Oh. Kay. uppityperson Jun 2013 #107
+1 In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #45
This message was self-deleted by its author Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #49
Fucking disgusting Cal Carpenter Jun 2013 #53
Wow, classy. A normal person would self delete. I doubt you will. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #60
Oh, and here's another one. Oh my... Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #64
Sick post by you. No one is defending it but you. And you still are trying. Some idiots have.... Logical Jun 2013 #66
This message was self-deleted by its author Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #70
he's the DUer that jokes about raping kids. and the jury let it stand. what a pile of shit. bettyellen Jun 2013 #78
Rape In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #3
Poor kid Aerows Jun 2013 #17
It didn't say anything about the principal calling child protective services. In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #23
It's in one of the links within the article Shrek Jun 2013 #37
Thank you. My computer service is slowing me down again. In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #39
After a couple of beers, safeinOhio Jun 2013 #4
You really think this is fucking funny? 11 year old raped and you make a sick joke. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #62
Jury Results aikoaiko Jun 2013 #84
The boy was raped. Why does the article's headline not indicate this? Orrex Jun 2013 #5
CNN wrote the headline mercuryblues Jun 2013 #14
I know. Orrex Jun 2013 #15
They don't call it "rape" when it's a girl victim either gollygee Jun 2013 #83
Good point--it should be called what it is in all cases Orrex Jun 2013 #86
This, exactly. The 11 year old boy did not impregnate anyone. The 36 year old woman raped the Squinch Jun 2013 #128
This stuff is common in Japanese porn. Archae Jun 2013 #6
I seriously doubt that AsahinaKimi Jun 2013 #108
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2013 #7
This woman needs to be charged for rape boston bean Jun 2013 #9
Absolutely Aerows Jun 2013 #18
Yes. nt LWolf Jun 2013 #99
grrrrrrr SummerSnow Jun 2013 #10
I believe this might be the one time that a forced Ilsa Jun 2013 #11
Unbelievable......... ForeignandDomestic Jun 2013 #61
She's a rapist and a pedophile. Ilsa Jun 2013 #76
She is a rapist and a pedophile and woman and a human whopis01 Jun 2013 #90
So it's okay if a person has a child out there, Ilsa Jun 2013 #93
If they don't want to know - yes whopis01 Jun 2013 #116
This is about The Victim having the choice Ilsa Jun 2013 #137
Even criminals have human rights. whopis01 Jun 2013 #158
Thank you and exactly. eom uppityperson Jun 2013 #144
If a woman raped a man at gunpoint and got pregnant, the choice is STILL up to her. The pregnant uppityperson Jun 2013 #120
This isn't about her stealing from a dollar store. Ilsa Jun 2013 #136
I am saying no one should force any woman to have an abortion, period. CHOICE is choice. uppityperson Jun 2013 #143
And I'm saying when there is a victim involved, Ilsa Jun 2013 #151
There can be things put in place to not have contact. If the victim gets pg, then it is her choice. uppityperson Jun 2013 #155
So if it is the victim's choice whopis01 Jun 2013 #159
If it is the victim's choice to not be connected Ilsa Jun 2013 #165
To simply say that I "don't like forced abortion" misses the point of my argument whopis01 Jun 2013 #166
That would have the victim sacrifice his Ilsa Jun 2013 #167
That is not a fundamental right. And "An abortion, especially if medical, is noninvasive"? What? uppityperson Jun 2013 #168
Your Wiki definitions Ilsa Jun 2013 #169
Your goalpost changing does not go unnoticed. eom uppityperson Jun 2013 #170
Amen TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #150
Agree, the person raped gets to decide. cbdo2007 Jun 2013 #164
Wow. WVU Jun 2013 #12
Where in here are you reading comments Aerows Jun 2013 #19
try #2 and #4 for starters n/t TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #26
My bad Aerows Jun 2013 #33
You might take another look at replies 2 & 4 Orrex Jun 2013 #27
Sorry, I didn't get the jokes Aerows Jun 2013 #32
Yeah, we're on the same page about that. Orrex Jun 2013 #38
And it's sick as hell Aerows Jun 2013 #40
and a 4-2 jury considered it comedy gold TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #52
Good grief Aerows Jun 2013 #54
same for the other one except results 3-3 TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #58
Pretty much Aerows Jun 2013 #72
Yes, Skinner failed on the Jury system. It is basically worthless now. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #74
The jury system is a fucking joke. In the old days the Admins would have locked the POS. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #71
I would have locked a bunch of things in this thread Aerows Jun 2013 #73
yep. n-t Logical Jun 2013 #75
Hello ~ WVU In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #24
Thanks! WVU Jun 2013 #43
It's nothing to laugh about. In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #47
I was just going to say the same thing TorchTheWitch Jun 2013 #25
Thanks! WVU Jun 2013 #41
Correction. Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #160
Women are horny as hell at the age B Calm Jun 2013 #13
What the hell? Aerows Jun 2013 #36
Sigh! In_The_Wind Jun 2013 #42
Are you fucking serious?? a la izquierda Jun 2013 #77
