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struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 12:47 AM Jun 2013

There are still plenty of racist Obama-haters. I was on the phone with one tonight

It was yet another evening of cold-calling in the political wilderness, peering into the mists to see who's out there

Tonight I found a few who were way waaaaay out there

I usually manage to end these conversations quickly and pleasantly

But tonight, my dedication to ending one conversation pleasantly kept me from ending it as quickly as I would have liked

And boy! did I get a big off-topic earful of angry stereotypes!

He told me his vote had become meaningless, due to thousands of instances of voter fraud: It's all those Mexicans who are coming up here! Illegal immigrants are voting everywhere! And all those black ladies who voted for Obama three and four times! That's why Obama has been able to run this country into the ground!

I thanked him for his time. Then I thanked him for his time again -- and then again

He finally calmed down -- and the conversation ended politely: I hoped he had a great evening, and he hoped the same for me

But I know there really is racism out there, and it's really part-and-parcel of the anti-Obama sentiment

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There are still plenty of racist Obama-haters. I was on the phone with one tonight (Original Post) struggle4progress Jun 2013 OP
It feels like a one time miracle that he got elected flamingdem Jun 2013 #1
A lotta people worked their butts off to make it happen. Democracy's not a spectator sport. struggle4progress Jun 2013 #3
Absolutely. Fortunately DU gets into an activist mode as elections come near flamingdem Jun 2013 #5
Many Americans somehow don't understand the importance of organized action struggle4progress Jun 2013 #8
Post removed Post removed Jun 2013 #2
Meh. It's an internet chat board. All sorts of folk drop by. It's a good place to learn struggle4progress Jun 2013 #6
Words of wisdom for the autonomous. nt patrice Jun 2013 #13
no surprise to anyone who pays attention JI7 Jun 2013 #4
No, I suppose not. But I somehow tend not to run into such folk day to day: struggle4progress Jun 2013 #7
A trick I learned KT2000 Jun 2013 #9
This guy was a gushing fountain struggle4progress Jun 2013 #10
The saga of two formerly sane (perhaps I was deluded?) relatives who moved to Glennbeckistan. freshwest Jun 2013 #26
He sounded like a Southern rightwing Cold Warrior from the Vietnam era, struggle4progress Jun 2013 #28
Synergy is real whether I would intend my agreement with all of its factors or not. nt patrice Jun 2013 #11
Well, dimwit that I am, I honestly have no idea what you are trying to say struggle4progress Jun 2013 #12
You're not a dimwit. Let me see if I can do a better job of that. nt patrice Jun 2013 #14
It is possible for general negativity about someone to grow, even though the motives for that patrice Jun 2013 #15
Well, neither you nor I can force the world to be what we want it to be in every way, struggle4progress Jun 2013 #16
I'm not saying we can/should force anything. We should just be honest about how these things work. patrice Jun 2013 #20
Just looked up synergy definition: the interaction of multiple elements in a system... nenagh Jun 2013 #29
Thanks for the explanation.. nenagh Jun 2013 #30
What President Obama Can Do for Black America HiPointDem Jun 2013 #17
Surprised he didn't bring up those two "Black Panthers" at the voting station in Philly in '08 Ken Burch Jun 2013 #18
He would have yammered at me for hours if I'd let him struggle4progress Jun 2013 #27
Thanks S4P, ucrdem Jun 2013 #19
I agree with Obama on everything. I don't oppose any of his initiatives, or policies. There's no way josejimenez Jun 2013 #21
Welcome to DU! ucrdem Jun 2013 #25
Some need someone to hate, someone to blame. It's the easiest course. n/t jtuck004 Jun 2013 #22
You've Got To Be Carefully Taught struggle4progress Jun 2013 #23
yeah...that hate and fear thing. n/t jtuck004 Jun 2013 #24

struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
3. A lotta people worked their butts off to make it happen. Democracy's not a spectator sport.
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 01:04 AM
Jun 2013

People forget that voting day success doesn't happen by itself: it requires continuing organization between elections

And way too many people forget that success on voting day is not supposed to be the time for sitting down and saying Whew! We did it!

