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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsHas anyone tried this with religious people coming to the door?
Invite them in and say you will listen to them, but after they cleaned your house?
DinahMoeHum
(21,783 posts). . .with a beer in my hand.
Nay
(12,051 posts)liberal_at_heart
(12,081 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)GP6971
(31,133 posts)Ilsa
(61,692 posts)Frustratedlady
(16,254 posts)It was a hot day, but she was trying to get the last flowerbed done before she went in the house. Two Mormon men walked into her yard to talk to her and she was humiliated because she was sweaty and covered with soil.
She tried to dissuade them from talking to her about religion and they suggested she go inside, get a cool drink and sit down for a while...they would finish the weeding, which they did. She never did go outside and they left a book on her front porch as they left.
elfin
(6,262 posts)And shut the door after beatifically smiling at their flummoxed faces.
hobbit709
(41,694 posts)RebelOne
(30,947 posts)The minute I see them with their bibles in hand, I immediately say that I am an atheist and close the door on them.
Le Taz Hot
(22,271 posts)that they were in the middle of a Satan-worshipping ritual, they needed a virgin and asked if the door-knockers were there to volunteer. According the friend, they haven't had any problems with the religious door-knockers since.
Warpy
(111,237 posts)I was a night nurse and the jerks used to lean on my doorbell right after I'd fallen into a deep sleep. I was rabid.
I've lived here for 18 years and they haven't been back for 17 of them. The Mormons cross the street when they get to my house.
So if you need to get rid of them, hire a night nurse to sleep on your sofa while you clear off for the day. I guarantee the pests will be removed in short order.
LadyHawkAZ
(6,199 posts)I don't want them in my house and some sects would probably take that offer. I have a sign on the door now that keeps them from knocking.
Before that, I found that answering the door in my underwear and yelling at them worked best.
pnwmom
(108,973 posts)by pretending to be Catholic.
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)Egnever
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In their mind they are trying to help you. They aren't there to annoy you. I get that it can be annoying but they aren't doing it out of anything other than a desire to help you.
Is it really that hard to say no thanks?
dixiegrrrrl
(60,010 posts)and intruding on my actvities is NOT polite.
telephone sales and door to door sales/intrusions are rude and invasive, I don't put up with them.
What ever happened to boundaries and people's rights to live undisturbed?
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)I am not a historian, but it is one of my hobbies.
I cannot recall a period where people en mass respected other people's rights to live undisturbed.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)Th1onein
(8,514 posts)REP
(21,691 posts)It turns out my some of my new neighbors are rabid fundamentalists. They came onto my land and took my chickens as an excuse to return them ... and question me on my religious affiliation. As soon as that became obvious, I shut them down politely.
The next day they returned. They wanted to offend me some more. I wasn't up for it. I turned on the irrigation system when it was clear they weren't going to apologize and leave.
amuse bouche
(3,657 posts)Religies give me the creeps. They are nasty bigots like Westboro and the KKK. They all spew hatred in one form or another
I am so happy I finally escaped those cults full of ignorance and stupidity
What a wonderful world it would be....
LadyHawkAZ
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means a further barrage of questions about what your beliefs are and why do you believe them, do you have any friends who might like to hear the Word, do you know of anyone in the neighborhood that needed help or might benefit from an in-home visit from a missionary, would you take a minute to listen to their story about their personal journey, and on and on until the door is actually slammed in their face. Politeness does NOT pay. Trust me, I tried it.
It's why the No Religious Solicitation sign is now on my door; for some reason they will obey that sign where they wouldn't obey my repeated, direct orders to please stop. Saves me a world of hassle, and as a bonus I don't get nonreligious solicitors or pizza flyers either.
BUT, this is Salt Lake City. YMMV with the missionaries in your area.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)and still they returned. It took a stern call to their headquarters to get them to stop.
If they had truly had a desire to help, we gave them opportunities but they only wanted to proselytize.
Rhythm
(5,435 posts)I don't have time in my life for people like that...
And i sure as hell don't want them on my doorstep or in my house.
In their minds, it is trying to help.
No reason one can't be polite and friendly but tell them it's not something you're interested in discussing.
I also don't think it's an egregious invasion of my privacy if someone comes on my property or knocks on my door.
