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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsJust Received My SSDI Denial Letter
I can't take much more. What options do I have? I have 4 kids. I just lost both of my parents this year. I am so depressed I feel like my life is on a fast train to hell.

Buddha_of_Wisdom
(373 posts)The second time should work out - if you have documentation backing your disability, then you will get your SSDI, and backpay starting from the date you applied.
TexasBushwhacker
(20,826 posts)Binder and Binder is pretty much nationwide. I have a friend who used them and she got approved after being turned down 3 times.
http://ssd.binderandbinder.com/
They can only get a percentage of back pay and the amount is controlled by law. I believe it is 25% and there is a maximum as well.
pnwmom
(109,717 posts)You'll have a better chance. And it's probably worth it to hire a lawyer, if you can find a good one.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)There are ads on TV all the time by lawyers who claim that they can get your SSDI if you have been turned down the first time you applied. I have no idea what the fees are, but they are worth a shot.
dlwickham
(3,316 posts)and only if the person is approved
a letter from an attorney generally does the trick with Social Security
Glitterati
(3,182 posts)They don't get a percentage of ongoing monthly payments.
If you win an appeal, you will receive back pay for up to 2 years of benefits. Your attorney will, upfront, negotiate a percentage of that back pay as payment for his/her services in the appeal.
dlwickham
(3,316 posts)it's a percentage of the back pay
dmr
(28,705 posts)My attorney was paid according to an SSA scale. In 2003, the max was 5 grand which is for a pretty high back-pay return.
I asked my attorney how he could make money, and he said they work by volume.
They also don't make money if you are denied.
dlwickham
(3,316 posts)
Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)xfundy
(5,105 posts)My situation is similar. I see a psych doc. It helps, a little.
rbrnmw
(7,160 posts)But I can't afford the gas to go see him.
Buddaman
(503 posts)Get an attorney NOW if you don't have one......Hang in there.....I know it's hard....Hang in there.
GreenPartyVoter
(73,189 posts)to apply 3 or 4 times before they are accepted.
Also, my parents are both gone now too. Grief is so difficult to work through, and being cut off from resources doesn't help. Do you have Medicaid? There are programs that assist with rides and gas money for medical appointments.
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)and you need to have a lawyer to get you on it.
Good luck and hang in there.
Kaleva
(38,895 posts)I applied in October of 2010 and was approved in January of 2011. I also was told by most everyone that I'd be denied at first and I'd probably would need to hire a lawyer but what was in my favor was well documented medical problems going all the way back into the 1980's.
Lugnut
(9,791 posts)I was diagnosed with permanent incomplete spinal cord injury and verified by my neurosurgeon. I was shocked that it was approved so quickly but it's pretty hard to dispute what my disability is.
former9thward
(33,424 posts)bunnies
(15,859 posts)I got mine a few weeks ago. No kids though, so I cant imagine what youre going through. My letter was so bizarre that it seemed like they were talking about someone else. Saying, for example, that I had a recommendation to avoid heights when heights have nothing to do with anything in my case.
Appeal it, get a lawyer and know you're not alone. They make us fight and beg for it.
Buddaman
(503 posts)
Buddaman
(503 posts)grantcart
(53,061 posts)The suggestion about the lawyer is a good one but there are also other options that you may not be able to see because you feel overwhelmed.
Find 3-4 people whose judgment you trust and ask them for advice.
Don't be afraid to say "I need your opinion" and "I need your help".
There will be many suggestions on this thread but no one here knows you or your situation, you need to develop a group of people who know you and whose opinion you trust.
Good luck.
VanillaRhapsody
(21,115 posts)before success.
Hang on...Just breathe...and make it through today.
TeeYiYi
(8,028 posts)I guess your option is to appeal. So sorry about the black cloud that's following you. Hang in there. Don't give up.
TYY
NightWatcher
(39,360 posts)What did you use when you filed?
I forgot, I also had a letter from my last employer detailing what type of work I used to do (physicality) and how with my current situations I could not do that anymore. I have 3 automatic qualifiers (3 nasty diseases) and it took about 3 months from when I filed til I got the award letter.
bunnies
(15,859 posts)Everyone else has to fight and beg. I sent 5 years of medical records and while they accept that I have a disease they dont consider it to be bad enough to require help.
fadedrose
(10,044 posts)Get a lawyer...you pay nothing until you get money, then I think it's 10%.
You get nothing, you play nothing....
Get a lawyer. you can't lose.