Three stooges voted to keep this post Scootaloo Jun 2013 #103
There is something so sick about the jurying in this thread Number23 Jun 2013 #119
What the fuck would you know about women? one_voice Jun 2013 #118
A woman is so horny she drugs an 11 yr old and rapes him? Good lord, it isn't about being "horny" uppityperson Jun 2013 #121
What? Texasgal Jun 2013 #134
Jesus Christ. This is not about "horny" women. MadrasT Jun 2013 #139
There are so many things wrong with that Le Taz Hot Jun 2013 #161
not sex- it's called rape of a child or pedophilia sigmasix Jun 2013 #20
+1 n/t Aerows Jun 2013 #35
People need to know chervilant Jun 2013 #29
+1 ... and it's good to see people picking up on the way these things are framed redqueen Jun 2013 #110
"36-year old adult rapes 11-year old child". Nye Bevan Jun 2013 #46
Headline should read: Friend's mom rapes 11 year old boy Sanity Claws Jun 2013 #51
NZ laws are different- Present legislation stipulates the crime of rape applies only when men force Sunlei Jun 2013 #55
omg. sick. La Lioness Priyanka Jun 2013 #56
She belongs in Sudden Valley rucky Jun 2013 #57
I have 2 young sons. I find nothing hilarious or sexually titillating about this story at all. Butterbean Jun 2013 #59
That poor kid. nt msanthrope Jun 2013 #80
On an entirely different line of thought.... Bigmack Jun 2013 #81
It's child sexual abuse. End of story. n/t duffyduff Jun 2013 #82
Someone whose opinion I do respect asked me to delete my post, so it's gone. Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #85
In other words, rather than remaining silent Orrex Jun 2013 #88
Oh my, a personal attack from a hall-monitor, how ever will I cope? Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #96
Why don't you tell us more about how trivial you consider child rape to be? Orrex Jun 2013 #97
I don't (despite your pejorative). I consider you trivial. n/t Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #98
Well, everyone in this thread recognizes you to be a rape comedian Orrex Jun 2013 #105
Oh my, whatever shall I do? You have all been such a wonderfully tolerant and Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #111
You do indeed carry on. Orrex Jun 2013 #117
And yet, you seem to suffer from some sort of keyboard compulsion that just won't let you walk away. Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #123
As a rape comedian, you have no credibility in judging others Orrex Jun 2013 #135
If I'm the comedian, why is it that I'm the one laughing at you? Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #141
I suppose you might be laughing at me because you're a simpleton Orrex Jun 2013 #147
+1,000,000,000. Thank You. Tarheel_Dem Jun 2013 #131
Thanks the gods you're here to save us from non-stories like this... kiva Jun 2013 #89
Thank whatever delusion you like. Your opinions shall remain insignificant. n/t Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #95
I'm sure they now respect you a little less. demmiblue Jun 2013 #106
I'm really impressed that you thought so much of me that you spent the time Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #112
YW... it took me approximately ten seconds, so no biggie. demmiblue Jun 2013 #115
rape is a non-story? BainsBane Jun 2013 #109
You know, not commenting on the deletion would have preserved the msanthrope Jun 2013 #113
But that would have given the impression that I give a shit what you think, Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #125
Yes--on a thread about child rape, you laughing and having fun is entirely appropriate.... msanthrope Jun 2013 #126
If you're not going to be any more creative than that the audience is going to lose interest. Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #133
WHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA???? Initech Jun 2013 #91
was the woman charged with Rape ? JI7 Jun 2013 #101
According to NDJ World , who also covered the story... Lady Freedom Returns Jun 2013 #130
They really need to change that law. KitSileya Jun 2013 #156
This case seems to be sparking talks about changing it. Lady Freedom Returns Jun 2013 #157
It is definitely a start. KitSileya Jun 2013 #163
What a bullshit law. HappyMe Jun 2013 #162
That woman deserves to be put away for a long, long time duuser5822 Jun 2013 #102
lets pray for all involved mgcgulfcoast Jun 2013 #104
Sad, but it's not a new thing. n/t AverageJoe90 Jun 2013 #114
Headline should have read-- Woman rapes 11 year old boy. MerryBlooms Jun 2013 #122
I think so! Quantess Jun 2013 #124
More on the story... Lady Freedom Returns Jun 2013 #127
The school knew and did nothing. mimi85 Jun 2013 #129
I think we all know who you mean. I'm floored by the depths of creepiness that one sank to. Squinch Jun 2013 #132
I could throw up. tblue Jun 2013 #138
Message auto-removed Name removed Jun 2013 #140
Shh. You must never admit that here. The arbiters of morality have spoken and no Egalitarian Thug Jun 2013 #142
Rape jokes are not funny except to rapists and their ilk. eom uppityperson Jun 2013 #145
Post removed Post removed Jun 2013 #148
If you think an eleven year old is fair game, you are pretty fucked up. demmiblue Jun 2013 #146
Thank you jurors or MIRT. uppityperson Jun 2013 #149
Yep, but it seems others have the same proclivities. demmiblue Jun 2013 #153
Yes indeed. Orrex Jun 2013 #154
"...woman gave the boy beer and then later took part in a sexual encounter with him. " alp227 Jun 2013 #152