Cher
840high
(17,196 posts)to them. Just say "no thanks."
Heidi
(58,237 posts)TroglodyteScholar
(5,477 posts)...however, they are fully aware that there is a good portion of the population who are bothered (or worse) by their tactics. They should definitely expect some abuse, and I think most of them do indeed.
Egnever
(21,506 posts)We might as well indulge them!
TroglodyteScholar
(5,477 posts)JVS
(61,935 posts)liberal N proud
(60,334 posts)You knock on my door, unsolicited and want me to listen to you tell me that I am going to hell unless...
Depending on which denomination knocks, I always put it back on them, like the ones that tell you there are only so many spaces in Heaven, I ask them why they would risk giving up on of those to me.
Capt. Obvious
(9,002 posts)No, they're there to add you to their numbers and take your money.
No more, no less.
I just say "God bless you but I'm taken care of. Good luck to you." And they always smile and leave.
siligut
(12,272 posts)I feel some compassion for those poor kids that have been suckered into that cabal disguised as a religion. I ask questions regarding the more obscure and hidden history of the church, the way the missionaries are paired, one is well versed and the other is newer/younger. The well versed one will jump at the chance to show his knowledge of say, Joseph Smith sending a member on a mission so he could steal his wife, or President Hinckley claiming that , As man is now, God once was; as God is now man may be.", is just a couplet while speaking with Larry King.
I got one guy to acknowledge that leaving the church may cost him his fiance and family, but his other option was to live his whole life a lie. They quit coming to my house after that, in fact they made a rather wide swath when passing.
Spirochete
(5,264 posts)I don't have time to talk to them, because i have to get the house prepared for a black mass. I doubt any of them believe me, but they instantly realize they're wasting their time.
Ohio Joe
(21,748 posts)Sometimes I just tell them to fuck off and shut the door... Other times I'll mess with them. My favorite is to play along until they get around to asking me what my religion is... This rarely takes long. Then I'll scratch my head and give them a bit of a confused look and tell them 'I don't think my coven has one... Why?' heh, I've never even gotten a reply to that, they usually just turn and leave after a few stunned moments
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)As long as the bastards deserve it, amiright?
Th1onein
(8,514 posts)Ohio Joe
(21,748 posts)But fuck 'em if they do, I see no reason I should not enjoy their visit even if they don't.
REP
(21,691 posts)Telling me I'm going to Hell is so loving, amirite? I'm such a dick for not putting up with it.
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)A simple "No thank you" or "I have my own thing" other polite blowoff works just as well.
But there is no macho caveman "Arrrgghhh Arrrgghhh Arrrgghhh! I conquered those assholes!" feeling to politeness, is there?
creaturecomfort
(2 posts)And achieve your objective but it is not necessary to b stupidly or arrogantly rude...that's more a reflection of you than them.
gopiscrap
(23,736 posts)REP
(21,691 posts)These weren't meek Mormons or elderly JWs. These were from another sect, and being polite didn't work.
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)But "You are an obnoxious asshole if you just coldly tell people to fuck off and slam the door in their face" is not.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)Like this-
OR...
"fuck the bishop"
Cleita
(75,480 posts)They don't come in any farther.
RebelOne
(30,947 posts)When the bible thumpers saw her, they would bypass my house. She is in doggy heaven now and I have no protection against these religious zealots now except for my noisy Chihuahua who thinks she is an attack dog.
el_bryanto
(11,804 posts)Gothmog
(145,086 posts)That sends most of them running away
MannyGoldstein
(34,589 posts)That'd be an amusingly awkward moment.
Blue_Tires
(55,445 posts)and said just saying those three words was enough to make any conversation *very* short when the doorbell rang...Especially Jehovah's Witnesses -- She said they would actually stop their pitch in mid-sentence and just walk away...
JustAnotherGen
(31,798 posts)In front of my apartment, stare off into the distance and tell them to, "Ask the Whiskey Man. He lives in the tree.". Then slowly close the door. They gave up in good time.
Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)We had an interesting conversation for as couple of hours and he came back the next weekend with some help and the whole front drive got finished.
goldent
(1,582 posts)did you get any sense they were looking for anything in return for helping you? Pretty cool that they came back with more help.