It's supposed to be the time we all say, All right! Now we can begin the hard work of making progress on all our goals!

flamingdem

(39,308 posts)
5. Absolutely. Fortunately DU gets into an activist mode as elections come near
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 01:07 AM
Jun 2013

That's when it's at it's best, not many are making calls like your are now!

Response to struggle4progress (Original post)

struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
6. Meh. It's an internet chat board. All sorts of folk drop by. It's a good place to learn
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 01:11 AM
Jun 2013

you don't have to take everything everybody says seriously; you don't have to have an opinion on everything; you don't have to react immediately to every rumor; you don't have to defend yourself against every accusation

struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
7. No, I suppose not. But I somehow tend not to run into such folk day to day:
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 01:13 AM
Jun 2013

I usually only "meet" them in news stories.

KT2000

(20,566 posts)
9. A trick I learned
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 01:28 AM
Jun 2013

when the person launches into a tirade, wait until they are done. Then allow it to be silent for several seconds. Then say thank you, have a nice evening.
Not all, but most people reflect on their own behavior during the silence.
Of course this won't work with people who won't stop talking.

Good for you for doing this. Have done it a few times and found it to be torture. My last time was to inform people to go to a candidate's website. Unfortunately my list was the elderly and not one even had a computer!

freshwest

(53,661 posts)
26. The saga of two formerly sane (perhaps I was deluded?) relatives who moved to Glennbeckistan.
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:58 AM
Jun 2013
Gushing fountain, no, more like a volcano gushing red hot crazy. The voices in their heads tell them to scream!

I reported in October the building insanity:


Sadly, I have a relative in Texas who moved to Glennbeckistan in 2010. Batshit crazy is unpleasant.

She was pro-same-sex rights, pro-choice, tolerant of all religions, etc. She went to the same schools I did, learned all the same things, I think. Didn't attend college, though.

Was always a bit selfish and irritating, but I never paid it any mind as her husband is quite nice. I was used to her remarkable insensitivity in social situations and a bit of cruelty in her desire to get ahead of others.

The first signs of insanity were in the Bush era and then in 2008, when she yelled that someone needed to 'Kill Ron Paul!' for not going along with the Bush wars. She knew I'd be voting Democratic, but didn't say a thing about it.

In 2010 she went off her rocker for good. I never realized politics would be so destructive to the family. It's impossible to have a conversation in which she doesn't bring up her extreme fear and rage over what she thinks Obama is doing.

She is unaffected in any way by the political scene, except what's in her mind. She and her husband are being well taken care of by VA and SS. She is sure it's all going away because of Obama, Mooslims, Mezikans, Communism, whatever.

It's a form of free-floating anxiety. The feeling is there looking for a cause. It's like a death in the family but it's worse. Most of my life in Texas from childhood was under progressive rule, more so than much of the country. It was solid Democratic until Ann Richards lost to the Shrub.

The Bush team with DeLay had a vicious plan and used Texas as an experiment. Religion was the first key to prey upon people. It changed in my lifetime.

Those who like to pat themselves on the back, thinking Texas is genetically doomed to be forced to live with wingnuttery are fooling themselves, because the model to destroy the Democratic Party in Texas in now national. I live in a very blue state, and they are gaining ground here now.

Here's that map for you. Need a laugh to keep your spirits up. Let's see if we can repeat 2008.



http://www.democraticunderground.com/1251145022#post50

Things actually turned out just fine:



The saga continued the week before the November election, right after Jerry Brown made illegals get driver licenses:

I was busy yesterday, then returned a call to a teabag relative who proceeded to go all Glennbeckistan on me. I didn't know that this article is what spurred the insanity for yesterday!

She was ranting about 'Obama going to foreign countries' making deals on importing millions of Mexicans to win elections. Said how they were are all being given driver licenses, put on welfare, so of course they would all vote for Democrats!

To which I said, we don't do that up here (upper Left Coast blue state) and you should talk to your Governor Perry about it being done down there. I went into how we didn't have many illegals except in the red areas where they're used for cheap labor.

She wanted to know why, and I said we are not a Right-to-Work (for less) state, our legislature doesn't give welfare to illegals, nor licenses, nor do they vote. She was mildly comforted at that idea, wasn't sure if Texas was doing it, but didn't bring up California at all. I doubt she knew.