DiverDave

(4,886 posts)
1. Sick, sick, SICK
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 06:51 AM
Jun 2013

what is the matter with that woman?
ELEVEN??
she needs to be in jail, and get rid of that baby.
A 12 year old doesnt need to be a dad.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
16. Not "get rid of that baby"
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:17 AM
Jun 2013

but that poor child needs to be taken away from her and adopted by someone responsible and loving ASAP.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
28. does no one here read?
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:46 AM
Jun 2013

The baby was taken by social services soon after it was born.

Right there in the article.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
34. Thank goodness
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:53 AM
Jun 2013

And it's still early in the morning. I haven't had nearly enough coffee this morning, and shouldn't be posting yet because I've messed up twice in this thread. Sorry.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
100. One of these days, that poor kid is going to learn about his birth parents
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 05:52 PM
Jun 2013

He or she might wind up with great foster parents, but sooner or later the question's going to come up about his mom and dad. "They were killed in a car crash" probably isn't going to fly in the age of the Internet. The child is going to learn sooner or later, and I don't think I want to be anywhere in the vicinity when that happens.

Response to jakeXT (Original post)

hlthe2b

(102,105 posts)
8. That's your response to an 11 year old being raped & exploited like this?
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:52 AM
Jun 2013

I don't find it funny--at all. I'm a little horrified you seem to find this story nothing more than fodder for "Penthouse"...

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
21. There are ~7,000,000,000 people on this planet. Absolutely everything that you can imagine,
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:26 AM
Jun 2013

from the most wonderful to the most horrible, and so much more happens every single day. This event, should it even be true, is nowhere near either end of that range. The only thing that is different about this particular instance is that you have been made aware of it.

Do you honestly believe that a woman being impregnated by a barely pubescent boy is in any way comparable on the scale of daily horror to the probably tens or hundreds of thousands of actual atrocities that were committed yesterday, or will be committed today, and many of them by our own government?

This is the issue you've determined is the one you're going to freak out about today?

What about the 30 year old woman, the 11 year old boy, and the newborn infant that will be turned into a red mist today by a 19 year old American "hero" sitting in an air conditioned office on a military base in Floriduh? Is that OK simply because you won't be told about it?

Somebody else on this very thread is saying that they would support a forced abortion if the child hadn't already been born, but my joke is the problem...

hlthe2b

(102,105 posts)
22. That you make light of pedophilia says everything I (or anyone here) needs to know
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:29 AM
Jun 2013

about you.... That there may be another post that is disgusting does not diminish your own and you do own it.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
63. Yeah, it took all of a minute to scroll down the page. Another curious thing
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:04 AM
Jun 2013

Last edited Sun Jun 16, 2013, 04:24 PM - Edit history (1)

is the striking familiarity of all the names in the swarm.

Feel free to be as outraged as you like over this titillating non-story. I'll choose to pay attention to things that might actually have some effect on me and those I do care about.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
68. Well, I've seen your posts.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:09 AM
Jun 2013

You certainly don't spend all of your time railing against the myriad injustices of this our modern world, so you really don't have any credibility when you complain about others responding to a particular part of that world.


Also, it's pretty easy to gauge the emptiness of a person's rhetoric by observing how quickly that person accuses others of being "outraged." You made it exactly one post into our exchange before you deployed that tactic.


Hmm...

MattBaggins

(7,897 posts)
87. Let me highlight the pertinent parts of your comment
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 01:15 PM
Jun 2013
things that might actually have some effect on ME and those I do care about
 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
94. Why yes. I think that I made it perfectly clear that your opinion, as well as that of the rest
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 04:20 PM
Jun 2013

of your gang, is utterly meaningless to me.

How long did it take you to work that out?

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
79. I said "if the victim's parents support it." I also said
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:29 AM
Jun 2013

it is worth discussing. Don't misrepresent what I said.

My point is that rapists shouldn't get to control their victim's lives by forcing unwanted offspring on them.

Response to Egalitarian Thug (Reply #2)

Cal Carpenter

(4,959 posts)
53. Fucking disgusting
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:37 AM
Jun 2013


What the fuck is wrong with you and the 4 jurors who thought your post was appropriate?

This is an eleven year old boy. What the fuck.

 

Logical

(22,457 posts)
66. Sick post by you. No one is defending it but you. And you still are trying. Some idiots have....
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:07 AM
Jun 2013

trouble admitting they are wrong.

Response to Egalitarian Thug (Reply #2)

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
3. Rape
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:09 AM
Jun 2013
During the course of the day, the woman gave the boy beer and then later took part in a sexual encounter with him.

The sexual contact continued for a number of months after the initial encounter. The boy had turned 12 by the time the child was born.

Social services took the baby into care about two months ago.

The boy approached his principal in his office about two-thirds of the way through the 2012 school year and told him he had a disclosure to make.

"You won't be very happy with me," he recalled the boy saying. He said he had been having sex with his friend's mother "and it needs to stop

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
23. It didn't say anything about the principal calling child protective services.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:32 AM
Jun 2013

School employees are mandated reporters.

Shrek

(3,975 posts)
37. It's in one of the links within the article
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:55 AM
Jun 2013
The principal said the boy was "very aware" of the gravity of the situation and resolute that the inappropriate conduct should stop.

The principal did not hesitate to contact Child, Youth and Family Services, "We got CYF involved the minute we found out about it."

aikoaiko

(34,161 posts)
84. Jury Results
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:04 AM
Jun 2013

I understood what you were trying to accomplish. Two other jurors did too.



AUTOMATED MESSAGE: Results of your Jury Service

At Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:31 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

After a couple of beers,
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=3026359

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus#communitystandards" target="_blank">Community Standards</a>.)