Egalitarian Thug
(12,448 posts)them in that neighborhood, though. We had three very good conversations until it became clear that I both knew the bible, history, and am too rooted in the mundane world to go along with any of the stories. We continued to be friendly (although none ever actually came to any of the parties I invited them to) until I sold my business a few years later.
I tend to have a lot more respect for the crazier flavors just because they tend to follow the rules more closely. Say what you will about them, they walk the walk.
bobclark86
(1,415 posts)"What, you two can get married finally? Yeah, I heard that."
eridani
(51,907 posts)mt_big_blue_sky
(15 posts)We used to keep various literature handy and when JW's came to the door I'd hand them Mormon flyers and vice versa. They don't come around anymore. Ta-Dahl!
LanternWaste
(37,748 posts)I'll try it on political canvassers instead, regardless of denomination... who do precisely the same thing, in precisely the same way, with the precise same amount of annoyance felt.
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Glassunion
(10,201 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)It is kinda true, mormans can ball.
egduj
(805 posts)hootinholler
(26,449 posts)They have yet to take me up on it, although there was a nice older lady who hesitated before leaving.
Aerows
(39,961 posts)I won't be using that approach.
Throd
(7,208 posts)AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)Jenoch
(7,720 posts)The doctor told his patient that he had to stop masterbating. The man asked why. The doctor replied, "Because I'm trying to examine you."
Skittles
(153,142 posts)so I show them the same courtesy
Th1onein
(8,514 posts)Ishoutandscream2
(6,660 posts)FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)These people must be crushed and humiliated. We must attack every aspect of their existence, so that they will learn to slink away and remain silent.
How else are we ever going to have a tolerant, progressive society if there are people we don't like left unchecked?
joeglow3
(6,228 posts)We really DO know what is best for them and they are assholes for being dicks to us.
WillyT
(72,631 posts)femmocrat
(28,394 posts)Simple.
It is hard for me to get to the front door though, especially when I am upstairs. So I have also just ignored them and they went away.
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)met them at the door naked and eating a chicken leg and told them that it was some "good Jesus meat." They got out of their quickly... I wouldn't have the guts to do anything like that.
HockeyMom
(14,337 posts)Able to get away with that one at 30.
LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)Where on earth do these people get off assuming that their religious beliefs are somehow superior to my own?
My religious beliefs are my own business and nobody else's. I don't force them on others, and others have no right to try forcing theirs on me.
Common Sense Party
(14,139 posts)Or any other door-to-door, get-out-the-vote activity?
LiberalEsto
(22,845 posts)Common Sense Party
(14,139 posts)Where on earth do these people get off assuming that their political beliefs are somehow superior to my own?
My political beliefs are my own business and nobody else's. I don't force them on others, and others have no right to try forcing theirs on me.
I understand that religious beliefs are very personal. For some, so are political beliefs. Yet we see no problem with going door to door, trying to 'convert' people to our political way of thinking.
valerief
(53,235 posts)muntrv
(14,505 posts)"This is my girlfriend who comes by the house while my wife is working."
uppityperson
(115,677 posts)finally we told them they could stay as long as they helpd us work on the house while they were there. They continued to return even after that. I was very blunt, telling them civilly no thank you, do not come back. They came back. I had to call the local headquarters to get them to stop.
If they'd done as other friends do and helped, they could've stayed and visited, talked, but noooo. They would do nothing but talk to us.
It was annoying. Even after being told they were trespassing, they returned "we didn't think you meant it".
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)Something wrong with that?
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)There is a nice adrenalin rush from being a boorish lout.
That's all some people have. They have few friends, and hate the ones they've got. Why should we deny them the pleasures of being an obnoxious twit?
cherokeeprogressive
(24,853 posts)I make it a point never to be the one with the first rude remark. Even then, I might not answer in kind.
Vattel
(9,289 posts)LittleBlue
(10,362 posts)"No thanks, I'm not interested"
That's all.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)If you can get a mark to do it for free, what is the harm?
FrodosPet
(5,169 posts)WOW! This place floors me sometimes.