I tried to shift the conversation over to a friend who'd just paid off her home and retired, put on solat panels, etc. That we were also making use of wind power and hydroelectric, etc. and our light company is non-profit. She said it'll never work in Texas, and I pointed out the large amount of wind turbines in the west part of the state I'd seen and even talked to those putting them up.

She said that had not worked out, but I said it had for those I knew who built them for their farms and used them to get off the grid. I suggested that with all that sunshine in Texas, it could lead the way with solar power. She said the weather was too bad. I remarked since we have 310+ million people and are predicted to have many more people by the turn of the century, we'll have to try harder.

That led her back to blaming that increase on illegal Mexicans having millions of babies on welfare so the Democrats would win elections. So she finally began to froth at the mouth, talking about how 'this isn't the country I grew up in!' and 'this is a Christian Nation, and 'if they don't like it they can go back to where they came from!'

I started to say that most Mexicans are Christians, but she was on a roll. Warmed up, she yelled, 'We can't take four more years of Obama turning us into Communism!' Grammatically incorrect, but what do you expect?

Mind you, her hubby, the sane one of the pair, is on Social Security and VA disability. She's been excited about going on Social Security herself, and their medical care is government supported and very good.

When she got louder about Obama, she yelled at me saying, wasn't I was scared about him getting re-elected? To which I said, 'No, I'm not worried about it at all. No one up here is.' That's when the frothing began, how could I not be concerned about how he will end this nation and she pulled out her final verbal weapon...

How Obama is bringing in Sharia Law!!!. Finally rounded up with 'If I have to, I'll take up arms, although I've never fired a gun, and I'll kill anyone who tries to do it.'

At that point I had to bite my tongue and not say if she'd just stay home, no one would notice her and no one was coming to get her to convert. Actually I think she'd look cuter in a burka than that sofa throw cover she walks around in.

Somewhere in the middle of the diatribe, she also went into how she's met people in the Tea Party, that the media is lying about them, they are really nice and never rude or violent like the Occupy people. Who she said are running loose raping people, defecating everywhere, drunk and scumbags, etc. (Shades of Breitbart.)

I thought she was coming back to Sanity a while back after the 47% uproar, but hate radio and FOX has pulled her right back into her alternative reality, and it's really scary. What a weird way to end the evening. Fortunately, her husband got her off the phone...

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10021449535#post15

Did your citizen sound anything like that?

struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
28. He sounded like a Southern rightwing Cold Warrior from the Vietnam era,
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 04:15 AM
Jun 2013

with an overlay of some standard anti-immigration talking points and a large dose of the Voter Photo ID propaganda that I got a large dose of when I went to hearings at our General Assembly earlier this year

patrice

(47,992 posts)
15. It is possible for general negativity about someone to grow, even though the motives for that
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 02:19 AM
Jun 2013

negativity can be different. I could be negative toward Obama for not supporting a Public Option; someone else could be negative toward Obama because he's an African American. The general perception of negativity by most people, on the average, will not differentiate between my reason and that other person's reason for negativity. They'll just perceive increased negativity, mine plus that other person's, plus someone else's, plus yet another person's negativity. All of our reasons for being negative could be different, or even opposite/contradictory individual reasons for being negative, but by far most people do not differentiate those different reasons, nor how those reasons may or may not complement one another. They only perceive increasing negativity regarding the subject, Obama, in this case.

struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
16. Well, neither you nor I can force the world to be what we want it to be in every way,
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:16 AM
Jun 2013

and -- though it may come as a surprise to some -- neither can Mr Obama

What I have expected from him is merely that he provide us some opportunities for moving forward, rather than leave us in the position we were for the eight years prior, in which we were forced to constantly resist further deterioration

That is, I have not expected that this country would suddenly fulfill all my dreams, but rather that we might make some progress where possible

And despite the common view on some internet chat boards, progress does not occur as an automatic process, fueled only by people standing on the sidelines cheering or booing: it is a constant struggle, in which people must take responsibility as free citizens to constantly reassess the balance of power, must try to bring into view goals on a distant horizon and imagine steps that might carry us towards those goals, and then must actually try to take those steps, flexibly reassessing the situation as the enemy appears or disappears in the shifting fog and changing light

I happen to like Mr Obama, but that is more or less irrelevant to my long term view of what challenges face us and what we need to do to face those challenges

patrice

(47,992 posts)
20. I'm not saying we can/should force anything. We should just be honest about how these things work.
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:33 AM
Jun 2013

You and I are almost identical in what you said.