ALERTER'S COMMENTS:

making a joke of the rape of an 11 year old boy??? nobody would say anything so revolting if this were an 11 year old girl. FFS this is sexual abuse of a young child!

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:41 AM, and the Jury voted 3-3 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: I agree with the alert.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT and said: subject very sensative...child molestation
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: I think this comment is a snarky criticism of those who sympathized with adults having sex with 14 year olds. He's not really making fun of the situation. He's making fun of kiddie rapists and their apologists.
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: In the context of the recent story about the two high school kids, I don't see this as violating the TOS.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
5. The boy was raped. Why does the article's headline not indicate this?
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:42 AM
Jun 2013

If a 36 year old man had impregnated an 11 year old girl, you can bet that it wouldn't be framed as a deliberate act by the girl. Certainly not if he'd given her alcohol first.

He would be described as a pedophile, a predator and a monster.


Instead, the article makes it seem like the boy was a consenting partner.

gollygee

(22,336 posts)
83. They don't call it "rape" when it's a girl victim either
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:03 AM
Jun 2013

I've often complained about this. When the victim is a child, it's "sexual molestation" or even just "sexual encounter" or "sex." I don't know why it isn't called "rape" but it absolutely should be.

I do agree that people more often suggest that the boy should be happy about it (as in the penthouse discussion upthread) when it's a boy though.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
86. Good point--it should be called what it is in all cases
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:17 AM
Jun 2013

However, I've been told that we shouldn't be upset about this, because something worse is probably happening somewhere, so it's all good.

Squinch

(50,901 posts)
128. This, exactly. The 11 year old boy did not impregnate anyone. The 36 year old woman raped the
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:40 PM
Jun 2013

11 year old boy.

This thread is disturbing from beginning to end.

AsahinaKimi

(20,776 posts)
108. I seriously doubt that
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:13 PM
Jun 2013

Japanese porn had anything to do with this, and Japan has since made laws against that kind of thing, so why bring it up?

Response to jakeXT (Original post)

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
11. I believe this might be the one time that a forced
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:01 AM
Jun 2013

abortion by the state (if the victim's parents wish it) would be okay. I mean, this crime is so heinous, that I think it might be worth discussing.

I realize she already had the baby, but if she was still pregnant, i would want to discuss it.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
76. She's a rapist and a pedophile.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:21 AM
Jun 2013

She didn't give that 11 year old boy a choice. A choice would have required her to wait 7 years.

Should rapists of any sex force others to bring their children into the world? Even if he isn't physically pregnant? What if he doesn't want his DNA mixed with that of a criminal sociopath?

A child's DNA was stolen and he was forced to become a father at age twelve. Does the victim or his proxy have zero to say in this matter? I think it's a worthwhile discussion of rights if freedom from becoming a parent, regardless of whether he (or his parents) is financially responsible for the offspring.

What if her eggs had been stolen, impregnated and implanted into a surrogate?

whopis01

(3,491 posts)
90. She is a rapist and a pedophile and woman and a human
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 03:43 PM
Jun 2013

To answer your question, it should be up to the surrogate and the surrogate alone whether or not she should have an abortion.

Just because you contribute DNA does not mean you should get any special say over the situation.

The 11 year should have no requirement to have contact or responsibility for the child - but in no way should he or his family be able to demand that someone else - even a criminal - be forced to have an abortion.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
93. So it's okay if a person has a child out there,
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 03:53 PM
Jun 2013

No contact, not knowing if a future offspring might be hooking up with him/her? Not knowing what happened to your flesh and blood? I wouldn't want that and I suspect there are others.

I think you give the rapist too much control over what is happening to the victim. The perpetrator shouldn't have the final say over the victim having a baby.

I completely disagree about the victim's rights when what they only did was unwillingly contribute DNA. I'd feel the same way if a woman raped a grown man at gunpoint.

whopis01

(3,491 posts)
116. If they don't want to know - yes
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:17 PM
Jun 2013

If they don't want to know about the offspring then yes, I am perfectly ok with it.

If they want to know about the offspring then they should be able to know about it.

What they should not be able to do is command that a woman have a force abortion.

In my opinion, and I realize this may not be yours, a fetus is a biological event tied to a woman's body. At least until the point where the fetus is biologically viable on its own (haven't really come to a hard conclusion on that personally - maybe until birth). So as far as I am concerned it is part of her body. That makes it her decision. No matter how fucked up she is. No matter how evil she is.

To force her to have an abortion is akin to cutting off the hand of a thief. Is it a logical conclusion? In some sense, yes... You cut off the hand so the thief can not steal again - you abort the fetus so it will not cause more harm to the victim. But it is a cruel logic. Not the logic of a civilized society.

If the concern is actually that the victim may "be hooking up" with their offspring... As unlikely as that may be... There are other solutions for that. Iceland has a system in place already due to their relatively small, confined population.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
137. This is about The Victim having the choice
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:18 PM
Jun 2013

Not the rapist. http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=3030685

Rape is about control. If the victim doesn't want his DNA combined with his rapist's then I think a safe chemical or surgical abortion is reasonable.

whopis01

(3,491 posts)
158. Even criminals have human rights.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 08:26 AM
Jun 2013

We don't live in a society where the victim gets to decide what happens to the perpetrator of a crime.

And women - all women - have a right to choose what happens to their bodies when it comes to pregnancy.