"Hey! Let's take advantage of people, treat them like shit, and then get on the 'net and complain about RWers doing the exact same thing"
Jenoch
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My mother invited them in and I think they talked for an hour. My mother was interested in their religion. I think there is still a Mormon Bible on the bookshelf at my dad's house.
Do you know why Mormons used to allow polygamy? They did not have enough members.
Scuba
(53,475 posts)Jenoch
(7,720 posts)It's a pun.
AngryAmish
(25,704 posts)But, is it the fault of the man who stoops gaping at a pile of manuer, or the man who kicks a turd into his mouth?
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)my oldest brother once ran up to our mother, he had a handfull of dogshit, and he said "mom, mom, look what I almost stepped in!"
IDemo
(16,926 posts)"If you're selling God or goods, please leave."
Kennah
(14,256 posts)This is my preference. It could mean they are facing increased rejection. If they hear No, they move alone. Numbers game, the way it always has been in sales. Perhaps faith is truly faltering in America, and that would be a great thing.
In years past, I have encountered those who were really obstinate. A few random thoughts for them.
"Why should I believe your faith is the truth faith, when those from every other faith tell me the exact same thing?"
"Some who believe as you do will say things like, 'Teach the Controversy'. That is exactly the message of Tobacco Industry lobbyists decades ago and Fossil Fuel lobbyists today."
"You can leave now, not waste my time, and I promise not to say anything untoward."
"Science and evolution have a way of messing up one's faith."
tabbycat31
(6,336 posts)Vashta Nerada
(3,922 posts)I wanted to spread the good word of Dagon.
bravenak
(34,648 posts)I asked the last ones for a job, something good like treasurer so that I could keep eyes on the money. They declined.
djean111
(14,255 posts)So I just pleasantly inform religious folks of my atheism, that my atheism comes from an NDE, and is quite set in stone, and I have had some very nice conversations about religion and the world in general, following that.
Never saw the need to be unpleasant.
My Wiccan ex-DIL answered my door once, to some young Mormon men, and she was so intent on trying to make fun of them that I was appalled. Glad she is my EX-DIL.
Common Sense Party
(14,139 posts)Forgive my ignorance...
Life's too short to be unpleasant, I agree. Sometimes I don't have time right when the Jehovah's Witnesses show up, but I try to never be rude or curt.
DinahMoeHum
(21,783 posts)n/t
onenote
(42,685 posts)have never volunteered to go door to door for the candidates that they say that they so deeply want to have elected. If they had, they might be in less of a rush to be rude.
LuckyLib
(6,819 posts)or otherwise. We're happy just the way we are. If that changes, we'll call you." It works. We don't get any.
sabrina 1
(62,325 posts)amazing results. Eg we have a, probably very unpopular in a society that appears to delight in presenting a 'tough' image, liberal approach to those whose views differ from our own, we decided to respect them at least. We invited them in.
When a tragedy of immense proportions struck our family, amazingly it was they who, after the initial, obligatory period of expressing sympathy from friends and family, who continued to offer their support and sympathy. At that point, religion was on the back burner when every week we received a visit from one of those much maligned 'religious people' to offer their assistance, if needed, in helping us to deal with a shock that was almost completely immobilizing. There was no more discussion of 'beliefs', just 'we understand your pain and if you need to talk, we are here to listen'. They gave their time when everyone else had moved on.
Their genuine sympathy was like medicine, their tireless willingness to listen when everyone else's advice was to 'move on' long before we were ready to do so, was remarkable with zero benefit to them.
Kindness produces untold benefits, not that this should be the reason for being kind, it wasn't for us. We had no idea when we chose not to be rude, 'tough' or insulting, of what we would receive in return.
All I can say is, it was gold at a time when it was most needed and confirmed for me, that kindness is never wasted.
pintobean
(18,101 posts)It's very satisfying if we part with smiles on our faces. It sure beats being pissed off about it.
siligut
(12,272 posts)The Mormons have a practice of watching for tragedies like death of a loved or an arrest, both of which may be published in the newspaper and using them as an opportunity to gain access.
I am kind in general, but also honest and protective of myself and my neighbors. Granted, the missionaries have no idea what the LDS church is truly about, so I try to tell them, they did come to me after-all, I believe it is my duty as a human being to help others.