The call to honesty I mentioned above will aid the process you outline.

I like him too, but I like tons of people and don't allow them to rule my mind.

I also am in this for the long game, though I do have priorities, which increase and decrease in importance, as opportunities for progress present themselves.

nenagh

(1,925 posts)
29. Just looked up synergy definition: the interaction of multiple elements in a system...
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 05:32 AM
Jun 2013

To produce an effect different from or GREATER THAN the sum of their individual effects.

Which explains something I haven't been able to pinpoint before but felt intuitively.

The constant negativity on so many different topics, from hate radio/Limbaugh,Beck produces a 1+1=3 effect in the hearts and minds of individual viewers as well as family, neighbourhood or like minded groups of people.

1+1=3. = synergy .... So, once poisoned, susceptible minds may become more entrapped and have a tendency to grow more and more poisonous.






 

HiPointDem

(20,729 posts)
17. What President Obama Can Do for Black America
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:21 AM
Jun 2013

When I was at Lafayette Park (across from the White House) recently checking the logistics/arrangements for IBW's June 17th Day of Direct Action to pressure President Obama to end the War on Drugs and invest in inner-city Black communities, I confess to having been filled with pride thinking about the reality of a Black Family occupying the White House!

...I had to quickly remind myself that electoral politics is about who gets what, how much and when. At least that's what our beloved Dr. Ronald Walters spent much of his life striving to teach us. It doesn't matter the color, race, ethnicity or even political persuasion of the resident in the White House, Presidents should respond to the crises of people/groups because they are part of the body politic of this nation. If a constituency/group is a key part of the President's political support base, there is an even more compelling reason to attend to their needs.

Unfortunately, as it relates to Blacks, these basic expectations of electoral politics seem not to apply. For decades Presidents have failed to respond to the crises in Black America in proportion to our needs or political support - particularly the Democratic Party.

Thus far, this is certainly the case with President Obama. Despite the "State of Emergency" in America's "dark ghettos," he refuses to directly respond to the urgent needs of Blacks who marched on ballot boxes in record numbers to ensure his election and re-election. Instead of policies and programs specifically designed/targeted to ameliorating and ultimately transforming the conditions in distressed urban communities, Black America is treated to symbolism, access and lectures about personal responsibility. Many Blacks seem to be content with President Obama's approach, choosing to give him a pass because he is a "brother."

On the other hand, there are growing numbers of Blacks from all walks of life who are simply getting tired, frustrated and angry at the President's reluctance to openly address what can only be considered a moral and political crisis in terms of depression levels of joblessness, horrific gun violence, fratricide and mass incarceration in urban inner-city Black communities.

http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/WO1306/S00281/what-president-obama-can-do-for-black-america.htm

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
18. Surprised he didn't bring up those two "Black Panthers" at the voting station in Philly in '08
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:22 AM
Jun 2013

You know, the ones they think cost McCain the whole election by standing their looking grumpy for a couple of hours.

struggle4progress

(118,200 posts)
27. He would have yammered at me for hours if I'd let him
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 04:03 AM
Jun 2013

I don't know what worms would have popped out of his can, if I'd allowed him to pry the top off further

He might have worked himself into a fine old frothy self-pitying rage

So I wasn't working overtime to get him to reveal more of his views

All I wanted to do was get off the phone calmly and without him having one more imagined grudge against folk he disagrees with, like me



ucrdem

(15,512 posts)
19. Thanks S4P,
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:29 AM
Jun 2013

I'm really enjoying your field dispatches. This sounds like a guy who listens to AM radio rants and that mode eventually becomes the only way he knows to discuss politics. I'll bet your conversation was a rare experience for him.

josejimenez

(18 posts)
21. I agree with Obama on everything. I don't oppose any of his initiatives, or policies. There's no way
Fri Jun 28, 2013, 03:42 AM
Jun 2013

Anyone can call me racist. But supporting him should involve a quid pro quo. I am somewhat happy with the new immigration bill, but that's not really enough. Another member said that we are due for a woman President, and I agree. But there's no reason that woman shouldn't also be hispanic.

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