I understand your concern is with protecting the victim as much as possible. But to say "This is about The Victim" and then throw all other societal impacts out the window is just not acceptable. In fact, what it is doing is allowing the rapist to have far more reaching control and influence over society as a whole. Deciding that women's rights are not quite so absolute sacrifices far more than is gained by such action.

Sacrificing fundamental rights for an immediate benefit is a very dangerous path.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
120. If a woman raped a man at gunpoint and got pregnant, the choice is STILL up to her. The pregnant
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:12 PM
Jun 2013

female, her choice. Period. No forced abortions, no forced childbearing. CHOICE is choice.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
136. This isn't about her stealing from a dollar store.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:12 PM
Jun 2013

You're saying a rape victim has to become a parent, one of the most intimate emotional activities in a lifetime, even if they aren't raising the child. That can't be undone. That's as bad as Congresscritters saying "its God's will" when a woman rape victim gets pregnant. Forcing something else on a male rape victim is as obscene as doing it to a female rape victim. Victims do not normally want their DNA combined with a rapist's.

An abortion is a safe procedure. If the perpetrator is offended by that, then she shouldn't have fucking raped the victim. She violated him, and will continue the violation through a pregnancy. It should always be the victim's choice to continue a pregnancy from rape, not the rapist's.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
143. I am saying no one should force any woman to have an abortion, period. CHOICE is choice.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:22 PM
Jun 2013

I have a lot of sympathy with a raped man but the CHOICE is up to the pregnant woman. She should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law and the resulting baby, if any, be offered first to the raped man and then put up for adoption/taken in by the court system.

It should always be the woman's choice whether or not to continue a pregnancy. Period.

And you can hold your snark, it adds little positive to the discussion.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
151. And I'm saying when there is a victim involved,
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 12:18 AM
Jun 2013

It's their choice. A felony as heinous as rape should negate the perpetrator's right to decide, in favor of the victim. The victim, not the rapist, should decide whether they want a lifelong link to their rapist. The victim's needs supersede the criminal's desires.

Adopted out or not, it's still a lifelong link.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
155. There can be things put in place to not have contact. If the victim gets pg, then it is her choice.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 12:32 AM
Jun 2013

If the pregnant woman is the rapist, still her choice. It is the pregnant woman's choice whether to continue the pregnancy. In cases like this, it is the victim's choice whether or not to have a relationship or any contact with any resulting child. But as far as abortion? It is up to the pregnant woman/girl. Her choice.

You believe in forced abortions in some cases. I understand that. I don't. Ever.

The victim here can have no contact, ever, if he so desires. But not his choice to continue the pregnancy.

whopis01

(3,491 posts)
159. So if it is the victim's choice
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 08:52 AM
Jun 2013

and the victim decides that he wants the child to be born but the rapist wants an abortion what would you have done?

Would you have the rapist be forced to carry the child to full term because there is a victim connected via DNA?

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
165. If it is the victim's choice to not be connected
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 02:45 PM
Jun 2013

to the rapist, then I think there should be an abortion.

If the rapist wants an abortion for herself, fine. The victim shouldn't force her to carry the pregnancy.

But I don't think it's right for a rapist to force their victim to become a parent, whether it is a man or a woman, whether the victim has contact or responsibility, or not.

In three out of four possible scenarios, there would be an abortion because the victim doesn't want to bring a child into the world sharing DNA with a rapist, or because the rapist herself wants an abortion.

Frankly, I don't know why that's so hard to understand. People have the right to decide who they create a baby with, and it needs to be mutual. People search for years for a mate to procreate with. Why would anyone, male or female, abandon their standard because of a rape?

I don't think anyone, male or female, who is victimized should be forced to become a parent (present or not) because they've been raped.

You don't like forced abortion. I don't like forced pregnancy and forced parentage for men any more than for women.

whopis01

(3,491 posts)
166. To simply say that I "don't like forced abortion" misses the point of my argument
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 07:11 PM
Jun 2013

I'll simplify it to be clear.

Pregnancy is a biological process that occurs within the body of a woman. It is that woman's right to decide what happens with her body.


I understand that you disagree with this. I understand that you feel that in the case of rape, at least, the tragedy of a victim being forced to become a parent against their will outweighs the female rapist's right to control her body. You have your opinion and I have mine. And that is fine. I just wanted to be clear that my opinion was not specifically about the concept of forced abortions.

The right of a woman, any woman, to control her body is absolute in my mind. That may trouble some. That may cause pain for some. But that doesn't mean it is the wrong thing. Sacrificing fundamental rights for an immediate benefit is a very dangerous path.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
167. That would have the victim sacrifice his
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 07:44 PM
Jun 2013

fundamental right not to procreate with someone of his choosing.

People like to think it would be a simple thing: big deal if the man has a kid out there. But their wives, partners, even other children could suffer. It is certainly an emotional issue, especially if the parent discovers their offspring is in a horrible living situation like foster care. And I don't trust government in their promise not to keep the father financially responsible.

I'll remind you that there are many things we have to endure medically to conform to laws, including vaccinations, mandated doctors exams, etc. An abortion, especially if medical, is noninvasive. Even an early term surgical abortion carries very little risk.

I maintain that the right to be free of parenting someone else's child conceived in the commission of a felony is every bit as important as the rapist's right to determine what happens in her womb. There are also consequences, sometimes natural, sometimes legal, to criminal behavior.