My son-in-law signed up with:
https://www.allsup.com/apply/social-security-disability-alt?SessionCode=1288&gkw=allsup&mkwid=eq1lIwbiw&pcrid=381649621&pkw=allsup&pmt=e
He finally was approved.
If you are approved, benefits will go back. They contact your doctors, etc., and will advise you for free...
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)Check your phone book. I know there are a lot of lawyers that will take on SSDI denial cases.
North Carolina Knigh
(39 posts)Wy are trying to get SSDI?
grasswire
(50,130 posts)markpkessinger
(8,652 posts)MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)I mean, I think we should all stop at this point so we can satisfy your need to know.
North Carolina Knigh
(39 posts)If someone is going to come post that they were turned down for SSDI, isn't it a logical question to ask why?
MrMickeysMom
(20,453 posts)"May I ask you the reason they turned you down?"
That's a far more sensitive way to ask the person who is clearly at their wits end dealing with this big and other issues.
grasswire
(50,130 posts)It can make a big difference.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)get a lawyer and try again. This happened to two friends. Denied the first time, they got pro bono lawyers, and got accepted. Best of luck, and realize this happens all the time.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)have to take a certain amount of pro bono cases, at least they do in CA...
madashelltoo
(1,800 posts)Go to an attorney and Appeal it. I've been there and I know how discouraging it is. I had to do welfare that only kept me and my children alive long enough to get approved. Went to state housing program to pay mortgage until it came through. HUD might help you with it if you have an attorney working on your appeal too. Can't hurt to ask. I'm praying for you.
markpkessinger
(8,652 posts). . . but I do know something about how utterly disorienting and un-mooring losing both one's parents is, at any age. I lost mine 12 days apart in 2000. Trust me, it will get easier, but it takes a long, long time -- probably much longer, in fact, than you ever anticipated. I really cannot imagine having to deal with the whole disability issue on top of that.
Sending all good thoughts your way. . .
bkkyosemite
(5,792 posts)It took three denials. I then got a lawyer which did not cost out of pocket. You must be denied first or a lawyer will not take your claim. Now is the time to call a disability lawyer and let them handle it. If you have doctor documentation that is good too. Let the lawyer tell you what you need. And yes they take a percentage of what was owed to you that is retroactive for the time it took to get the favorable ruling. When I did this it was like 23% the lawyer took of my back benefit. It is not up to the lawyer but the court that decides what percentage the lawyer gets. Head up! Call and of course hugs to you for your loss.
bitchkitty
(7,349 posts)- First and foremost, and most important - get a lawyer.
- If you haven't already, start documenting how your disability affects your every day life, and how it prevents you from working. Get copies of all your medical records - every visit, every chart note, everything. Document, document, document! The SS Beast loves paper. Feed it.
- Have patience. You will eventually get it. They are making you jump through hoops in the hopes that you will give up. Don't give up.
Good luck!
Dragonfli
(10,622 posts)Read the link posted below to better understand the process in general and find a good lawyer (be careful of the mills popping up where the partners put you completely in the hands of very young new associates, it is getting to be a problem)
http://www.hippielawyer.com/hippielawyercom__SocialSec.htm
I am truly sorry and understand exactly how you feel,
I have been fighting for over two years now and I am extremely ill and physically unable to do much of anything anymore, let alone work. I am also heading straight towards homelessness if it is not resolved very soon.
They are trying like hell to deny as many as possible for any reason possible, having nothing to do with your actual need and eligibility, it sucks, but these are are earned benefits that are supposed to be there when we can no longer work and we can't just let them steal it from us without a fight.
So Fight!
You will be fighting for what is yours when you most need it, you have every right and justification.
Good luck. I hope you receive what you have earned.
DonCoquixote
(13,760 posts)most sates will turn you down 3 times, but then yield to the lawyer who will be presistent.
Samantha
(9,314 posts)He was only about 32 and he had a wife and 2 children. He was told he only had a few months to live. He applied for SSDI and believe it or not was turned down. They said that while he could not work his regular job, he could still pump gas. Can you believe that? He finally on the third try was approved and lived just a few weeks longer. I thought at the time that was the intent: keep denying him, save money, it is only a matter of time .... I don't know if that is true but I was thinking it.
Sam
Drunken Irishman
(34,857 posts)My dad was denied disability through the veterans affairs on his first try and he eventually was ruled 100% disabled.
JesterCS
(1,828 posts)apparently I'm not eligable... get this... because I didnt work enough.
Makes total sense =(
The Second Stone
(2,900 posts)They always turn it down at first.