Lost_Count
(555 posts)I know it deprives some of the ability to feel smug and super duper superior but give it a go anyways...
hrmjustin
(71,265 posts)NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)...or politely tell them you're not interested, offer them something to drink and a few minutes out of the heat/cold, and send them on their way.
I've got no particular interest in being a dick to religious people whose greatest crime is no more than politely talking to me.
flvegan
(64,407 posts)for their local (or national) candidate is invited in and offered to be listened to after he or she or they clean the house.
The selective hatred will be epic. And hypocritical, per parts of this thread.
JVS
(61,935 posts)her support against the incumbent. I didn't care for him and started in on how the incumbent had always done right by our household and that we'd be fools to go against someone who can return a favor. Big fun.
Marr
(20,317 posts)Look at the fights on this very forum. Even when politically more or less aligned, people vary widely in their beliefs and priorities. If you're going to be an asshole to everyone who isn't just like yourself, you're going to be an asshole practically full time.
Dread Pirate Roberts
(1,896 posts)I was just thinking it was time for a human sacrifice. Won't you please come in.
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Contrary1
(12,629 posts)Being polite got them nowhere.
So...the next time they knocked, the two of them answered the door in their undies, with their pet snakes coiled around their upper torsos.
Worked like a charm.
El_Johns
(1,805 posts)I don't get this thread. I don't like salesmen either, or even kids selling candy -- but I don't mess with them. Why add to the misery in the world?
eridani
(51,907 posts)--the subway that said something to the effect "I am deaf--please buy the card for whatever you think is fair." I collected them to use on unwanted visitors--worked pretty well.
Niceguy1
(2,467 posts)And tell them that I am not interested, maybe even offer them water on a hot day.
raven mad
(4,940 posts)On the gate I have the "two cats" equality flag, and on the walk a wiccan pentagram. On the door, outside, I have a huge DEMOCRAT sign, and right under it, a bumper sticker that says "Alaskan grannies kick ass".
They never bother going past the gate.
My neighbors think it's hilarious, and they're Church of Friends members.
mr blur
(7,753 posts)ecstatic
(32,679 posts)I'm not sure how they got my info. I've invited them in in the past (like 10 years ago), but these days, I'm not as willing to answer the door for uninvited guests.
Bluenorthwest
(45,319 posts)All I can do is point out that their preacher rants against my basic rights in horrific terms and that their support for him makes me think much less of them as that same preacher is not only anti gay but also a strident opponent of reproductive choice and equality for women. I'm a Democrat, and those positions are Republican positions. When people promote Republican positions and public figures who promote those positions, I consider them to be Republicans, not 'religious people'.
TBF
(32,041 posts)so I really will not try that. Then I'd have to feed them and be nice to them.
Usually I just let my 95 lb dog answer the door
Laura PourMeADrink
(42,770 posts)ProfessorGAC
(64,988 posts)The Jahovah folks came by and when i opened the door i told them "God told me you would be here in 15 mintues, and sure enough." They were taken a little aback. I then started to explain to them that God told me to let them know they had the whole thing wrong and that it was my mission to correct their ways.
They left. Never have been back.
Holly_Hobby
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so I used to get a lot of knocks. I had a sign made, "No Soliciting, No Trespassing" and hung it under the mailbox near the front door. I continued to get knocks.
So I opened the door one day with dictionary in hand, read aloud the definitions of Soliciting and Trespassing. "Any questions?"
They replied that they weren't selling anything. I disagreed and told them they were selling God. Wow, they shot daggers at me, left and have never come back. I wasn't mean or loud or rude, just to the point.
I can't stand uninvited guests, even my family knows to call first.
IdaBriggs
(10,559 posts)And the sisters regularly came and did dishes for me / cleaned my kitchen in those first few months after the twins were born. The elders (the boys - they get switched out sometimes) have provided service to us as well; one year they "waterproofed" a tent for us. Part of their "mission" is looking for ways to "serve" others during their mission time. I have found them to be "good kids" and we support them, even though we are not followers of their particular brand of faith. They are on limited budgets, and I open my cupboards to them as often as possible, especially since I know they also "know people" who need some extra help/will make sure it gets to them discretely as needed.