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
168. That is not a fundamental right. And "An abortion, especially if medical, is noninvasive"? What?
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 11:36 PM
Jun 2013
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fundamental_rights
Fundamental rights are a generally regarded set of legal protections in the context of a legal system, wherein such system is itself said to be based upon this same set of basic, fundamental, or inalienable "rights." Such rights thus belong without presumption or cost of privilege to all human beings under such jurisdiction. The concept of human rights has been promoted as a legal concept in large part owing to the idea that human beings have such "fundamental" rights, such that transcend all jurisdiction, but are typically reinforced in different ways and with different emphasis within different legal systems.


http://www.casebriefs.com/blog/law/constitutional-law/outline-constitutional-law-law/equal-protection-outline-constitutional-law-law/fundamental-rights/

"An abortion, especially if medical, is noninvasive." What other type abortions are there besides medical? If you meant the abortion pill, that works only to 59/60 days.

Ilsa

(61,688 posts)
169. Your Wiki definitions
Tue Jun 18, 2013, 09:34 AM
Jun 2013

do not change how any one who has been raped feel about forced pregnancy and forced parenting. That's a lifelong abomination.

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
150. Amen
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 12:12 AM
Jun 2013

Her body, her choice. Period. Doesn't matter if she's a criminal or the most heinous person on earth. It's still her body and still her choice. Neither forced abortion nor forced childbearing is remotely acceptable. Both remove a woman's right to her own body.

cbdo2007

(9,213 posts)
164. Agree, the person raped gets to decide.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 09:39 AM
Jun 2013

though knowing DU, many people here would be happy for her to have the baby and start making the kid pay child support.

 

WVU

(40 posts)
12. Wow.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:02 AM
Jun 2013

Some of the comments in here are truly disgusting. A kid got raped and some people want to joke about it. Super.

Barf.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
19. Where in here are you reading comments
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:20 AM
Jun 2013

that people are thinking this is anything but pedophilia and rape of a child? I've yet to see one.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
33. My bad
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:51 AM
Jun 2013

I didn't get the jokes . This is absolutely horrifying, and to see someone commenting as a brush-off is entirely stupid. As was my comment that no one did. I didn't realize what the posters were implying.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
32. Sorry, I didn't get the jokes
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:49 AM
Jun 2013
I guess I didn't read them enough. I don't see this as something to joke about at all

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
38. Yeah, we're on the same page about that.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:55 AM
Jun 2013

Sadly, though, it illustrates the point that I was making previously; if a 36-year-old male had impregnated an 11-year-old girl, no one would be joking about it.

However, since the genders are reversed, some people think it's comedy gold.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
40. And it's sick as hell
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:56 AM
Jun 2013

Either way. It says a lot of shameful things about society that anyone could consider this "comedy gold".

TorchTheWitch

(11,065 posts)
58. same for the other one except results 3-3
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:49 AM
Jun 2013

I can see now why I was the only one to bother sending alerts. Might as well get rid of any moderation system here since this one is clearly worthless.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
72. Pretty much
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:16 AM
Jun 2013

It took a lot of energy to be a moderator, but this one is no moderation at all, pretty much, unless it is so egregious that it burns your eyes to look at it.

 

WVU

(40 posts)
43. Thanks!
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:59 AM
Jun 2013

And that's real good. I hate reading stories about victimized kids of either sex, then finding out it's all one big laugh riot to a few folks.

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
160. Correction.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 09:02 AM
Jun 2013

ONE person (who is now on my Ignore list) made a "joke" and was called on it. As far as the "forced abortion" shit I've seen it on here before. Too many are pro-choice until they're not. Back when Michelle Dugger was pregnant with her 20th child, you should have seen these "pro choice" people screaming about forced sterility.

Number23

(24,544 posts)
119. There is something so sick about the jurying in this thread
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:02 PM
Jun 2013

Nasty shit allowed to stand.

My heart breaks for this child. The fact that HE (at the ripe old age of 12) knew that this relationship was bad and wrong enough to tell somebody "that this needed to stop" absolutely breaks my heart. Lord only knows how this is going to affect him for the rest of his life.

one_voice

(20,043 posts)
118. What the fuck would you know about women?
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:35 PM
Jun 2013

not a fucking thing that's what. You know less about class, given this disgusting post. Anyone that jokes about a kid being raped and makes it about someone being horny...

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
121. A woman is so horny she drugs an 11 yr old and rapes him? Good lord, it isn't about being "horny"
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:14 PM
Jun 2013

but about control. Pedophilia is sick and not because someone is "horny".

Texasgal

(17,037 posts)
134. What?
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:01 PM
Jun 2013

Have you lost you mind?

NO. Women are not "horny as hell" This was fucking child abuse... PERIOD! Good GOD!

Le Taz Hot

(22,271 posts)
161. There are so many things wrong with that
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 09:06 AM
Jun 2013

statement I wouldn't know where to start. Oh wait. Yeah, I do.

sigmasix

(794 posts)
20. not sex- it's called rape of a child or pedophilia
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:21 AM
Jun 2013

This woman should spend a major portion of the remainder of her life in prison. An 11 year old boy is not capable of giving consent for a "sexual" experience with an adult. Childhood victims of rape spend decades of thier life dealing with the emotional damage and sexual dysfunctions that result from forced sexualization and sick declarations of romantic love for the victim.
I hope this boy is able to find safety from the rapist and her sick objectification of him.

chervilant

(8,267 posts)
29. People need to know
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 08:46 AM
Jun 2013

that the sexual abuse of children happens all too frequently, that we need harsher penalties for those who prey on children, and that survivors of these horrific crimes should never be blamed or made the fodder for anyone's insensitive 'jokes'!

redqueen

(115,101 posts)
110. +1 ... and it's good to see people picking up on the way these things are framed
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:20 PM
Jun 2013

she wasn't 'having sex' with him she was RAPING him.

Nye Bevan

(25,406 posts)
46. "36-year old adult rapes 11-year old child".
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:02 AM
Jun 2013

There, fixed.

This reminds me of the Roman Polanski rape.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
55. NZ laws are different- Present legislation stipulates the crime of rape applies only when men force
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:39 AM
Jun 2013

Good the boy went to his school principle and asked for help.

Butterbean

(1,014 posts)
59. I have 2 young sons. I find nothing hilarious or sexually titillating about this story at all.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:55 AM
Jun 2013

I find it disgusting, sick, horrifying, and awful. Neither my husband nor I would find it funny or awesome if our son was drugged with alcohol and subsequently raped by a 36 year old woman.

 

Bigmack

(8,020 posts)
81. On an entirely different line of thought....
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:55 AM
Jun 2013

11 is pretty young for sperm generation.

The books say sperm generation starts about one year after puberty starts.

The range for puberty starts around 10, so it's pretty close.

I think a paternity test is in order.

The boy was raped, no question, but I wonder if he was the only one having sex with her.

The fact that he "came out" to his principal indicates that he was traumatized by the sex. It might be some small comfort to the boy to know he, at least, didn't father the child.

(Sorry to be OT... which apparently is: How Insensitive Some People Are, rather than Boy Raped.)

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
85. Someone whose opinion I do respect asked me to delete my post, so it's gone.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:12 AM
Jun 2013

Just wanted to make sure there was no question of submission to the self-appointed hall monitors.

And this is still a non-story.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
88. In other words, rather than remaining silent
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 01:20 PM
Jun 2013

You opted to open your mouth again and remove all doubt.


Fair enough.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
105. Well, everyone in this thread recognizes you to be a rape comedian
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:04 PM
Jun 2013

If I'm going to be considered trivial by someone, it might as well be by a rape comedian.

That's on par with being considered trivial by a coprophage or a garden variety sociopath.



And it's curious that you consider me trivial yet still take the time to reply.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
111. Oh my, whatever shall I do? You have all been such a wonderfully tolerant and
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:37 PM
Jun 2013

supportive gang over the past year. Well I guess I shall simply have to carry on as best I can without your support and understanding into the future.



Have a wonderful day!

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
123. And yet, you seem to suffer from some sort of keyboard compulsion that just won't let you walk away.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:19 PM
Jun 2013

Last edited Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:17 PM - Edit history (1)

Do you imagine that if you just keep calling me names, and hurling accusations that somehow I will give in? Are you imagining that the power of Orrex will overcome the great evil and you will arise, bloodied but victorious having vanquished the scourge of moralists everywhere?

It's not going to happen. Ever. I will not abide bullies, and I'm certainly not going to be intimidated by the like of you.

I don't alert (although you're weak attempts to elicit an alertable response from me are completely transparent), and I don't use the refuge of ignore. So, feel free to keep flailing and uselessly thrashing about. I'll be back after a bit to see if you've managed to come up with anything entertaining.

Do you really wear a Moo-Moo and chain smoke Parliaments]?

#t=194s

I'm laughing at you right now.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
135. As a rape comedian, you have no credibility in judging others
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:06 PM
Jun 2013

You giggle about the rape of an 11 year old boy and dismiss his story as trivial titillation, and then you spout some bullshit about your fearlessness in the face of bullies? The fact that you're laughing at me means nothing except that you've missed the point entirely.

I don't care whether you alert on these posts or not, because I'm only posting in order to give you the opportunity to reveal yourself, lest anyone have any doubt about what a rape comedian looks like.


Please do continue.



 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
141. If I'm the comedian, why is it that I'm the one laughing at you?
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:12 PM
Jun 2013

Or is it that you're all bent out of shape because you believed the stories the alpha-boys told you when you were going through puberty?

That's OK, hardly any of us were really getting what we wanted.

Orrex

(63,168 posts)
147. I suppose you might be laughing at me because you're a simpleton
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:53 PM
Jun 2013

But I admit that that's just speculation.

However, you are indeed a rape comedian--who the hell knows what's rattling around in that kind of a skull?

Tarheel_Dem

(31,220 posts)
131. +1,000,000,000. Thank You.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:51 PM
Jun 2013
"If I'm going to be considered trivial by someone, it might as well be by a rape comedian."

"That's on par with being considered trivial by a coprophage or a garden variety sociopath."


kiva

(4,373 posts)
89. Thanks the gods you're here to save us from non-stories like this...
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 01:29 PM
Jun 2013

if only you had the power to zap this non-story out of existence we'd all be much better human beings.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
112. I'm really impressed that you thought so much of me that you spent the time
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:52 PM
Jun 2013

creating this. Thank you very much.