The interesting thing on reading this thread was that they stopped by last night (without an appointment). We have sisters this round, and they were cold, tired, and feeling discouraged. I fed them ice cream and hot cocoa, and we talked through some of the challenges they face, especially wondering if they are making any positive difference.
Remember, they are giving up twenty to twenty-four months of their lives, putting off education and employment opportunities, with no entertainment/television/movies/books/music/video games - basically NO DISTRACTIONS, and minimal contact with loved ones to *serve others* by word and deed at a time when they could be "partying" at college, AND they pay for the privilege. If they are able to educate, it makes them happy; if they find a convert, they are joyous. But regardless, they are GIVING of themselves at every level to help others for TWO YEARS -- and they are usually late teens/early twenties.
I would rather my children did this (again, not a member of their faith) than join the military. They are young people, and they are demonstrating courage in the face of cruelty/mockery/scorn, persistence in doing what they believe is right, sacrifice to help others, awareness of the needs of others (poverty/soup kitchen work and getting glimpses into the suffering of others), modesty/humbleness (the ones I've dealt with), and a dedication to charity/kindness I am simply in awe of.
I *definitely* support them.
After we talked for a while, I pulled out a religious text, randomly selected a chapter, and then we talked about how it was (or was not) relevant to things going on in our life. Without going into detail, it dealt with "prisons", which took us in a conversation about how being a person of faith does not protect you from the challenges of life/we are responsible for our own actions/thoughts, and also how easy it is to become a prisoner of our own negative thinking, bad habits and willful ignorance. ("I don't know *why* that happens to me all the time!" <-- my battle cry when I am late, which ignores *me* leaving late - lol! Free will, baby!) I had been annoyed with one of my children "acting up" in a retail establishment earlier in the day, and the conversation provided me an opportunity to "self-reflect" on how I had made the behavior a reflection on *my* parenting (prisoner of my own ego!), instead of being aware that my child was tired, bored and hungry. I hope to do better the next time that type of situation arises in the future.
I am grateful they stopped by. It was a nice visit. They seemed happier when they left; they made a difference, even if I don't convert to their faith. They are nice people.
Iggo
(47,547 posts)...works quite well for me.
randome
(34,845 posts)[hr][font color="blue"][center]Precision and concision. That's the game.[/center][/font][hr]
LWolf
(46,179 posts)I've ever had was when I met them coming in the front gate, and asked them to wait while I broke into the house. I was carrying a crowbar.
My son left, not realizing that I was in back and my keys were in the house. He locked the door. I wanted to crawl in through an unlocked window, but it was painted shut. Hence the crowbar.
Their eyes got large, and they said they might try "some other time," and they hurried back out the gate.
marions ghost
(19,841 posts)----------
d_r
(6,907 posts)with the nicest, sweetest, apple-pie older Morman lady. No one ever really talked about their beliefs at the job, but one day someone mentioned Jehovah witnesses and we were all joking about hiding and acting like we weren't home if we saw them coming down the street. This lady said "oh, not me, I LOVE it when they come. I invite them in make some lemon aide, I love to just to talk with them for hours."
It still cracks me up.
FatBuddy
(376 posts)i usually answer the door with a shotgun in my hand.
SOLICITORS ARE NOT INVITED.
in fact, no one is invited, unless you are my kinfolks or close friends, you are not welcome on my property.
polichick
(37,152 posts)To which they always reply, "We're not selling anything."
And I say, "Oh yes you are," just before the door closes.
Marr
(20,317 posts)I'm an atheist myself, and have no problem telling them so if they ask, but they generally don't and we just have a pleasant conversation that ends with them leaving me something I'll never read. Life is way too short to get angry at harmless people who are just trying to do what they consider good work.
Javaman
(62,510 posts)reaction I'm looking for. LOL
I usually get the "we'll pray for you" response, to which my reply is, "it's your time to waste".
polly7
(20,582 posts)My dog, Wolfie, was trained by a bunch of university kids who'd owned him to only stop barking at the door if he was told to f* off! - and you had to yell it, because his bark was so loud. I hope they think he's still alive and well (he's not, and I have a new dog who not only doesn't bark at strangers, he lies on his back for a belly rub).