 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
113. You know, not commenting on the deletion would have preserved the
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 07:54 PM
Jun 2013

illusion that you were doing a good thing, for good reasons.


 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
125. But that would have given the impression that I give a shit what you think,
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:25 PM
Jun 2013

and deprived me of laughing at the hypocrisy and false morality of the bully gang, and where's the fun in that?




 

msanthrope

(37,549 posts)
126. Yes--on a thread about child rape, you laughing and having fun is entirely appropriate....
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:32 PM
Jun 2013

Jeebus.....I feel pity for you.

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
133. If you're not going to be any more creative than that the audience is going to lose interest.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:58 PM
Jun 2013

The one guy is doing graphics, and Orrex got to the name-calling misquoting about 5 replies ago.

And ripping off Matt Groening... C'mon, you're not even trying.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
130. According to NDJ World , who also covered the story...
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:47 PM
Jun 2013
NDJ World | Published: Jun 15 2013 Australia?World News
Suzy A

Under present New Zealand rape laws, women who have none-consensual sex can only be accused of sexual abuse and only men can be accused of rape.



- See more at: http://www.nodeju.com/9809/11-year-old-impregnates-36-year-old.html#sthash.MujkRDWW.dpuf

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
156. They really need to change that law.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 12:50 AM
Jun 2013

It's not only rape, but pedophilia, and as such, doubly grievous. Hopefully, men and women in NZ will see the deficit of the law and work to change it based on this case. Age of consent is age of consent, regardless of gender, and this is nowhere near a 'Romeo&Juliet'-case of a 15 year old and a 17 year old (age of consent in NZ being 16, iirc.)

KitSileya

(4,035 posts)
163. It is definitely a start.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 09:30 AM
Jun 2013

I hope a case like this would get more men to join women in their fight for equal rights - patriarchy is, at times, just as harsh towards men as towards women, and this idea that boys are supposed to be happy that they get raped by older women is a very definite part of patriarchy. It's seen as an early blooding, as it were a manhood test in a hunter gatherer society, when in reality it is rape, and pedophilia, and child abuse, and needs to be harshly punished. These days an 11-year old might have entered puberty physically, but he is still very much a child, and our laws recognize that by refusing to let him drive, drink, vote, and sign contracts. It follows that he is then too young to have sex. Men need to challenge their own culture that says that this is positive - women are doing it with internalized misogyny and cultural expectations. there's no reason why men shouldn't do the same.

HappyMe

(20,277 posts)
162. What a bullshit law.
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 09:16 AM
Jun 2013

This woman is a rapist and a pedophile. That kid didn't 'impregnate' her, he was raped.

I hope they change this law.

 

duuser5822

(54 posts)
102. That woman deserves to be put away for a long, long time
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 06:44 PM
Jun 2013

What a sick pervert. I feel so sorry for that poor kid, he's probably so traumatized..

Quantess

(27,630 posts)
124. I think so!
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:22 PM
Jun 2013

This topic is fxxxing gross and is nothing to joke about.

11 years old is too young for sex, even with another 11 year old.

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
127. More on the story...
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:32 PM
Jun 2013
AUCKLAND – An 11 year old New Zealand boy reportedly managed to make the 36 year old mother of his best friend pregnant.

NDJ World | Published: Jun 15 2013 Australia?World News
Suzy A

The news has startled New Zealand social workers who demand the country revises its existing rape laws.

Authorities are flabbergasted that the school the boy and his friend attend knew about the sexual contact between the boy and his friend’s mother but never did anything to intervene.

************

Under present New Zealand rape laws, women who have none-consensual sex can only be accused of sexual abuse and only men can be accused of rape.


- See more at: http://www.nodeju.com/9809/11-year-old-impregnates-36-year-old.html#sthash.MujkRDWW.dpuf

mimi85

(1,805 posts)
129. The school knew and did nothing.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:41 PM
Jun 2013

I think this is one of the more disgusting threads I've seen on DU. Some of the posts (who shall remain nameless) are truly despicable.

Squinch

(50,901 posts)
132. I think we all know who you mean. I'm floored by the depths of creepiness that one sank to.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 09:53 PM
Jun 2013

This thread is pretty disturbing. I just updated my ignore list.

tblue

(16,350 posts)
138. I could throw up.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 10:25 PM
Jun 2013

I teach 7 year olds. They are BABIES! What kinda crazy was this woman? And she had the nerve to cop to this?

Response to jakeXT (Original post)

 

Egalitarian Thug

(12,448 posts)
142. Shh. You must never admit that here. The arbiters of morality have spoken and no
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:15 PM
Jun 2013

dissent, or jokes, are allowed.

Response to uppityperson (Reply #145)

demmiblue

(36,816 posts)
146. If you think an eleven year old is fair game, you are pretty fucked up.
Sun Jun 16, 2013, 11:47 PM
Jun 2013

What the fuck is wrong with you?

Is that your taste? Underage children?

Holy shite!!

alp227

(32,003 posts)
152. "...woman gave the boy beer and then later took part in a sexual encounter with him. "
Mon Jun 17, 2013, 12:19 AM
Jun 2013

I deplore the way countries like Saudi Arabia and Iran punish women for the most trivial of matters like extramarital sex and have such primitive judicial punishment like LASHES.

But sometimes I feel that some people should be outsourced to such countries for prosecution.

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